Please help

Postby slaveman987 » Tue Mar 25, 2014 3:36 pm

Hello. Im looking for someone to kidnap me for real. I will give u my location and where u can kidnap me. Please pm me if interested

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Mar 25, 2014 10:13 pm

Wtf? is this a joke (You're one week early for April Fools' day) or are you serious? Do you have any idea how dangerous setting up such a stunt online is?!
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Re: Please help

Postby vantran » Wed Mar 26, 2014 4:08 am

jdogk99 wrote:Hello. Im looking for someone to kidnap me for real. I will give u my location and where u can kidnap me. Please pm me if interested


Go ahead and try. Will call 911/999 for you too.

Re: Please help

Postby Sealherlips » Wed Mar 26, 2014 11:06 am

Not to mention he claims to be 14.

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Mar 26, 2014 11:10 am

Sealherlips wrote:Not to mention he claims to be 14.

Not sure you mean you think he's actually older or if you mean that at 14 he's definitely jail-bait for any would-be kidnapper.
Personally, I think he may actually be 14 because hopefully someone older would have more sense than to post such a request online.
On the other hand it could be an older person trying to get a reaction out of the rest of us just for a cheap thrill.
Hmmm... a bit of a stumper either way.
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Re: Please help

Postby Sealherlips » Wed Mar 26, 2014 11:23 am

I'm not sure whether he is or not, but either way it is a bad idea.

Re: Please help

Postby FelixSH » Wed Mar 26, 2014 11:54 am

Maybe it would be a good idea to delete this topic, so that no one can actually take him up on that offer?

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Mar 26, 2014 12:54 pm

I don't think anyone here would, and I'd rather try to make jdogk99 realize that we're concerned for him rather than condemning or mocking him, so that he doesn't get himself into a dangerous situation somewhere else where people might be less scrupulous than we are.
I'll think it over though. I have to leave right now and don't want to act in haste.
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Re: Please help

Postby vantran » Wed Mar 26, 2014 1:05 pm

perhaps he will come to his senses.

Re: Please help

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:06 pm

Not a good idea.

You never will know if a person lied about their age. They may be a sick pedophile or a criminal. You are very young for your age too. I would consider not doing this.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:50 pm

Jay Feely wrote:Not a good idea.

You never will know if a person lied about their age. They may be a sick pedophile or a criminal. You are very young for your age too. I would consider not doing this.

You use so many pronouns that I have no idea which viewpoint you are advocating.
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Re: Please help

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Mar 27, 2014 8:19 am

The original poster
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Please help

Postby gaglover » Thu Mar 27, 2014 9:57 am

Just putting this out there, but a while back jdogk99 had tried to message me pretending to be a girl saying he was using his "boyfriends account". I have no way of proving this, but I doubt he actually is 14.

Re: Please help

Postby Scottstud94 » Thu Mar 27, 2014 10:05 am

For goodness sakes calm down. It's his choice. If he wants to actually be kidnapped that's his choice and he should be able to make that decision without being mocked.

Re: Please help

Postby putasockinit2 » Thu Mar 27, 2014 10:15 am

gaglover wrote:Just putting this out there, but a while back jdogk99 had tried to message me pretending to be a girl saying he was using his "boyfriends account". I have no way of proving this, but I doubt he actually is 14.

I had this too.

and on the idea, its stupid because he does realise what happens if this went wrong? What if they end up finding a body (worst case scenario) and find out about the site, potentially everyone on here could become a suspect.
Yes its very unlikely that could happen, but not impossible. Think.
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Re: Please help

Postby putasockinit2 » Thu Mar 27, 2014 10:15 am

gaglover wrote:Just putting this out there, but a while back jdogk99 had tried to message me pretending to be a girl saying he was using his "boyfriends account". I have no way of proving this, but I doubt he actually is 14.

I had this too.

and on the idea, its stupid because he does realise what happens if this went wrong? What if they end up finding a body (worst case scenario) and find out about the site, potentially everyone on here could become a suspect.
Yes its very unlikely that could happen, but not impossible. Think.
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Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 27, 2014 10:24 am

Jay Feely wrote:The original poster

*Sigh!* And without a context, your answer is still pretty meaningless to me, Jay.
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Re: Please help

Postby lockedup » Thu Mar 27, 2014 3:42 pm

could be dangerous but it would be a lott of funn. but yeah if it went wrong it would be bad but it would probably go ok. and i dont see how that going wrong could make everyone on the site a suspect. unless they arranged to meet through the site obviously. but what people do is up to them, it might be risky but they proly have a lot more fun then people who never take any risks. although i wouldnt do it thoughh.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Please help

Postby Scottstud94 » Thu Mar 27, 2014 4:04 pm

I agree with locked up here. It's his choice, you're not his parents.

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 27, 2014 4:41 pm

Scottstud94 wrote:I agree with locked up here. It's his choice, you're not his parents.

