gagfan867 wrote:Yea ive done that, maybe my area is just fairly devoid of similarly minded people.
As mentioned above, persistence is important. Also, open your mind to possibility that many people are into this sort of thing. However, not all of them are aware (like some of us are) that there is a large population of people who are so into ropes, gags, and merciless tickling that we have online boards, chat rooms, and even socials.
They are out there, just in disguise. The worst thing someone can really say is, "no, that stuff's weird." Whatever, big deal, we'll have our hearts broken 5 times before they become complete.