Help! Life choices!

Postby .... » Wed Jun 08, 2016 3:29 pm

Well...you can still keep it a secret... mostly all of us doo it and there are many ways to releff your needs with somone online like Role-playing... but if you wanna talk about it... I'm here as I felt the same way as you and adapted myself pretty well to it I think... so yeah... pm me if you need

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby That-animeguy » Thu Jun 09, 2016 2:53 am

Like vixen already said, most of us do it, and there is no shame in doing either :)
Keeping it secret is the better option too, I wouldn't try to involve someone rushed either.
It's better to talk to people online, know them fully before you want to meet and get things on.
There is also nothing wrong with the addiction, we all get turned on, it's no shame ;)
So... gulible!

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby Mmph Squad » Thu Jun 09, 2016 3:42 am

Three important things; don't be ashamed of something that is a part of who you are. Kinkiness is really not all that uncommon either. Most people are very aware of tie up games.

The people who truly love you will understand. Do not rush as others have said, into a tug based relationship. Instead shore up relationships with people you already know and trust, and ask them if you need to ask someone to tie you up. It's very important that the person doing it cares about your well fare. Just ask them sometime, and if they say no, don't worry, there is always the chance they will change their' minds.

Have fun and just don't let it get in the way of having a good life outside of tie up games.

Cheers
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby .... » Thu Jun 09, 2016 5:47 am

Thank you ladies... for once I'm right... wait wait... shut up... feels good! ...Aw yeah! I'm right! And didn't say bullshit! ...okay let's continue living now! ^^
(*victory Dance)

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby TheRopeGuy » Thu Jun 23, 2016 6:45 pm

Well first off, don't feel ashamed for what you like. Look at the insane sports fans. To each their own, right? As for finding a partner, that is the tricky part. I recommend looking towards your friends first (through sublets hinting). See how receptive they are before seeking elsewhere. It is especially hard for a girl to find a decent partner online. We all know how the internet works with men..... I'd you do find a partner, or rather when, because it will happen eventually, start slow. Practice the three basic tenets of any bondagey fun: be safe, sane, and consentual. Tying and being tied can be great fun when executed safely and with respect send kindness. Domination and such is always more about the trust partners share than the ties themselves.

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby Zero » Tue Jun 28, 2016 3:30 am

If it's any consolation... I still have to talk about this my passion with someone!
I'm keeping the secret because I'm very shy and worried to be judged by someone else.. but! in the same time I'm ok with that because I've seen that I'm not the only one :) (thanks internet) so you don't have to be worried, just pay attention! and like the others said here... don't feel ashamed! it's a part of you and could be funny! it's just... the society that sometimes think that it's somethink bad or weird! :)
Love bound and gagged girls, feet, socks and more :tied: :gag:

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby Mmph Squad » Tue Jun 28, 2016 4:01 am

Zero wrote:If it's any consolation... I still have to talk about this my passion with someone!
I'm keeping the secret because I'm very shy and worried to be judged by someone else.. but! in the same time I'm ok with that because I've seen that I'm not the only one :) (thanks internet) so you don't have to be worried, just pay attention! and like the others said here... don't feel ashamed! it's a part of you and could be funny! it's just... the society that sometimes think that it's somethink bad or weird! :)


The shyness is common among us social deviants. However, be heard my friend, you may just find what you are looking for if you are open about some of your rough edges. Be careful as always, though remember that sometimes it is worth the gambit. I like transmission, wear scarves and carry your favorite color of duct tape around with you. Get into making duct tape wallets so there is always a good excuse to have it around. Learn your knots and challenge friends to escapism games.

Cheers
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Help! Life choices!

Postby Zero » Tue Jun 28, 2016 4:56 am

Burlap_Mac wrote:
Zero wrote:If it's any consolation... I still have to talk about this my passion with someone!
I'm keeping the secret because I'm very shy and worried to be judged by someone else.. but! in the same time I'm ok with that because I've seen that I'm not the only one :) (thanks internet) so you don't have to be worried, just pay attention! and like the others said here... don't feel ashamed! it's a part of you and could be funny! it's just... the society that sometimes think that it's somethink bad or weird! :)


The shyness is common among us social deviants. However, be heard my friend, you may just find what you are looking for if you are open about some of your rough edges. Be careful as always, though remember that sometimes it is worth the gambit. I like transmission, wear scarves and carry your favorite color of duct tape around with you. Get into making duct tape wallets so there is always a good excuse to have it around. Learn your knots and challenge friends to escapism games.

Cheers


It's a good advise thank you :)
I tried sometimes but it's really hard and sometimes block me a lot! but yes, sometimes it's worth the gambit! I just... don't find a good feedback to open myself! it's complicated sometimes...
Love bound and gagged girls, feet, socks and more :tied: :gag: