## Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Tue Apr 04, 2017 7:12 pm

Firstly.....if you are not in to the idea of panty gags at all......then with respect, I do understand.
One of the things I do know about this fetish....is that you either love it....or you really really don't. And if you don't....then the rest of this post is unlikely to be of interest to you.....and honestly....you should probably press backup....
Personally, it is major turn on for me....but anyway....moving on....
For those of you who do like this form of gagging, I am interested to know your thoughts and personal preferences on the subject.....
For example....
1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it? I know it is not restricted by gender...i.e....my girlfriend likes me to do it to her and I like her doing it to me and I can honestly say that many females prior to my girlfriend have invariably liked me using it as part of our bondage roleplay......lets just say...there were many more who liked it as opposed to those who didn't.....although I didn't always ask first
Anything I havn't mentioned......please feel free to share....
Now...this is not one of those surveys where I am seeking a kick from the responses.....what I mean is it is not a one way street.....and the only way to make this a fair exchange is to share my personal thoughts on the above up front......so here goes.....
1 & 2. For me personally....it is the idea/fantasy of being gagged / or gagging my girlfriend with dirty/worn panties. The fantasy is that she has been wearing them all day or that she takes a pair from the laundry that she has worn previously, or that she wore them to the gym etc etc....you've all read the stories. However, my definition of dirty are a pair of panties damp or wet with her arousal....her cum as such.....for example, my ultimate experiences with my girlfriend have been when she has tied me up, positioned herself so I can see her and used toys to pleasure herself through her panties until she has climaxed in them, soaked them with her juices and then removed them and used them to gag me. On other occasions, and even though I was totally unaware, she has also blindfolded me, run her panties under warm water and done the same....trust me....it worked just as well. The flip side is very similar, the thought of gagging my girlfriend with panties from the laundry is one thing but my favorite method is to tie her up tightly with her panties on and pleasure her until they are soaked.....and then I use them to gag her. But that is purely our preference.
3. Preference for type colour? she has never expressed any preference...but I guess if you pushed me i'd say....cotton.....not strictly though....
4. Based on what I shared above.....yes....we both turn them inside out and fold them so the wet crotch/gusset in forced on the tongue.....again...that is just us......like I said....power/humiliation....
5. Yes, we often use another pair of panties as a hood, pulled over the head with the crotch/gusset over the nose and unlike the panties that are used as a gag, the hood is almost always a pair from the laundry. Sometime the hood goes on first, gag in mouth and cleaved or taped with stockings, scarf, tape etc but more often, the panty gag is inserted first, hood applied and then the cleave etc is secured over that. Believe it or not, I don't have a sense of smell which I think enforces what I was saying about fantasy over reality...I think its kind of funny...but there you go.
6. I've been aware of my fetish for panties probably as far back as I was aware of my fetish for bondage....although I would describe myself as a switch...i.e I like tying / gagging almost as much as being tied / gagged. I have put much thought to the origin or basis of my fetish for panty gags and although I realise it must be something to do with panties being an intimate female item of clothing...I can honestly say that I haven't really got to the bottom of things (excuse the pun).......so by all means enlighten me with your own thoughts opinions.
Finally I would just like to say that I hugely appreciate being a member of this site/group...there was a time when I never believed that I could openly discuss my fetish for bondage and certainly not my personal kink for panty gags. But it really is wonderful that I can be so open and not offend anyone.
Any feedback would be much appreciated.

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by Vector5227 » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:02 pm

I. Frickin. LOVE panty gags! They are one of my favorite ways to be gagged, even though it's never happened in real life... But I'd probably say clean panties, I dunno why, I just don't like the thought of a dirty anything in bondage. Material? Who cares!?! As long as they're panties, I'm good to go. Um panty hoods? Hell yes!! Sexy as hell. Way to be inserted? Ball them up and shove them in, preferably more than one too... And as for the last question... I dunno. I guess as a sub, it's just another way for a Domme to assert Her power over me... And boy do I like it! And as for them on girls...? It looks sexier than hell!! Anywho, that's my two cents on the issue. But I really enjoyed responding to this! Panty gags don't get enough love on this site in my humble opinion...

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by Illest » Tue Apr 04, 2017 8:20 pm

Huge turn-on for me. Also love panty hoods. Favorite is gag, hood, then scarf/bandage wrapped around to seal them and make the hood tight. Had wanted to try socks/panties folded over the nose but worried about not being able to breathe. However being that I like wedgies as another form of humiliation after the bandages I usually have a rope tied between my underwear and the back of my gag to draw the two together.
Another.gag that intrigues me is the shoe OTN gag.