Precisely why I didn't like the idea some people suggested of either locking this topic or deleting it. This is a serious subject and should be discussed; not just because of the original poster saying he wanted this but because I'm certain he's not the only one.
As a teenager for instance, i got involved with someone who had precisely the same fantasy - only at least with kids his own age whom he already knew not with total strangers. Even so, it didn't go well because his parents found out and thought they were being burglarized. Fortunately things got smoothed over but it could have been an even more horrible mistake.
The point is that other people on this site may be thinking of having the same kind of kidnap scenario done to themselves. This isn't a unique request. It should be discussed in a calm, rational way rather than the knee-jerk fashion the first few replies (including mine) have been... not to encourage Jdogk99 to go through it so much as make him and others thinking of such things aware just how much of a risk they'd be taking and perhaps think of some safer alternative that would still give him what he wants (if possible).
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Re: Please help

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Mar 27, 2014 7:37 pm

Jason, I am telling the person to not pursue it. How is that not clear?
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 27, 2014 10:52 pm

Jay Feely wrote:Jason, I am telling the person to not pursue it. How is that not clear?

Because for one thing I couldn't originally tell if you were talking to him or to me. Second, I asked which viewpoint you were advocating, not who you were talking to (though I admit that would have been a better question), so when you seemed to be saying you were advocating his viewpoint your original post didn't seem to make a ton of sense.
That's how it's not clear.
You want to be clearer to understand, try using more nouns and fewer pronouns please. We're not mind-readers here, and excessive use of pronouns can make your whole post read differently than you intended.
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Re: Please help

Postby Lake Lover » Fri Mar 28, 2014 6:56 am

This is a very worthwhile post to discuss.

I had private fantasies of being tied up and helpless when I was 11, 12, 15 -- whatever ages. I don't recall if they involved a 'snatched' kidnapping, per se, but definitely being tied and held prisoner. I believe the majority of us have such fantasies.

So, a child 14 on this site certainly may think it cool to offer to arrange to have his dream fulfilled.

It is helpful for us to kick this idea around. Most comments thus far point out the fallacy of it. Hopefully no one here would put such a lame brained notion into action. Hopefully the dreamer will come to realize how potentially dangerous his (her?) request really is. In fact anyone going to a meeting for this kidnapping may find himself being the victim target of a couple of kidnappers, rather than a 14y.o. Wouldn't that be fun.

Re: Please help

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 28, 2014 7:37 am

Lake Lover wrote: In fact anyone going to a meeting for this kidnapping may find himself being the victim target of a couple of kidnappers, rather than a 14y.o. Wouldn't that be fun.

Indeed, some people might actually enjoy that - provided the motives of the kidnappers were not too sinister. But that's another story.
It's possible a 14-year old would not understand the consequences of being kidnapped. When I was 14, my cousins arranged for me to be kidnapped by some boys who lived nearby they knew all their lives (but whom I'd never met except the one closest my age briefly at school). They tied me up in what was by then a fairly routine matter for us but out in the woods away from the house (not quite so routine) and then just left me there (not routine at all). Tuned out they'd deliberately left me at a pre-arranged rendezvous point where the other boys could easily find me and 'kidnap' me.
Being 14 at the time, I wasn't too worried though. I was still naive enough to be sure that boys more or less my own age wouldn't really hurt me or keep me captive for long, and I think deep down inside I was certain that this was a deliberate set-up by my cousins (I already knew how devious they were by this time) and i knew they wouldn't (deliberately) put me into a truly dangerous situation.
Well, after promising me some torture when they returned and then locking me inside a barn for several hours, they came back with my cousins and - after some (consensual) torture they let me go. They would have let me go at any time had I showed signs of stress or panic, but though I was obviously somewhat apprehensive I apparently took it so well they actually took the scheme further than they had originally planned. So it turned out I was right, I was safe. Because my cousins knew what they were doing. It was a hare-brained scheme, yes; but it was fun, was evidently well-planned, and it worked out well... unlike that other boy I knew who wanted to be kidnapped right out of his house in the middle of the night.
Btw I've written stories about some of my adolescent TUGs some time ago; including these two incidents - though with considerably exaggerated details, I admit. The actual incidents were far less exciting than they 'sound' in print.
Now, had they arranged for some adults to kidnap me, i likely would've had a severe heart attack in my panic! Even at 14, I knew that adults were capable of doing all sorts of horrible things to a kid. And this was in 1970 - before Jeffrey Dalmer and John Wayne Gacy and people like them entered into my awareness. I'd have never considered letting an adult kidnap me for a single moment. Hell, I still wouldn't; even if it was someone I knew well! I don't know anyone I trust that much!
I'm probably sending mixed messages here, but the point is the situations i experienced involved people who already knew one another very well. I was very, very different from arranging for a kidnap by a total stranger. They were strangers to me yes; but I'm not the one who arranged the details.
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Re: Please help

Postby DesertFox » Sun Mar 30, 2014 3:31 pm

People saying "it's his choice" are technically correct, but as a legal minor (in almost every state) any part of the act that could be considered sexual in nature (and it is, more or less, for all of us in some way) is a very serious felony.

Arranging a fun kidnapping with kids you know and trust, or, if you have the money, hiring one of those "designer kidnapping" services to come and snatch you might be fun for the person being kidnapped. Asking for it from strangers on the internet is different, and I think this is either a misguided request at best, or a full-fledged sting operation waiting to happen at worst.