Is this gay?

Postby Obedience » Sun Mar 18, 2012 2:46 pm

Okay, I'm 16 and a little unsure about what happened to me a few days ago.

I have a "friend" called Alex. (Not real name)
He is camp, very camp. He has on several occasions tried to kiss me? He had grabbed my head and pulled it towards himself making the kissing face.

That was the first sign of him actually being gay, it gets worse...

This is probably the strangest incident that happened during the week.
We were sat next to each other in Geography and on the computers. My mouse was on te right side (the side he was sat on) he actually LICKED my hand!
Not sure of this was gay but the next one is...


I was in art and had my head leaning on um arm whilst sketching, I felt and heard one of the scariest sounds I have ever heard in that classroom. I heard a kissing sound and felt his lips kiss me on the back of my head!

Does this make me or him gay at all?!?

Some help needed please!

Thanks comment and give me som le advice please :P

Re: Is this gay?

Postby OverLooker » Sun Mar 18, 2012 2:55 pm

he may be bisexual and you may be only if you were turned on but it does not really matter..... who care if you two are or arnt gay?
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby mcsproot » Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:29 pm

OverLooker wrote:he may be bisexual and you may be only if you were turned on but it does not really matter..... who care if you two are or arnt gay?


Exactly the point I wanted to make. So many people treat being non-straight as some sort of terrible thing.

It isn't.

If you feel that you are not attracted to him, just tell him. He should be willing to accept your friendship is as far as he will go. Or he could just be messing around with you, we don't know him other than what you have said here.

If you're gay as well, so what? Accept who you are and if anyone goes 'haha gay fag' tell them to fuck off. Too many people are ashamed at being gay, they get married and have kids, 'hoping' it will 'make them straight'. Then they realise, it's ok. But by that point, they have the awkward situation to explain to the wife and kids that daddy likes men.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby Scottstud94 » Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:50 pm

No dude you aren't. Your friend... needs some help though if he's doing this in public. Simple as that.

Re: Is this gay?

Postby just4fun » Sun Mar 18, 2012 10:44 pm

Just ask your friend to stop simply because it makes you uncomfortable. If he continues tell an administrator or someone. Gay or just messing with you, if your uncomfortable he should understand and stop.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby OverLooker » Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:35 pm

is your friend cute? cause if he is and you dont want him ill take him haha
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby Scottstud94 » Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:45 pm

OverLooker wrote:is your friend cute? cause if he is and you dont want him ill take him haha
:bondage: :bondage: :bondage: :bondage: :bondage:
:spank; :spank; :spank; :spank;


Uncalled for. Not necessary.

Re: Is this gay?

Postby TUfriend » Tue Mar 20, 2012 1:46 pm

Tell him that you're not interested. I mean, I kind of flirt with this guy at school and either he likes it and is gay too or he is oblivious to it.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby viking » Wed Mar 21, 2012 1:09 pm

being a homo or heterosexual has one thing in common with fishing. if you are supposed to be doing this you know it before you turn 20.

if you feel like you didn't like it and where freaked out about this friend of you, then no you are not gay. him by the other hand, he could be fooling around or he might actually be turned on by you. i don't know.
but if you don't feel comfortable about him doing this to you you should try to tell him in a nice way at first to stop doing this because it freaks you out. if he really is your friend then he will understand and respect your wishes.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby want2btied » Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:17 pm

Ill put it this way, i am gay, i live in england, and from where i am from everyone is sort of like that. I always have habbits for biting my friends on the arm if they annoy me, or licking their hands and stupid things like that if theyre in the way, but it doesnt mean i like them, but like i said, i am gay. But my friends also do it back to me to get back at me, so not sure what it means....

As for kissing on the kneck, i would definately say this is a sign of him being bisexual or gay, and it sounds like he has a genuine interest in u ;)
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:18 pm

I don't know if it's gay or not, but it definitely sounds childish.
The real question though is how do you feel about it? If it bothers you, that's fine; if it secretly excites you, that's fine too. But base what you do on how you actually feel, not how you think you should feel.
For myself (who, as a teen, was pretty much bi), I'd have been annoyed by such behavior and would tell him to knock it off - at least, in public. IMO it's more likely he's either trying to embarrass you or just be a clown than express any kind of actual attraction. It's certainly not the kind of attention I'd appreciate getting in front of other people regardless of my feelings for it otherwise. But that's just me.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby mikeybound » Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:32 am

If you read this, let us all know how things went.
Personally, I think he's gay, or trolling the hell out of you, or both.

Re: Is this gay?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Feb 24, 2014 9:43 am

Likely both. But I'm curious to know myself, now that I'm reminded of this thread again.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby NemesisPrime » Mon Feb 24, 2014 1:54 pm

Have to echo Mikey and Jason, ether he's gay and loves you or he's one hell of a troll.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Feb 24, 2014 3:41 pm

NemesisPrime wrote:Have to echo Mikey and Jason, ether he's gay and loves you or he's one hell of a troll.

Or at least an immature moron.
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Re: Is this gay?

Postby lockedup » Mon Feb 24, 2014 4:51 pm

well unless you enjoyed it you're not gay. he might be though, but as its clearly bothering you a lot you should tell your, very camp "friend", to stop doing it.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Is this gay?

Postby Potato_head » Mon Feb 24, 2014 5:51 pm

Ugh, reminds me of a guy who would teased me at school when he found out I was "gay" (i think I'm really bi? Idefk now) you may did something to make him assume your gay and that he is teasing you so that you may "come out". Or you triggered his gaydar and that he thinks your cute and that is just his own way of flirting. But of course these are all assumptions if you don't ask him.

Re: Is this gay?

Postby Hogtieroh » Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:16 pm

Weird qustion either you know yor gay or you dont. Are you attracted to guys? If not then tell him to stop it. Because someone is hitting on you doest make you gay. If your turned off by him guess your not

Re: Is this gay?

Postby Jay Feely » Mon Feb 24, 2014 8:53 pm

Does not seem gay to me, more like playing with you.
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