## Left Alone....

Post by just4fun » Thu Nov 15, 2012 10:54 pm

What do you think about being tied up and gagged to the point where you cannot comunicate or move and then being.....left there by yourself?
I for one disaprove of this as i believe the 'hostage' should be watched and cared for to make sure nothing goes wrong. I want to know if this has happened to you and what went thru your mind?
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Post by Jason Toddman » Fri Nov 16, 2012 11:38 am

Besides the safety objections you just pointed out, I always found that being simply left to my own devices rather boring. When I was tied up, I always liked to be teased and tormented too (especially being sat on - my number one fetish); which my cousins also usually preferred to do anyway! Sometimes I was left all by myself (we weren't quite as safety conscious in those days as we are on this site!), but always with frequent safety checks even at night.
We were careful in our own way and there were never any serious problems - unless you count the time I was forced to drink two quarts of warm, flat soda by a friend who thought I'd wronged him (or, rather, his brother) and deliberately left to myself with the intention that I would wet myself in bed, but fortunately I was rescued and my friend placed in an identical situation by my cousins (I didn't let him wet himself either; I'm not big on revenge - lucky for him). But there would always be someone nearby or at least in the house, so it wasn't quite like we were totally abandoned - it just seemed that way sometimes. But we were kids not adults, it was the relatively care-free early 1970s, and as far as I'm concerned we were VERY safety conscious for the standards of those times (when for instance no one thought anything was wrong with riding in the back of a pickup truck or having your dog ride in the front seat of your car with you without safety harnesses.)
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### Re: Left Alone....

Post by cellofello » Mon Nov 19, 2012 12:07 am

> just4fun wrote:What do you think about being tied up and gagged to the point where you cannot comunicate or move and then being.....left there by yourself?
> I for one disaprove of this as i believe the 'hostage' should be watched and cared for to make sure nothing goes wrong. I want to know if this has happened to you and what went thru your mind?

I do recognize the safety issue, especially when using an effective around-the-head tape gag that removes all ability to breathe through the mouth. Nonetheless, I like my bondage to be absolutely real and effective. For me being left alone does add delicious realism to a roleplaying scenario where one is a kidnap victim or other prisoner. One way to get the effect while maintaining safety is to blindfold the victim and then leave the room, but stay within observation distance. A webcam could be used to stay out of sight (and even go where the victim can't hear the captor) while still permitting the victim to be monitored for any signs of distress.

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Mon Nov 19, 2012 5:59 am

Hall If victim is blindfold and perhaps even ware earplugs and earmuffs, the leaving the room can only faked. The captor can stay in room and watch try to escape.
Andrew
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

### Re: Left Alone....

Post by tyme115 » Mon Nov 19, 2012 1:42 pm

I LOVE being tied and left alone to struggle and try and escape, my wife does it to me regularly and I usually cannot escape. It gives a real helpless feeling to know that no one is there to help you. I do understand the safety issue, but I haven't had any problems or even any close calls and if the captor does it correctly, cannot be any less safe than self bondage, which I'm sure lots have done. I have been bound and gagged (sock in mouth with tape over that and cello wrap around the head) and blind folded, I would love to have my hearing taken away too!

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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Tue Nov 20, 2012 11:28 am

I actually really like being tied up and left alone - I think it can be really good fun. I love the anticipation of not knowing how long you're going to be alone for
However, my partner always makes sure that if he's leaving me alone, that I'll be able to get out of the tie on my own if it becomes necessary

### Re: Left Alone....

Post by tyme115 » Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:29 pm

I agree with the first part Samantha in regards to the anticipation, but do you not truely feel helpless unless you CANNOT "get out on your own"?

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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Tue Nov 20, 2012 2:22 pm

> tyme115 wrote:I agree with the first part Samantha in regards to the anticipation, but do you not truely feel helpless unless you CANNOT "get out on your own"?

