How soon is too soon

Postby Cpt Wiggles » Fri Apr 25, 2014 2:46 pm

So at what point in a relationship do you introduce tie ups?

I've done it both on the first date, on one night stands and with my wife introduced it a lot later, after about 3 months together.

How soon before you started it? Not just with sexual partners but anyone you indulge in tie ups with.
There's always time for a nice cup of tea.

Re: How soon is too soon

Postby Nexus » Sat Apr 26, 2014 9:26 am

Well, I've generally only ever engaged in TUGs with girlfriends. I would usually wait a month or two (once the sexual relationship has been established) before bringing up my love for bondage.

Re: How soon is too soon

Postby cellofello » Sun Apr 27, 2014 8:56 pm

As an adult I do it fairly early, as soon as the relationship appears that it will be going sexual. Might as well find out if we're completely compatible. Only two expressed no interest. (I suspect that I run in circles where interest is likelier than average.)

Re: How soon is too soon

Postby AussieBoy » Wed Apr 30, 2014 11:01 am

Due to my friendship circles and dress sense (I sometimes wear rope/cuffs out) I usually use it as a convo topic early on. I find gay guys to be more open to kink however.

Re: How soon is too soon

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Apr 30, 2014 4:37 pm

Once they get to know your other hobbies like if you like videogames, then trust develop, tell her about it
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: How soon is too soon

Postby Fesselfan » Wed May 07, 2014 11:23 pm

I tend to communicate at least some basics of my likes/dislikes extremly soon, before I start a relationship or one-nighter. Helps to prevent disappointments on both sides.

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