inexperienced wrote:Sorry, no, it just means that even if she's into it, she might not be willing to admit it to me or maybe even to herself.
Yeah?
So what? What's
that got to do with
anything? Is this about her or about you getting tied up?
Just because she's not specifically into it doesn't mean she won't do it. Haven't you done her or someone else favors involving something you find neither pleasant nor unpleasant? Maybe she will do it just because you asked. She might even find it amusing whether she's into it or not. Most younger siblings i ever met usually would consider the idea of tying their older sibling rather funny... especially if they knew there would be no payback later.
I'm just saying to play it like you're asking her for a favor and that you trust her. Maybe offer return favors involving something you know she would like (like drive her to the mall or somewhere if you have a car and she does not).
Even if she's not into tying you up for it's own sake, flattery about trusting
her with such a request (especially if it's sincere) might get you what you want assuming she's not downright negative about it. It's not you want to tie
her up. Even if she's not into it specifically, she might treat it little differently than a request to darn your sock or fix you a sandwich (don't mean to sound Chauvinistic; i just want you to get the idea). And besides, what better way to find out if she's into it or not?
Just be sure you
can trust her with a secret before you do this, of course.
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