To play publically

Postby lockedup » Thu Aug 14, 2014 7:58 pm

i think i'd call the police if i saw someone tied up in a car... i would feel really embarrassed to do any tugs publically, i wouldn't get any thrill from seeing peoples reactions. i guess this is cause i'm shy. the only reactions i can see are negative, either 1: laugh, 2: think/know i'm into bondage, 3: think i'm being kidnapped.

i'd prefer tied at home with others, as long as the others were my friends :).
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: To play publically

Postby Tieup1 » Fri Aug 15, 2014 9:04 am

Kimmi wrote:As I sat in the back of a car taped up and gagged this week it made me wonder what others thought that may have seen me. I found it embarrassing at first but then I figured who cares. It also brought out a question:

Would you prefer to be tied at home alone, tied at home with others, road trip tied in a car seen by others, or in the boot (trunk) of the car alone and helpless?

This car thing is scary for me but I have to do it again. Honestly moving away from safety without being able to do anything made me laugh all sadistic like. Call me crazy but it made me struggle for all I was worth. (I am safe. It is all a game.)

Now back to my third vacation this summer.



I know I would not like to be seen in public, tied up, nor would I tie someone up in public.
It's a big step too far for me.

I much prefer my tugs to be played in private, behind closed doors, so to speak.

There again, hats off to you for giving it a go, if you enjoy it, go for it. 8)

You want to be careful though, one day, the cops might pull you over. :oops:

Re: To play publically

Postby Sealherlips » Fri Aug 15, 2014 10:35 am

Perhaps you could post a story of this event?

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Aug 15, 2014 9:21 pm

Not at all wise. Not even remotely!
Whoever ties you up like that is liable to be arrested and charged with a felony if you are ever seen and the incident is reported to the police. This is doubly the case if you are a minor and whoever leaves you in that situation is not (even if the actual age gap between you is relatively small). Declarations that it was all just a game will fall on deaf ears. I know this from experience.
Usually my cousins were very discreet about such things and tied me up only in places where privacy was guaranteed; such as at their home (when their mother was away) or mine (when my mother was away) or a mutual friend's house (ditto with their parental figures). The one time they failed to do the sensible thing, they picked an isolated spot in the dead of night all right, but it was in a public park and we were caught by a passing policeman. They were of legal age but I was not; even though they were only one and two years older than myself. Because they had pranked me by pulling my pants and shorts down and my buttocks were exposed, they were initially charged with attempted sodomy (a serious crime back in those days).
Luckily, as they were not caught actually making any sexual advances toward me nor with their own pants down, my own cooperation was needed for the case to go forward, which i most certainly did not give. They were finally charged with disturbing the peace, unlawful restraint or somesuch, and a few other things - all misdemeanors. Also luckily back in those days (when the Viet Nam war was just winding down and drafting still a reality) such minor charges were dropped when the offender declared an intention to enter the military (and was eligible to do so), as my cousins had both genuinely planned to do. So everything was dropped (they'd been looking at several months' jail time (suspended) and a year's probation, which might have sufficed to ruin their lives in those days) and even hushed up to an extent you'd never encounter these days.
Were it to happen now, they likely wouldn't be charged with sodomy but probably would be charged with attempted statutory rape, unlawful restraint, and God knows what else, and actually gone to jail for it. And I... the underaged 'victim'...would likely be required to spend months or even years in therapy to deal with the 'psychological trauma' I'd endured; which of course would've been entirely bogus. Stating i liked TuGs and revealing my TuGs history would likely have greatly aggravated the situation rather than helped, and only gotten more of my friends in trouble. So the outcome would have really stunk for me as well were this to have happened in 2014 instead of 1973.
Tugs are fun with the right people... but never ever take a risk by doing them where strangers can see you. If you are seen, there will be a lot worse involved than some embarrassing moments and a few awkward explanations!!!
Public tugs are NOT a good idea. Not ever!!!
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
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Re: To play publically

Postby drawscore » Fri Aug 15, 2014 10:05 pm

Damn! I had to look out the window to see if pigs were flying. I agree with Jason 100% on this one!

Drawscore

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Aug 15, 2014 10:08 pm

drawscore wrote:Damn! I had to look out the window to see if pigs were flying. I agree with Jason 100% on this one!

Drawscore

I suspect its because when it comes to plain common sense, we both agree.
We diverge mainly in our thoughts on politics, where - let's face it - common sense just doesn't apply at all!!! :lol:
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Aug 16, 2014 2:45 pm

Kimmi wrote:I call the trunk then!

Ok ok so I didn't think of any legal ramifications. Thus why I posted for opinions and sent a PM to a few people. Thanks everyone.

Monty Pythin said it best:
Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!!!
You have to see the episode to get the full flavor of that... but it's as funny as it is all too relevant these days.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: To play publically

Postby NemesisPrime » Sat Aug 16, 2014 3:58 pm

Jason Toddman wrote:
Kimmi wrote:I call the trunk then!

Ok ok so I didn't think of any legal ramifications. Thus why I posted for opinions and sent a PM to a few people. Thanks everyone.

