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Nanochan Psychiatric Hospital Nanonymous No.3612 [D][U][F][S][L][A][C] >>3615
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Clearly a lot of nanons suffer from various mental issues. Some enjoy them, but some suffer still.

ITT Star-chan will try to help. With a PhD in the armchair onion imageboard psychology, Dr. Butterfly will cure you! Other nanons are also welcome to explore this new field of onion imageboard psychology and come up with new research to help the fellow nanons.

Remember: don't play games when you're brokenhearted, don't try to finish what you ain't got started, and if you got problems, then do bring them to me!

Nanonymous No.3613 [D][U][F] >>3614
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cure my ugliness please without mental gymnastics

Nanonymous No.3614 [D][U][F]
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>>3613
You're beautiful.

Nanonymous No.3615 [D][U][F] >>3616 >>3620
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>>3612
Good evening(?) doctor star-chan, i think i have a visit scheduled for today.
Should we start? This is my anamnesis:
I don't know if i have mental illnesses i was never diagnosed, but that wouldn't surprise me, anyway i'm gonna be 30 next year, i have no girlfriend, no friends, i don't have contact with other humans outside faggots on imageboards and sometime my family also i'm an hikkikomori since 7 years ago.
After all this time spent alone i feel such a disconnection with society, this makes it extremely hard for me to empathize with people, i just don't care about what they care, i can't understand their motivations at least not at an emotional level, all of this made it really hard for me to get out of this situation.
I kind of stopped caring about stuff like social and sexual gratification and having a successful career(i can already survive working from home), instead i have a lot of time to dedicate other to things i care about, but lately for some reason i'm starting to get really depressed to the thought that i will never have a family of my own and that my parents will die disappointed of me, another thing that makes me really sad is how i can't share things i love with people i care about.
Is there even any point in living a life of loneliness?

Nanonymous No.3616 [D] >>3617 >>3665

>>3615
Lol no one cares kys :3

Nanonymous No.3617 [D][U][F]
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>>3616
>Lol no one cares
Yeah i don't see why should care, i wasn't asking for you to care though, only for advices/opinions
>kys
I evaluated the option of suicide a long time ago and i don't think it's really worth it, also i'm scared of death, thanks for the advice though ^^

Nanonymous No.3620 [D][U][F] >>3627
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>>3615
You're so all over the place, but I don't think you have that much of "disconnection with society". Like, you care about family, you care about friends (you don't have, but that's unnecessary detail) and you look like a fine emotionally developed lad. Also human emotions are fairly basic, like, there aren't many terms for them, and surely you understand all of them. And I suppose it's fine to not care about something a random dude cares about, but it's useful to be aware. Like, I think people are weird in general.
>I kind of stopped caring about stuff like social and sexual gratification and having a successful career
Well, I question that. Did you really stop? You sure showed me a lot of caring about it in your post.
>Is there even any point in living a life of loneliness?
If you have to ask this question, then no, I guess. Like, you already want someone to evaluate your life and give you a meaning. And there is nothing wrong with that, I want to add. Like, if you care about survival and prosperity of the human race, it's actually the only way.

Nanonymous No.3627 [D][U][F] >>3656
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>>3620
>I don't think you have that much of "disconnection with society".
One thing is to understand it at a rational level another at an emotional(or empathetic) level, i think that after years od isolation my capacity to be empathetic atrophized(but you're the one that should diagnose me doctor :3 ), examples, sometime ago when the cathedral of Notre Dame partially burned down people were going crazy and i really could not be empathetic to that at all, and i've even been to Notre Dame before, videos of violence no matter how crude makes me feel nothing, it's like stuff that happens outside my apartement is on another plane of existance.
I do care about my family but i don't have anything in common with them, so i have to put up a facade everytime, about friends it's been so much since i had one that i'm not sure what even that's like anymore.
>Did you really stop? You sure showed me a lot of caring about it in your post.
You have a point maybe i started caring again about some stuff like having a family of my own, but that's also impossible to realize in my current situation.

Nanonymous No.3656 [D][U][F] >>3664
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>>3627
That got me thinking about how to reply.

Yaknow, the thing is, I still fail to see the actual issue with you.
If you fear you're becoming a sociopath, then fear not, a sociopath wouldn't have that much thought about it.
The rather safe assumption about you would be that you are kinda sorta desocialized, so if you want to become a normal human bean again, you gotta resocialize somehow, obviously.

