You ever experienced a painful tugs before?
For example, in the summer of 1996, when I was 6, my brothers thought it would be funny to handcuff me. However, my small wrists had me crying out in pain, but they did not believe it was the case. My wrists was sore red after the incident, so I lost trust in them. Then, as they were older, newer tugs allowed me to regain their trust whenever I was being punished for doing something wrong, like stealing from their rooms meant I get tied to a chair and have make up being put on me, but it was less painful than the one I experienced when I was 6.