BondageMom55 AMA

Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Sun May 21, 2017 5:13 pm

These "AMA" posts have become very popular and since it has come to my attention that not many people on this site know much about me
Feel free to ask me Anything
If you dare;)

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby GWolfman88 » Sun May 21, 2017 6:58 pm

This question applies equally whether you are watching a bondage scene online or being bound yourself: What aspects do you consider essential to a good bondage scene/experience. How should you or the model be tied? Is a gag necessary? Should it be sexual? etc.

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Postby BoundJana » Sun May 21, 2017 9:27 pm

Since when are you into bondage?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Postby Bigbound2323 » Sun May 21, 2017 9:51 pm

Do you prefer to doing the tying up or being tied up?

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Postby asianguy » Sun May 21, 2017 11:33 pm

Hi! I was wondering when you will be finish your college days story :)

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 10:26 am

GWolfman88 wrote:This question applies equally whether you are watching a bondage scene online or being bound yourself: What aspects do you consider essential to a good bondage scene/experience. How should you or the model be tied? Is a gag necessary? Should it be sexual? etc.

I believe that every good bondage scene should start with an attractive and eye catching outfit, if it's a video online it catches the audiences attention and if it's just one on one it gives the Dom something nice to look at and can also make the submissive feel glamorous. Personally I'm a suckered for Rubber and Latex clothing, I also personally believe that there needs to be some kind of interaction between dom and sub after the tying is done, just leaving them in complete boredom isn't fun in my opinion.
As far as what position to have them tied in, my personal favorites are strappado ties and suspended hogties, but that's just me.
I do believe that a Gag of some sort is always vital to a good scene, my personal favorites being panel gags or inflatable gags

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 10:27 am

BoundJana wrote:Since when are you into bondage?

Lol I've been doing bondage and bdsm for about 20 years, so I have a great deal of experience

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 10:28 am

Bigbound2323 wrote:Do you prefer to doing the tying up or being tied up?

I'm as close to a 50-50 switch as you'll find, but if I had to pick one, I would say being submissive brings me greater joy

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 10:32 am

asianguy wrote:Hi! I was wondering when you will be finish your college days story :)

I want to answer your question with an apology, I posted the first bits of that story and then got so caught up in Real life that I completely forgot about it. I beg the forgiveness of everyone who has been waiting for its conclusion.
As a single mother of 2 children plus a niece who I am the Guardian of, along with my job selling homes. I stay very very busy, and it's a rare occasion for me to have time to sir down and work on bondage stories

I Promise you that I will post the next part of that story as soon as I am able

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Postby That-animeguy » Mon May 22, 2017 10:49 am

I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?
So... gulible!

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 11:16 am

That-animeguy wrote:I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?

Yes indeed I have involved my children in my bondage interests, but I did not force it upon them, I am always 100% honest with my kids because they are all that I have, they have always known about my interest on BDSM and they know about my past experiences in the BDSM lifestyle, but I did not involve them in any of it until they expressed an interest themselves, which happened about 4 years ago and I have been doing occasional light to moderate bondage play with them ever since

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby That-animeguy » Mon May 22, 2017 11:21 am

BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?

Yes indeed I have involved my children in my bondage interests, but I did not force it upon them, I am always 100% honest with my kids because they are all that I have, they have always known about my interest on BDSM and they know about my past experiences in the BDSM lifestyle, but I did not involve them in any of it until they expressed an interest themselves, which happened about 4 years ago and I have been doing occasional light to moderate bondage play with them ever since


I feel the expression Family bonding, must mean alot than! :wink:
Ah puns aside..

Now forgive me for being the guy asking that question.. but I feel someone is bound to do so later.
And how do I ask it proper without making it seem confusing.. or odd.