Let me know if this talk has been useful to you so far.
UVwE7T5Tyeg

Nanonymous No.3664 [D] >>3665

>>3656
>If you fear you're becoming a sociopath, then fear not, a sociopath wouldn't have that much thought about it.
I don't really fear of being a sociopath, i don't have an history of violent or criminal behavior, i fear of having developed https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder i'm not sure though.
>you gotta resocialize somehow, obviously.
Not easy, when you don't feel anything for others you can't form emotional bonds with other and since nobody where i live have my same interests i can't even form topic-related bonds, i also rarely leave my house so i don't have that much experience and practice when it comes to relationships.
>Let me know if this talk has been useful to you so far.
Thanks for listening at least i guess.
Seems like i was able to cure my avatarfagging for now at least :D

Nanonymous No.3665 [D][U][F] >>3719
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>>3664
>i don't have an history of violent or criminal behavior, i fear of having developed https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizoid_personality_disorder
Holy heck, this rings too many bells on yours truly. xD
Anyway, it doesn't look for me that:
a) that disorder is even a thing, like that article kinda states
b) some stuff is definitely off for me

Like, to be honest, I'm a bit narcissistic and have some intimacy issues, but I think my emotions are fine. I feel affection, anger, sadness and other stuff pretty clearly, so that's really not about me.

But this thread is about you and others who want to get "help" here.
And TBH, again, unless you're a psychiatry expert, don't go assuming stuff about yourself.
Also, I'm going to bust out the big guns: I think psychiatry is mostly a scam. Like, there is little to no (or, arguably, totally no) psychiatrical diagnoses that wouldn't be culturally or personally biased. And BTW, there is an opinion that psychiatrists are nut cases themselves (no, don't give me that look xD) So, all in all, I wouldn't give it much thought.

But I digress. From a quick glance onto that article, SPD is described by "lack of interest in social relationships", among other rather specific things. And you said earlier that you want to "share things you love with people you care about", so, again, this doesn't look like your case. But hey, I can understand only so much, like, I see what you typed and that's it.

Also a little note, being a sociopath is not about being violent, though it's connected to criminal stuff, since sociopaths are virtually (or maybe fully) not controlled by morale and empathy.

>Not easy, when you don't feel anything for others you can't form emotional bonds with other and since nobody where i live have my same interests i can't even form topic-related bonds, i also rarely leave my house so i don't have that much experience and practice when it comes to relationships.
Well, I really cannot help you with that. Like, some obvious hints here and there: it will be easier to start with family. Unless your family is a bunch of shitheads, they will tolerate a lot, including your mistakes. But you have to do your best, obviously. Also, don't forget: if you are there watching something, something may also be watching you. xD

Sn8-fdj7_sg

Also, you don't HAVE to look for the best possible person you can imagine. Like, arguably, it's very probably highly unproductive, since a person you dream of might never exist in the first place. Just start with a small stuff, OK?
Also TBH, I feel like a hypocrite giving you advice like that, so feel free not to follow. I really am foolish in a lot of ways, probably, but I am mostly content with it and I am most probably vastly egoistic, meaning that I don't really want people around me. Though I don't really mind them either, they always give me something to think about.

>Thanks for listening at least i guess.
Woah, it almost hurts. xD
Good thing this is a /t/ thread, so you knew what you signed up for.
Anyway, the last, maybe a bit harsh word: I think you complain too much. Like, judging by our interaction so far, you have built yourself some sort of sickly chamber where you dwell and are miserable reiterating your failures or whatever. I could totally see that >>3616 response coming, and probably you get a fair bit of such replies online. Like, not that it's wrong to whine sometimes, but it's really shouldn't be that much. Get out there and own this world. See ya.

