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A waste of time Nanonymous No.10474 [D][U][F][S][L][A][C] >>10475 >>10537
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Socializing with coworkers and classmates who are not and never will be your friends is a waste of time.Today i was misfortunate enough to spend nearly two hours alone with a wahman around my age.There is nothing wrong with her but we have nothing in common and we will never be friends.Throughout the whole ordeal I felt uncomfortable and wanted to be left alone.Browsing the web or reading a book on my phone would be effortless and peaceful while carrying no risks of social stigma.

Nanonymous No.10475 [D] >>10484

>>10474
Why did she talk with you for so long if you didn't have anything in common?

Nanonymous No.10476 [D] >>10484

Was there one girl and three guys?

Nanonymous No.10477 [D] >>10484

It's not always a waste of time. Even if you can tell they're not someone you'd want as a close friend, you can still try to make an ally. If it's someone you know you'll be around a lot, set a canary trap with them and see if they run their mouth or use the information against you. There are a lot of shitty people out there and you should always watch your back. Some people can't keep secrets and run their mouths, others will actively try to throw you under a bus, those are the ones you need to know about and not let your guard down around them.

Nanonymous No.10484 [D]

>>10475
>Why did she talk with you for so long if you didn't have anything in common?

We both had 2 hours to waste so she had nothing better to do.

>>10476
>Was there one girl and three guys?

We were alone but usually she is surrounded by other men.She greeted me a few times before and seemed friendly but I never say hi first and I actively ignore her.

>>10477
>Some people can't keep secrets and run their mouths
>and not let your guard down around them.

Most people are like that and I never let my guard down because of that.I am already a loser so I do not need more issues on top of it.

Nanonymous No.10518 [D][U][F] >>10520
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Females can never be your friends. Very few men have the qualities to be considered your friend.
You came into this world alone(unless you have a twin) and you will die alone(unless you join a cult and drink the Kool-Aid together or something and somehow how people think they have to pair up or associate with other humans between their births and deaths.

Nanonymous No.10520 [D][U][F] >>10521
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>>10518
pairing up is retarded, but i cant imagine world without humans, must be sad being you
as for women being friends, it's impossible, as for men being friends, too
they are all acquaintances

Nanonymous No.10521 [D]

>>10520
acquaintances fun

Nanonymous No.10527 [D][U][F] >>10530 >>10531 >>10537
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actually i used to have sex with one of my cooworkers. right now im flirting with at least two at the same time. its good times. you should try it.

Nanonymous No.10530 [D]

>>10527
That can turn out bad if things don't work out. Typically somebody ends up leaving or you have to accept or avoid. One of the pluses though is that you will typically know the people you work with pretty well.

Nanonymous No.10531 [D]

>>10527
Do you fuck at work too? I love it. I want to do my own things when I'm at home, fucking at the workplace is the best.

Nanonymous No.10533 [D]

no. at work i havent. but once during work integration trip, on the bus when everyone was drunk i fingered one. we still work together. different departaments but still same workplace. actually she wanted to hook up for some sex afterwards but somehow we havent managed it yet. she married i will also add. true story.

Nanonymous No.10537 [D] >>10550 >>10567

>>10474
>with a wahman
This is the real issue. Women and gays can't shut up and live for gossip and socializing.
>>10527
This is fucking terrible advice. What happens when the girl takes the break up badly. Now you're trapped with a maniac that wants to ruin you at worst, and a bitter hon that is miserable to be around at best.

Nanonymous No.10550 [D] >>10568

>>10537
>This is fucking terrible advice. What happens when the girl takes the break up badly. Now you're trapped with a maniac that wants to ruin you at worst, and a bitter hon that is miserable to be around at best.

I never dated and even I experienced that with a chick online.Because we got close and she knew my name and how I look like she managed to doxx me and find my home number.I let my guard down because I never thought a woman would stalk me.Luckily she lived in another country or she might show up at my home.She still knows where I live but it has been a while since she sent me anything.

Nanonymous No.10567 [D][U][F]
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>>10537
You don't have to go out with her. Look, I'll describe how it works.
You work. You work with people. Now you communicate with people, look at them and such. When you start working at new workplace, different people look at you differently. Men hate you, dykes/ugly women too, some women are indifferent, some will be looking at you daringly. You will overlook them completely.
Sex at workplace is aventure. When you are at some point alone with woman who looks at you daringly and is nice, you sweet-talk her, give her looks, whisper in her her ear, kiss her and so on. Next time you meet her she's already wet expecting something more and it goes.
From that point you have pseudolover who has no expectations other than sex. Just make clear it's work thing. If you suddenly don't want to have sex with her for whatever reason, you just tell her. No big deal.

Nanonymous No.10568 [D]

>>10550
Lead her on to show up at your house. When she comes, rape her hard.