## What absolutely ruins a bondage video for you?

Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Dec 01, 2015 2:52 pm

I'll go first. I can't stand when a person has one measly piece of tape over their mouth and they act like they can't talk at all. I'm not asking for ball gags in Hollywood (although that would be great, can we have that?), but is it too much to ask for a little realism?
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Post by Thatworm » Tue Dec 01, 2015 6:53 pm

The camera is all I'm going to say, I can't stand people who can't hold the damn camera, put the thing down man!

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Post by Valimure » Tue Dec 01, 2015 6:55 pm

When there's some sort of forced acting intro. I really don't want a poorly acted story... Just get to it already lol.

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Post by cyrus6347 » Tue Dec 01, 2015 7:26 pm

Lack of sound though that kinda seems harsh... Well I want to hear people mpphing into gags and such and the sound of someone actually sounding dominant during the bondage ....

> Valimure wrote:When there's some sort of forced acting intro. I really don't want a poorly acted story... Just get to it already lol.

Though I do agree with Valimure on intros

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Dec 01, 2015 7:34 pm

> Valimure wrote:When there's some sort of forced acting intro. I really don't want a poorly acted story... Just get to it already lol.

Is there some other way I can pay for this pizza?...
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

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Post by Reidy » Tue Dec 01, 2015 10:33 pm

When the damsel isn't struggling. They are just going through the motions, rather than actually trying to escape.

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Post by Chris12 » Wed Dec 02, 2015 11:59 am

Music being played over the video often annoys me. Or very, very bad quality.

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Post by cyrus6347 » Wed Dec 02, 2015 5:03 pm

> Chris12 wrote:Music being played over the video often annoys me.

Damn, why didn't I state that? That's definitely a thing which is a complete no for me.

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Post by riplord » Thu Dec 03, 2015 1:58 pm

Pretending that you can't escape, when the knots are EASILY reachable by any standards.

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Thu Dec 03, 2015 3:10 pm

> Chris12 wrote:Music being played over the video often annoys me. Or very, very bad quality.

I don't know if you guys know, but there's a site called Bondax that does this. The videos themselves are actually very high quality. Despite that, I can't ever bring myself to finish one of them because there's usually kazoos, accordions, or something of that nature in them.
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

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Post by Lake Lover » Fri Dec 04, 2015 6:48 am

A captive may be gagged, blindfolded and have his hands bound behind him, tied to a post, and his master holds a pistol to him while warning him "don't try anything!"

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Post by .... » Fri Dec 04, 2015 7:29 am

What I hate:
- stupid music
-bad quality
- poor acting game
- poor fake gags who somehow are so affective.

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Post by scandi » Fri Dec 04, 2015 7:31 am

I also hate it when there's music playing over the video, and I find it annoying when the victim is allready tied and gagged when the video starts. That allways feels like much of the fun is allready over when we are finaly allowed to watch. It's like watching half a movie.

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Post by .... » Fri Dec 04, 2015 7:38 am

True...

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Post by cellofello » Fri Dec 04, 2015 11:26 am

Obviously escapable bondage, and ineffective gagging - including what might otherwise have been an effective gag except that the hands are tied in front and able to reach up and remove the gag.

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Post by Terry » Sun Dec 06, 2015 7:41 am

Laughing from the one being tied and in some cases from the tier also. I like the acting to be made so it looks quite serious.

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Sun Dec 06, 2015 1:07 pm

> Terry wrote:Laughing from the one being tied and in some cases from the tier also. I like the acting to be made so it looks quite serious.

I'm quite the opposite when it comes to this. I don't like bondage to be too serious. For me, one of the greatest things I can see in a bondage video is the girl (or boy) who's tied up having a good time. I know that sounds terribly corny, but bondage already has enough stigma attached to it. I believe that it can be a great experience and fun for both parties, and I like videos that exemplify that. Anyway, everyone's entitle to their own opinions, likes, and dislikes.
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Post by 31acujoker » Sun Dec 06, 2015 5:13 pm

I like or don't like it depending on the setting, if the sub or damsel or captive etc. is laughing during a video when she's got a gun to her head that ruins the illusion for me, but if it's a more intimate video I kinda like it when they laugh, it's good to know they're enjoying it
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Post by Nexus » Mon Dec 07, 2015 7:52 pm

Most of my qualms have already been mentioned, but they are:
- ineffective gags, be it single strip of tape or thin cleave. I know you can still talk!
- bad acting.
- I've only seen a few videos that actually have music playing over top, but yeah that's weird.
- more of a personal preference, but I only watch videos where the damsel is barefoot. Shoes, stockings, tights and socks are a no go for me.

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Dec 08, 2015 4:20 pm

> Nexus wrote:Most of my qualms have already been mentioned, but they are:
> - ineffective gags, be it single strip of tape or thin cleave. I know you can still talk!
> - bad acting.
> - I've only seen a few videos that actually have music playing over top, but yeah that's weird.
> - more of a personal preference, but I only watch videos where the damsel is barefoot. Shoes, stockings, tights and socks are a no go for me.

