Bondage as a secret?

Postby BoundJana » Fri Mar 31, 2017 6:18 am

I recently thought about it, are you doing bondage in secret or did you told anybody like close friends or parents about it?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby KingMush » Fri Mar 31, 2017 8:27 am

I don't really talk about it, to be honest. No one I know has asked me or anything. It's more a private, taboo topic I'd say (like sex).
War, war never changes.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby pam88 » Fri Mar 31, 2017 1:06 pm

Some girlfriends, sure. But it's more of a lark, a fun thing we'll laugh about, anyway. It's just like telling your close friends what you're into in bed, it doesn't have the stigma of a dark secret or anything like that. But family, no way.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby raisondecoeur » Fri Mar 31, 2017 1:12 pm

pam88 wrote:Some girlfriends, sure. But it's more of a lark, a fun thing we'll laugh about, anyway. It's just like telling your close friends what you're into in bed, it doesn't have the stigma of a dark secret or anything like that. But family, no way.


I actualiy don't tell my friends about what i am intro in bed. Same applies about bondage. Yet it would be 'much easier if we would all be open about it, isn't it?

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby Vector5227 » Fri Mar 31, 2017 1:23 pm

I recently JUST found out that like half of my good, close friends are into bondage or some aspect of the BDSM community... And I never would have told them either... And family is an absolute NO. I'd like to think they'd just shrug it off... But I'd still be mortified...

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby BoundJana » Fri Mar 31, 2017 2:02 pm

Well for myself, the only persons who know that I'm into bondage are my best girlfriend (who I'm doing TUGS with) and another couple which played with us a few times. Still keeping bondage a secret for my parents
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby Jay Feely » Fri Mar 31, 2017 9:21 pm

some friends know some I keep a secret from
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby Kyle » Fri Mar 31, 2017 10:15 pm

A couple of people know, maybe 3 people. It's not something you just blurt out to people.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby That-animeguy » Sat Apr 01, 2017 5:35 am

I rather keep it secret from close friends, and family :)
You never know how they may react or respond.
Rather keeping secret at times, than to give them mixed thoughts really.
So... gulible!

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby KingMush » Sat Apr 01, 2017 6:46 am

Agreed with above.
War, war never changes.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby ducttape1234 » Wed Apr 05, 2017 10:02 am

I talk about it with select people, one being my cousin. Some people have similar interests :)

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby Zero » Thu Apr 06, 2017 12:27 am

Nobody... too much scared... :(
Love bound and gagged girls, feet, socks and more :tied: :gag:

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby GWolfman88 » Sat Apr 08, 2017 6:43 am

I don't currently have any extra time to find a TUG buddy and play, but if I did it would definitely be between us...at least at first.

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby RKOJason03 » Wed Apr 12, 2017 9:24 pm

I really want to tell people but I haven't told anyone I like bondage. It's embarrising to say " I like being tied up and or tying myself up" so I do it in secret.
Jason Gines

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby gagged-cowboy » Wed Apr 12, 2017 11:13 pm

Keeping bondage a secret is part of the fun, always has been for me :-)

Re: Bondage as a secret?

Postby soyoutie » Sun Apr 16, 2017 6:35 am

As for me TUGs have a strong sexual meaning and most of the times come before or during actual sex. So just me, My wife (and one ex partner) knows about it