## The New Kid

Post by Chaos846 » Wed Mar 21, 2012 4:49 pm

Hello everyone. I'm the new guy here. I've been lurking on this site for sometime, and I only registered very recently. I'm not going to lie to you. I'm a 24 year old guy, and so far I have never had a real TUG experience yet, though I'm still holding out for my first time. This has not stopped me from enjoying all of your fun times though. I figured before I started posting comments or anything like that, I should probebly tell you all a bit more about myself (as well as my interests when it comes to Tie up Games.) Let me know if you'd like to learn more.

### Re: The New Kid

Post by Jack Roper » Wed Mar 21, 2012 5:41 pm

Of course; welcome to the "club."

### Re: The New Kid

Post by Chaos846 » Thu Mar 22, 2012 9:48 am

PART 2: The obvious stuff.
So, I'll get the obvious stuff outta the way first.
First and foremost I am extremely paranoid about posting my real name on ANY website of ANY kind, so please don't ask. I hope you all understand. That being said, I'll get into the bigger details.
So the first question I would imagine is am I the submissive or dominant type? Me personally, I'm not the submisive type, especially after 3 years of letting people walk all over me in grade school. It's a very long and very touchy subject that I really don't want to get into. So does that make me dominant? This is kind of a yes and no. I like seeing the other person tied up, but that's about the extent of it. I follow a kind of "Look, but don't touch" rule, and I don't really assert myself as dominant. Let's just say that if my "partner" were to give me a "no" type answer, I back off. I'm not a risk taker in the regard of sending someone outside they're comfort zone.
Second, Do I prefer tied men, or tied women? I know lots of guys out there love to play these games alot, and I have nothing against that. But when if I had to pick between a tied male or female, I pretty much always go for the female. (Although the bondage scene near the end of Hopscotch with Sam Waterston and Walter Matthau was fun to watch.) But that's another subject. The bottem line for me...Ladies first.
That all being said, I should probebly tell you all what I look for in a tie up game. I base this off of 3 things. But that's for another post later on. In the imortal words of Arnold Schwarzenegger..."I'll be back." (to be continued)

### Re: The New Kid

Post by drawscore » Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:49 pm

I think we will accept you for what, how, and who you are, and if you don't make an issue of your feelings, none of us will, either. Advice? Ask all you want. I'm sure there are lots of us who will be more than happy to impart to you, the benefit of our knowledge and experience. I'm not going to say that it will all be GOOD advice, as there are a few of us who are nuttier than a box of fruitcakes, and some, like me, dumber than a crate of anvils. (But only because I enjoy randomly pissing off a dozen or so total strangers every day.)
Welcome to our insane asylum. We hope you enjoy your stay.
Drawscore

### Re: The New Kid

Post by TUfriend » Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:16 pm

> drawscore wrote:Welcome to our insane asylum. We hope you enjoy your stay.

So true.
Heil Toddman, the Wonderful Wizard of Odd
I'm a nerd with a dangerous side.
See my most recent TRUE story, "SPL Initiation", here.
Read my most recent FICTIONAL story, "The Birth of a Whovian", here

### Re: The New Kid

Post by Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:22 pm

> Chaos846 wrote: First and foremost I am extremely paranoid about posting my real name on ANY website of ANY kind, so please don't ask. I hope you all understand. That being said, I'll get into the bigger details.

That is not paranoia; that is simply common sense and don't let anyone tell you differently.
For that matter, my username here is NOT my real name either!
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

### Re: The New Kid

Post by Chaos846 » Fri Mar 23, 2012 10:47 am

Before I start part 3, I'd like to point out something real quick. I hope I'm not giving you all the impression that I only care about my own interests. I know I'm not replying directly to your comments, but I am seeing them. My point is you all have a real big head start over me. To hunt down every topic on every board to post comments would take me forever and a day. This is just my way of "Catching Up." I hope you all understand.
PART 3: How you play the Game.
Everyone has there own tastes of what they like and don't like. What sends you to the depths of love crazy insanity may put someone else to sleep. I'm not really picky, but I know I have my own share of things that hit that "sweet spot", and I usually base these off of 3 things: Tie, Accesaries, and the outfit.
The Tie: The Tie obviously has to be the most important aspect. (Insert your "DUH" comments here,_____) And remember, I'm speaking from the angle of me tying a lady (even though I blatently said I've never done it, but bare with me here please.) As I said before I'm not usually picky, and there usually isn't anything in this area that I physically can't look at. But for my personal preference, I like to keep things nice and simple. no bust harnesses, or anything like that. Just simply put her hands behind her back, (Ropes or cuffs, doesn't matter), and maybe tie her anckles too. That's pretty much it. Nothing overly elabarate, and you'll understand why later.
The Accesaries: Ah yes, the extra goodies to enhance the experience. Where do you possibly begin with this considering ANYTHING can fall into this catagory. (I've seen your stories with those Ice cubes. Those count.) In fact I wouldn't be at all surprised if some of you have had someone spread eagle on a bed with a cat laying on your bare chests doing who knows what. I'm not saying it happened, I'm just saying I won't be surprised. For me though, there is one accesary that clearly shines above the rest, and you all know what it is...(Go on, say it with me.) The Gag. I'm sorry to be so predictable. Again, I like to keep things simple. I go for one that's more attractive then super effective. I especially like those that cover the mouth. Just Cleave, Cleave backed by an OTM, or just a simple Tape Gag is all I need to see on a lovely lady.
The Outfit: Last but not least we have the Outfit, (or lack there of as the case may be,) is sometimes what the TUG revolves around. Like your Police Women, and Super Heroenes for example. Which again is why I like to keep the tie simple. (Flood um with Rope, and all you see is the rope.) I like to also see the outfit to, and bare in mind your about to see a small peice of my submisive side right here, cause I have never told anyone this, and it applies only if clothes are involved at all in the first place. The one thing I like to see a lady dressed in above anything else is a Collared shirt (Namely a blouse or polo). I think they give a sence of class and elligence that usually isn't there with anything else.
Bouse: I'm not talking about those big blouses you see newsreporters and the like wearing, but more like A white, dress shirt blouse like what you'd see a school girl wearing. Again, I like the sence of formality and class. (In fact, one member of this site who goes by the username NaughtyNats exemplifies this, along with everything else I've mentioned up to this point. My hat's of to you. )
Polo: More casual, but still the same sence of class. I lean towars the long sleeves, but any girl wearing one of these instantly clicks my trigger, (as long as the top button is undone at least), and this goes even outside the TUG arena as well. I'll confess, I love seeing girls wearing these, and for them to be tied up while wearing them is even better. I do however have one issue...I have NEVER seen any. I've been to more sites then I can count, but I have never seen (or read about) A girl wearing a polo playing a TUG. For those of you that take requests. If you have any stories or pictures, I'd love to see um.
That about wraps it up for me for now. Hehe, get it? Wraps?...sorry. (I will almost certainly be hunted down for that one.) And I'd also like to point out oneslight inaccuracy from before. After consulting my memory archive, I do remember one real life TUG that happened 10 years ago or so. I was never directly involved, and was more or less just a spectator, so I don't know if it counts, but if you want, I'll post it in the TrueTUG board. Bare in mind my memory of it is somewhat fuzzy, but I'll do the best I can.