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SamanthaBoundx wrote:Thats a real shame to hear! But I agree, post what you thought might've happened - Im sure itd be fun to read ^^
And (sorry, I sound like a complete nag!) you said you were travelling to meet them. I just want to say that if you were travelling because it was someone you met online then its definitely for the best that it was cancelled. Meeting people online is dangerous enough as it is - let alone when youre going to volunteer to be tied up in their presence xD Im sure youre not actually crazy enough to agree to a TUG with someone youve met online - just thought I should make the point in case xD
Hope it happens for you soon!!
Jason Toddman wrote:My only criticism with the above being that if Hoodieboy *was* rendesvousing with an online person he may be too ashamed to admit it to us now! Well meant and supportive of course, but if I were Hoodieboy it'd probably also make me clam up about the whole business!
If so Hoodieboy, please tell us about it anyway. I for one have no intention of poking fun or being judgmental (and I think none of the rest intend to be either), and would even understand; I've been tempted to do the same thing myself despite being older and (supposedly) wiser. I just want to hear your story and be supportive as much as I can be, so that when you *do* experience your first Tug it will be a fun one for you as well as a safe one.
Shane Bikman wrote:I agree with you perfectly there Jason.