Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Fri Jan 29, 2016 3:48 pm

Title says it all. Assuming that bondage was entirely off the table, could you still pursue a relationship with somebody, or is it such a big part of your life that you don't think you could move forward without it?
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby spd138 » Fri Jan 29, 2016 7:06 pm

Yes you can't go into a long term think and give up something important to you.

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby fratboydanny » Fri Jan 29, 2016 7:11 pm

spd138 wrote:Yes you can't go into a long term think and give up something important to you.


I completely agree.

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby BranBTAT » Fri Jan 29, 2016 7:15 pm

Take it off the table and move it to the bed ;)
I agree though, TUGs are a big part of who I am and my life. I'd need to be with someone who understood that and not make me change.

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby Mmph Squad » Sat Jan 30, 2016 6:36 am

I'd like to believe that even someone who has had bad experiences before could come around to "putting up with my eccentric behaviors" after the passage of time together. "There is always hope." - Aragon
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby Jay Feely » Sat Jan 30, 2016 7:57 pm

Compromise. Maybe your partner can try it with you one time despite not liking it.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Is no bondage in a relationship a deal breaker for you?

Postby Driverman » Sun Jan 31, 2016 12:14 am

If the relationship is strong enough I could go without it. It's a part of who I am but it doesn't dictate to me the choices I make in life. I would much prefer it be a part of a relationship but if I liked the girl enough, i.e. was in love with her and that was the only thing that was a negative about her, I could look past it.