Regards,
Dr. Butterfly

Nanonymous No.3666 [D][U][F] >>3719
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>Not easy, when you don't feel anything for others you can't form emotional bonds with other and since nobody where i live have my same interests i can't even form topic-related bonds, i also rarely leave my house so i don't have that much experience and practice when it comes to relationships.
Also, I might be able to add something onto this.
I still don't really understand your situation here.
Do you expect empathy to work like you feel somebody is angry and you would magically understand why they're angry, happy or sad? It doesn't work that way at all, you really have to observe a person a lot, and to go through some similar situations they've gone through.
And I assume that with you being a hikki, you are kinda out of touch with a social world, and unfamiliar with how people might react to something, what they care about etc. Well, I also could give you some tips on how not to be fucking awkward, but you probably know them already and you may fuck it up anyway regardless. Anyway, since you're asking about real emotional knowledge, you need real social experience, and you absolutely cannot get it without actually going out there and do socializing stuff. This is kinda the situation when you need knowledge to get that knowledge, but you have to improvise sometimes. xD

Nanonymous No.3668 [D] >>3670

Why no lounge?

Nanonymous No.3669 [D]

cause star is a bad loli

Nanonymous No.3670 [D][U][F]
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>>3668
These are shitposts in a way that I didn't give much thought to any of this.
Maybe they look like a quality tryhard posts, but let's call them quality shitposts.
The thing about the psyche is, I guess, that you cannot be too serious about it.

Nanonymous No.3719 [D] >>3725

>>3665
>And TBH, again, unless you're a psychiatry expert, don't go assuming stuff about yourself.
I don't like selfdiagnose and such, but in trying to figure out what's wrong with me, if it rings too many bells as you said, it's worth pointing it out.
>But I digress. From a quick glance onto that article, SPD is described by "lack of interest in social relationships"
Well i don't completely lack interest, but if my social stimuli(stimulus?) was that weak that for so many years i didn't go crazy without(or almost without) social interaction that means that my personality is shaped in a different way with different priorities.
>if you are there watching something, something may also be watching you. xD
creepy xD
>Also, you don't HAVE to look for the best possible person you can imagine
That sounds to me like the same old advice: lower your standards, problem with that is that you end up being with a lot of really undesirable people if you're not careful and i don't think i have the experience and strength to handle that.
>Woah, it almost hurts. xD
Don't be so hard with yourself, i'm kind of a lost cause ahahah
>Anyway, the last, maybe a bit harsh word: I think you complain too much.
Sorry if i came out like that in this thread it was not really intentional, usually i keep this kind of stuff to myself to avoid the aforementioned "sickly chamber" effect.
>>3666
nice trips there

Empathy is the capacity to understand another person at the emotional level, if you see somebody with a cut and blood pouring out, you will be able to understand his pain ONLY if you experienced pain yourself, if somebody comes to me and starts talking about stuff like love relashionships and sex or something like that i would have no idea what they are feeling or talking about cause i never experienced that stuff(yeah i am a virgin and never kissed a girl before) and this goes both ways people can't empathize with my situation cause they didn't experience what i did.

Anyway for the feedback, i really liked this thread and appreciate your help, wish other people posted though xD

Nanonymous No.3725 [D][U][F]
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>>3719
>I don't like selfdiagnose and such, but in trying to figure out what's wrong with me
You're a total sweetie. With me, at the very least. xD
>Well i don't completely lack interest, but if my social stimuli(stimulus?) was that weak that for so many years i didn't go crazy without(or almost without) social interaction that means that my personality is shaped in a different way with different priorities.
Again, why would you assume you'd go crazy?
Or, at the different angle, why do think you are not crazy?
Also stimuli is the plural for stimulus, I believe.
>That sounds to me like the same old advice: lower your standards, problem with that is that you end up being with a lot of really undesirable people if you're not careful and i don't think i have the experience and strength to handle that.
Well, let's put it into different perspective - you have spent some time with me now, and you liked it. What makes you think you're not wrong about me being "desirable" altogether? As you said, you have no experience. It's much easier to pretend here.
I mean, maybe you have some kind of a different issue. You really shouldn't care that much about who you talk to. Like, if stuff ain't coming along, you don't have to even "ditch" them, just stop committing to a relationship, and it will die! And anyway, you NEED that experience if you don't have it. Or so I believe judging by your words. xP
>Don't be so hard with yourself, i'm kind of a lost cause ahahah
I believe we're kinda productive here though. Well, not really, but it's probably thought-provoking for you at least.
>Sorry if i came out like that in this thread it was not really intentional, usually i keep this kind of stuff to myself to avoid the aforementioned "sickly chamber" effect.
No problem. I just think you're making it worse for yourself when you do it. Like, being stuck in the loop of sad thoughts is what brings people to suicide.
> Empathy is
Exactly.
>i really liked this thread and appreciate your help
You're welcome.