How do nanons deal with isolation? I feel so alone. The only people I truly commonly share moral sentiments with are either onions or a very rare clearnet user. I can't find anyone IRL who is even remotely similar to me in tastes, held sentiments, etc.
Anyone else in a similar boat? Tips?
>>8551 I too have never found somebody that i could relate to, you're not alone fren, personally i always dealed with it with escapism(vidya, anime, imagination etc), interacting with people online really helps too, but keep in mind that these things won't cure your loneliness, after lot of years i accepted it and i've learned to focus on my inner self rather that on my outer self and the interaction with others, i hope that you be at peace too nanon.
>>8551 You have abnormal moral sentiments, so you have to go to extremes to find other similarly abnormal people. Everyone here is the same. We wouldn't be here otherwise. How do we deal with isolation? Escapism. Alcohol and drugs. Sometimes we just suffer through it.
If you don't want to be alone, you're probably going to have to become a normalfag. Start going to church. Go to everything you get invited to. Learn about what's going on in the world of handegg and negro bouncing ball. Find what's trending on popular streaming services and watch it, then talk about it with other normalfags. Use Facebook, but only to find out where the happenings are and to post stuff that will make other people jealous of your life and want to invite you to even more stuff.
Every once in a while, I think about doing this. But I just find people so tiresome, and I have such a hard time hiding my powerlevel that I always just end up retreating again. Some people are just made to be alone. In past times in many cultures people like us could at least gain respect as hermits, usually attached to some religious tradition. But no more.
>>8553 >fugly
These kids look pretty much fine by me, not ugly at all really.
It's not like I am a girl to judge their attractiveness though, but they do not have any striking features. They look goofy as fuck though.
Yes. We are in the same boat. The reason I use nano chan is because i am genuenly a lonely individual. I have family, but I have zero friends, although at one point I had highschool friends, we simply parted and went our own ways. Most of them are married or just about to start a family, comparing myself to them, thats just a waste of time.
I enjoy being alone, I really dont like social circles that involve mutual friends,the structure of them is not good for a delta omega type like myself, a nice guy, that has anger problems bottled up. I usually get shafted to the end and become a filler friend in these scenarios, and over the padt decade ive been involved with a few groups. But like usual I was just there to fill an empty seat. No problem! Its rare I click with somebody. There are certain types of people I avoid and they are the overly extroverted and bossy people. I get along well with people who are smarter than me.
Why do you need friends in the first place? Are you that desperate for attention?
Surround yourself around others who enlighten you and encourage you.
>How do nanons deal with isolation?
I like it, and I wish I had more space, and I have plenty.
Sometimes I make some internet friends and that's more than enough for me.
I started browsing imageboards from a really early age, basically once I knew how to read and use computer I got in. They supply me with more than enough interaction.
>The only people I truly commonly share moral sentiments with are either onions or a very rare clearnet user
This is true. Only one friend irl who I found out was an ib user that I really could talk to about things. Imageboards change you too hard to the point every talk you do with anyone is a pretend game.
>>8570 > I started browsing imageboards from a really early age, basically once I knew how to read and use computer I got in.
The fuck is this zoomer shit.
>>8570 >Imageboards change you too hard to the point every talk you do with anyone is a pretend game.
I have a theory that this is what happens when you are exposed to unfiltered information for a long period of time.
>>8577 >>8579 behave like an adult then
>>8579 same
Are you in a city? You just aren't looking in the right spots.
Otherwise that sense may be warranted. Most of the online friends like that are in the middle of buttfuck nowhere.
You just have to be willing to give and spot references. You can spot /mu/ posters by their taste in music, /g/ posters by their obscure OSs and search engines, etc.
Design or wear a subtle T-shirt. Its what I'll be doing next holiday.
>>8553 Never been to one, but 4chan meetups were god-tier
>britfeels or /int/ - anons spend half an hour trying to find each other in a pub, eventually three meet up and just sit on their phones
>/k/ommando makes brownies and gives them to all the tripfags. later uploads the pics of him stirring his cum into them before baking
>/fa/ never has fashion sense
>>8584 >Doesn't help you that the admin is a zoomer herself.
Backstory?
inb4 memeing about Hakase being some random camwhore grill
> yeah, and your mom's dead lmao
STFU little shit, keep quiet when elders are talking.
>>8585 >memeing
That's ok gramps, I know those of more advanced age (such as yourself) tend to lose their mental faculties and become reluctant to learn new information. Hapase is Hapase. She is not a camwhore by any means.
>STFU little shit
Best not to talk down to those who will be managing your IV drip and colostomy bags later on, eh? Wouldn't want your own shit to accidentally overflow onto your face, oh no.
>>8581 I've been on this earth 20 years, well enough time to figure out age is an abysmal indicator of intelligence or even experience.
There are hundreds of thousands of 15 year olds more welcome to this community than the average adult.
protip: if they're smart enough to hide their power level and lurk, they're smart enough to post here. Remember, this isn't clearnet. The barrier for entry is relatively high already.
I find that feelings of isolation come and go, even if the actual isolation remains constant. I deal with loneliness by being patient, finding distractions for myself and talking more to people on imageboards.