Is it just the feet that matter? Leggings are pretty damn sexy
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

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Post by Nexus » Tue Dec 08, 2015 7:30 pm

> SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:

> > Nexus wrote:Most of my qualms have already been mentioned, but they are:
> > - ineffective gags, be it single strip of tape or thin cleave. I know you can still talk!
> > - bad acting.
> > - I've only seen a few videos that actually have music playing over top, but yeah that's weird.
> > - more of a personal preference, but I only watch videos where the damsel is barefoot. Shoes, stockings, tights and socks are a no go for me.

> Is it just the feet that matter? Leggings are pretty damn sexy

Not to me they're not. Bare legs and bare feet all the way for me.

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Dec 08, 2015 7:46 pm

> Nexus wrote:Not to me they're not. Bare legs and bare feet all the way for me.

There's something about leggings that I just like, to the point where I would actually prefer to see them over bare legs. Sounds crazy, I know. Maybe it's the material or the way they contour and hug the curves. I don't know.
I can respect that though. Everyone's got different things they like.
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

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Post by Nexus » Wed Dec 09, 2015 12:38 am

Yup. Like I said in my original post, it comes down to one's personal preference. I know there are many on this board who love hose and/or tights, I'm just not one of them.

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Post by .... » Wed Dec 09, 2015 4:47 am

No body blames ya bro...

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Post by Mmph Squad » Sun Dec 13, 2015 9:07 am

> 31acujoker wrote:I like or don't like it depending on the setting, if the sub or damsel or captive etc. is laughing during a video when she's got a gun to her head that ruins the illusion for me, but if it's a more intimate video I kinda like it when they laugh, it's good to know they're enjoying it

I also prefer the captive to act very unlike a victim, seeming to have control even though he/she is tied up and gagged up. Almost like the so-called victim can't take the captor seriously, and this leads to undermining his/her confidence and a) releasing the captive b) allowing them to escape accidentally.
Back to the topic; as listed before, the poor performance of an actor/actress including the lack of gag-talking despite the muffling apparatus not appearing absolutely effective.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

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Post by .... » Sun Dec 13, 2015 9:52 am

Not being able to fap on it...lets be real its my only reason to watch them after all.

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Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Mon Dec 14, 2015 2:37 pm

> ViXen⭐Ku$hßøunD⭐ wrote:Not being able to fap on it...lets be real its my only reason to watch them after all.

Not me! I watch porn for uhh... for the plot.
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

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Post by .... » Mon Dec 14, 2015 2:44 pm

Plot Twist!!

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Post by Stef » Tue Dec 15, 2015 2:53 am

I'll make a list of things i hate with some mentioned above
1. Terrible acting. I mean you don't have to be good, but at least try to be decent.
2. Stupid tie-ups, knots, gags that are easily escapable such as; hands in front, taped mouth once (where you can see the gap between mouth and tape)
3. Stupid cliche plots. If you're plot is bad, don't include any! Just tie up a person and move on instead of trying to have a plot...!
4. Music
5. Video starts with the person already tied up and gagged and it's like that for the entire video. That's boring.
6. As said above, an entire video of the same damn thing! It's boring, include a plot twist or something, we like that.
7. Videos that are 10+ minutes long. No one watches the whole video then, everyone skips and watches the good scenes *if you know what i mean ;)
8. "Struggling" but clearly with no intention of escaping. You don't have to escape, it's good enough if the actor at least can fake trying to!
9. When some times they un-tie and re-tie up the person in different positions more than 3 times in an 5 minutes video, it's stupid.
10. Hate constant moaning. There i said it. I don't want to hear moaning for five minutes straight. It's good only every now and then.
11. Surrendering easily. Be realistic; Put up a fight before giving in to your captor.
The key to a good video is to be as realistic as possible imo; be as realistic as a porn video could get...
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Post by Stef » Tue Dec 15, 2015 3:18 am

Things i personally love in a bondage video;
1. Victim puts up a "decent" fight > gets overpowered > gets bound and gagged helpless.
2. Victim is bratty and "asking" for more trouble > more "punishment"
3. Victim is so close to escape, or even succeeds, but at the last moment, her/his captor gets her/him.
4. Effectively gagged victim. Personal favorite; Mouth stuffed and tape all around several times.
5. Teasing by captor commenting victim's helplessness.
6. Hard struggling and loud mmphing, but only for a certain amount.
7. The "key" to her/his escape to be close to the victim yet impossible to reach. For example; Chairtied, key/phone on table or on lap! Hogtied, key/phone placed somewhere high and so on...
8. Like i said above; Almost escape but not. Key slips, phone taken away, someone passing by almost notices the victim but moves along, and so on... We like to feel the agony
For long you live and high you fly
And smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry
And all you touch and all you see
Is all your life will ever be...