Let's fire a shot shall I, I'll take the bullet if I miss.
Involving them into bondage, imo, is a gamble, said it before and would repeat it also. :)
But since you're so honest and open, I feel you'll easily understand that.
So the question: Involving them into a session, afterwards, isn't it awkward.. considering they were tied by their mother, to say?
And this isn't a stick-in-the-butt question, no worries there! :) Someone would ask it at some point, I prefer to be the one than.
So... gulible!

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 11:33 am

That-animeguy wrote:
BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?

Yes indeed I have involved my children in my bondage interests, but I did not force it upon them, I am always 100% honest with my kids because they are all that I have, they have always known about my interest on BDSM and they know about my past experiences in the BDSM lifestyle, but I did not involve them in any of it until they expressed an interest themselves, which happened about 4 years ago and I have been doing occasional light to moderate bondage play with them ever since


I feel the expression Family bonding, must mean alot than! :wink:
Ah puns aside..

Now forgive me for being the guy asking that question.. but I feel someone is bound to do so later.
And how do I ask it proper without making it seem confusing.. or odd.

Let's fire a shot shall I, I'll take the bullet if I miss.
Involving them into bondage, imo, is a gamble, said it before and would repeat it also. :)
But since you're so honest and open, I feel you'll easily understand that.
So the question: Involving them into a session, afterwards, isn't it awkward.. considering they were tied by their mother, to say?
And this isn't a stick-in-the-butt question, no worries there! :) Someone would ask it at some point, I prefer to be the one than.


We aren't an awkward family, we are very open about these things and I only involve them in bondage when they want me to, so afterwards I've never felt that it was awkward

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Postby That-animeguy » Mon May 22, 2017 11:37 am

BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:
BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?

Yes indeed I have involved my children in my bondage interests, but I did not force it upon them, I am always 100% honest with my kids because they are all that I have, they have always known about my interest on BDSM and they know about my past experiences in the BDSM lifestyle, but I did not involve them in any of it until they expressed an interest themselves, which happened about 4 years ago and I have been doing occasional light to moderate bondage play with them ever since


I feel the expression Family bonding, must mean alot than! :wink:
Ah puns aside..

Now forgive me for being the guy asking that question.. but I feel someone is bound to do so later.
And how do I ask it proper without making it seem confusing.. or odd.

Let's fire a shot shall I, I'll take the bullet if I miss.
Involving them into bondage, imo, is a gamble, said it before and would repeat it also. :)
But since you're so honest and open, I feel you'll easily understand that.
So the question: Involving them into a session, afterwards, isn't it awkward.. considering they were tied by their mother, to say?
And this isn't a stick-in-the-butt question, no worries there! :) Someone would ask it at some point, I prefer to be the one than.


We aren't an awkward family, we are very open about these things and I only involve them in bondage when they want me to, so afterwards I've never felt that it was awkward


Makes sense. :) I feel I'll put blame on the dutch, we're not open, just too close-minded.. if not for out windmills and tullips!

So to avoid familiar moments; Allow me to poke the ant hill further..
You've experienced bondage, mentioned you're a switch but lean to being a sub.
So..

Do you prefer to be bound, and teased, by a woman or a men?
And what would you say is your limit?
I've seen extreme bondage sessions.. always curious how anyone can handle some.. forms of pain. :)
So... gulible!

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 11:48 am

I Prefer Women to Men
But I'm fine with either one

And I can usually handle anything that a dom or domme desires to do to me, I have a high pain tolerance and I handle non painful tortures fairly well also. As a result of that I don't have any real limits that I have found yet

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Postby That-animeguy » Mon May 22, 2017 11:50 am

Don't be too sure on those, limits! ;) I'm a firm believer, we're all able to endure great pain but easily succumb towards..
Ah, aside my overall wise-bragging words, thanks for the answers anyway! :)
So... gulible!

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 5:07 pm

Your welcome
Feel free to ask more if you wish

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Postby GWolfman88 » Mon May 22, 2017 6:14 pm

BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:
BondageMom55 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:I met a Bondage mother before, she wasn't too.. shy herself, and involved her children into the games with little bother.
I am curious therefor.. did you OR have you, involved them? Personally I have mixed thoughts with it, but it doesn't hurt being curious.
Knowledge is power after all.

