## Something you wish was different.

Post by GWolfman88 » Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:42 am

As a person who has more traditional family values, I wish that there were more openness among “traditional” people about exploring kinkiness within marriage. I really would like to get married someday, but I hope that I can find a person who has the same family values who is open to more than just vanilla sex.
Is there something that you wish was different about the bondage community or about the way "vanilla" people see bondage?

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Post by canuck100 » Thu Mar 10, 2016 12:09 pm

I wish it was totally socially acceptable to be "open" about our kinkiness. "I am a foodie, enjoy fine wines, travelling, and outdoors activities. Also into tying people up - or getting tied up myself"
It would make meeting the "right" partner much more easy.

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Post by spd138 » Fri Mar 11, 2016 6:05 am

I wish it was more acceptable to talk bondage as it is sex or oral. I think things will change sooner or later but a good bondage story is do much better then a blow job story

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Post by Jay Feely » Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:38 am

That it was acceptable to send pictures of being tied up to people.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

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Post by grinandbareit » Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:49 am

Nothing. The truth is it being taboo if part of the thrill. If it was main stream would it be as much fun or is part of the fun doing it in the shadows

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Post by spd138 » Sat Mar 12, 2016 9:15 am

> grinandbareit wrote:Nothing. The truth is it being taboo if part of the thrill. If it was main stream would it be as much fun or is part of the fun doing it in the shadows

You make a good point. I never thought if it that way but the secret adds to the rush.

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Post by Thatworm » Sat Mar 12, 2016 10:50 am

I wish I was cuter and more athletic, not that I'm not, just not as athletic as others I should say

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Post by GWolfman88 » Sat Mar 12, 2016 10:53 am

> grinandbareit wrote:Nothing. The truth is it being taboo if part of the thrill. If it was main stream would it be as much fun or is part of the fun doing it in the shadows

I honestly would find it as fun and exciting regardless. For me the important thing is what goes on sensually and emotionally between you and your play partner/significant other whether it's taboo or not. Nonetheless, I understand your point of view.

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Post by GWolfman88 » Sat Mar 12, 2016 10:59 am

> Max S wrote:I wish I was cuter and more athletic, not that I'm not, just not as athletic as others I should say

Yeah I totally get what you're saying. I wish I had about 15 to 20 pounds more muscle on me. Oh well. I at least have pretty good muscular definition. Sometimes you gotta make due with what you have.

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Post by Rachel_Tied » Sat Mar 12, 2016 3:04 pm

> grinandbareit wrote:Nothing. The truth is it being taboo if part of the thrill. If it was main stream would it be as much fun or is part of the fun doing it in the shadows

I would agree with this, too. If it was commonplace and something everyone did all the time, it wouldn't really be special, or something that makes me stand apart a little bit. It would be like eating breakfast, just something you do normally. I like that it has a certain taboo to it.

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Post by AlexUSA » Sat Mar 12, 2016 4:18 pm

I am not so much into the taboo aspect, but I understand it. I just wish it was acceptable, but it doesn't have to be mainstream. It's just like anything else kinky: it doesn't have to be public knowledge. But then again, things that aren't public knowledge are automatically labeled "taboo."
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