Postby markusthe1st » Fri Sep 09, 2011 7:43 pm
Never with a capital "N".
I knew a woman who met a guy on one of the alterative phone lines a while back. She was submissive, and really wanted a good "Top". Anyhow, she met him, he tied her up very tightly without ever checking on her comfort level, and when she complained, he gagged her very tightly with stuffing and duct tape. Once she was bound, he beat the crap out of her, abusively. I saw the bruises - it was horrible. She was all kinds of embarassed and ashamed, when really, the guy was a total dirtbag and comitted a criminal act.
Never let that happen to you. Know and trust first and always.
Walk the mile first... then have the fun!