My wife and I have been using bondage in our sex life for a long time time now, but last week I expressed my desire to take it in a different direction and she agreed that this weekend we can do something more to my tastes. So far our experiences have been limited to her being tied to the bed followed by some xxx stuff. I'd love nothing more than to be able to have her tied and gagged in various positions, maybe some lighthearted role play (think damsel in distress themed), or an escape challenge, leaving her to her own devices (supervised of course) while she trys to figure out an escape. Basically bondage with a bit more innocence than having to lead to sex.
While she has agreed experiment this weekend, there's some things to work out. She thinks the idea of being tied with no sexual stuff happening sounds boring, and that role play or wriggling around while tied up will be awkward or embarrassing. I'm grateful that she's willing to try this with me, and I'm not going to push it on her if she doesn't like it, so I'm trying to think of how I can make this experience enjoyable and hopefully leave her wanting more.
That's why I bring this dilemma to you guys, hopefully you have some advice. Things we can do, how to smoothed out some of the awkwardness etc. When it's in the context of sex it comes naturally. Right now I can't even think of a way to transition from me not tying her up, to tying her up! So please, any input!