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by That-animeguy » Tue Apr 04, 2017 9:02 pm

A post as these, makes my morning! I personally, enjoy the type of gag as you know.
1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
To be truthfully honest, a clean pair though exciting, doesn't do the full work for me.
They have to be worn, dirty, filled with scent, otherwise, you could just use any sort of pair.
But the rush.. to be able to get your hands on that one dirty pair to use, now that's just.. perfect!
2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
Essential they have to be, the thoughts along the work only make them dirtier in my opinion.
Thoughts of them belonging to others, thoughts of scenarios working through my head as I struggle in rope, tasting them.
3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
I really don't, so far, I've tried various materials and all of them really work in an, equal way.
4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
I often try to bring them out both ways; To both smell the crotch, as well as the bum.
I enjoy to smell both scents, sometimes either is a stronger turn on than the other, but regardless it's always enough getting me hard.
5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
Almost always, the thought of both having a pair inside, as well as one over my head, is a combination of alot!
It's hard to describe, but when tied, and already forced to taste such worn underwear.. as well as constantly smelling it, is major turn on.
It's often difficult to keep it tight, first I would insert the lovely undies in my mouth, wrap a cloth around, than apply the hood, once I can smell the panties to the fullest, I apply a cloth and make sure, it's as tightly around as possible,to keep my hood strong!
6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it?
I never knew when I picked it up, or why at all?
It's been years since I applied this to bondage, and it's been a major kink ever since.
I think it was all random at the time, I learned it was a fetish after experimenting my first self bondage.
The first panties I used I'll never forget though, that first taste of worn underwear over my nose, that was such.. beautiful, feeling.
So... gulible!

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by KingMush » Tue Apr 04, 2017 10:44 pm

They may be a turn-on, but laundry is a turn-off. That's how I see it.
War, war never changes.

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Tue Apr 04, 2017 11:37 pm

> Vector5227 wrote:I. Frickin. LOVE panty gags! They are one of my favorite ways to be gagged, even though it's never happened in real life... But I'd probably say clean panties, I dunno why, I just don't like the thought of a dirty anything in bondage. Material? Who cares!?! As long as they're panties, I'm good to go. Um panty hoods? Hell yes!! Sexy as hell. Way to be inserted? Ball them up and shove them in, preferably more than one too... And as for the last question... I dunno. I guess as a sub, it's just another way for a Domme to assert Her power over me... And boy do I like it! And as for them on girls...? It looks sexier than hell!! Anywho, that's my two cents on the issue. But I really enjoyed responding to this! Panty gags don't get enough love on this site in my humble opinion...

Wow! love your reply....I could feel your enthusiasm as I read your message! Thank you!!

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Tue Apr 04, 2017 11:40 pm

> Illest wrote:Huge turn-on for me. Also love panty hoods. Favorite is gag, hood, then scarf/bandage wrapped around to seal them and make the hood tight. Had wanted to try socks/panties folded over the nose but worried about not being able to breathe. However being that I like wedgies as another form of humiliation after the bandages I usually have a rope tied between my underwear and the back of my gag to draw the two together.
> Another.gag that intrigues me is the shoe OTN gag.

I agree on the wrapping.....for me the gag must be secure and impossible to remove.....I guess it is part of the bondage and helplessness. Thanks for your response

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Tue Apr 04, 2017 11:43 pm

> That-animeguy wrote:A post as these, makes my morning! I personally, enjoy the type of gag as you know.
> 1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
> To be truthfully honest, a clean pair though exciting, doesn't do the full work for me.
> They have to be worn, dirty, filled with scent, otherwise, you could just use any sort of pair.
> But the rush.. to be able to get your hands on that one dirty pair to use, now that's just.. perfect!
> 2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
> Essential they have to be, the thoughts along the work only make them dirtier in my opinion.
> Thoughts of them belonging to others, thoughts of scenarios working through my head as I struggle in rope, tasting them.
> 3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
> I really don't, so far, I've tried various materials and all of them really work in an, equal way.
> 4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
> I often try to bring them out both ways; To both smell the crotch, as well as the bum.
> I enjoy to smell both scents, sometimes either is a stronger turn on than the other, but regardless it's always enough getting me hard.
> 5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
> Almost always, the thought of both having a pair inside, as well as one over my head, is a combination of alot!
> It's hard to describe, but when tied, and already forced to taste such worn underwear.. as well as constantly smelling it, is major turn on.
> It's often difficult to keep it tight, first I would insert the lovely undies in my mouth, wrap a cloth around, than apply the hood, once I can smell the panties to the fullest, I apply a cloth and make sure, it's as tightly around as possible,to keep my hood strong!
> 6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it?
> I never knew when I picked it up, or why at all?
> It's been years since I applied this to bondage, and it's been a major kink ever since.
> I think it was all random at the time, I learned it was a fetish after experimenting my first self bondage.
> The first panties I used I'll never forget though, that first taste of worn underwear over my nose, that was such.. beautiful, feeling.

Thank you for such a detailed response.....loved reading it and I have to admit....my likes are very similar to yours!

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Wed Apr 05, 2017 12:05 am

> KingMush wrote:They may be a turn-on, but laundry is a turn-off. That's how I see it.

