No I don't mean outdoor bondage.
Does anyone have any experience with being married, yet your spouse isn't into bondage so you engage in TUGs with another person? I've discussed this with one member here via pm, and I saw a post from somebody else recently who I meant to pm, but forget who it was.
So this thread is for that person and anyone else in this sticky situation. If you dont want to openly share your thoughts/experiences here feel free to pm me. I'll listen to all opinions, but those who are unmarried I may take with a grain or two of salt.