## How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by BondageWolf » Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:14 pm

Hi, I'm new to this forum (and to TUGs really) I'm a girl and I've never played a tug before, but I've always wanted to. I have this one friend, also a girl, and we always joke around about me kidnapping her and just little funny crazy stuff like that. She knows about my fondness of the idea of tying up other girls, but doesn't know that I secretly would like to play a tie up game with her. I really would like to ask her to participate in a kidnap senario, but I'm not sure if she would be freaked out or not if I ask her to. What should I do? How shoud I approach her about this?

### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by Nexus » Mon Oct 24, 2011 10:39 pm

Well, there's some variables here. Alot depends on just how close you are with this friend. Do you fully trust her? Very close with her? If so, I recommend talking to her about it. If she's the good friend you think she is, she should be comforting and understanding, even if she chooses not to engage in a TUG with you.

### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by fabolous1024 » Mon Oct 24, 2011 11:00 pm

Yup it depends on your friendship. I think a 'scenario' might be a little much. Maybe try to playfully jump on her and pin her to the grown and joke about tying her up and see how she reacts. Take it step by step

### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by BondageWolf » Tue Oct 25, 2011 8:57 am

We are very close and she already knows that i'm interested in these things but i'm just a bit nervous that things would be weird between us if I were to tell her that I would like for her to participate in a tug and ask her thoughts about it.
And in no way do i plan to just jump into a full on TUG, I'd just want to start off with some light bondage, maybe kind of a loose tie and see if she could free herself or something like that. I would never rush her into anything, especially seeing as both of us would be new to it.

### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by bookl0ver » Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:24 am

dude just ask her outright tell her and pray she'll understand
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### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by Nexus » Tue Oct 25, 2011 8:02 pm

Yep, by the sounds of it you should just ask her.
"So, you know how I'm into seeing people tied up and stuff? Well, I was wondering if...maybe..."
You say she knows about your kink, so things shouldn't get weird. If she says yes, great! If not, just don't push it on her and things should be fine. Good luck!

### Re: How should I ask a friend to participate in a TUG?

Post by BondageWolf » Tue Nov 01, 2011 6:01 pm

She said yes!!! After a Halloween party last night we went back to her house and talked and watched a movie and at some point our conversation ended up on the subject of bondage and I asked her what she thought about someone tying her up and and she said it sounded interesting and I asked if she would let me try it and play a TUG and she said we could play sometime, but due to our busy scheduals I don't know when that will be exactly. Anyway, my bff is the best. lol