A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Apr 29, 2015 5:00 pm

when do you tell your friends you like tugs?
Like when ya see a tie up scene in a movie?
Or when your friend mentions he is kinky?
Or etc...
curious thing happened to me in college. was studying at my desk when my roommate walked in and saw my fetish website on my computer and that sparked our conversation.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby ebascoray » Thu Apr 30, 2015 4:30 pm

When you feel that you have enough trust with them, in your friendship, to divulge such information. But, not until then. And, for each and every friend, the time needed to gain that trust will differ. I hope that this helps.

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Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby Chris12 » Mon May 04, 2015 2:17 pm

I generally don't tell and make it seem like a joke.

Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby tieup2008 » Mon May 04, 2015 5:41 pm

Kinda gave it away at a couple of Halloweens and kinda confessed to it in a discussion about Halloween. No one really said anything, which is a shame because I'm sure some of them would enjoy it.
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Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby Mmph Squad » Tue May 05, 2015 3:05 am

This is a dicey issue, but i'm happy you turned to us professionals for advice ;)

Our interest in tugs is often seen as a curiosity that needs to be explained by folks. They can't accept that we just tried it once and liked it, or that bondage is actually pretty fun when practiced among good people in safe situations.

That said, I believe many people can be convinced. One of the important points, I think, is letting your friends/curious people know that to like tying/being tied up does not mean you were necessarily abused as a child, or that you like to hurt people. Many of us who use this website are the scarves and duct tape brand of bondage. This doesn't mean we are any "better" than bdsm folks who enjoy chains and pain, or that we are into "light bondage."

We like tie up games. Fair and simple.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby tieup2008 » Tue May 05, 2015 3:44 am

Unfortunately aside from me using handcuffs on a couple of people, they haven't asked to be locked up again :( Not yet anyway
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Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby Sealherlips » Tue May 05, 2015 9:41 am

What about asking a parent to tie you?

Re: A question about speaking about tugs?

Postby tieup2008 » Tue May 05, 2015 5:15 pm

Unless your parents are open minded then I'd say no unfortunately.
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