New member! About myself and some questions

Postby Christian » Sun May 05, 2013 6:21 am

Hi, I'm Christian. I'll be turning 21 next month. I've been interested in bondage and tie up games for at least 10 years. I dont remember when exactly my inital interest began but I was around eleven years old. Unfortunately my family's values and my upbringing means I have never been able to take part of the kinds of amazing experiences shared here and other places. At that young age, I would sneak online for pictures and videos and looks for scenes in books.

Then around when I was 14, my parents found out what I was looking up online and since then I've pursued this interest in secret. They're not accepting at all of this stuff and they have no idea how deep my interest really is. All they know is that was looking at videos and pictures. Not that I actually would want to be tied up

It's quite frustrating to read these experiences here and know that the way my friends are, my family is, I'll never be able to experience proper TUGs. It's gotten to the point that my dreams every night usually involve being tied up.

I do have a few true stories but they're mostly pseudo experiences at best. Once I was mummified in pallet wrap. Another I was "shrink wrapped" in a science class experiment about air pressure. But that's it. There are a few others.

As I get older, I feel like the time for these kinds of opportunities is long gone. I frequent this site, Brian's Page, Danger Theatre, and also enjoy perusing the stories on the old Canuck site. I write short stories in my spare time (thriller, action, sci fi usually) so I'll be glad to write fictional TUG stories for the community.

Seeing that this site is regularly updated, I'm very relieved to finally join a community who shares my interest. Has anyone else grown up in a similar scenario?

And does anyone have suggestions or thoughts on how I could expand my desire for TUGs beyond searching online without being labeled as a weirdo by my parents (again)?

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby NemesisPrime » Sun May 05, 2013 7:43 am

I feel you man. My parent's know I like to gag myself with duct tape (They caught me one too many times lol) and my dad thought it was werid and thought I was crazy and tried to take me to a therpist. MY mom was okay with it once I told her I wasn't blocking any pathways I use to breathe and while not exactly okay with it they are tolerant of it so I know where you're coming from man.

You're 20 years old right? How do you want to be tied up and with what?
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby Christian » Sun May 05, 2013 8:23 am

NemesisPrime wrote:I feel you man. My parent's know I like to gag myself with duct tape (They caught me one too many times lol) and my dad thought it was werid and thought I was crazy and tried to take me to a therpist. MY mom was okay with it once I told her I wasn't blocking any pathways I use to breathe and while not exactly okay with it they are tolerant of it so I know where you're coming from man.

You're 20 years old right? How do you want to be tied up and with what?

Yes, I'm 20, turning 21 in June.

Personally I'd like to be mummified. I've seen lot of videos and pictures over the years and something about encased like that is appealing. Seems much more secure and tight than any other method. In one of my few tie up situations, I was helping some friends move and we had pallet wrap left over and luckily I was the one they decided to wrap up

But yeah I would like be mummified with tape.

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby NemesisPrime » Sun May 05, 2013 12:16 pm

Well first since you're 20 and thus by law an adult you can do what you want but since you are probilly living with them for now I'd suggest sitting them down and explaining to them that you have kinks you wish to express in private but let them know that you take every precaution not to do anything stupid and can relase yourself fast in case of emergancy and if you plan to gag yourslef like I do tell them no major passageways will be blocked like the nose.

I prefer the direct method, I don't and pardon the term "pussyfoot" around the subject.

Well if you want to be mummiified you would have to find something like a bedpost and turn around and wrapping the tape further up on yourself until you reach the length you want but remember to have siccors or something nearby in case something goes wrong!
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby Jack Roper » Sun May 05, 2013 12:37 pm

Christian,

Welcome to the site. I've been on here for too many years now and can sympathize with your quandary. But since you will soon be 21 the bar scene offers some possibilities, especially in New York City. I guess it also depends on if you have a preference (male or female) doing the tying--or mummifying. If it's guys you are interested in then I suggest trying the gay site Recon out. Not everyone on there is out for sex either.

Re: mummification: I would suggest that you don't do it by yourself unless you have a strong desire to be found that way. Done right you won't be able to escape, even with scissors, most likely. And you don't want to start bleeding too. Very messy!

Play safe and have fun.

Jack

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby mikeybound » Wed May 08, 2013 7:01 pm

I understand what you're going through. Just last winter they took my tape. My tape! It's tough having authority figures who don't get it.

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby NemesisPrime » Wed May 08, 2013 8:00 pm

*hugs Mikey*

It's alright man. They'll understand someday.
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby Lake Lover » Thu May 09, 2013 8:54 am

Hi Christian! I think your likelihood of getting your parents blessing for your kinks is about as likely as the potential you will ever climb Mt. Everest. You are 21. If you are in college, there might be a bondage group there. Those clubs offer a great place for open chat about 'things' and maybe find a partner. You are 21. Any possibility of getting a place on your own?

Also,I just sent you a pm about an observation of one of the responses here.

Re: New member! About myself and some questions

Postby Christian » Thu May 09, 2013 1:03 pm

@Lake: Thanks, saw your PM. I'll do that. Just don't have time right now with finals and everything
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Would anyone else be willing to read my post in True TUGs? The majority of the few comments there are just responses to another comment. Was looking for feedback and thoughts on that story.
It's titled "My first experience - A pallet wrap cocoon"