The ones that got away..

Postby bottop » Sat Aug 09, 2014 4:25 pm

I'm a dude that likes to be tied up for sex. Over the course of my life, there have been times when clear invitations from women to be tied up have been given to me but, for a variety of reasons, I couldn't take advantage of the situation.

Those "misses" have haunted me forever.

The one that I return to over and over again was this phone call:

[Literally at the start..]

"Hello?"

"Hi Mike"

"Oh, hi M**** [redacted..]"

"I want to tie you to your bed and wax you."

[Swallowing, breathing, calming heart rate] "Uh, why would you want to do that?"

Seriously.. That's what I said. Not: "Hell yeah!" Not: "How's now and the rest of the weekend sound?"

Background: I had recently met and begun dating the woman who would eventually become my wife. We were already sexually involved. She would have never forgiven such a transgression, nor would she fail to notice that I was hairless. Also, I believe she was on her way over that evening already.

That miss has haunted me forever..

How about you? Any misses that you would have redone? I've got more..
About me: Love the feel of tights, stockings, pantyhose, garters, and girdles. Helplessness and intense pleasure have been joined for me since I was a kid

Re: The ones that got away..

Postby bottop » Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:13 am

Really? No one else?

I've got tons.. How about "Michelle": I was at her apartment. She took a call. Afterwards she said, "That's my friend. I told her I had a boy here and she said: 'If I know you, you'll have him tied to your bed soon!' Isn't that funny?"

My response: I don't even remember, I just know it wasn't: "Oh yeah, let's do that."

Background: It was my first hang out with her. She was actually engaged. Aaaanndd... I'm a pansy. Ran across her nearly 15 years later. We were both married with kids. But I sure thought about bringing it up again.
About me: Love the feel of tights, stockings, pantyhose, garters, and girdles. Helplessness and intense pleasure have been joined for me since I was a kid

Re: The ones that got away..

Postby Nexus » Sun Aug 17, 2014 5:10 pm

I have one incident like this that still burns me with regret. However you should note that I am rather opposite of Mike, and I like to be the one doing the tying.

Back Story: There was this girl who I had come to know through mutual friends and parties and what not, to the point where we became friends (and still are to this day actually). While I was always attracted to her (as she was and still is quite the knockout) she was usually going out with a good friend of mine. I say "usually" because they are the on-again-off-again types, who break up and get back together and yadda yadda yadda. Early on in our friendship, she and my friend had been in the "off" stage for quite awhile. Well we all party one night and I wake up to find a note tucked in my pocket. It was written by her saying she thought I was hot and we should get together and she left her email address. So after many conversations on msn messenger (you can tell how long ago this was, as msn messenger was still the main form of contact for young people) and one night of too many drinks, I went over to her house and started a strictly sexual relationship. We fooled around for a month or two before my guilt towards my friend got the better of me, and we stopped. Sure enough some time later, she gets back together with my friend. No regrets so far, lets just say lessons were learned.

Fast forward. I forget if it was weeks or months or even a year later, but me and her are still friends, and she's going out with my friend. We are having yet another msn messenger conversation about nothing in particular, when we start sharing these custom made emoticons we each had. Well, she posts this .gif type emoticon that loops through about a half dozen pictures of some women in BDSM get up and positions. I was floored. I had never told her (or anybody really) about being into bondage. Playing coy, I say something like "Well thats interesting, why do you have that?" To which she responds "I'm into that sort of thing." My jaw hit the desk. I confess to enjoying it too, and tell her I wish I had have known while we had our fling. She just kind of says "yeah, oh well." And thats that.

Yeah. Oh well. For her. For me, it was a crushing regret. Like I said, she was (is) very attractive, I had even been lucky enough to get sexual with her for awhile, but what I wouldn't give to have been able to tie her up and have fun wih her, especially knowing she would have easily been all for it. That said I am now happily married to someone else, and I'm also lucky enough that my wife is willing to indulge me in my love for bondage. But that one girl will always be the one who got away...from being tied up.

Re: The ones that got away..

Postby bottop » Mon Aug 18, 2014 4:36 pm

Excellent tale.

I never really thought of it from the dominate perspective. Perhaps, if they knew, the opportunities they missed to tie me up might haunt them too.
About me: Love the feel of tights, stockings, pantyhose, garters, and girdles. Helplessness and intense pleasure have been joined for me since I was a kid

Re: The ones that got away..

Postby ropedin » Mon Aug 18, 2014 5:00 pm

I can't say I have had any as brazen as those. Most of the chances I missed were really at a bad time (pajama pants are really not the best thing to be chair tied in around a bunch of people) or with people I'm not sure I wanted to tie me up.