ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby stretchedowl » Sun Jan 15, 2012 11:48 pm

My friend wants to be tied up, and she wants it secure but still fun.i was thinking A hogtie involved with a toetie maybe seeing as how she likes her toes sucked. . As far as gags it could only be a cleave with a stuffing at thia point. I need some ideas as far as gags and tying her up thanks :)

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby Fesselfan » Sun Jan 15, 2012 11:52 pm

You are registered here in July, and you still need ideas how to tie a willing victim up? Wow...

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Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby stretchedowl » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:05 am

Awh do you really mean that? Thanks so much

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby vantran » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:05 pm

stretchedowl wrote:My friend wants to be tied up, and she wants it secure but still fun.i was thinking A hogtie involved with a toetie maybe seeing as how she likes her toes sucked. . As far as gags it could only be a cleave with a stuffing at thia point. I need some ideas as far as gags and tying her up thanks :)


Use all her panties one by one as gags.

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby italianarg » Mon Jan 16, 2012 3:17 pm

How do all of you users find girls willing to be tied up? I can't find a single one and I have been trying for 4 years.

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby Tied heather » Mon Jan 16, 2012 3:22 pm

Wish someone would tie me up

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby Rainn » Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:07 pm

Tied heather wrote:Wish someone would tie me up


Same...

As for ideas, a hogtie is always a good idea, and maybe a crotch rope? It matters how well you know her though...

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby Kyle » Mon Jan 16, 2012 5:12 pm

If she's never done this before you should keep it fairly simple. Maybe just tie her hands and feet and perhaps her arms to her sides. If you do a hogtie don't make it too strict where her hands and feet are close to each other. If she decides she wants it she might ask for it and you can do it then. Otherwise it's probably best to save it for a later time. Use the same idea with gags. I'm not even sure I'd go with stuffing yet, although I have to admit I'm always a little wary about that anyway.

Of course, if she's already asked you for this, go ahead and try it.

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby markusthe1st » Tue Jan 17, 2012 9:22 am

I think Kyle really got it right, here. If she's never been tied up before, it's always best to start slow and work your way up. A few questions either before or once you begin might really help you sort things out - and help ensure you get to play again.

Things like - "So, have you ever been tied up before?" If she answers "Yes," you can find out how, ie., hands behind, tied to the bed, chair, and so on. If she has, she'll be upfront about it, especially if she asked you to tie her. Following up with, "What did you like the most about it?" will give you more ideas as to what she likes. This is important, because if she likes it - and she will if you give her some of what she likes - you'll have fun too. You may find out that she's been grooming you for a while now, and a strict hogtie is exactly what she expects :quirk: - and you may also find out that her idea of getting tied up is really simple and playful.

If she answers, "No," to the question, you can still ask her what she likes about it - share with her what you like - and give her something in between. Here's the catch - don't give her verbatim, exactly what she wants. Give her most of it, but make it your version, otherwise the sense of surprise won't be there. Keeping a sense of surprise about it will keep it exciting - she'll be happily bound the way she likes, but wondering to herself, "What's he going to do next?"

With that all said, the best thing I've found for people that ask to be tied up is to be thorough. Tie them up so they can't escape, so they get the feeling of helplessness. Not too tight, but "safely' tight. And always apply the gag last so you can ask them how it feels.
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Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby stretchedowl » Tue Jan 17, 2012 2:23 pm

Me and her are very very close, so Shes comfortable with me. She wants it to be secure and stuff. I kinda want to take her just a little farther than she's used to.

Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby LastOfTheAmericanGirls » Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:34 pm

I'd say blindfold her before you start tying her up, as long as you make sure she's okay with it. That'll definitely heighten the experience for her.
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Re: ideas needed to tie a girl up

Postby Elusive_lady » Fri Jan 20, 2012 6:08 am

To stretchedowl, I really can't add much more to what has already been said--start slow, and probably do a hogtie first. They *are*about as secure as you can get. Here's a tip--don't attach the bound ankles to the bound wrists...thie them to the bound shoulders, or rope around the waist. Otherwise, you could put too much pressure on the wrists, and that won't be a fun experience for her (remember, it's not all about you, it's about her, too).
For those wondering why they can't find a girl to tie up, don't look so hard. Establish a friendship or romance first. If you can do that, and establish trust, you'll be surprised at how receptive we are to TUGS and bondage. Bringing this up right after we first meet doesn't do that.