Anger management!

Postby Stef » Fri May 29, 2015 2:45 am

Oh boy! There are some days i'm so frustrated and overwhelmed that i'd love to be bound and gagged helplessy, and left to stuggle for a while! Bondage is really good for anger management and anxiety issues, at least for me! Have you ever felt that way?

Something off topic now, please tell me that i'm not the only guy here, who would let another guy tie me up and gag me, even though i'm straight? I'd propably do the same to a guy, but just for his pleasure. I don't know... I guess it's because it's not an erotic way?! Of course, i'd prefer a female! Anyone else feels that way?
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Re: Anger management!

Postby That-animeguy » Fri May 29, 2015 4:51 am

I think I know what you mean yes.
I'd love to get tied up by either a female or a male as well, and the other way around ofcourse.
Even though I also prefer a female, I wouldn't mind it myself either.
So... gulible!

Re: Anger management!

Postby Mmph Squad » Fri May 29, 2015 7:23 am

Question 1: Yes, many of us have expressed this sentiment. For literature, take a look at "Duct tape parenting." Sometimes folks benefit from an excuse not to nag, natter, and frankly "over-do" the whole parenting/micromanaging thing. Literally putting a piece of tape on your mouth can prove to be therapeutic.

Question 2: I used to think my affinity for bondage was entirely sexual; it's not. I believe many of us who are really into this kink like to be tied up just to be tied up sometimes.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Anger management!

Postby Sealherlips » Fri May 29, 2015 10:25 pm

I'm straight, but I'm into the idea of a guy keeping me captive because then I'm more at mercy and it's more against my will.

Re: Anger management!

Postby TUfriend » Sat May 30, 2015 5:11 am

I understand the whole "using bondage to ease my anxieties" thing. I constantly overwork myself by taking on more work that is necessary, last semester I took 8 classes, 3 of which were programming classes and two of which were physics classes. I found that being tied up actually helped calm me down when the semester started to get heated and was a great stress reliever for me. Thankfully, I had a roommate who was never around, or else I don't know how I would have made it through the semester.

As for your second question, I would love to be tied up by another guy, but that's because I'm gay.
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Re: Anger management!

Postby Kyle » Sat May 30, 2015 8:37 am

It's been suggested before a lot of people who like to be tied up find a release in being helpless so they can focus on something besides work or responsibilities. The founder of one of those pay-for-kidnapping services once said a lot of their customers are people who have a lot of stress in their everyday lives, like company founders or housewives with multiple kids, and it's a cathartic release for them.

I'd prefer to be tied up by a woman, but depending on circumstances I wouldn't necessarily turn down being tied up by another man. For whatever reason though if I'm going to be the one doing the tying I really only want to tie up a woman.

Re: Anger management!

Postby drawscore » Sat May 30, 2015 4:30 pm

When you occasionally have a really bad day, and you just need to take it out on someone, don't take it out on someone you know -- take it out on someone you don't know.

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I had forgotten to make. I found the number and dialed it.

A man answered, saying, "Hello."

I politely said, "Could I please speak with Robin Carter?"

Suddenly, the phone was slammed down on me. I couldn't believe that anyone could be so rude.

I realized I had called the wrong number. I tracked down Robin's correct number and called her. I had accidentally transposed the last two digits of her phone number. After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again.

When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled, "You're an asshole!" and hung up.

I wrote his number down with the word 'asshole' next to it, and put it in my desk drawer.

Every couple of weeks, when I was paying bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell, "You're an asshole!" It always cheered me up.

When Caller ID came to our area, I thought my therapeutic 'asshole' calling would have to stop. So, I called his number and said, "Hi, this is John Smith from the Telephone Company. I'm just calling to see if you're familiar with the Caller ID program?"

He yelled, "NO!" and slammed the phone down.

I quickly called him back and said, "That's because you're an asshole!"

One day I was at the store, getting ready to pull into a parking spot. Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had patiently waited for.. I hit the horn and yelled that I had been waiting for that spot. The idiot ignored me, except for flipping me the middle finger. But I noticed a "For Sale" sign in his car window. so, I wrote down his number.

A couple of days later, right after calling the first asshole (I had his number on speed dial), I thought I had better call the BMW asshole, too.

I said, "Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?"

"Yes, it is."

"Can you tell me where I can see it?"

"Yes, I live at 1802 West 34th Street. It's a yellow house, and the car's parked right out in front."

"What's your name?" I asked.

"My name is Don Hansen," he said.

"When's a good time to catch you, Don?"

"I'm home every evening after five."

"Listen, Don, can I tell you something?"

"Yes?"

"Don, you're an asshole."

Then I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial, too. Now, when I had a problem, I had two assholes to call.

But after several months of calling them, it wasn't as enjoyable as it used to be. So, I came up with a new idea. I called Asshole #1.

"Hello."

"You're an asshole!" (But I didn't hang up.)

"Are you still there?" he asked.

"Yeah," I said.

"Stop calling me," he screamed.

"Make me," I said.

"Who are you?" he asked.

"My name is Don Hansen."

"Yeah? Where do you live?"

"Asshole, I live at 1802 West 34th Street, a yellow house, with my black Beamer parked in front."

He said, "I'm coming over right now, Don. And you had better start saying your prayers."

I said, "Yeah, like I'm really scared, asshole."

Then I called Asshole #2.

"Hello?" he said.

"Hello, asshole," I said.

He yelled, "If I ever find out who you are!"

"You'll what?" I said.

"I'll kick your ass," he exclaimed.

I answered, "Well, asshole, here's your chance. I'm coming over right now."

Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived at 1802 West 34th Street, and that I was on my way over there to kill my gay lover.

Then I called Channel 13 News about the gang war going down on West 34th Street.

I quickly got into my car and headed over to 34th street. When I got there, I saw two assholes beating the crap out of each other in front of six squad cars, a police helicopter, and the channel 13 news crew.

NOW, I feel better - Anger Management really works!

Re: Anger management!

Postby Stef » Sat May 30, 2015 11:03 pm

You really made my day! If that's completely true, then you're a legend :)
For long you live and high you fly
And smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry
And all you touch and all you see
Is all your life will ever be...

Re: Anger management!

Postby ebascoray » Sun May 31, 2015 4:12 pm

Hmmmmm...I think that THAT story has gone around the Internet a few times before!

Ebascoray

Re: Anger management!

Postby drawscore » Sun May 31, 2015 4:21 pm

ebascoray wrote:Hmmmmm...I think that THAT story has gone around the Internet a few times before!

Ebascoray


Yeah, but it never gets old! :lol:

Drawscore

Re: Anger management!

Postby ebascoray » Tue Jun 02, 2015 5:34 pm

Nope, it never gets old. Like fine wine that has aged, it is a story that gets better each and every time.

Ebascoray