## I have something to say.

Post by bondagebabe97 » Mon Oct 09, 2017 9:06 am

For those of you who don't know, my name is Abby Hillam. I am 21 years old and have been into bondage all my life. But, under the advice of a good friend, I have a confession.
I was born Aaron Hillam. I used to be a guy. When I was 16, I came out to my friends and family as transgender. I lost a lot of friends and several relatives disowned me. Since then, I have had gender reassignment surgery and have been on hormone replacement therapy for a while. Several months ago, I entered into an online relationship with another user, Vivianbound, and after a few months, she asked for a photo of me. I panicked, worrying about what her reaction to me would be, and I left my account on here and kik alone for a while. I ignored her because I was scared she'd reject me. It was a stupid decision because it really hurt her, and I can never apologise enough. But recently, I reached a point in my life where I felt more confident about myself and I reached back out to her. She was, understandably, angry, but she decided to give me another chance. I told her everything about my gender reassignment and she accepted me. She also encouraged me to share my story here. Thanks to her and her support, I am comfortable in telling everyone. Thank you so much, Vivian, for giving me the courage and confidence to be proud of who I am.

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Post by grinandbareit » Mon Oct 09, 2017 3:40 pm

Good for you. Be proud of who you are!!!!! Own who you and life will be good to you

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Post by Skizzo » Tue Oct 10, 2017 1:04 pm

To each their own! As long as you're happy with the skin you wear, it's not worth worrying about other opinions.

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Post by ducttape gagged » Tue Oct 10, 2017 4:26 pm

MUCH LOVE!!! XXX you are gorgeous

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Post by acecondor » Wed Oct 11, 2017 3:59 pm

Congrats, definetly something to be afraid of revealing in some parts of the this country right now, but you keep being yourself
Me gusta le bondage

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Post by Naughty boy » Wed Oct 11, 2017 6:41 pm

> bondagebabe97 wrote:For those of you who don't know, my name is Abby Hillam. I am 21 years old and have been into bondage all my life. But, under the advice of a good friend, I have a confession.
> I was born Aaron Hillam. I used to be a guy. When I was 16, I came out to my friends and family as transgender. I lost a lot of friends and several relatives disowned me. Since then, I have had gender reassignment surgery and have been on hormone replacement therapy for a while. Several months ago, I entered into an online relationship with another user, Vivianbound, and after a few months, she asked for a photo of me. I panicked, worrying about what her reaction to me would be, and I left my account on here and kik alone for a while. I ignored her because I was scared she'd reject me. It was a stupid decision because it really hurt her, and I can never apologise enough. But recently, I reached a point in my life where I felt more confident about myself and I reached back out to her. She was, understandably, angry, but she decided to give me another chance. I told her everything about my gender reassignment and she accepted me. She also encouraged me to share my story here. Thanks to her and her support, I am comfortable in telling everyone. Thank you so much, Vivian, for giving me the courage and confidence to be proud of who I am.

Respect

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Post by Jackboy » Thu Oct 12, 2017 2:30 am

Glad to have you back! Nothing but respect for you!

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Post by Mmph Squad » Fri Oct 13, 2017 3:33 am

I do not blame you for your hesitancy to tell people. Our world is not always understanding and frequently people let their insecurity and fear control them, causing them to hurt other people like you just for being different. The beauty of this post is that you have overcome this adversity and have made a difference.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!