How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby ravish » Sun Nov 06, 2016 5:26 am

This occurred to me for various reasons, so mostly I'm just interested what people feel on this subject.

For me, while bondage doesn't have to include outright sexual elements (often times I even prefer it doesn't) the thought of tying someone up/being tied up is inherently sexually arousing to me.

That's why I personally couldn't get into stories featuring young children, family members, etc.

How about you, how sexual is bondage and everything related (humiliation, the whole BDSM spectrum) for you?

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby KingMush » Sun Nov 06, 2016 9:12 am

Well I don't necessarily need sexual stimulation but I'd only really do it with someone I find attractive, or a quite close friend. Mostly I'd do it with the opposite sex, in 95% of occasions tbh, but doesn't have to be sexual.
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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby cellofello » Sun Nov 06, 2016 4:53 pm

ravish wrote:How about you, how sexual is bondage and everything related (humiliation, the whole BDSM spectrum) for you?


Interesting question.

For me, while being bound is sexually arousing, there are other non-sexual apsects I get out of it. I enjoy the physical sensation of being immobilized. I enjoy the challenge of trying to escape. So while I consider myself 99 and 44/100% heterosexual, and prefer being bound by a woman, I'm willing to let a man tie me up with no sexual interaction.

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Fesselfan » Sun Nov 06, 2016 10:56 pm

To answer your question:
Very much and not at all...it all depends on the context, and whom I tie up.

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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Nexus » Mon Nov 14, 2016 9:10 pm

As said in the original post, even if no sexual acts are being performed, bondage in and of itself stirs sexual feelings within myself. Also why I don't rp with minors.

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby GeekGirlGagged » Sat Nov 19, 2016 9:58 am

Actually I prefer to be untied.for sex. Bondage in foreplay is fun but it is more that I can not do.anything which is the thrill. Being tied up and played with , fondled, fingered or tongues is loads of fun. Sex with guys I want to be free. Lesve me tied up all day, play with me then untie me for sex.

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby ravish » Sat Nov 19, 2016 11:17 am

It seems a few people are getting things confused! I wasn't asking whether bondage had to be linked to sex and vice versa, but simply whether bondage - being tied up, tying up, thinking about it - is a sexually arousing experience, regardless of whether anything explicitly sexual happens.

It's not about whether you have sex while in bondage, that's a different question. Although if the answer to that is yes, I'd guess bondage would have to be pretty damn sexual to you anyway.

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby RiaTheGaggedGirl » Sat Nov 19, 2016 1:28 pm

I find it quite fun sometimes and just innocent, I don't aroused when I'm tied, I just like it. If its ever sexual like with a boyfriend I don't like to be tied too much, for example I would probably only want my wrists tied and and gag, and I would have had to be with them for quite a long time and trust them if they wanted to tie me while sex.
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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Mmph Squad » Sat Nov 19, 2016 2:08 pm

It can be completely sexual, and not at all. It's certainly a way for me to vet how well I trust someone that I might one day consider a sexual partner. However, when it comes right down to it, it depends on the situation, the people involved, etc.
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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby RRR » Tue Nov 22, 2016 3:34 am

I love it in a sexual context and non sexual. Though I get too much sexual and not enough of the other XD

Right now I'd love a pretty girl who likes to be bound and gagged with no further expectations :P

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby BoundSub » Wed Nov 23, 2016 11:43 am

Yes. Bondage, thinking about getting tied or getting bound up, is highly arousing for me. Even seeing a tie up scene in a movie will get me going and when I find the guy(s) attractive (gay guy here) even more so.

Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Zero » Mon Dec 12, 2016 5:45 am

Me too, love it in a sexual context and non sexual! depends because can changes the way to, be or not, tied up.
The great things that could be both and switch from not sexual to cuddles and sexuals ;) that's a great thing but the hard part is always to find someone to play this kind of game because for a lot of people could be bad seen even if it's not sexual but just for fun!
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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Onodera » Mon Dec 19, 2016 1:22 pm

I confess that speaking of bondage of any kind gets me sexually excited, but it's nothing that I cannot control it. Bondage always was something sexually to me, but I do understand that there is people and/or situations that doing sex stuffs is out of the limits and I do respect that. For example, straight guys that likes to be tied up, but with nothing seually involved while playing with another man. Nevertheless, even without involving anything sexual, bondage is still very fun to play!
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Re: How sexual is bondage for you?

Postby Delete this account » Tue Dec 20, 2016 3:33 pm

I get slightly aroused just by the thought of boundage especially if I think it is inescapable and inside my limits which are oddly enough non-sexual. I would like to get tied, gagged, blindfolded and dominated/humiliated in a non-sexual way just for the experience of helplessness, to face my fear of giving up control, to see how much I can handle. I would hope for someone to tie me that feels the same way, very interested in tying, but focusing on the non-sexual parts.