Limits

Postby Jay Feely » Tue Oct 01, 2013 11:44 am

What limits you have in a tied up game?
I do not like pain except for spankings
No private torture
What about you?
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Limits

Postby cloud » Tue Oct 01, 2013 12:17 pm

Well, i have not yet had to set limits with anyone yet but their is 2 main things that i would set as limits.

No breath play and no (liquid) water torture.
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Re: Limits

Postby drawscore » Tue Oct 01, 2013 4:55 pm

One simple rule: TUG's should be fun for all involved. When it stops being fun, especially for the one being tied, then it becomes abuse, which is never good.

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Re: Limits

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Oct 01, 2013 9:44 pm

I enjoyed degradation and humiliation (as long as it was kept private between me and my captors) over actual pain, myself. I have rarely ever experienced having anyone try to do something to me that I was unwilling to do (or at least try once), as usually the limits of my captors were more restricted than my limits as a captive, and I am only (despite depictions of such characters as Thomas O'Chist in my stories) mildly to moderately masochistic at most in real life.
About the only time anyone ever definitely crossed the line with me that I can think of offhand is when some idiot tried to put a live tarantula on me while I was tied up in my college dorm room.
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Re: Limits

Postby tightlytaped » Wed Oct 02, 2013 2:58 am

drawscore wrote:One simple rule: TUG's should be fun for all involved. When it stops being fun, especially for the one being tied, then it becomes abuse, which is never good.

Drawscore

Well put and oh so true.

Re: Limits

Postby Chris12 » Thu Oct 03, 2013 11:23 am

I'l second the no breath play. I don't want risking myself to choke.

No nudity and nothing to hurtful. Also NO showing me to people like that, or at least people not already awhere.

Re: Limits

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Oct 12, 2013 9:06 pm

Chris12 wrote:I'l second the no breath play. I don't want risking myself to choke.
No nudity and nothing to hurtful. Also NO showing me to people like that, or at least people not already awhere.

That might make a fun new story, now that I think of it. Finally a sequel to Chris in Distress! :twisted:
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Re: Limits

Postby ropebound » Sat Oct 12, 2013 10:18 pm

Absolutely no breath play. Nudity is fine, depending on the person of course. Nothing public, no showing to people. Pain is fine, as long as it's temporary.
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Re: Limits

Postby drawscore » Sun Oct 13, 2013 6:19 pm

I would limit nudity. If there is nudity of characters under 18, many jurisdictions consider that prima facie (sp) pornography, which can result in a visit from unpleasant people in trenchcoats and sunglasses. They will be from the government, and will have no intention of helping you. Not all locations or jurisdictions are so "uptight" about it, but, nonetheless, caution is strongly advised.

Drawscore

Re: Limits

Postby ropebound » Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:06 pm

Ghegheghe welcome to The Netherlands. From 12-16 you can have sex as long as your parents don't tell the police, and from 16 you can have sex as long as you're not forced by the other. Depends on how you play the game, of course.
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Re: Limits

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:18 pm

ropebound wrote:Ghegheghe welcome to The Netherlands. From 12-16 you can have sex as long as your parents don't tell the police, and from 16 you can have sex as long as you're not forced by the other. Depends on how you play the game, of course.

That sounds a little disturbing as well as being somewhat off-topic.
Though I gather that prosecutions of such cases ARE very rare, sex with anyone under 16 IS illegal there.
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Re: Limits

Postby ropebound » Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:32 pm

I actually meant to respond to drawscore, but as I re-read it now I realize it sounds a little darker than intended :oops:
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Re: Limits

Postby Chris12 » Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:04 am

ropebound wrote:Ghegheghe welcome to The Netherlands. From 12-16 you can have sex as long as your parents don't tell the police, and from 16 you can have sex as long as you're not forced by the other. Depends on how you play the game, of course.


