Setting the mood

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Mar 21, 2012 8:38 pm

What do you do to set the mood for tying someone up?

I always prepare candles and dim the lights so that I would be more relaxed in order to be tied up or when I tie people up.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Setting the mood

Postby SecretAgent » Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:30 pm

I agree, most often candles, dim lighting, background music. The same kinds of things you would do to set the mood for most kinds of dates or intimate encounters.

BUT...

If the game is "kidnapping" (or some variation)... spooky settings like basements or attics can be kind of exciting. Secret hideouts, villain's lairs, that kind of thing. Where one might stash a plucky heroine where she couldn't be found. A few women I've played kidnap with over the years seem to agree! Some years ago, I had occasional access to an old barn on a friend's property. It was unused and empty, but I used it a few times for rope games! Kind of spooky I guess, but exciting.

Jeff

Re: Setting the mood

Postby xtc » Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:40 pm

I don't suppose hiding behind the door and shoving a pillowcase over the ti-ee's head counts?
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Re: Setting the mood

Postby trammel » Sat Mar 24, 2012 6:27 am

xtc wrote:I don't suppose hiding behind the door and shoving a pillowcase over the ti-ee's head counts?


:-)

Re: Setting the mood

Postby SecretAgent » Sat Mar 24, 2012 7:29 am

xtc wrote:I don't suppose hiding behind the door and shoving a pillowcase over the ti-ee's head counts?


That's definitely one kind of mood you can set. Think of all the money you could save on candles, lighting, etc. if you just invested in a nice pillowcase.

Re: Setting the mood

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Mar 24, 2012 10:21 am

I never tie anyone else up, so for me there's no mood to set.
As for the mood that was set for me by others, my cousins used to use different variations of xtc's method - heck, I think they even used a pillowcase on me themselves once. I definitely remember a canvas sack on a different occasion when we were out at a neighbor kid's barn. Usually though, they'd either come into my room with rope in hand and announce I was about to get tied up (allowing me to lay down or sit up as they instructed), or simply ambush me from behind if I was somewhere else and wrestle me down. Ambushing me as I emerged from the bathroom was a definite favorite of theirs; they must have done that one at least a dozen times or so during the time I lived in their house. It always worked because I never seemed to notice them; actually, I usually did after the firest couiple of times because of my over-sensitive ears warning me ahead of time that they were there but I pretended otherwise to let them carry on anyway! :big:
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Re: Setting the mood

Postby fungirlkatie » Mon Mar 26, 2012 2:15 pm

i can't say i've had the mood set, i'd prefer it to be spontaneous then planned
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Re: Setting the mood

Postby JTRD » Mon Mar 26, 2012 3:19 pm

I definitely prefer the more impulsive/spontaneous method as opposed to setting up an evening for it, plus you can't really light some candles if you're going to do a kidnapping :gag:
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