anjell wrote:well im home early and i was right i was being lead to wolfs. when we leave we meet up with his girlfriend and her adult son (people he knows i want nothing to do with) i put up with it. then they tell me i should move to where they live and move in with them, because they said and i quote "it would be easier for me". now they are down stairs trying to decide what i should do. i do apologize for this whole topic but at the moment this is this is the only place i have to rant.
I have a relative in much the same situation as you. His immediate family and many of his neighbors/friends assume he cannot do anything for himself because he is blind and are always trying to run his life for him. I am sure that they are honestly concerned for him and wish him only the best but it is so aggravating to him! He tries to tell them that he can handle his own affairs (and he can too, having gone to a School for the Blind located near where I live) but they won't listen to him. Still, I think it may be preferable to have people too concerned for you than to have no one to be very concerned about you at all; I woundn't mind having one or two relatives who at least gave a darn about me these days like I used to have. Then again, I never had to contend with relatives who were even remotely 'control freaks' either - except in the TuGs sense of the word.
I wish you luck with the situation you are describing. But believe me - there ARE worse things than controlling relatives. Such as NO ONE caring about you at all. I should know.

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