Play Party

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Jan 20, 2011 8:19 am

Have any of you ever been to a play party?
Was is it like?
Do I need to wear a condom?

I got invited to one for this upcoming Saturday and needs to know details if you have been to one. Give me as much information as you so I could be safe and get out with a great experience. It is in the San Antonio area and close to my campus which makes me extra excited.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Play Party

Postby Fesselfan » Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:37 am

All these are questions which could not be answered without further knowledge.
Being acivte in the bondage/SM community now for over 10 years, I have seen all kind of play parties.
You should take your questions to the one hosting the party.

Cheers

FF
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Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

Re: Play Party

Postby captain21z » Tue Feb 01, 2011 7:58 am

Ask the host(ess) about it. It helps that you know and trust at least a few of the people who will be there---especially the host.

If you're going into this "blind", you should take somebody with you. If not, let somebody know exactly where you're going, and check in when you arrive, at certain times thereafter, and when you leave. Have a codeword that appears to say things are okay, but in reality tells your friend that you're in trouble. If you don't call or use the distress codeword, your friend investigates, preferably with others.

Yeah, I know I sound unduly cautious, but I've heard of a few of these "parties" that turned out badly. Unless they're organized by somebody who's experienced and has a reputation for safety, you're taking a chance. Be safe, and be sure somebody has your back.