SteveLuis wrote:Welcome.
There is a lot of people that are similiar minded to you indeed but admitting your kink to people in real life is a million times more difficult than on a forum. I myself have never been able to do so, but I'm hoping to work up the courage to ask my girlfriend one day if she'll tie me to the bed just for starters. The thing is, she'd probably do it because she cares about me and sometimes I think what's the big deal but then when I sit back and really think about it, it would probably seem very strange to someone who's not into bondage like the people on here are.
vantran wrote:Great post
rugas wrote:vantran wrote:Great post
indeed....
actually I don't write almost anything here... but when I read then I thought... "wow... what a post!"
perhaps it's nothing so special or anything... just how things goes for many of us, I think...
but, you can believe or not, -for a dumb as me who has still to accept how he is- it just helps to feel yourself less weird
thankx Angel... can I hug you?
markusthe1st wrote:It was strange in a way for me, because I first started with my aunt and cousins, and we played tie-up games for a few years before one of my cousins actually admitted that she liked it! I was shocked. "You mean you really do like it?" I asked her a few times, because for years, which is hard to believe, I had been tying her up not really ever wondering about our little secret or if it would be okay to ever tell anyone else about it.
It's all part of knowing who you really are, which is just really important. I can tell you from my personal experience that a young woman telling their boyfriend (or girlfriend; not sure of your preference) about it in an intimate sense will most likely result in a positive response - and some ropes wrapped around you! Most of my friends over the years, TUGs lovers and vanilla people, think a little tie-up play fun in the bedroom is alright. Just don't get yourself married to someone that thinks it's weird or sick; you don't have anything real in common with them. Just my 2 cents.
Angel In The Dark wrote:I'm just really happy to know I'm not alone in this world who likes to be tied up.
Jason Toddman wrote:Angel In The Dark wrote:I'm just really happy to know I'm not alone in this world who likes to be tied up.
Whatever else you are or think you are (or are not), you most definitely are NOT alone in that regard!!!![]()
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I can certainly understand feeling unique myself; not about being tied up though (I had too many people - starting with my brother when I was 5 - wanting to tie me up to have any illusions on that score) but able wanting to be sat on (and mildly tortured) as well. As is, those are obviously much rarer tastes than liking to be tied up, but I thought I was a totally unique freak as a kid for wanting such a thing until I lived with my cousins for a while and as an adult learned of others who also had similar leanings.
But as for bondage... I think that's much more common than most people realize - whether the're into TUGs themselves or not.