Totally get that. Like I mentioned, for me it is very much the fantasy of dirty rather than the reality. Thank you for your response

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by That-animeguy » Wed Apr 05, 2017 2:44 am

> janus4089 wrote:

> > That-animeguy wrote:A post as these, makes my morning! I personally, enjoy the type of gag as you know.
> > 1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
> > To be truthfully honest, a clean pair though exciting, doesn't do the full work for me.
> > They have to be worn, dirty, filled with scent, otherwise, you could just use any sort of pair.
> > But the rush.. to be able to get your hands on that one dirty pair to use, now that's just.. perfect!
> > 2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
> > Essential they have to be, the thoughts along the work only make them dirtier in my opinion.
> > Thoughts of them belonging to others, thoughts of scenarios working through my head as I struggle in rope, tasting them.
> > 3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
> > I really don't, so far, I've tried various materials and all of them really work in an, equal way.
> > 4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
> > I often try to bring them out both ways; To both smell the crotch, as well as the bum.
> > I enjoy to smell both scents, sometimes either is a stronger turn on than the other, but regardless it's always enough getting me hard.
> > 5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
> > Almost always, the thought of both having a pair inside, as well as one over my head, is a combination of alot!
> > It's hard to describe, but when tied, and already forced to taste such worn underwear.. as well as constantly smelling it, is major turn on.
> > It's often difficult to keep it tight, first I would insert the lovely undies in my mouth, wrap a cloth around, than apply the hood, once I can smell the panties to the fullest, I apply a cloth and make sure, it's as tightly around as possible,to keep my hood strong!
> > 6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it?
> > I never knew when I picked it up, or why at all?
> > It's been years since I applied this to bondage, and it's been a major kink ever since.
> > I think it was all random at the time, I learned it was a fetish after experimenting my first self bondage.
> > The first panties I used I'll never forget though, that first taste of worn underwear over my nose, that was such.. beautiful, feeling.

> Thank you for such a detailed response.....loved reading it and I have to admit....my likes are very similar to yours!

That seems about right, indeed!
So... gulible!

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by BandG » Wed Apr 05, 2017 7:04 am

1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
I don't mind either! I've only ever been gagged by 2 ex girlfriends with their panties but they used clean pairs even though I wouldn't have minded dirty!
2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
Nope not essential but I think if they were dirty there'd be that added degradation and humiliation which turns me on.
3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
Cotton for gagging - love the feel of it.
4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
Just stretched out so they fill my mouth when they are tied in.
5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
Never tried them.
6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it? I know it is not restricted by gender...i.e....my girlfriend likes me to do it to her and I like her doing it to me and I can honestly say that many females prior to my girlfriend have invariably liked me using it as part of our bondage roleplay......lets just say...there were many more who liked it as opposed to those who didn't.....although I didn't always ask first
I think I'm someone who loves being humiliated and that goes hand in hand with bondage. I've thought many times why is this the case? Especially as a straight man I can't help but feel this is very strange. Typically I believe abuse or a feeling of being neglected, belittled when you are young may mean you think you deserve to be 'worthless' and may get pleasure out of being dominated. But my parents were great and I've had a good, loving life provided by my family. I have absolutely no idea why but I love being tied up, humiliated, made to feel helpless and weak. Any sort of gag is the ultimate humiliation as you are forced into not being able to speak to your captor to prevent them from doing whatever they want. A pantie gag is amazing for this as they are using their underwear to shut you up - socks are good too.

### Re: Panty Gags.....exposed?

Post by janus4089 » Wed Apr 05, 2017 7:55 am

> BandG wrote:1. From the drawer...i.e clean .....or from the hamper....i.e dirty.....??
> I don't mind either! I've only ever been gagged by 2 ex girlfriends with their panties but they used clean pairs even though I wouldn't have minded dirty!
> 2. Is it the thought of them being dirty? or is it essential that they are?
> Nope not essential but I think if they were dirty there'd be that added degradation and humiliation which turns me on.
> 3. Do you have a preference for the type of Panties or the material i.e cotton, silk?
> Cotton for gagging - love the feel of it.
> 4. Is there a certain way they should be inserted?....to be direct....do your turn them inside out....you know what I mean.....
> Just stretched out so they fill my mouth when they are tied in.
> 5. If you are in to Panty gags...are you always in to Panty Hoods as well or do some of you like either / or ....do the kinks have a link?
> Never tried them.
> 6. Lastly.....and i'll be honest...I'm still unable to fully answer this question myself.....where does this fetish originate? is it purely power or humiliation based like many other aspects of bondage? when were you first aware of it? I know it is not restricted by gender...i.e....my girlfriend likes me to do it to her and I like her doing it to me and I can honestly say that many females prior to my girlfriend have invariably liked me using it as part of our bondage roleplay......lets just say...there were many more who liked it as opposed to those who didn't.....although I didn't always ask first
> I think I'm someone who loves being humiliated and that goes hand in hand with bondage. I've thought many times why is this the case? Especially as a straight man I can't help but feel this is very strange. Typically I believe abuse or a feeling of being neglected, belittled when you are young may mean you think you deserve to be 'worthless' and may get pleasure out of being dominated. But my parents were great and I've had a good, loving life provided by my family. I have absolutely no idea why but I love being tied up, humiliated, made to feel helpless and weak. Any sort of gag is the ultimate humiliation as you are forced into not being able to speak to your captor to prevent them from doing whatever they want. A pantie gag is amazing for this as they are using their underwear to shut you up - socks are good too.

Thank you. Very interesting indeed!