im new and would like some ideas please :)

Postby Bourne » Tue Jan 04, 2011 9:46 am

Hi i go by the name Bourne

Me and my girlfriend where talking the other day and she mentioned a dream she had about me tieing her up before we did more intimate stuff, and i do have a interest in being tied up and tieing up. I was wondering what the best way to start to see if she is interested in it?

Do you have any advise?
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Re: im new and would like some ideas please :)

Postby Cowboywantsacowgirl » Tue Jan 04, 2011 6:29 pm

Hey I go by cowboy
I have love tie up starting when I was 8-9 I'm now almost 17 and I have just got a new girlfriend witch I hope I have for a very long time. But we have just started getting into tugs. This is how I started us off.
1) I have been into tie ups longer so and I like being the one tied so I said she should tie me up first so that she can have full controll.
2) I did not bring in real bondage gread stuff at the start just normal stuff for the story most Canadian tier you can make anything from what you buy (gags,blindfolds,earplugs,ROPE,TAPE,)
3) start off were you are 100% alone were there is zero Chance of someone finding you that way it let you focus on each other and not if someone is coming

Thats all I have to say for now tell me if it helped or not
Found my girl and I got my rope time to let the good times roll

Re: im new and would like some ideas please :)

Postby anjell » Tue Jan 04, 2011 8:13 pm

You should ask her (in the nicest way you can) if she would like to try out some of the stuff in her dream. If she wants to have her guide you in how she was tied wile you tie her. But before you start talk about it with her and set some guide lines.
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Re: im new and would like some ideas please :)

Postby omgtugs » Tue Jan 04, 2011 9:28 pm

anjell wrote:You should ask her (in the nicest way you can) if she would like to try out some of the stuff in her dream. If she wants to have her guide you in how she was tied wile you tie her. But before you start talk about it with her and set some guide lines.

this is good advice