Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Boundboy2013 » Thu Oct 17, 2013 8:07 am

I have this 14yo friend that i want to get him into tugs, i just dont know how to, im 18, we are really good friends though, im just wondering whats the best way to get him into tugs, i have a pair of real handcuffs and lots of rope, let me know please :)
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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Sealherlips » Thu Oct 17, 2013 8:18 am

It would probably be best not to engage in TUGs with a minor. Or to even have friends who are that much younger.

Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Boundboy2013 » Thu Oct 17, 2013 8:35 am

True, but nothing is going to on, we are really really good friends, i read all these true stories about 14-15yo tying up each other and such
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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby drawscore » Thu Oct 17, 2013 12:52 pm

If you are around the same age, I don't foresee any problems. Adult on child . . . . . well, that's kind of "iffy." But, if there is nothing sexual about it, it's probably all right, but caution is strongly recommended. I do know that when I was a boy, I, and several of my friends got tied up by my scoutmaster a few times, but I didn't think much of it. There was nothing sexual about it in any way, and I just thought that getting tied up, and tying up my friends, was part of being in boy scouts. (Besides, it was fun.)

That being said, probably the easiest way, is a dare or challenge - "I bet I can get out if you tie me up," or "If I tie you up, I bet you can't get out." Challenging one's abilities, is, almost always, the easiest way to get someone to do something.

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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Boundboy2013 » Thu Oct 17, 2013 3:20 pm

thanks, ya, there is nothing going to go on, i think of him as my unrelated little brother actually, so i dont want to do anything that will scare him or anything like that
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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Wyatt9999 » Fri Oct 18, 2013 8:17 am

Buddy I wish I could answer this question for you, but I have no idea.

Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Tiemeforhours » Sat Oct 19, 2013 8:37 am

Don't even bother. He's too youn and you're too old.
Tie me up, gag me, do whatever you want to me. Just don't untie me

Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby canuck100 » Sat Oct 19, 2013 9:16 am

Tiemeforhours wrote:Don't even bother. He's too youn and you're too old.


Not necessarily: when I was 14 I would have loved to have an 18 yo friend to tie or to tie me up.

Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Tiemeforhours » Sat Oct 19, 2013 5:54 pm

The way I'm lookin at it is - when my little man is 14 I would go mad if I knew he was playing tie-up with an adult. Maybe it's a bit of an overreaction I don't know, it's just the way I feel.
Tie me up, gag me, do whatever you want to me. Just don't untie me

Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby drawscore » Sat Oct 19, 2013 7:40 pm

18-14 can be a little disconcerting, and yet, 13-9, or 16-12, often doesn't draw a second look. The age differences are the same (four years), but, as the Statler Brothers sang in "The Class of '57," "Things get complicated when you get past 18." ("But the class of '57 had its dreams.")

Caution is strongly advised.

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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby bind_diane » Thu Nov 21, 2013 1:08 pm

I'm not sure what the laws are where you are, but here, the parents of a 14 year old who gets involved in a sexual situation--and yes, bondage does have sexual overtones--with an 18 year old can have that 18 year old arrested.

The fact there's only a four year age gap is irrelevant. The fact he's a minor and you aren't is not....
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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby mistofoleese » Mon Nov 25, 2013 2:57 am

bind_diane wrote:I'm not sure what the laws are where you are, but here, the parents of a 14 year old who gets involved in a sexual situation--and yes, bondage does have sexual overtones--with an 18 year old can have that 18 year old arrested.

The fact there's only a four year age gap is irrelevant. The fact he's a minor and you aren't is not....


I would have to agree this a VERY thin line your traveling here ANY step you make could possibly land you in A LOT of trouble.... it one thing to supervise kids of that age groups playing together its ANOTHER to participate with them UNLESS your in a highly public enviorment
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Re: Getting a friend into tugs

Postby Lake Lover » Sat Nov 30, 2013 9:12 am

I just think this country has gone nuts with drawing that fine line between a boy 17 years and 11 months being a potential victim, and his 18 years old friend being a likely deranged pervert. I tell you the truth: when I was 15, my best friend was over 21, and we got along great, tied each other up a thousand times. He is now married with two teen children to a great woman and great mother who does not share our interest in bondage. and we continue to tie up each other , and his wife KNOWS and ACCEPTS it.
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