Postby sarobah » Tue Feb 07, 2012 2:47 pm
I’m always a bit nervous about offering advice. However...
If a girl asks what turns you on, it’s unlikely she’s expecting you to say walks in the park, old time musicals and strawberry champagne.
So my advice would be to tell her about the bondage, but in a way that shows that you’re just being truthful, not expecting her to like it or anything to happen. Explain that bondage is not all about whips and chains and leather. Tell her what it is about it that turns you on (and emphasize the romantic element). She wants to know about you and this is an important part of who you are.
One other point... Bondage, as we know, is about trust in your partner. That’s why it will be hard to bring it up later if you didn’t answer truthfully in the first place. Instead, by telling her something confidential about yourself, by being willing to be open and direct about yourself, you are showing that you’ve put your trust in her.
~ Sarah
Words, like Nature, half reveal and half conceal the soul within.