Postby Drummerboy » Fri Nov 29, 2013 1:49 am
Definitely, the last thing you want to do is scare her off. Take things slow and don't seem super into it (I know, easier said then done). Make a date for a game(s) and just do some very light bondage. Don't do it super far in the future because A. she has more time to think about it and change her mind and B. It gives you more opportunities for you to bring it up in conversation, and the more you do that the creeper you sound. Make it fun, have challenges and compositions, and even switch roles now and then. Great games is seeing who can escape faster or pick up something off the ground fastest. If you have some experience with tying, don't let it show, even let her win some of the tie off compositions. The last thing that will work is having her know your a bondage god. Get her comfortable with that and then make things more spontaneous, IE less planned.Surprises her with a tug out of the blue. Suggest reenacting a Damsel in Distress flick just for fun. Once she gets more and more comfortable and then have introduce her to some more stuff gradually. Stricter ties over time, but nothing BDSM level. Also see how she reacts to what you do to her while tied, like a playful smack on the rear and a little bit of tickling. If she truly likes it, progress at her pace. At some point your going to have to make the leap from just friends to master and slave, so make sure you have a little gap to make as possible.