Of course you can't feel helpless if you can get out on your own xD To be honest though complete and utter helplessness isnt exactly a massive priority for me when it comes to bondage.
I would rather feel safe and know that if I did need to get out then I could

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Post by AussieBoy » Tue Nov 20, 2012 2:31 pm

The safety issues aside, I find getting left alone down right scary, at times.
For me it depends on the tie. For example: In a recent two day TUG/Bondage session with some friends I was left hogtied in an upstairs room while they were downstairs. I didn't like this much but could bear it as I could still move around and had access to water if I needed it. But later on when I was tied to a chair in the same room and left in the dark as they were downstairs I didn't like it at all, partially because the chair wasn't well balanced and I knew that if it fell I could potentially injure my arms to the point where I'd have to explain to someone exactly what happened.
On the note I'm not against being left alone, but not totally alone. The fact that the guys were downstairs was the part that bothered me. If they'd been just in the next room or even on the same floor I'd probably be fine though.

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Post by tyme115 » Tue Nov 20, 2012 4:26 pm

Well, I'm not talking for long periods of time and of course you need to feel safe before your captor leaves. As long as they make sure you can breath properly and that you aren't losing any circulation from being tight too tight. Being totally helpless is a wonderful feeling!

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Post by trammel » Tue Nov 27, 2012 6:51 pm

> tyme115 wrote:I LOVE being tied and left alone to struggle and try and escape, my wife does it to me regularly and I usually cannot escape. It gives a real helpless feeling to know that no one is there to help you. I do understand the safety issue, but I haven't had any problems or even any close calls and if the captor does it correctly, cannot be any less safe than self bondage, which I'm sure lots have done. I have been bound and gagged (sock in mouth with tape over that and cello wrap around the head) and blind folded, I would love to have my hearing taken away too!

We do the exact same thing. My wife has become really good at tying me. We agree she will chack on me but I don't know for sure when she will free me. While I like trying to escape, lately that has been impossible. I am usually tied for an hour, but once was tied for 2 1/2 hours. She checked a few times then. It does get boring, but the total helplessness is part of the fun.
We make it a competition, tyer vs. tie-ee. I generally lose, but it's fun to try.
I have no use for being tied up if I know I can easily escape. The more difficult the better. However, I prefer being tied vs. handcuffed as being tied seems to offer some possibility of escape, whereas I cannot get loose from handcuffs.

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Post by Terry » Fri Nov 30, 2012 8:28 am

As long as the captive isn't in any danger of suffocating or getting gangrene or anything then I see no problem if he is left alone for a while. If it was me being tied up then I would like to be left alone.

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Post by Suestruggles » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:06 pm

> SamanthaBoundx wrote:I actually really like being tied up and left alone - I think it can be really good fun. I love the anticipation of not knowing how long you're going to be alone for
> However, my partner always makes sure that if he's leaving me alone, that I'll be able to get out of the tie on my own if it becomes necessary

Tricky, being left all alone is dangerous. so being left alone so that you can escape is not really being tied up.
Being left tied up gagged and blindfold so you can't see whether you are alone or not is the best compromise for safety and real inescapability . Bes tthing is not knowing how long you are going to be left tied up for.
Sue
Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:26 pm

I liked it better the way my cousins and friends did it in my teens. I was tied but good, but even when I was left alone I was checked on frequently, and if I really needed to I could've attracted someone's attention even when they were all in a different part part of the house. Although we weren't as minutely conscious of safety as we are on this board now (we were, after all, teenagers in a time when even safety belts weren't mandatory and no one thought anything was wrong with riding in the back of a pickup truck - and hell, I *still* never wear a helmet while riding a bicycle), I do not think I EVER felt even remotely unsafe at any time I was left tied up and alone with I was with them.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by NemesisPrime » Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:44 pm

I'd personally like to be left alone to squirm and to struggle and try to call for help but because of the sock and duct tape in and around my mouth no one would hear me except for my captor who would come in and "play" with me a bit before heading out and won't return until WAY LATE like 1 in the morning!
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

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Post by Suestruggles » Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:49 am

> SamanthaBoundx wrote:
> Of course you can't feel helpless if you can get out on your own xD To be honest though complete and utter helplessness isnt exactly a massive priority for me when it comes to bondage.
> )

Well ~am just think about hearing those words "I'm going to leave you here all tied up, and there's nothing you can do about it." as you feel the utter helplessness and begin your futlie struggles.
Sue
Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.