How to Find a Tug Budy

Postby SecretAgent » Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:21 pm

Hi--as far as finding a close friend who is into it (or is interested to try), I have always found that this only happens naturally. No way to force it or push it. As far as more casual tie-up buddies... there are always forums like this, or personals (like bondage.com). Depending on what you are after, you may be able to find a "fantasy escort" to play with you... some escorts are quite familiar with tie-up fetishes! Over the years, I have tied up several lady friends and also several escorts. Different experiences, so all depends what you're after I guess.
Jeff

Re: How to Find a Tug Budy

Postby josh » Tue Oct 05, 2010 9:13 pm

there are other posts about this. Leave something that is related to bondage, like rope or handcufffs and leave them in plain sight when that friend comes over. When he or she see's it. they will make a comment on it, when they do that, its your chance, make a comment back like..
"i bet you could get out of those" for handcuffs
or antagonize them about their ability to make knots and then prepose a dare of challenge them to try it out.
thats what i've read from others and would believe would work.

the other thing i'llmention bcuz it never hurts to know, is to grab them with their hands behind their back and see how much they struggle, if they strugle alot, they might not like being tied and held captive, if they dont struggle, they may have been held captive before and would be comfertable with being tied. this 2nd options isnt as sturdy of an idea so i'd try the first one first if i was you.

Hope this helps.