Postby markusthe1st » Wed Apr 11, 2012 3:40 pm
First off, meet in a public place and bring a friend. You should be upfront about the friend and about your reason for having them along - you WANT to play and experience your fantasies, but you NEED to feel safe about it. If he has a problem with that, you shouldn't be meeting with him to play. If you can't bring a friend, take his pic with your cell and send it to someone you trust.
If you leave alone with him, your friend should know what car/tag number he's driving. Again, send this info if your friend can't be there to see it. If everything goes well with him you obviously don't need to do this every time.
If you make it to his place, be relaxed and have fun. Test him if you don't feel comfortable - ask him to adjust the knots on your wrists to see if he cares enough to respond. Set some time limits and see if he respects them. If so, you're off to a good start.
I've know women who had great experiences with meeting people, and a couple of horror stories too. Having the guy know that you have friends and connections that can find him will always keep you safe. Feel free to PM me if you want additional info - or want to hear the horror stories.
Walk the mile first... then have the fun!