For those of you who don't know, my name is Abby Hillam. I am 21 years old and have been into bondage all my life. But, under the advice of a good friend, I have a confession.
I was born Aaron Hillam. I used to be a guy. When I was 16, I came out to my friends and family as transgender. I lost a lot of friends and several relatives disowned me. Since then, I have had gender reassignment surgery and have been on hormone replacement therapy for a while. Several months ago, I entered into an online relationship with another user, Vivianbound, and after a few months, she asked for a photo of me. I panicked, worrying about what her reaction to me would be, and I left my account on here and kik alone for a while. I ignored her because I was scared she'd reject me. It was a stupid decision because it really hurt her, and I can never apologise enough. But recently, I reached a point in my life where I felt more confident about myself and I reached back out to her. She was, understandably, angry, but she decided to give me another chance. I told her everything about my gender reassignment and she accepted me. She also encouraged me to share my story here. Thanks to her and her support, I am comfortable in telling everyone. Thank you so much, Vivian, for giving me the courage and confidence to be proud of who I am.