How do you guys feel about parents being involved in their children's TUG's?

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Thu Nov 24, 2016 7:28 am

This is a hypothetical, but perhaps someone who has kids can speak to this. Imagine for a moment that your child or children often take part in TUG's. Fairly simple idea, and one that I think we can all appreciate here. Now, the question is, do you get involved with them in their TUG's?

The concept seems fairly harmless, but as was discussed in a previous post it is often difficult for many people to separate bondage and their sexual feelings. And for some the aesthetics of the bondage itself is enough to trigger a response. Not necessarily the person who is being tied up. So this is where the whole thing sort of enters grey area, at least for me anyway. What if your kids ask you to tie them up and while you are obliging them your mind goes to that place? Do you just immediately shut the whole thing down and never involve yourself again? Or do you just brush it off knowing full well that it is only a physiological response?

I've said this before, but on the off chance that my hypothetical kids ever start engaging in TUGs I'd probably just stay out of it myself. I also wouldn't say anything about my affinity for them simply because I think it's weird for kids to know their parents fetishes. What do you guys think about this?
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Postby MisterBones » Thu Nov 24, 2016 8:01 am

I feel like if the child isn't the one feeling the response of arousal, it's okay. Humans can be rational, parents won't become sex maniacs just because they taped their kid up as part of some game. There's a time for games and a time for sex, and I think people can separate those two.
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Postby Naughty boy » Thu Nov 24, 2016 8:48 am

I think the game is in the mind of the beholder (so to speak.) A child mist likely associate being tied to games of cowboys and Indians or cops and robbers. All innocent fun.

An adult may have taken the same feelings and turned it into a game for themselves between partners of their own age.

I think the feeling is there for both ages....but its participant's perception is what matters.

On a personal level I don't see the harm in parent/child games as long as no lines get crossed. Once it gets weird then all bets are off.

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Postby spandexm » Thu Nov 24, 2016 9:12 am

A grandmother of a close friend of mine twice participated in our games. Both times she put up her hands and allowed us to tie her hands behind her back, ankles together and even gag her with a bandana. She was a very attractive lady too.
Neither game went very long, but she was a good sport.

Re: How do you guys feel about parents being involved in their children's TUG's?

Postby drawscore » Thu Nov 24, 2016 3:09 pm

I can see "adult supervision" to ensure safety, but I have some qualms about adults actually involving themselves in TUG's with kids.

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Postby Fesselfan » Thu Nov 24, 2016 11:51 pm

I feel the same as drawscore. Kids should explore this by themselves.

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Re: How do you guys feel about parents being involved in their children's TUG's?

Postby Lake Lover » Fri Nov 25, 2016 3:41 am

The first time I played tie up with my friend, 'Billy' , I tied his arms to a wicker chair on our porch. We were both probably about eight years old. Billy's mom was visiting my mother in our house. When Mom came out on the porch to get something, she saw what I had done, and called to Billy's mom. I remember they laughed at the sight, and Mom showed us to be careful not to tie the strings which I was using too tight, because it would hurt my friend. Our parents dismissed it as kids playing, which it was, and they never got further involved. We never felt sneaky about playing cowboys and indians, which we engaged in many times.

As Drawscore wrote: "I have some qualms about adults actually involving themselves in TUG's with kids". I would be very squeamish about parental involvement with their children in their teens.

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Postby freyjaceleste862 » Fri Nov 25, 2016 5:24 am

My four sisters and I would never want our parents to be involved in our TUGs.
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Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Nov 25, 2016 9:27 am

Like Drawscore said, I wouldn't want to be directly involved in TUGs between minors - whether my own kids or anyone elses. However, I would not object to showing them safety tips, how to tie someone more securely but also more safely, and quietly observing to make sure no one was being hurt or coerced (and even then only if they wanted). The same way i'd like to observe them learning how to ride a bike until i was sure they were good enough at it not to hurt themselves or someone else - precisely for that reason. Also, it's fun in itself watching kids having fun, regardless of what kind of fun that might be. I find nothing sexual about that. To me its the same as watching kids play or run around with their pets.
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Postby KingMush » Fri Dec 02, 2016 4:32 am

I think it depend really. To each their own thing at the age appropriate levels.
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Postby grinandbareit » Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:10 am

Very gray area. I've been walked in on by my parents a few time but they never joined me and I wouldn't want them too. Little kids playing cops and robber with mom or dad is one thing, but to me playing for the thrill of being tied up sexual or not is a hard no. After the very early ages somethings should be done with peers.

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Postby Zero » Tue Jan 03, 2017 7:27 am

really interesting topic! I want to think a little before to write an opinion!
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Re: How do you guys feel about parents being involved in their children's TUG's?

Postby ravish » Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:09 pm

I think that if a parent realises that they are going on, they should try to ensure everything is played safely.

Other than that, no. We know that even if bondage isn't inherently sexual, it's very often connected to those impulses and fetishes are developed at an early age. Obviously I'd not have any issue with any of my potential children having a bondage fetish eventually, but I would not want to risk being the cause of something so sexual developing in them. I'd not even want to know about it.

Personally anything that has adults tying children or vice versa is an iffy fantasy to me, but I understand and don't mind that it's not so to others. However, in a real life situation, a grown-up is always going to be in a position of influence/authority over children to some degree and to abuse that, intentionally or not, in any way is despicable.

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Postby Jay Feely » Wed Jan 04, 2017 6:25 pm

No I would not.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

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Postby Sealherlips » Fri Jan 06, 2017 11:25 pm

Mom on daughter is sexy.