Could The Board Please Offer Some Assistance

Postby beefsteak » Sat Dec 31, 2011 1:13 pm

Hey everybody. I'm a 19 year-old boy and a long time reader of this forum; I've enjoyed reading countless stories over the years, though I've never had any of my own experiences to post. Well, recently my girlfriend tied me up and I rather enjoyed the experience, although it left me wanting more. It was pretty basic just my hands tied to the bedposts and we hooked up for a spell. This was all well and good but she doesn't really seem that into it.

My whole experience with this girl and bondage started when I asked if I could tie her up. She said that the idea sounded scary to her but she "wouldn't mind tying me up." That last bit of what she said was dripping with sexuality, the type of statement that would have a winky face after it if it were a text message. She went on to tell me that she liked the idea of me being tied up and having no control, and other things that you would expect a more dominant person to say. However, when I was tied up, it seemed like she was only doing things that she thought I would like and not necessarily what I feel like she wanted to do. The day after the whole experience I asked her if she liked it and she said she did (again sounding really into it) so I told her that she could pretty much do whatever she wanted to me, like torture me and stuff. To that she said that she didn't want to hurt me. I thought about telling her that there are other tortures (such as ice, tickling, etc) that don't involve pain necessarily, but then I felt like that would just further the problem of her just doing things because she thinks I like them and not really for herself.

So I guess my question to you all is kind of a two parter: What can I do or say to kind of break her out of her shell and get her to do what she wants to do while I'm tied up, without being too self-contious about how I feel about it? Also, how can I get her to be comfortable with torturing me and more "intense" stuff like that?

She is fine doing sex stuff while I'm tied up btw but I think it would be so sexy if she would adopt a more dominant personality while I'm tied. Thanks in advance for the help. I'm kind of at a loss as to what to do and I feel like some of you guys and gals might have the experience needed to answer my questions.

Re: Could The Board Please Offer Some Assistance

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Sun Jan 01, 2012 3:10 pm

This answer applies to both: Just tell her the truth. If you're sure that she would like doing it, wouldn't telling her to please do it, sort of seem natural, and a very easy to-do kind of thing?

Re: Could The Board Please Offer Some Assistance

Postby sarwrductan » Mon Jan 16, 2012 5:33 pm

At first thought,...Lonewolf, I'd agree. However, if this is new to her and beefsteak opens up to her he might have the same response I got....(Alllll-helll no!...Get away from me you perverted sadistic son of a b_____h. I told her some of my experiences I'd already had After her verbal response her act was to go and report me to the lady over the dorm I was on. But then my living was unique within itself anyway so Beefsteak just might have great success being open and up front.
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