So to ask, have you involved bondage with either of your children?
And if they are aware of your interests, how did they respond?

Yes indeed I have involved my children in my bondage interests, but I did not force it upon them, I am always 100% honest with my kids because they are all that I have, they have always known about my interest on BDSM and they know about my past experiences in the BDSM lifestyle, but I did not involve them in any of it until they expressed an interest themselves, which happened about 4 years ago and I have been doing occasional light to moderate bondage play with them ever since


I feel the expression Family bonding, must mean alot than! :wink:
Ah puns aside..

Now forgive me for being the guy asking that question.. but I feel someone is bound to do so later.
And how do I ask it proper without making it seem confusing.. or odd.

Let's fire a shot shall I, I'll take the bullet if I miss.
Involving them into bondage, imo, is a gamble, said it before and would repeat it also. :)
But since you're so honest and open, I feel you'll easily understand that.
So the question: Involving them into a session, afterwards, isn't it awkward.. considering they were tied by their mother, to say?
And this isn't a stick-in-the-butt question, no worries there! :) Someone would ask it at some point, I prefer to be the one than.


We aren't an awkward family, we are very open about these things and I only involve them in bondage when they want me to, so afterwards I've never felt that it was awkward

Do your kids ever get to tie you up?

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Mon May 22, 2017 7:50 pm

Yes
But it happens very rarely

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Postby shoxlover » Mon May 22, 2017 9:27 pm

I have a couple. What's your favorite type of gag? What's the most unique gag you've ever had/given?

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Postby nat101 » Tue May 23, 2017 1:30 am

Since you involve your kids too, what bondage play do you do with them? How do you tie them, etc.?

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Tue May 23, 2017 11:46 am

shoxlover wrote:I have a couple. What's your favorite type of gag? What's the most unique gag you've ever had/given?

I'm so glad you asked
I love gags!!
They are one of my main fetishes and watching people be gagged is what got me interested on bdsm
My favorite gag depends on my mood and on the kind of Bondage that I am doing

Light Bondage= Ball Gag
Extreme Bondage= Panel gags or Inflatable gags

As for the most unique gag I've ever had, I would have to go with a humiliator Gag

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Postby Mask6184 » Tue May 23, 2017 11:48 am

What are your rules and limits for tying up and being tied up?

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Tue May 23, 2017 11:58 am

nat101 wrote:Since you involve your kids too, what bondage play do you do with them? How do you tie them, etc.?

When they were younger it was very basic bondage, just tape or scarves tied around their wrists and ankles, occasionally I would add a hogtie and a gag.

But now that they are older we do some heavier, tighter bondage and I've introduced them into some aspects of bdsm as well, they are hormonal teenagers and so they often enjoy some sexual teasing, I always use vibes, toys or crotch ropes for that sort of thing and I try not to get physically involved in it. Some may see me as weird for involving my children in my kinks but I assure you that they developed their own interest in it and they have each developed their own personal fetishes, I only involve them when they specifically ask me to do so. I find it wonderful that I get to watch them blossom into adulthood and see them develop their own fetish interests

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Tue May 23, 2017 12:00 pm

Mask6184 wrote:What are your rules and limits for tying up and being tied up?

Well when I am Submissive I do not have any limits that I have discovered yet in my 20 years of BDSM, and as a sub I follow whatever rules my Dom or Domme sets for me

When I am the Domme however, I always stay inside the limits of my submissive, and I set rules for the session depending on their kinks and limits

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Postby nat101 » Tue May 23, 2017 12:01 pm

BondageMom55 wrote:
nat101 wrote:Since you involve your kids too, what bondage play do you do with them? How do you tie them, etc.?

When they were younger it was very basic bondage, just tape or scarves tied around their wrists and ankles, occasionally I would add a hogtie and a gag.