Monty Pythin said it best:
Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!!!
You have to see the episode to get the full flavor of that... but it's as funny as it is all too relevant these days.

"Our chief weapon is surprise! Surprise and fear-fear and surprise our two weapons are fear and surprise! And ruthless efficiency! Our three weapons are fear and surprise, ruthless efficiency and an almost finical devotion to the pope alright four! Fear and surprise, ruthless efficiency, an almost finactial devotion to the pope and nice red uniforms oh dammit!"
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Aug 16, 2014 4:23 pm

NemesisPrime wrote:"Our chief weapon is surprise! Surprise and fear-fear and surprise our two weapons are fear and surprise! And ruthless efficiency! Our three weapons are fear and surprise, ruthless efficiency and an almost finical devotion to the pope alright four! Fear and surprise, ruthless efficiency, an almost finactial devotion to the pope and nice red uniforms oh dammit!"

Hmmm... yes, though this sort of distracts from the point I was trying to make. Namely, that many of our government and police agencies seem to be trying to emulate the bad old original these days.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: To play publically

Postby mistofoleese » Sat Aug 16, 2014 9:19 pm

OK MY TURN

I'm a pretty good example of this having done MANY public tugs in FULL view of POLICE thing of it is while I DO completely agree with BOTH JASON & DRAWSCORE My many public tugs not only brought smiles to ALL but sometimes laughter and cheers as well.
Thing is some were planned others were not yet there were all in full view of the eye,
Something like what Jason described oh hell yeah your looking at a mess o trouble . Regardless

What you need are the right kinda props mindset and LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION

BUT.. if you should GO to Gen CON which is going on over in Indy as I type this Dress up as The Shredder and have a girl with red hair bound and gagged clad in a yellow jumpsuit and white boots being drug around MMMMPPPPPHHING Her head off People will see that an say HEY APRIL O'NEIL has been kidnapped yet again

GO to any Renn faire you will see damsels being led around bound and gagged sometimes you will even see damsels outside of leather shops chained up in various leather things as models
OR take a look at the glorious boys in white as they march those pesky rebels around in cuffs AND a certain girl with an affinity for sticky bun hair do's and metal bikini's go to ANY Conventions you will see this.
If your lucky you might also get caught in Cat Woman's Whip or bopped on the head by Harlely Quinn
I was down at Dragon con a few years back (another fine con I HIGHLY RECOMMEND GOING TO ) an saw a VERY lovely young lady in a teeny bikini lay down and be sealed up in a vac table what really made this wild was once she was all sealed up in this she was put on this cart was was pushed around by a squad of storm troopers I forget which Garrison they were assigned to anyways they also had a Bobba Fett Walking along with them then stood this girl up behind Jabba when all the girls came in for the Slave Leia Shoot the girl stay like that for several hours she had a complete blast
Dont take my word for this see for yourself GO to a con GO to the rennfaire Have fun simple as that

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Re: To play publically

Postby hrrrumph » Sun Oct 26, 2014 4:18 pm

Kimmi wrote:As I sat in the back of a car taped up and gagged


Would you mind sharing? :D
BONDAGE WORN AS CLOTHING

Re: To play publically

Postby jsherwood » Mon Oct 27, 2014 12:33 pm

I played publically in university because the club was a bondage-themed society.

Re: To play publically

Postby Sissypussi » Fri Oct 31, 2014 7:59 am

I Love to be Publicly Tied Up Especially with Other SLaves!!

Re: To play publically

Postby mikeybound » Fri Nov 28, 2014 12:35 pm

So they could charge someone with unlawful restraint when literally no one involved actually has a problem with it? Just create their own victims so there's some "legitimate" reason to get worked up?
This is the kinda bullshit I had to deal with growing up, and that's just for having an interest in this. God knows what you went through, Toddman.

Re: To play publically

Postby gagfan867 » Fri Nov 28, 2014 12:38 pm

Honestly I would not be a big fan of others seeing be bound in public, I'd be far too worried about possible legal issues. I'd much rather be tied in the privacy of a home or if doing some sort of kidnapping role play in a trunk or the back of a van or something where no one is going to see and call the police in a panic or something.

Re: To play publically

Postby tiedupsweater » Tue Dec 09, 2014 4:29 pm

Just now seeing all this and I gotta say, you are the best at putting people in their place kimmi. Keep it up cheers

Re: To play publically

Postby tony2 » Wed Dec 10, 2014 12:35 am

If you decide to take your victim for "walkies" and you get stopped, the best way to deal with it at the time if for both of you to start laughing at your own situation (but not the cop of course). Don't act too serious or a red flag goes up.
I agree with the folks above that it is best not to go public with it.
Also I've been seeing a lot of "trunk (or boot for those that drive on the wrong side of the road - (grin)) " talk. One caution in passing: if there is a hole to the outside in the rear area, it can draw carbon monoxide from the exhaust. It is colorless and odorless so distinguish it from exhaust fumes.
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Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Dec 10, 2014 8:03 am

mikeybound wrote:God knows what you went through, Toddman.

