Postby dreadnaught3200 » Wed Nov 11, 2009 12:05 am
I totally agree with Chloroformmeplease. But I think that everyone has a slightly different reason for being into TUGS, or bondage if you like. I know for my own part, I've always enjoyed the physical sensation of being bound as well as (I think, though unfortunately I don't know from personal experience) the thrill of being in a bondage situation, which are both more self centered reasons. More than anything, it's a nuisance to me that other people have to be involved.
But a lot of people like TUGS on a trust level, turning over complete control of the situation to someone else, which as Mr. Chloroform pointed out gives a sort of release. On the extreme end of that, there are those who like TUGS purely on a sexual level. Cause let's face it, how much more vulnerable can you get?
I think that everyone's reasons for enjoying bondage fall somewhere on that spectrum.
Hope that helps!
There's a permanent tension in music isn't there? On one hand you have three chords, you know, four four and three chords. Then there's the people like me, who say "Well, why don't we add a fourth chord and put it in five four?" - Bill Bruford