love_2_b_tied_up wrote:ya but all of my friends think im crazy

and that its so weird

so i never get to do what i njoy

I think you'd be surprised actually, not everyone will think you're crazy and weird, trust me on this. And if they do, are they really a friend?
But I completely agree, solo/self tie ups are not the way to go. This is coming from a person who used to do it. It's NOT worth the risk.