## Have you ever had somebody take bondage too far?

Post by SolidSnickerdoodle » Mon Jan 18, 2016 3:35 pm

This is a very real and possible thing to do. It can happen during a casual tie up scenario among friends or an intimate session in the bedroom.
I suppose it could be defined as placing the captive in a situation where they are genuinely afraid. Of course it could just be any addition of bondage elements or restraints against the captive's will.
In your own personal experience, has anybody ever gone too far with bondage? If so, what happened? Were you ever able to trust them again?
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Post by Jay Feely » Tue Jan 19, 2016 9:47 am

tied me up, left the room with me blindfolded and gagged. too long and I started getting worried.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

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Post by Outta.this.place » Wed Jan 20, 2016 2:08 am

My brothers would leave me places all the time then forget...

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Post by freyjaceleste862 » Wed Jan 20, 2016 11:26 pm

> SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:This is a very real and possible thing to do. It can happen during a casual tie up scenario among friends or an intimate session in the bedroom.
> I suppose it could be defined as placing the captive in a situation where they are genuinely afraid. Of course it could just be any addition of bondage elements or restraints against the captive's will.
> In your own personal experience, has anybody ever gone too far with bondage? If so, what happened? Were you ever able to trust them again?

yes. chastity belts and chains
love cooking, panty/knicker gags, nappies, handicapped.

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Post by spd138 » Tue Jan 26, 2016 2:06 pm

I let a gf tie me up with no safe word knowing she would take me out of my comfort zone. The first few really blurred the line of too far but I came back for two reasons. One it was hard to find a gf into tugs and two I love giving as much control as possible and I had to see what was next. Then she crossed a line that was way too far and it ended the relationship.

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Post by no_card » Tue Feb 23, 2016 10:53 pm

I did once. I played tie-up games with my best friend when we were kids; she was almost always the one tied up. Once when we were...twelve, maybe?...I tried blindfolding her while she was tied, and she immediately screamed through her gag.
I didn't know she was claustrophobic. She had never given any indication of it, and was usually fine. But after that, she asked me to untie her, and that was pretty much the end of those games.
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Post by tyman » Wed Feb 24, 2016 8:19 pm

I met with a guy once and he put me in leather restraints and then chained me spread eagle to a bed. He put a tight leather gag and blindfold on me and said he was going out for awhile. He did! He was gone for over an hour. I tried to get out, but it was useless. My mind started to freak out after awhile playing the "what if" game. What if he was hit by a bus and nobody knew I was here...

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Post by Jason Toddman » Wed Feb 24, 2016 10:10 pm

When i was 14 my cousins once arranged for me to be 'kidnapped' by some neighbor kids. My cousins knew them well but they were strangers to me (because i had just recently moved in with my cousins after my father died). My cousins had tied me up in the woods near their house and then just left me there, where the other boys (who were Japanese) 'accidentally' found me and decided to haul me home with them (I was left tied sitting inside a wagon conveniently left for the purpose). They took me to their house - about a mile from where my cousins' house - and locked me in the barn for a while; implying they were going to do some pretty nasty things to me when they got back that evening.
Being 'green as grass' at the time, I swallowed it hook, line, and sinker. But the same time I wasn't too scared because i couldn't believe kids my own age (they were brothers, and one was only 12 at the time) would actually harm me. This was only 1970 of course, so you didn't hear about adolescent murderers in those days. Anyway, I was right. It turned out my cousins had arranged the whole thing (and I'd had a sneaking suspicion all along that they had) and after being left in that barn for a few hours (including for a while after it got dark and a bit scary), they all came in, taunted me a bit, and then let me go.
By most peoples' lights that was undoubtedly taking it too far; they'd probably even intended scaring me more than i actually was but underestimated how stupid I was about such things... the act that the brothers were non-white actually didn't faze me, which considering the time and place (where non-whites were very rare) apparently impressed them. Leaving me alone tied and gagged for several hours unsupervised would be considered a dick move today of course. But other than some itching (I sat in some hay), being bored once I got over what fright I was feeling, and a growing need to relieve myself, i was okay.
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Post by bind_lynn » Mon Feb 29, 2016 7:45 am

My ex would go from bondage to S&M on a regular basis. That was always too far for me.