Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Plunderingfox » Sun Mar 25, 2012 9:02 pm

So i'm relatively new to self bondage, and love the sensual and sexual side of it. Been experimenting a little bit with some cloth material belts and some rope and such. Wanted to share a story of my first real scare, which, believe it or not, happened about an hour before writing this and I had to share and ask some questions.

So i had 4 cloth belts, and two lengths of thin rope (shoe strings almost) and a ball gag. I sat down in my solid wooden chair that has no arms and turned on my computer to some of my favorite adult videos. First thing I did was tie my legs to the chair legs individually by wrapping a belt around each leg and buckling them. Then I tied another rope to the bottom rung of the chair behind me and fashioned a slipknot so that if I pulled in it, it would tighten. So i turned on the video, fastened on the ball gag, and shoved my hands in the slip knot and tugged around to tighten. After a bit I realized I could loosen the knot so i twisted my hands in the loop several times, tightening the loop to two individual loops around each hand. I was secure, and figured I could twist my hands around some more to get out. I got into my video and with some grinding on my chair managed to get off (it was amazing...I see the appeal). After I was done I took some deep breaths and started to wriggle my hands to get out.

To my horror however, I was stuck. My wrists would not turn in the loops because they had swelled with constriction and were sweaty. I tugged for a few more seconds and stopped. That's when panic took over. I remember whining pitifully into my ball gag as i tugged and tugged at the rope, hoping to break it. I succeeded only in digging it into my wrists. A million thoughts flashed through my head as I panicked and struggled. What if my family has to come get me and see me naked humiliated in this chair? I was seriously freaking out. I started to flex my legs and arch my back against my chair, hoping to break it so at least I could get free. I started to cry then and I couldn't believe I was in this predicament. A few more minutes passed and I calmed down somewhat to figure if i leaned over I might could undo the knot tying the rope behind me. I tried but couldn't find the knot (I looped it around the leg and the rung to make it shorter). That queued another panic in which I started to cry again and jerk against the chair. I calmed down again and leaned over to start pulling at the knot down there again, just pulling random string. By some miracle, I yanked on it enough or something and my hands were free. I started crying again in relief and discovered I still couldn't get my hands free. I saw a pocket knife on my desk and managed to get my hands over to it and saw through the rope and release my hands.

I wasted no time getting my legs out and hiding my assortment of bondage tools, as innocent as they were. I noticed my chair was busted, I has pulled the rungs from the chair legs and split the backrest of it. I sat down on my bed and tried to calm down but realized I need to vent.

I couldn't tell anyone, but always browse this site. I figured I could get some tips, vent, and provide you guys with a story.

My only request is how do I safeguard this from ever happening again, and anything else you think could be helpful. Thank you in advance. Ha. Just noticed this...add some blonde hair and make the eyes red and much bigger, you get the picture. :bound:

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Plunderingfox » Mon Mar 26, 2012 6:30 pm

And perhaps if anyone knows any exciting ideas that aren't as compromising (or at least safer), I'd be very appreciative. I mean a girl only has so much imagination and also myself being so new to this, always down to try new things. :)

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby tieup2008 » Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:20 am

A very good tale of self bondage. We all get stuck at some point! I have! At least you got out and the only casualty was the chair. It'd have been very embarrasing to have to be rescued but it's always good to self tie naked.

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Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby The Black Falcon » Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:09 am

In my experience, I'd say always expect the unexpected. I haven't done self bondage for a while, but I know it's very risky and can cause just as much panic as arousal if unprepared. Basically, expect that somebody may come home and walk in early. Expect that there might be some difficulty getting out. I always made sure to have a phone and a pair of scissors right by my side. Takes a little bit of the fun out of it, to be sure, but it certainly helps with the safety aspect.
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Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Plunderingfox » Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:09 pm

Wow. Thanks for all the tips and advice, and if I have a story worth telling i'll defiantly tell, either here or in another post if it's particularly juicy. Thanks again :)

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Nexus » Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:32 pm

This may be a silly question, but have you ever tried a TUG with another person? I know not all of us are lucky enough to have people in our lives to enjoy TUGs with, but usually a close friend will understand, be curious, and may help you live out your fantasies...

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Plunderingfox » Wed Mar 28, 2012 4:37 pm

Very light stuff with a person close to me, but that's about it.

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby GentleDom » Wed Mar 28, 2012 10:42 pm

Well, if your willing to PM Me, i can help u try a self tie that i myself experimented with (a friend taught me this one!) that worked for me, and ill walk you through the step by step
I am one with the rope! I am the politest Dom, I always ask whats your limit, and if your willing,
If you would like to break them ^.^ *bows* A Gentle Dom, one who still can do it quite well ;D
at your service, and you will be at mine ^.^

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby MHW » Thu Mar 29, 2012 5:35 am

One way you could do it is to tie your legs together, then any extra stimulating ropes you might want, then tie your hands in front of you. Use your teeth and some careful swinging of the rope or scarf, and if you get good enough at it you can even cinch between your wrists. You'll want to have gagging materials already layed out though, and depending on the type of gag it can be hard to put it on while your hands are tied. Then once your gagged, you cannot use your teeth to pick the knots on your wrist tie. The only problem is that you could reach up and take off the gag any time, but you right away can see how it would be way harder to get stuck using this method. I have run into one or two other ways to do it that i'd be happy to share, might have time to post later.

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby trousersnake91 » Thu Mar 29, 2012 11:15 am

I'd say the best way is to get someone you trust to do the tying, be there when you do it, or at the very least coming over as a backup in case you get stuck. Being as shameless as I am, I'd be happy to volunteeer knowing full well you'll never take me up on the offer. As for actual tying methods, I don't know much in the way of self-bondage, sorry.

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby Vospader12 » Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:17 pm

Wonderful story

Re: Exploratory Self-Bondage Scare

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Thu Apr 05, 2012 1:12 pm

Classic self-bondage, yet it's still good:)