Jay Feely wrote:Where does corporal punishment become child abuse?
Jay Feely wrote:Where does corporal punishment become child abuse?
Scottstud94 wrote:I believe we should bring back the old ways of punishment.
If a kids being mouthy, tape their mouth shut.
If a kid is trying to hit another kid, tie him to a chair
If a kid is sleepwalking and breaking stuff, chain him to a bed.
Now before you freak out and say that's not safe, hush. Safety is important, and don't tie them up unwillingly.
Punishments have gotten so soft these days. When I was young, my parents would ground me. I snuck out once and ever since then if I was grounded they used a chain and secured me somewhere.
Safety is important, don't leave them alone, or gagged for long periods of time. No you can't abuse a kid, but if the child agrees to it (which I did), you should be able to tie them up.
If that's the best punishment that's agreed too between all parties.
I believe we should bring back the old ways of punishment.
skybird137 wrote:I believe we should bring back the old ways of punishment.
If you believe that your list was the old ways of punishment, then you must have a very soft few of the past.
Old ways is being beaten as long and as hard as possible by your punisher who only stops when their arm gets tired.
Old ways is being hit across the head so hard that you are knocked off your feet.
Old ways is having something hard thrown at your face so that it gashes your head open.
Old ways is having someone grab hold of your tie, sharply pull your head down and then jab their fist up into your throat.
xtc wrote:Why not really re-institute the old systems and hang small children by their wrists but only once they have been tied behind them?
Come on, get real. The example I have given IS genuine and was employed in factories (and, I think, in workhouses).
All physical abuse of children is just that: abuse.
Anyone who thinks otherwise has obviously not had to stand between a (huge and violent) father, whose time in front of the telly had been interrupted, and his terrified daughter who was in trouble in school. I have.
drawscore wrote:I got my butt swatted a couple of times in the 8th grade by the Dean of Boys at my junior high school. It definitely discouraged the behavior complained about by the referring teacher, and was not repeated.
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drawscore wrote:I got my butt swatted a couple of times in the 8th grade by the Dean of Boys at my junior high school. It definitely discouraged the behavior complained about by the referring teacher, and was not repeated.
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drawscore wrote:I managed to piss off the teacher. I asked aloud if anyone knew what happened when the old lady backed in to the airplane propeller. The answer was "disaster."
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drawscore wrote:I managed to piss off the teacher. I asked aloud if anyone knew what happened when the old lady backed in to the airplane propeller. The answer was "disaster."
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truly_trussed wrote:JS- England used to do CP big time, especially caning. (XTC advised me Scotland has a different system). I believe CP was in the theme of some Pink Floyd songs.
If I'm wrong correct me but that ended in the public (state) schools in 1983 and private schools in 1998. Still many British school alumni developed a CP fetish, at least for blokes. It's not for those under 18 but check the website of Boyz and Sirs.(Warning, lots of nudity, mainly asses or arses). Again, not for those under 18 years of age. It's a London Club where every Saturday afternoon guys go wearing adult school uniforms, scout unis, PE and Team Sport unis and they get caned or paddled. AFAIK there's no bondage. Since CP is no longer in English schools this uniquely British kink will probably die off as the Caned Generations age.Call it the Cane Mutiny! (Sorry, couldn't resist that.
I can't remember if it was this site where a London area member went there or maybe another site when I first read about it.. I hope I'm not too OT. This place involves consenting adults and not children but those childhood experiences often continue into adulthood.I also wonder if British women would visit a female equivalent CP club with Uniforms.
I also recall an interview (before the internet) from a Southern California dominatrix. She frequently would cane British expatriates or tourists who live or visit in nearby Santa Monica, a popular U.K. destination. T.T.
jsherwood wrote:Do non-caning/spanking methods work better than caning/spanking?
mikeybound wrote:jsherwood wrote:Do non-caning/spanking methods work better than caning/spanking?
I don't think there's any way to prove that off the top of our heads, but if there're any parents who prefer corporal to other methods, I think we know weather that's abuse or not.