What do girls like in a guy?

Postby teachertied » Wed Nov 07, 2012 10:27 am

Ok, so, seeing as my school has recently changed the sixth form into a co-educational sixth form, I will be spending much more time with girls :) Which should be good, right? Well, my question is, do girls like the stereo typical "stud" guy, or do they prefer intellectual guys, who are just nice, no strings attached. For example, I play the clarinet, I play rugby and some other sports, I speak french and bits of other languages and I love English and the Sciences, although most things intellectual will interest me :)

As far as looks go, I wouldn't say I was the sexiest guy you will every meet, but I am not ugly either, so looks don't particularly matter in this scenario...

To conclude, would a girl rather be friends, or even more, with a guy that acts all "cool" or with a guy who is nice to them, and will make them a cup of tea or whatever, such as the person I like to think I am...

N.B I may come across as a little odd in this post, but I swear I am nice! :)

P.S Preferably I would like girls to respond, however if guys have an opinion then I would love to hear it!

Thank you in advance :)
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Re: What do girls like in a guy?

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Wed Nov 07, 2012 11:37 am

Obviously, people have different "types" that they go for, so I can't speak for everyone xD

I've been a friend and girlfriend to different types of guys - bad boys, sweet boys, nerdy intellectuals. But they all tend to have one thing in common - they're guys who are comfortable with themselves. It's so obvious when a guy is acting like someone he isn't or doing things he wouldn't normally do in order to seem attractive to girls. If I feel that someone isn't being themself with me then I have no desire to get closer to them.

So, as lame as the advice may seem, just be yourself rather than trying to confrom to a stereotype that you think girls would fall for :)

Re: What do girls like in a guy?

Postby teachertied » Wed Nov 07, 2012 11:41 am

Thank you so much, I didn't really see it like that :)


May I ask, you can obviously say no, but, how old are you, please pm me if you want :)
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Re: What do girls like in a guy?

Postby Boundgirl » Thu Nov 08, 2012 12:03 am

I go with Samantha here. Personally, I tend to the more rough guys (and girls) myself- but I am a more rough person myself, and a timid person would simply be destroyed when engaged to me.
I think most girls do pretty well in distinguishing "tough acting" and "touch being", though.

Re: What do girls like in a guy?

Postby bookl0ver » Fri Nov 16, 2012 12:53 pm

Uh studs are.....digusting. To me a boy has to be skinny cute, mildly intelligent, reads (we needs stuff to talk about), and wears there trousers with the crotch at their flipping crotch. They don't use slang, and if their blond all the better.
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