Discussion on girls who enjoy tying up boys

Postby canuck100 » Fri Jun 13, 2008 1:04 pm

I found an interesting discussion on Yahoo answers. A 19 year old guy wanted to know how to find a girlfriend who would be into TUGs - more specifically a girlfriend who would enjoy tying him up.

Here's what one of the posters responded.

I'm not a girl... I'm a young college guy like you, I'm 22 and I love the same things you do, and I've done been into it since much earlier. I'm not into pain, or femdom, or all that crap that pro dominatrix's are into, just like fun play tie-up/sex games, and some tickling is fun too. Most of those sites are filled with people who go too far for me. Girls who like to tie up boys are SOOO incredibly hot to me... but finding girls like this can be tough sometimes, I know...

...but its not impossible! :-) If you're cute it will help! Listen here... you can also get girls into it... make girls who like to tie up boys...works well for me... I always test out potential girlfriends -- see if they got enough of the evil streak to try this out... sometimes i use tickling play to get this to work...girls like tickling, cuz they can get some power that way--they can't pin you, but they can tickle you... i'm super ticklish... but I pretend to be MORE ticklish than I really am... see if they have fun trying a tickle war... if they do, I tell them they can't do it. Tickles too much, can't let them.. :-)

Later I try posing the idea of a tie-up game. If they don't catch the bait, you can start it up by randomly tying THEM up a little (don't over do it the first time)... then get them so that they want some revenge... be conservative with the sexual stuff the first time... If they don't know what they are doing espicially... if they know nothing, teach them--like teach them how to do a hog-tie on someone... "if you want someone to not move.. If you want to get back at a boy who randomly tied you up..." or in my case "if you really wanna tickle a boy..." and use yourself as the subject... take off some clothes.. be barefoot, wear shorts or boxers take off your shirt... get them so that they WANT to get you all tied up. But keep it playful, fun and real. Spontaneous. Show them how to really tie you up... they will be intrigued...I have never had a girl say no to me at this point.... they will want to try it out most of the time, and if they think you are hot/cute enough, they will not say no. Hopefully, they will get the idea (hopefully) that they can do stuff to you eventually while u are like that... and make sure it seems like it was fun to you.

Guess what... if they like you and they think you are hot, and you had fun doing this.... they probablaly will have fun doing it too. If they ever want to do it again... you're in.

You see many people who hate bondage have one of two preconcieved things about it: 1. That its S&M and painful kinky stuff... maybe its a little kinky but it dosen't have to be painful...or serious... just can be fun and playful. Many people don't know how sensual bondage ca be either, and they judge it before they try it. 2. Some people don't have a clue what to do when you are tied up...they feel lost and thus it scares them and they are not interested--you tied up puts greater responsibility on her.... and girls don't always want that position.... they often prefer it the other way around... guy takes all the initiative and does the significant work. many girls prefer to be tied up rather than tie up boys. It helps if you will tie them up too.... they can try out that exhilarting rush.... they will understand yur needs better.

Acually a lot more girls than you would think are into tying up boys (secretly).... and some others just never thought they would ever like that and I have shown them that they can like it and they soon get into it. Some timid ones wont ever do it...so avoid those generally (unless they have a inner wildcat)... I have had girlfriends who first said, no they would never want to do that and then changed into being the ones that will attack me with handcuff or duct tape and try to tie me up while I'm sleeping... But its not like wait a couple months and then ask... you have to show them its part of your wild side early on..in talk... in subtle ways... test the waters from the first date in very classy subtle ways. An initial negative response dosen't mean they wont end up loving it....its happened to me many times. :-)

So good luck man, I'm with you on that. There's nothing thats more of a rush than a girl tying you up! Just be fun and cute and you will find some who will LOVE it after being with you.

I'm interested in what all you girls have to say about this too... if the guy you thought was hottest took off clothes for you and wanted you to tie him up (good chance to get closer to him safely too!) and made it fun and cute and snesual... would a lot of you really say "no." ? Come on now, cut the kid a break here, and someone please tie up this poor boy! :-) Tying up boys is way more fun than you think! Trust those girls that have been my girlfriends before! :-) Girls, this hot 19-year-old stud boy is asking for it... don't let him cry wolf, give him what's coming to him! :-)


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