First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby oZombiex5 » Mon Jan 04, 2016 3:37 pm

This is a story that happened a while back I think at least 2 years ago, I must of been 14 or 15 at time. My first story so please don't hate.

I like many others of you here liked to do self bondage. At this point though I had done nothing serious just put a t shirt around my hands in front or something like that. Today though I was feeling adventurous and looked out some zip ties I had lying around and thought I could tie myself to the bed.

I waited patiently for my family to leave which seemed like ages and wasted no time running to the kitchen to get a pair of scissors then back to my room to get the cable ties. I decided to stay fully clothed in case I was caught as family were only going out a few hours so was possibility of being discovered.

Then came the moment I had been waiting for. I took the first zip tie and tied my left leg to the bed and immediately got hard from this I however continued and then tied my right leg. I enjoyed this and stopped here for a bit to see if I'd managed to get my legs out and I couldn't making me more excited. Then came the start of being properly restrained with my hands next. I then tied my left hand to the bed post then took out the next zip tie. I stopped for a minute and thought to myself "when I put this next zip tie on I will be unable to move. Of course this is what I wanted I then after a bit of time managed to get it around my hand and then used my teeth to tighten it.

Well this is it. Me tied up spreadeagle to my bed a moment I'd long been waiting for. I tried to imagine Sarah Hyland (my celebrity crush) being there teasing me. I had never felt this horny before and the problem with self bondage is you can't really do anything about it so I had to sort of rub myself along the bed but this did absolutely nothing. Then all of a sudden it dawned on me.

"oh Crap" I said to myself I'd forgotten about scissors. I looked around to see them close to my foot but they of course were tied to the bed and I couldn't get to them. I immediately pictured my Mum coming in and seeing me like this wondering what had happened and me having to explain what had happened and my Mum was very closed off about this things and basically called anyone with a fetish a freak. Anyway I started panicking and pulling as hard as I could on all of my restraints and nothing was happening. I stopped for a minute managing to calm down and think on the matter logically.

I looked around Me and noticed my right foot was a bit loose and if I tried hard enough I could use it to get the scissors. I managed to do this. I then used my toe to get a hold of the scissors and placed them on top of my foot. I had a million in one shot to throw the scissors up to my hand but it was the only solution. Probably not the best of ideas by the way to throw scissors where they could land at your face. So anyway I flicked my foot and they landed close enough to my left hand that I could grab them, panic over.

I relaxed for a few minutes more then cut myself free. I then did what teenage boys are always stereotyped as doing and then approximately half an hour later the family arrived home.

Thanks for reading. It may not be that exciting since I was fully clothed, not gagged or blindfolded but hey ho it was my first more hardcore bondage experience. Reflecting on it now if I hadn't been so damn horny I would of had a straight mind and remembered the damn scissors. If anyone takes anything at all about this please let it be to not let erotic feelings mess with your mind. Throwing scissors at my face is something no one has ever recommended to me and that is for good reason. That is all I really have to say and please comment on it so I can get your thoughts please bear in mind English is not my strongest of subjects. I have another story which I think would be better so may share that with you all soon.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby Kauron » Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:07 pm

Enligsh isn't my native language but I thought yours was perfectly fine. I liked the story, If you went into even a bit more detail of each thing that happens I think it would be even better.

This is I think what happens to most people on their first attemp at being completly restrained in selfbondage. I've never posted my first experience but it went down a lot like yours. Zips ties are great for selfbondage when it comes to getting the tying done but if you forget something to cut them with they can be impossible to get out off. Luckily you didn't completely forget the scissors.

I enjoyed your story, looking forward to your next one.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Mon Jan 04, 2016 8:18 pm

oZombiex5 wrote:Reflecting on it now if I hadn't been so damn horny I would of had a straight mind and remembered the damn scissors. If anyone takes anything at all about this please let it be to not let erotic feelings mess with your mind.

Yeah, there's an old saying that men have two heads, but only enough blood to use one at a time. Horniness can be your downfall, especially when you're a teenager.
On another note, those are some seriously impressive foot throwing skills. :)
I wonder how they would have reacted if they had found you. I came relly close to getting caught myself once, and I often think back to what that conversation would have been like. :shock:
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby oZombiex5 » Tue Jan 05, 2016 12:38 am

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:
oZombiex5 wrote:Reflecting on it now if I hadn't been so damn horny I would of had a straight mind and remembered the damn scissors. If anyone takes anything at all about this please let it be to not let erotic feelings mess with your mind.

Yeah, there's an old saying that men have two heads, but only enough blood to use one at a time. Horniness can be your downfall, especially when you're a teenager.
On another note, those are some seriously impressive foot throwing skills. :)
I wonder how they would have reacted if they had found you. I came relly close to getting caught myself once, and I often think back to what that conversation would have been like. :shock:


I think I got lucky with my foot throwing there. I'm normally butter fingers :(. I often wonder as well what it would like being caught. To say the least it would be awkward and as I said in story my Mum calls anyone like that a freak so I'm pretty sure it would go down badly. That's one of the reasons I don't do self bondage anymore but I'm thinking of starting again.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby drawscore » Tue Jan 05, 2016 5:08 pm

Interesting observations. I knew there were some people that got "turned on" by tying up someone, or being tied up. When I was young, I just thought it was something fun to do with my friends. Maybe some of them DID get turned on by the games we played, but if they did, there were no obvious manifestations of it.

There was one kid that frequently asked us to tie him up, presumably so he could show off his ability to escape. (which he was able to do 95% of the time) But what the hell did we know about such things at 12-13, other than the wild, and mostly BS, tales we heard from our friends in school?

