I haven't had much experience being tied up in the past, except solo play. However, in February, I met my girlfriend. She was a little reluctant at first to tie me up because she's not overly dominant by nature. But as we got to know each other better, she has been willing to try it out, on the condition that I set up the ropes and make it easy for her.
One time, we talked about tying me up, so after a late dinner when it was time to get ready for bed, she told me to get the ropes ready. I put on some homemade cuffs that I made from belts I bought at a thrift store. I hooked ropes to the bed frame, and tied the clips to the ends of the ropes. With a little adjusting, I got the lengths right so that I could lay on my back in a spread eagle and just reach the clips at the corners.
I told her I was ready, and she told me to strip. When I was completely undressed, she asked me with a smile, "Are you ready for this honey?" I was nervous and excited. "Yes, I'm ready," I told her.
"Ok Babe, get on the bed on your back."
I lay down on my back, and spread my arms and legs, feeling very open. First she clipped my ankle cuffs to the ropes, taking her time, talking to me teasingly, but in a calm and comforting voice. She was in her bra and panties, so she was able to brush my skin with hers as she secured me to the bed. It was very pleasurable to get to experience being tied up by someone I love so much, and trust completely.
"Now for your wrists, Babe," she cooed gently. She slid up the bed and helped me stretch my right arm to the clip.
"Are you ready to be completely helpless?" I nodded and murmured, and she moved to my left wrist, sliding over my chest and letting me feel her delicious warm skin against mine.
She clipped my left wrist in, and I got that warm feeling wash over me, where my last limb is secure, and I can no longer get out of the tie-up without help, or hurting myself. "How does that feel? Too stretched, dear?"
"No, it's fine. It feels good. It's tight, but not too tight."
"How's the circulation? Are the cuffs cutting into your wrists or ankles? I don't want you getting damaged," she added with a smile and warm chuckle.
"No, the cuffs are tight, but not hurting me. I like it. Thanks for tying me up, Babe," I said.
"You're welcome," she said warmly, and she knelt in to plant an affectionate kiss on my mouth.