Hey Guys
I went for a walk with a really good friend of mine a few weeks ago and I had decided that I was going to admit my bondage fantasies to her. I figured out of all my friends she'd understand and maybe, just maybe, there was the chance she was into it too. So I went, we had a few beers, talked about... everything... and went for a walk, and finally when she said something about carrying secrets around that we didn't tell anybody I saw my chance. So I said yes, and she immediately started demanding I tell her what it was. After a few deep breaths I said: "I have a pair of handcuffs in my room." She was a little shocked, basically saying she never would've seen that coming from me in a million years. She didn't admit to sharing my interests so I assumed she didn't. We didn't talk about it much further.
That night, I could hardly sleep, I felt like I had blown an opportunity and hadn't told her everything I meant to. So at about two in the morning I sent her an e-mail basically saying what I wanted to mention but didn't. I asked her if this was something she was interested in. I get an e-mail back saying that it is, but she didn't really feel like it was appropriate for her to talk about her own interests at that point. So I wrote back basically saying that I had never tried bondage and would really like to. But I made it clear that I wanted to try it as friends and there wasn't anything sexual about it.
Well... After an epic game of e-mail tag that lasted about two weeks we went for another walk. She said (After avoiding the subject considerably) she was "on the fence about it" and that in her experience it had always been sexual and she thought that since I'm one of her best friends she thought it would be awkward. "So should I take that as a no?" I asked her. She replied "Yes. For now." I smiled and didn't tell her how disappointed I was.
So my question for you guys is this: Can you think of any way I can change her mind? Essentially to convince her to play a TUG rather than think of it like a sexual bondage thing.