## Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by tapegaglover! » Tue Oct 05, 2010 6:14 am

For some people, bondage is sexual. For others, it's just for fun. Sometimes it's both. What I want to know, is what it is for each of you. So why do you like bondage?
I love a woman bound and gagged in tape.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Jason Toddman » Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:05 am

For me I guess it's been pretty obviously both, but the fun part is more important to me - especially since I became an adult.
As for why I like it, I suppose part of it for me is remembering how nice it was to have so many friends at one time; and I (usually) was the center of attention when I was tied up. Having been tied up on a regular basis as far back as I can remember, it just seems like a natural thing for me. I don't usually get that kind of attention in non-Tugs situations, so that's cvertainly one element of it. Also though, I like being helpless and controlled by those I consider my friends; I'm unsure why except that I have apparently always been that way... possibly a coping mechanism since, as I said, I'd been experiencing TUGs as far back as I can remember.
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### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Kyle » Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:16 am

It's interested me since I was fairly young. When I was younger it used to be about adventure for me. Someone would get captured or kidnapped by the bad guys and would get tied up and would have to escape or be rescued or face a terrible fate. It's evolved a lot from there but I still have that same basic enjoyment. Initially my thoughts were always about a hero rescuing a damsel in distress, but that got turned on its head for me once during a game where I was captured by some of my neighbors and the girl across the street ended up rescuing ME instead from the bindings they'd place me in. That, along with getting captured by them quite a bit (as I was the youngest kid in the cove for a few years) allowed me to think of myself getting tied up as well.
As I'm getting on up into my 20s now there is definitely a sexual aspect to it for me, though I still do have an enjoyment of bondage for the sake of adventure. I still like the idea of rescuing the damsel in distress, or trying to escape myself. So for me I guess it's a combination, though it's more for fun than anything.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by josh » Tue Oct 05, 2010 9:05 pm

I got to say its both for me. Tying a girl up so she's imobile and left available for me to do anything to her i want turns me on. Having any girl restrained infront of me is a turn on, knowing she cant do anything and helplessly sits there just for you to do as you please whether it be tickle torture, sexual taunts or a little whipping for fun. I dont know why i like bondage, i personally think it was just built into me. There never was any game i used to play at childhood or a movie scene i watched that gotme caught on to it. So i'm just genuinly odd and like it for no reasons other than its a sexual arrousal and fun game for me. and hopefully the other person.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Jay Feely » Wed Oct 06, 2010 11:19 am

To get the feeling of being disciplined for all the bad things I have done, and letting someone being in dominant control of me.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by james14 » Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:16 am

It is sexual in the main for me- when I was 9 I got my first wet dream and "hard on" over a bondage comic scene. I found women also liked bondage from the sexual and the helplessness feeling they got from being tied. My favourite is when a female is naked or in a corsellette type of clothing. But i have to say it took me a while to realise that females also got a kick out of bondage and were sexually stimulated by the feeling when tied. Whatismore I was suprised that those who I thought would abhore the idea were the ones wanting to be tied up and gagged etc.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by tapegaglover! » Thu Oct 07, 2010 8:48 am

> james14 wrote:It is sexual in the main for me- when I was 9 I got my first wet dream and "hard on" over a bondage comic scene. I found women also liked bondage from the sexual and the helplessness feeling they got from being tied. My favourite is when a female is naked or in a corsellette type of clothing. But i have to say it took me a while to realise that females also got a kick out of bondage and were sexually stimulated by the feeling when tied. Whatismore I was suprised that those who I thought would abhore the idea were the ones wanting to be tied up and gagged etc.

Until I looked it up online, I thought I was the only one who felt sexually about tying girls up, and had no idea that there was anything called bondage or that thousands of people do it.
I love a woman bound and gagged in tape.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by ropendope » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:00 am

I honestly dont know why i like bondage. I know that i love both the sexual, artsy, and playful sides of it though. Being in control of your lover turns me on a lot, i like being in charge. Some of the ties in pictures i see are amazing to look at and i think theyre beautiful and elegant. And i love tying someone up just to see if they can escape. Ive always been like this since i was little but i really dont know why. It just feels right.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Chase Ricks » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:01 am

I like it because it enables me to let loose the darker side of my imagination when doing stories or rp scenarios.
From whence I came and whence I went heaven said I was too evil and sent me to hell. Demons and devils succeeded in breaking my soul.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by ropendope » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:03 am

> tapegaglover! wrote:

> > james14 wrote:It is sexual in the main for me- when I was 9 I got my first wet dream and "hard on" over a bondage comic scene. I found women also liked bondage from the sexual and the helplessness feeling they got from being tied. My favourite is when a female is naked or in a corsellette type of clothing. But i have to say it took me a while to realise that females also got a kick out of bondage and were sexually stimulated by the feeling when tied. Whatismore I was suprised that those who I thought would abhore the idea were the ones wanting to be tied up and gagged etc.

> Until I looked it up online, I thought I was the only one who felt sexually about tying girls up, and had no idea that there was anything called bondage or that thousands of people do it.

Me too! I was online one night and i was just curious as to what "Tied up girl" would bring up and HOLY CRAP.... i couldnt believe my eyes. There was thousands and thousands of pics, vids, websites. I couldnt believe it. That was the first time i found out about the word bondage.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Kyle » Thu Oct 07, 2010 1:44 pm

> Derrville wrote:

> > tapegaglover! wrote:

> > > james14 wrote:It is sexual in the main for me- when I was 9 I got my first wet dream and "hard on" over a bondage comic scene. I found women also liked bondage from the sexual and the helplessness feeling they got from being tied. My favourite is when a female is naked or in a corsellette type of clothing. But i have to say it took me a while to realise that females also got a kick out of bondage and were sexually stimulated by the feeling when tied. Whatismore I was suprised that those who I thought would abhore the idea were the ones wanting to be tied up and gagged etc.

> > Until I looked it up online, I thought I was the only one who felt sexually about tying girls up, and had no idea that there was anything called bondage or that thousands of people do it.

> Me too! I was online one night and i was just curious as to what "Tied up girl" would bring up and HOLY CRAP.... i couldnt believe my eyes. There was thousands and thousands of pics, vids, websites. I couldnt believe it. That was the first time i found out about the word bondage.

These are very common feelings. Before I found it on the Internet I had an idea other people found it exciting but I used to think it was the rare and deprave individuals only. Now I know it's pretty common for people to have an interest in bondage to at least some degree.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Ohaithar » Sat Oct 30, 2010 3:21 pm

I'm not sure why I like it, I've liked it since god knows, before I was 5 at least, and I don't know why, possibly it's why I can't get away or I like it when I can do "whatever I like" to a girl, (Obviously I get permission to tie them up, I don't just go up to her and ambush her)
In the end I like it sexually and for fun, mostly for fun.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Carpediem104 » Fri Nov 05, 2010 2:58 pm

I've wondered what it us too. Just something sexy about a bound and gagged woman. I was counting today and realized I've must have tied up 15 to 20 girls 30 to 40 different times. Don't know how that compares but I'll start posting them a soon as the forum will let me.

### Re: Why Do You Like Bondage?

Post by Jason Toddman » Fri Nov 05, 2010 6:20 pm

> Carpediem104 wrote:I've wondered what it us too. Just something sexy about a bound and gagged woman. I was counting today and realized I've must have tied up 15 to 20 girls 30 to 40 different times. Don't know how that compares but I'll start posting them a soon as the forum will let me.

Now that your first post has appeared here, you can probably post that story right now.
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