As for self bondage, be careful. Remember Murphy's Law: "Anything that CAN go wrong, WILL go wrong, usually at the worst possible moment." And Murphy was an optimist.

If possible, play TUG's with friends. Danger and adventure, real or imagined, are always more fun when shared with friends. Plus, there's less of a chance of things going to hell in a handbasket.

Drawscore

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby oZombiex5 » Tue Jan 05, 2016 11:44 pm

drawscore wrote:Interesting observations. I knew there were some people that got "turned on" by tying up someone, or being tied up. When I was young, I just thought it was something fun to do with my friends. Maybe some of them DID get turned on by the games we played, but if they did, there were no obvious manifestations of it.

There was one kid that frequently asked us to tie him up, presumably so he could show off his ability to escape. (which he was able to do 95% of the time) But what the hell did we know about such things at 12-13, other than the wild, and mostly BS, tales we heard from our friends in school?

As for self bondage, be careful. Remember Murphy's Law: "Anything that CAN go wrong, WILL go wrong, usually at the worst possible moment." And Murphy was an optimist.

If possible, play TUG's with friends. Danger and adventure, real or imagined, are always more fun when shared with friends. Plus, there's less of a chance of things going to hell in a handbasket.

Drawscore


The only way I could do a TUG is in self bondage or if I did it with someone it would have to be a girlfriend because for me it's something too intimate to do with friends.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby drawscore » Wed Jan 06, 2016 12:23 am

The only way I could do a TUG is in self bondage or if I did it with someone it would have to be a girlfriend because for me it's something too intimate to do with friends.


Well, you talk about it here, so is intimacy that much of a factor, or are you just shy about it out in the real world?

If you found us here in cyberspace, then finding someone in the real world should be possible. It's just how you go about doing it without giving away too much of yourself and your feelings. You might be pleasantly surprised with who you find.

Drawscore

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby oZombiex5 » Wed Jan 06, 2016 5:54 am

drawscore wrote:
The only way I could do a TUG is in self bondage or if I did it with someone it would have to be a girlfriend because for me it's something too intimate to do with friends.


Well, you talk about it here, so is intimacy that much of a factor, or are you just shy about it out in the real world?

If you found us here in cyberspace, then finding someone in the real world should be possible. It's just how you go about doing it without giving away too much of yourself and your feelings. You might be pleasantly surprised with who you find.

Drawscore


I met with a guy on here a few months ago I posted about it because I asked to stop half way through because I felt awkward. We've talked about meeting up again and I've told him if we do meet to take it faster this time. I'm really not sure though if it is to do with intimacy. My main concern is being turned on by being tied up in front of a guy. I've looked for girls but they're don't seem to be any on here that I can find. I don't know if I should meet up but I just hate never getting to do it and I really don't want to go back to doing self Bondage.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby drawscore » Wed Jan 06, 2016 9:46 am

First, be yourself. Do not try to be someone or something that you are not. It goes back to the old adage of "Don't bullshit a bullshitter." My thinking goes: "Here I am, this is me. Accept me for who and what I am, or go piss up a rope."

There are a few girls on the board, and maybe more than a few. Whether any of them are close to your location, is another matter. If your tastes run in the other direction, there are plenty of guys here, too. However, caution is advised when meeting someone in person, that you've met on line.

Just from our conversation here, I think you need an ego or confidence booster. Remember, if you don't think highly of yourself, no one else will, either. Don't worry about failure. Concentrate on success.

Drawscore

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Wed Jan 06, 2016 5:58 pm

oZombiex5 wrote:I met with a guy on here a few months ago I posted about it because I asked to stop half way through because I felt awkward. We've talked about meeting up again and I've told him if we do meet to take it faster this time. I'm really not sure though if it is to do with intimacy. My main concern is being turned on by being tied up in front of a guy. I've looked for girls but they're don't seem to be any on here that I can find. I don't know if I should meet up but I just hate never getting to do it and I really don't want to go back to doing self Bondage.

This is really your call here man. You know how comfortable/uncomfortable you are with things and how far you're willing to go. The only advice I can give you is to trust yourself and decide based on how you ultimately feel about the idea.

Also, I thought you were trying to get a close female friend or family member to tie you up. At least that was my impression. Did that not end up working out?
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby oZombiex5 » Wed Jan 06, 2016 11:37 pm

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:
oZombiex5 wrote:I met with a guy on here a few months ago I posted about it because I asked to stop half way through because I felt awkward. We've talked about meeting up again and I've told him if we do meet to take it faster this time. I'm really not sure though if it is to do with intimacy. My main concern is being turned on by being tied up in front of a guy. I've looked for girls but they're don't seem to be any on here that I can find. I don't know if I should meet up but I just hate never getting to do it and I really don't want to go back to doing self Bondage.

This is really your call here man. You know how comfortable/uncomfortable you are with things and how far you're willing to go. The only advice I can give you is to trust yourself and decide based on how you ultimately feel about the idea.

Also, I thought you were trying to get a close female friend or family member to tie you up. At least that was my impression. Did that not end up working out?


A family member for me is a no no. I want to get a close female friend for doing it but can't find one. I keep changing my mind about meeting up I don't think I will enjoy it any more than last time but something keeps convincing me to go with it. Like I said getting tied up by someone seems intimate to me and for me feels wrong to be doing it with a guy.

Re: First Bondage Experience - Should of Prepared

Postby spd138 » Fri Jan 08, 2016 4:11 pm

Don't worry lots of girls are into it or will to give it a try. I've gotten a few girls into tugs including my wife. You just need to wait until you feel comfortable then bring it up slowly.