Finding TUG Buddies

Postby gagfan867 » Fri Apr 03, 2015 9:07 am

Hey everyone, for those lucky enough to find play partners I'm sort of curious how you did it. I've tried and haven't had a much luck so I am just curious if there are good tricks for doing it that I have missed

Re: Finding TUG Buddies

Postby gagfan867 » Fri Apr 03, 2015 11:57 am

Yea ive done that, maybe my area is just fairly devoid of similarly minded people.

Re: Finding TUG Buddies

Postby Mmph Squad » Fri Apr 17, 2015 4:44 am

gagfan867 wrote:Yea ive done that, maybe my area is just fairly devoid of similarly minded people.


As mentioned above, persistence is important. Also, open your mind to possibility that many people are into this sort of thing. However, not all of them are aware (like some of us are) that there is a large population of people who are so into ropes, gags, and merciless tickling that we have online boards, chat rooms, and even socials.

They are out there, just in disguise. The worst thing someone can really say is, "no, that stuff's weird." Whatever, big deal, we'll have our hearts broken 5 times before they become complete.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Finding TUG Buddies

Postby NoMeansYes » Tue Apr 21, 2015 10:17 am

Quite apart from the advice given, at the end of the day it is still meeting up with somebody for the purpose of being tied up. A lot of people *think* that they want to do this, because it's something they spend hours fantasising about, but when reality sets in, they freak out. The whole "what if I get murdered and mailed back to my family in little pieces" fear comes into their mind. When you're tied up, you have NO CONTROL whatsoever as to what happens after, so ask yourself how much you trust people you've never met. When you're sat at your computer, it's easy for the mind to wander and to think how much you'd love some bondage right now, but imagine yourself as you're walking up to the place you agreed to meet the stranger. How are you feeling at that point...or when you see them walking up to you?

Yes lots of people are into it, but it takes a very certain type of person to just say "yeah you know what, this afternoon I'll let a stranger tie me up". Also compatibility and rapport plays a huge part. I've had experiences where I've met up with people for this and it wasn't what I'd hoped. Not because I got murdered (obviously), but because the fantasy outweighed the reality, and so now, if I were to consider selecting a TUGs partner, I'd really make sure I thought we had really common interests relating to this subject.

Re: Finding TUG Buddies

Postby gagfan867 » Tue Apr 21, 2015 1:15 pm

I actually did manage to get tied up this last weekend, was nice.