>>8590 >I'm 20 years old, look how wise I am.
>The barrier for entry is relatively high already.
No, it's not. It is not at all difficult to install Tor Browser. Even my elderly mother uses Tor, you stupid zoomer.
>Even my elderly mother uses Tor
sure buddy
>the attitudes and behaviors of zoomers.
the only onw with an attitude in the whole thread is you, i'd rather take a zoomer over and entitled and constantly butthurt boomer
>>8594 Your mother is already rotting in the bottom of a grave, boomer. But maybe you forgot that, dementia is a hell of a disease.
Just imagine a pants-shitting incontinent boomer talking to a pile of rotten bones about how "those gawd damn keedz these days" don't respect them anymore after they supported israel for 60 years and enabled the invasion of the country by subhumans.
>>8577 >>8579 >>8581 >>8585 >>8594 >>8595 >>8596 The 33rd degree Freemason Albert Pike has said that the Third World War would be a war fought against Zoomers and Boomers, so that only non-age categorizable Humans remain.
Seriously stop engaging with divide and conquer shills
I have only one person whom I trust and can relate too, and it took me fucking years to find the guy. But you should be able to function alone. As much as I'm sick and tired of the absolute kikery and faggotry that are taking the world, there ain't much to do about them. I'd suggest that you avoid any discussion about politics at all. Think about things by yourself in your free time. I have friends who are right wingers, alt leftists, neo nazis and I've even known some Antifa scum. People are fucking useful. You'll never know how they'll be useful, but you should maintain a large arsenal of colleagues. I'm adding the book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Read it thoroughly, adopt its traits to your personality and use what is taught there to slowly red pill the people who you can trust. (I've just downloaded the pdf from libgen because I've lost the exact one that I've read. Shouldn't make a difference, though.)
>>8586 Unless Hakase revealed her face with a trustable timestamp, she is a he and a depressed and possibly middle-aged (30+) fat admin/basement dweller. Otherwise, there is absolutely no reason to believe anything she says, and it's not a matter of learning something new, it is simply common imageboard sense.
Likewise, dox info should be reliable too.
>>8590 Nobody was talking about intelligence nor experience LMAO.
And neither was I implying that guy wasn't welcome. I really don't give a shit, nor do I set the rules.
It's just surprising to see people who spent their entire online life on the imageboards and are literally this new.
Good question, one I can relate. Like anon here >>8592 it's temporary feeling rather than suffering nonstop. Right now it's hard for me to write about it cause I'm fine but after few days response would be different.
I don't have friends nor do I think I'll ever meet anon IRL, probably I would call all of you normies if we ever met. Maybe what I need is sense of community that I'm part of something, no matter how small. It's better to unite than act on your own but I wish I experienced this.
>>8558 >Some people are just made to be alone.
My thought.
>>8570 >Imageboards change you too hard
Imageboards let you be yourself, not normalfag that has set of rules he absolutely can't break. Depressing things is that this state can only remain on site, not in real life.
>>8593 >look how wise I am
by stating the obvious?
>It is not at all difficult to install Tor Browser
Correct, but it is a choice and there is an easier option. It takes a conscious effort to deviate from that norm, most people I know are too lazy or apathetic to do so. It's sad.
>>8613 I'm so used to seeing people that do say those things I assumed it's what you were suggesting. It was my mistake.
I was also surprised to see young posters here, but if I had started browsing /g/ the same time I regulared other boards, and if nano was created a few years earlier, I could have been the same.
Don't confuse what you call isolation and what is actual isolation, nanon. Solitary confinement without human contact is what makes you go insane - we are social animals whether you like it or not. Try to go out every day for some casual interaction with people, even if it's just with retail workers. Interactions on the interwebs easily fool your brain into thinking you've had contact - why do you think Youtubers and livestreamers are so popular? But those are mostly shallow and you should be aware of that. As for friends, keep in mind that there are "friends" and friends. You used to call people acquaintances, but nobody does anymore. Learn to contain your power level and keep in mind that most people like to talk. Listen and repeat neutral, horoscope-like sentiments with a hint of opinion and you'll seem like you know something even about shit you don't care about. Eventually, through a network of these "friends", you might meet somebody who shares your opinions - or you can turn them to your side. As much as I hate the Carnegie book mentioned in >>8611, it offers some good advice. But it reeks of gefilte fish so read carefully.
>>8661 Thank you. I'm already following your strategy inherently, but seeing it clarified in such a symmetrical way is comforting. I'm improving, if slowly
>>8551 I don't think people who have internet are truly isolated.Ever since i turned 15 most of my social interaction has been online but i did not feel lonely when i used to have lengthy conversations online.
I only feel lonely now because i don't even have people to chat with online.All i do is browse mostly dead boards anonymously without having an actual conversation.
How do nanons deal with isolation? I feel so alone. The only people I truly commonly share moral sentiments with are either onions or a very rare clearnet user. I can't find anyone IRL who is even remotely similar to me in tastes, held sentiments, etc.
Anyone else in a similar boat? Tips?