I assume you mean the example i cited earlier in this post; gosh several months ago now! Yes, that was one of the very few times when being tied up was a traumatizing experience for me. In fact, all the (relatively few thank God) times Tugs was traumatizing rather than fun for me had one thing in common: being fotund out by someone else.
At eight year old my older brother left me tied to a tree too long and I was found by a sympathetic boy scout. I caught a cold; my brother caught hell.
Then there was experience with my for-once-reckless cousins and that cop.
Then when I was in the military I was caught in a relationship with a fellow airman by his roommate; should have done it in MY apartment (in a German town rather than on the base) where being caught by anyone was not a possibility. That caused us both to be discharged for homosexuality. Sadly, my partner was a small fellow and got picked on very badly; fortunately I was too big and strong and too willing to bash people who annoyed me to mess with safely and lived off the base besides.
Being found out publicly is a sure way to completely ruin an otherwise fun Tug, and can have consequences way disproportionate to the actual incident.
Never risk public humiliation if it is at all avoidable. It is NOT worth the hassle.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: To play publically

Postby truly_trussed » Wed Dec 10, 2014 4:28 pm

Jase,

Of course now the U.S. Military has repealed "don't ask, don't tell." A lot of good men and women were discharged for their sexual orientation, but not any more. I would assume the definition of sexual orientation includes kink. It's not always sexual, a lot of tuggers on the site at least keep it in their pants or skirt.

In your case, Jase do you think it would have been any different if it involved you and your play partner was an Air Force Woman? T.T. :tied: :gag:

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Dec 15, 2014 12:39 pm

truly_trussed wrote:Jase,
Of course now the U.S. Military has repealed "don't ask, don't tell." A lot of good men and women were discharged for their sexual orientation, but not any more. I would assume the definition of sexual orientation includes kink. It's not always sexual, a lot of tuggers on the site at least keep it in their pants or skirt.


Actually, I was before Don't Ask Don't Tell. People seem to have the idea it was a step backwards. It was not; it was an improvement over what was there before if anything. Before DADT, they could discharge you regardless on any evidence at all. A military court doesn't need the burden of proof a civilian one does. At the same time i got off easy, as homosexuality was actually a crime in many states and this could have gotten me prison time. I was glad to simply be discharged.

truly_trussed wrote:In your case, Jase do you think it would have been any different if it involved you and your play partner was an Air Force Woman? T.T. :tied: :gag:

Probably, provided she was of equal rank to me. I was a buck sergeant at the time, so might have gotten into some trouble if my partner had been a 'mere' airman. On the other hand, a woman of superior rank likely would have been the one who had gotten in trouble; at least if she was a commissioned officer. However, as dorms were gender segregated at the time, either of us being in the other's room in a dorm might have had its own consequences. So it's really hard to say. It likely would not have made things any worse, anyway; it'd have been hard to cry rape since *I* was the one who was tied up! Whether the tie-up itself would have played a role is something I can only guess myself.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: To play publically

Postby truly_trussed » Mon Dec 15, 2014 4:31 pm

Jason Toddman wrote: I was a buck sergeant at the time.


Sergeant Toddman, I could picture you hogtied and gagged on the bed in your dorm thrashing and bucking. :big:

T.T.

Re: To play publically

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Dec 15, 2014 5:05 pm

Yeah, I did some of that all right.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
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Re: To play publically

Postby ducttape1234 » Tue Dec 23, 2014 3:27 pm

I actually tried to get my friend to tie me up un her car but she backed out last minute lol id love to be tied up in the backseat or the boot of a car, or tiedup at home infront of others

Re: To play publically

Postby Bound » Tue Jan 06, 2015 3:16 am

I'd prefer the trunk of a car which is parked in the middle of a forest from 10 PM to 10 AM.

Re: To play publically

Postby MisterTheEdge » Mon Mar 09, 2015 7:52 am

I wouldn't mind playing in at a Burn. There are people that do that any way given the anything goes as long it's safe, sane, and consensual attitude.
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Re: To play publically

Postby abductionfan » Mon Mar 09, 2015 12:33 pm

To be tied and gagged where you can be seen publicly is dangerous for the ones who tie you and transport you that way. Fun it may be to you, but; when i tie anyone up, it is in a house, i have put them in a trunk out of sight for maybe a 10 minute ride to a family cabin we have. The consequences would not be good. I agree with the others who said in private is where it should be done.

Re: To play publically

Postby MisterTheEdge » Wed Mar 11, 2015 4:38 pm

Private public is the way to go for public TUGs really.
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Re: To play publically

Postby Bourne » Wed Mar 11, 2015 5:09 pm

I think the only way to be tied up publicly is as mistofoleese shows and says, if its part of a costume at a event your be fine, but if your into goth culture and have been to any events like that then you may see people sometimes tied up a little being led around by someone, but that may just be the UK not sure if it happens in the US
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Re: To play publically

Postby Soul_Rebel » Fri Mar 13, 2015 5:10 am

The costume context is one route, the other is to make it part of the normal clothing/attire the prisoner is wearing. A thick woolen scarf over the lower face to conceal gags, a series of extra seat belt to secure them (one of the only parts I enjoyed of 50shades). Be creative. And be careful, those other people who posted previously are right.
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