How do most people perceive the idea of tying someone up, whether it be for a game or for different reasons?
When I bring up the topic of someone being tied up, they remark, "ooh, kinky." Then, I get too embarrased to say anymore because I know that at that point, they're not on the same wavelength as I am.
Many people that I believe WOULD have an interest are usually uncertain with the whole thing. Some people even perceive it as an act that only homosexuals would commit...
However, this board stands as a testament against that assumption. So, why is this? Why do most people now see TUGs as a bad, or, unaccepted act in today's society? I'm pretty sure that a few decades ago, people were more comfortable when a friend asked if they could tie them up (Again, board stories can verify this).
Today, it feels as if it's impossible to find fellow TUGgers who are just in it for the fun (well, mostly fun, they can have their fetishes if they want).
Well, any thoughts on this?