How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Obedience » Mon Aug 29, 2011 1:33 pm

I posted this because I am tired of self bondage and want to tell one of my fiends that I like to be bound and gagged. I know it sounds a bit stupid but I don't want him to think that I am weird. Pleat help! :gag:

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Zookar » Mon Aug 29, 2011 1:49 pm

Honestly, I have thought about saying it to my friends too, but never dared talk of it, fearing to be rejected. I remember once asking : Does anyone know what TUGs are? And then finding some lame excuses, not sure if it's a good idea too, but, if you ever tell them and they accept you, it means they're good friends. Like, if they say they understand, but don't want to participate in that, they're good friends, if they just dump you, they weren't very loyal.. That's my point of view

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Obedience » Tue Aug 30, 2011 12:20 am

Thank for the advice! :)

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby fahrenkopf » Tue Aug 30, 2011 12:14 pm

It's hard to do. I myself would only tell one person that I am completely sure wouldn't walk away, someone who's been there through thick and thin. See how that one of your best friends reacts before asking him to join in or telling anyone else. I doubt that your best friend is going to turn on you because of something like this.

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby fabolous1024 » Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:25 pm

Zookar wrote:Honestly, I have thought about saying it to my friends too, but never dared talk of it, fearing to be rejected. I remember once asking : Does anyone know what TUGs are? And then finding some lame excuses, not sure if it's a good idea too, but, if you ever tell them and they accept you, it means they're good friends. Like, if they say they understand, but don't want to participate in that, they're good friends, if they just dump you, they weren't very loyal.. That's my point of view


Wait this is a bit odd. The term "TUGs = tie up games" is a term I've only ever heard on this forum in this context. What if TUGs meant... "trick urine games" to someone else (i don't know, give me a break) and thought you were down to find new ways to urinate on 3 different walls simultaneously by bouncing it off them.

As for the OP, I think honestly the best way is to not flat out tell someone. Maybe be with a friend watching a strategically shown video with a tie up scene and say something off the cuff like "geez, my older brother would tie me up like that when I was a kid! it was actually pretty funny". Something that, if the person would react positively to TUGs might respond to positively whereas if they would respond negatively to TUGs, it's not enough so that they go "EW YOURE A FREAK!!!". Even if they did you could be like ".... it was 10 years ago, what the hell is your problem?" and the other person would seem like the weirdo in that case.

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Zookar » Wed Aug 31, 2011 2:51 am

Hahaha, trick urine games! Nah I didn't ask it like this, I don't remember what I exactly said but it was in french anyway

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby mcsproot » Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:56 am

Or y'know, TUGs could be a tug boat, a vessel which assists larger ships in berthing at harbour.

I told my best friend I like bondage. He thought it was wierd but he was cool with it. He didn't offer to tie me up or anything.
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Billy Shears » Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:18 pm

[ I re-read the author's post and see now how it's meant for doing it now "TUGers."

[ I haven't lucked out yet so the comments I'm about to make regard : how a woman hasn't SHUT me up and how I haven't gagged myself. Boor - ing! (Gir! Stop doing that and come over here!)

Now -

Do you know the stereotype of women ONLY never stop talking? The vertible "social butterfly?

That's me.

Once in a while women confide in me they wish they could shut up their husbands / boyfriends.

That piques my interest.

A routine "joke" I make to girls is that I'm talking "so much" it's "time to pull out the duct tape." No bites yet :(

If a girl should visit my place, she will be exposed to the colorful ways I VENT by praying, singing, sometimes cussing and mainly humming to myself like Bobby McFarren. She'll shut me up for sure. I hope.

A stick of sorts is taped to the shelves next to me for the purpose of running RJ-15 phone line over head. You know, keep from tripping on it.

I used MUCH duct tape to lock it there.

Seeing that a one time a girlfriend said "you really like tape." I failed to follow the hint! Damn! That was a chance!

I can always play Demons From Her Past on my PVR, a 15 minute sequence gagged glory of Alexandra Paul mmmphing for her life casually telling her, I CAN GET OUT OF THAT! and pray she'll answer : OH YEAH ?

First I need a visitor. And a kinky one.
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby pinochio892000 » Sat Sep 03, 2011 9:19 pm

I read this somewhere on this forum... and also read some solutions, so i re-write them here for your preference

- Ask him/her watch a movie including a tie-up or kidnapping scene. When that scene appears on the screen, u may give a bet or grin such as "This' s nonsense, I can escape only in 30s" or "If I was him/here, the victim wouldn't have a chance to escape" etc... And if he/she like TUGs or curious about how it feels when being tied up, they maybe accept the bet

- In case you got some gears (rope, handcuff, duct-tape, etc), try to place them on somewhere easy to get in sight... I used to use this way to lure my friend. When he sees the handcuff and asks what it is for, just say "use to lock my bike" =]]... Then he will offer you to let him try on his hands if he's curious... after cuffed his hand in front of... he's willing to try to cuff behind his back... at the moment, u may ask if he wanna play a kidnapping scenario... if yes, you've got him... if no, try your luck on another friend

