Fesselfan wrote:Let's just not forget...often enough, the guys who get the girls are simply called "jerks" by the ones who don't have success. Regardless if they are really annyoing idiots or not.
Pure envy
tapegaglover! wrote:Oops, I didn't mean ALL girls. And FF, where I'm from, girls go after beer guzzling morons. who can barely read.
Jason Toddman wrote:If so many girls like jerks, why haven't *I* found any who like ME?!?
tapegaglover! wrote:Jason Toddman wrote:If so many girls like jerks, why haven't *I* found any who like ME?!?
Aww you're not a jerk.
tapegaglover! wrote:Oops, I didn't mean ALL girls. And FF, where I'm from, girls go after beer guzzling morons. who can barely read.
Fesselfan wrote:Honestly guys...from my experience (and I have had a lot with girls in the past)...the one thing which can really kill your success is if you let go any demands. Imagine you are in the girls situation..would you want someone who will take anyone?
MattyHerich wrote:- I think Im way off topic LOL
what makes a guy a jerk?
SamanthaBoundx wrote:Actually, it's mainly to do with the gain of approval. The leading supporting theory at the momet is that people are most attracted to (in terms of friendships and relationships), people who initially have a poor reaction to them as if the person then changes their mind, it suggests that you've gained their approval. If you feel that you've had to gain someone's approval after being initially disliked, it makes you feel worthy of their attention which makes people feel that the relationship is valuable and makes them feel better. So, in essence, Zanev was probably right with the idea that it's to do with insecurities.
I'd also like to point out that this is applicable to ALL people - NOT just girls. Guys, similarly, can be just as stupid when it comes to mean girls.
Also, despite everything I've just said, I want to add that the idea that people are attracted to people how are mean to them is actually pretty disputable and in the majority of cases isn't true at all. People are generally attracted to people who are friendly, reciprocal and similar to them. It tends to be young, teenage girls who go for idiots - and it's not because they like them at all, it's because they want to impress people xD
I apologise for my psycho-babble - but I've just done a massive section of my final year project at university on the topic of attraction. So when I saw this topic, I just couldn't help myself
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Jason Toddman wrote:[...]IMHO a jerk is anyone who treats other people though they were inferior to his/herself... especially if they express open contempt with either taunts (open or behind a persons back)[...]
Fesselfan wrote:Jason Toddman wrote:[...]IMHO a jerk is anyone who treats other people though they were inferior to his/herself... especially if they express open contempt with either taunts (open or behind a persons back)[...]
Well..if I would be nit-picky I would say you call yourself a Jerk hereWith your definition, anybody who calls another person a jerk -which among other means he is inferior- is a jerk himself.
FF