so, what I have often thought about for us tug members is the first time. And I don't mean the first time that you got tied up or tied somebody up, because I don't think a majority of us got started that way. It, in my mind, would be synonymous with looking at somebody (boy or girl) and finding your physical body responding, realizing what you felt and thought for them.
Now, what was everyone's first moment of eureka? What was the first moment that made us think ," What is this all about?" Anyone who knows me knows that my first moment was Aladdin. And I think I liked it before I realized what I liked and what it was about. What was it on his face? Why was he chained? What was the purpose? These thoughts ran through my head countless times, and I taped myself thousands of times before I figured it out.
What was yours? A comic? A movie? A book? A show? A face to face encounter? A drawing?