Oh, your Dutch to :D

Re: Limits

Postby ropebound » Mon Oct 14, 2013 7:56 am

Yeah I am :D
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Re: Limits

Postby NaughtyNats » Mon Oct 14, 2013 10:34 am

A bit of humiliation a lot of tickling and some force liking. A spankings ok but lots of tickling
:evil: :tied: :tickle: :gag: NAUGHTY NATS :gag: :tickle: :tied: :evil:

Maybe blindfold, maybe gagged, always barefoot

Re: Limits

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:24 am

NaughtyNats wrote:...and some force liking.

I'm not sure what that means. Is that a typo or another term that old duffs like me are unfamiliar with?
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Re: Limits

Postby andrewtied » Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:59 pm

i agree about no nudity, no tgetting spanked, and getting beat up thats off limits for me i just like to get tied up in rope or duct tape tightly and gagged tighty as well but my RP world it does not hurt but its still tight and unable to get free

Re: Limits

Postby lockedup » Wed Nov 27, 2013 1:48 pm

never ever ever public. (im extremely shy)
no breathe control (unless im refusing to open my mouth for a gag).
if there is pain it shouldn't be too painful or dangerous.
nudity: no.

ok i just read a post about a giant terantula and i am extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely x10000 scared of insects especially poisonous ones, and anything that stings, like bees and wasps. if anyone put any insect on me i would freak out and find it hard to forgive them.

im also really scared of static/electric shocks, but not as much as insects, but would still not enjoy it if someone was using electricity to hurt me.

but as far as restraining me i don't care as long as i can't get out :D.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Limits

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Nov 28, 2013 1:58 am

lockedup wrote:ok i just read a post about a giant terantula and i am extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely x10000 scared of insects especially poisonous ones, and anything that stings, like bees and wasps. if anyone put any insect on me i would freak out and find it hard to forgive them.

Sounds like one of my posts. I know how you feel. I hope just reading that didn't give you the... uhhh... creepy crawlies. :mrgreen:
And yes, *I* wasn't in a very forgiving mood for that person after that incident either! :lol:
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Re: Limits

Postby bind-me » Thu Nov 28, 2013 5:49 am

I've do e breath play and had it done to me aswell as long as you trust the person and do it in short bursts, I'm quite comfortable, for me when I'm tied I think its easier for people to ask forgiveness than permission part of the fun for me is not having any control or say in what's going on but I never assume that people feel the sane way when I'm in control and make sure I know their limits before we do anything

Re: Limits

Postby bind_diane » Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:39 pm

Breath play would be too far for me. Also, I don't like being left alone while tied up--dangerous! I can handle being spanked, but that's about it. Once in a while I'll get whipped even though that's past my limits, but he always warns me in advance.
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Re: Limits

Postby Suestruggles » Sat Nov 30, 2013 3:26 am

I'm mpre imaginitive on here in fantassy worls but in real life nothing which causes permanant dMge or risks death. no pee pooh or blod. nothing which risks death. Nipple clamps are ok but clamping pussy is not fun. teasing and orgasm denial or forcing orgasma are fun, that's the only form of pussy torture i'm ok with. certainly no drowning breath play. cold water in some ways is allowed. (cold shower 30 seconds or a bucket of water emptied over me. any amount of tickling. with pain nipple clamps are ok, spanking can be fun maybe with ruler or a leather belt but not on nipples or pussy. belt or ruler on my feet is very painful so limit number and limit number of belt on my bum. I like being tied for long time but not left alone gagged (danger) or left tied up in empty house. if it's tight position (hogtie, strapado etc) needs to be time limit.

Basic limit. fun for both parties.
Sue

Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.

Re: Limits

Postby Naughty boy » Sun Dec 01, 2013 1:36 pm

Wow Sue struggles! You sound like a lot of fun! I'm giving a lot of thought to my story Sleep covers are Fun. Trying to come up with a part 2 and a prequel to the story.

Re: Limits

Postby bind-me » Thu Jan 16, 2014 6:30 am

I always like having my limits pushed I'm not saying broken or anything but just pushed quite a bit so I'll try to escape and remind my sled of just how crewed I'm am by not being able to move, speak or see