But now that they are older we do some heavier, tighter bondage and I've introduced them into some aspects of bdsm as well, they are hormonal teenagers and so they often enjoy some sexual teasing, I always use vibes, toys or crotch ropes for that sort of thing and I try not to get physically involved in it. Some may see me as weird for involving my children in my kinks but I assure you that they developed their own interest in it and they have each developed their own personal fetishes, I only involve them when they specifically ask me to do so. I find it wonderful that I get to watch them blossom into adulthood and see them develop their own fetish interests


More involved than I was expecting, sounds interesting for sure. How do they feel about the sexual teasing?

And how do they tie you on the rare occasion you're tied?

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Tue May 23, 2017 12:08 pm

nat101 wrote:
BondageMom55 wrote:
nat101 wrote:Since you involve your kids too, what bondage play do you do with them? How do you tie them, etc.?

When they were younger it was very basic bondage, just tape or scarves tied around their wrists and ankles, occasionally I would add a hogtie and a gag.

But now that they are older we do some heavier, tighter bondage and I've introduced them into some aspects of bdsm as well, they are hormonal teenagers and so they often enjoy some sexual teasing, I always use vibes, toys or crotch ropes for that sort of thing and I try not to get physically involved in it. Some may see me as weird for involving my children in my kinks but I assure you that they developed their own interest in it and they have each developed their own personal fetishes, I only involve them when they specifically ask me to do so. I find it wonderful that I get to watch them blossom into adulthood and see them develop their own fetish interests


More involved than I was expecting, sounds interesting for sure. How do they feel about the sexual teasing?

And how do they tie you on the rare occasion you're tied?


I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea here, I do not physically do anything sexual with my children. But from time to time they will admit to me that they are turned on and in need of some release, we are a family that is very honest and open with each other so it's no surprise that they feel comfortable telling me such things.
When they do require some sexual attention I simply use vibrators or other toys to aid them with their problem. And they are typically very grateful for it

As for the other question, in the rare times in which I allow them to tie me, I let them practice whatever bondage they desire on me, and over the years they have grown rather good at it, it is actually difficult for me to escape from them these days

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Postby nat101 » Tue May 23, 2017 12:13 pm

Don't worry, not taking it the wrong way, I was just wondering about the vibrators and such.

What positions do you tie them in?
And how do they tie you that's difficult to escape?

And to get the subject away from your children, What was your most memorable bondage experience?

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Postby Vivi's Slavegirl » Tue May 23, 2017 12:23 pm

nat101 wrote:Don't worry, not taking it the wrong way, I was just wondering about the vibrators and such.

What positions do you tie them in?
And how do they tie you that's difficult to escape?

And to get the subject away from your children, What was your most memorable bondage experience?

As I mentioned before, at first when they were young it was the most basic of ties that I would place them in, but now I often find myself placing them in tight hogties, frogties, strappado positions, spread eagle in their bedrooms, and occasionally even suspended from the ceiling.

When they tie me they use to only know how to do a hogtie, and it was always sloppy and loose, I could have escaped at anytime but I played along so that I didn't hurt their feelings. And now that they are older and have a better understanding of bondage, they do to me pretty much all the same positions I have done to them, the hardest one to get out of is when they place me into a suspended Hogtie

As for my most memorable bondage experience, I'll have to write that as a full post here one of these days because it is a very very long story

Re: BondageMom55 AMA

Postby Mask6184 » Tue May 23, 2017 12:29 pm

BondageMom55 wrote:
Mask6184 wrote:What are your rules and limits for tying up and being tied up?

Well when I am Submissive I do not have any limits that I have discovered yet in my 20 years of BDSM, and as a sub I follow whatever rules my Dom or Domme sets for me

When I am the Domme however, I always stay inside the limits of my submissive, and I set rules for the session depending on their kinks and limits


Going back to your question about limits. You mentioned that you limits as the sub is setup by the Dom. What about if your kids tied you up?