## Help!

Post by Amordaza » Thu Oct 13, 2011 4:24 am

The first thing I would recommend is talking with your boyfriend more to get a better idea of how he wants you to tie him up and what he wants you to do once you have him tied up. The direct approach would be to just sit down and ask him questions about it. A more romantic approach would be to integrate the conversation into your tie up game. For example, you could make the trip to the cabin a kidnap role play in which you tie his hands, blindfold him, and put him in the car; on the way to the cabin, he can ask if you're going to do certain things to him (those things being the things he'd like to do once there). As another example, you could tie him up at the cabin and begin to question him on what he likes. Get him to keep talking for awhile, and then at some point, mid-sentence, gag him and tell him that you've "heard enough." A third option is to play a game I call "Please don't:" you tie him up, and he begs you not to do things to him. The things he mentions, of course, are things he actually does want done to him, and you do those things.
Some ideas for what to do with him are:

- Once he is tied up, slowly kiss him anywhere you want for as long as you want. Do whatever you normally do when you "make out," but try to make it take as long as you can.
- Alternatively, make him kiss you where you want him to for as long as you want.
- Make him speak quietly and call you "Mistress" or "Ma'am". Call him by some cute nickname.
- Tie him up and challenge him to escape. Provide a reward for success and/or a punishment for failure. For example, after tying him up, blindfold him and change into a sexy outfit. Then tell him he is permitted to see you in your outfit if he manages to escape.

I hope that gives you some ideas. You might want to check out a thread from last month in which I asked for ideas about what sort of intimate escapes I can do (http://www.tieupgames.net/viewtopic.php?f=47&t=11122). You and your boyfriend might like some of the ideas there (some of the other suggested ideas were...pretty wild).