- Play a game group like "cops n robbers", "hide n seek", etc and try to set the rule something like "the loser get tied up" and have fun :D

Cheer

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Billy Shears » Mon Sep 05, 2011 8:47 am

I appreciate your advice, thanks. :) What I like best in your suggestions is to leave hints in clear sight. As for movies why don't I PVR them and have them pre-forwarded to the best part.
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Billy Shears » Mon Sep 05, 2011 8:47 am

I appreciate your advice, thanks. :) What I like best in your suggestions is to leave hints in clear sight. As for movies why don't I PVR them and have them pre-forwarded to the best part.
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby fabolous1024 » Mon Sep 05, 2011 4:15 pm

I think we definitely need a list of movies (and whether or not they're good! :P) with tie up scenes in them. I've always wanted to try the 'watch a movie with someone tied up in it' thing but I don't really know any movies like that off the top of my head. Plus, on this list, it would be nice to know the position they were in. Say you like hogties and wanna try to convince someone to hogtie you, a movie could have a listing "Girl gets hogtied for 10 minutes" or whatever.

I've actually tried the 'leaving stuff around' idea. Unfortunately my tv is in the same room where I work on computers/electronics/other stuff and any rope or duct tape in there looks 100% like it's for construction or fixing things and doesn't hint at maybe a 2nd use ;). Personally i wouldn't do the handcuffs thing because I think that's toooo obvious of a hint.

I really would love to hear about some movies, however! Please share everyone! And newer movies are better because I think people you're watching them with would be more inclined to watch a more recent movie than a 1920s movie :P

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby sarwrductan » Sun Nov 27, 2011 8:16 am

mcsproot wrote:Or y'know, TUGs could be a tug boat, a vessel which assists larger ships in berthing at harbour.

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"Tugs could be a tugboat, a vessel which helps ships in berthing or into harbor....Like the one tie up gamer helps another into landing laying or a limited space ...LOL..a tugger and "boat"...is a "craft" or habit...that we tuggers may keep our heads above water (out-of-trouble) dry and free to explore the high seas (openess of our surroundings) society. And personally...When I owned handcuffs, leaving them lay out always got a curious person picking them up and asking, or locking them on themselves, or someone else in the room.....and some even wanted to "borrow" them to use on their girlfriends, or "get one on somebody" (the words used) I almost had to hide them so they wouldn't walk away when my back was turned....
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby AussieBoy » Mon Nov 28, 2011 6:02 pm

I have this same problem. Sometimes I've had guys I've liked and want them to tie me up, but I'm never sure how to ask them. The idea with a movie seems a good idea. Maybe we could compile a list of movies with (good) tie-up scenes. The only ones I really know of are Disturbia (Good Ol' Shia ^^) and Castle in the Sky. I know if a few anime series that involve one the characters getting tied up semi-often and/or early on.

With the last couple guys I tried the "leaving things in sight" method in my room. But to no avail. Two thought maybe I was in the scouts when they saw the ropes, the other thought the duct tape was for short-term repairs, etc (In his defence my school bag was being held together with the stuff at the time) and I don't have a pair of handcuffs.

Although since I tend to wear a bandanna, one guy blindfolded me and I (somewhat jokingly) said, "you wanna tie me up?" and he said "yeah" and he did. So thats a possible suggestion, try wearing something that implies bondage somewhat. bandanna, scarf or a chain could do it.

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby larossa » Wed Nov 30, 2011 5:31 am

ThE Gagged PrO wrote:I posted this because I am tired of self bondage and want to tell one of my fiends that I like to be bound and gagged. I know it sounds a bit stupid but I don't want him to think that I am weird. Pleat help! :gag:


Best thing is to create the occasion for a game.
Firt you need a place-environment to meet other people of your age preferably with a bit of adventurous inclination.
How old are you? Depending on the age group you may join the Scout or a Church youth groop (a good idea anyway). Then specialise in knot tying or lock picking. Ask for the help of others to prepare your "magics" part in the end-of-camp (or whatever occasion looks like) show.

If there is anybody inclined (I wish you were in my same Church Youth Group 8-) ) some interesting developments may ensue...

Hope this helps...

Laro

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby captonben » Wed Dec 07, 2011 12:02 pm

help i need advice

Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby Billy Shears » Fri Dec 09, 2011 11:46 am

" Depending on the age group you may join the Scout or a Church youth groop ...

I think Jesus donesn't mind we worship Him but like to be tied up.

Really everybody, STOP saying that SUPPOSEDLY snooty Christian over there can't worship Jesus and be carnal.
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Re: How to tell someone you like being tied up.

Postby captonben » Mon Dec 19, 2011 1:42 pm

Billy Shears wrote:" Depending on the age group you may join the Scout or a Church youth groop ...

I think Jesus donesn't mind we worship Him but like to be tied up.

Really everybody, STOP saying that SUPPOSEDLY snooty Christian over there can't worship Jesus and be carnal.


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