Postby Rogeroo » Sat Dec 15, 2012 1:14 am
After re-reading you situation. (I think) You should do it her way, just start in a different room, then move her to the bedroom.
Get in the habit of not starting on the bed, let it lead to the bedroom and let this foreplay take longer and longer each time. Concentrate on making her happy at the early stages as well as the late stages.
-- I had semi-girl-friend (maybe occasional girl-friend I will call Kitty) who was only into very light bondage. She was sort of an exhibitionists more than a bondagee (which leads to this story) She got slightly drunk and a little horny at a friends party.
-- This was a set-up. She though we were going to do "it" in his extra bedroom during a party {like I said she was an exhibitionists and like to get seene or almost caught}- only 4 couples including us.
-- Instead I tied her hands and arms behind her and gagged her and added a collar. Then I placed an short overcoat on her and stuck the sleeves in the pocket and took her back to the party. Her legs and barefeet sticking out of the overcoat was so pretty it was unbelievable. Another girl whose nickname was Sandy became so aroused that she opened two buttons on the coat and kissed her breast. Kitty was so excited at being exposed in front of girls (She didn't seem to mind the other guys; it was that she like the "forced embarrassment" of having the girls see her.) (I think she has never been naked in front of girls except for gym.)
-- It took a lot longer than I thought to get her out the front door, everyone kissed her on her gag and Betty and one other guy kissed her breasts. And she didn't want to leave as she had no idea as to my plan and was enjoying the attention.
-- My plan was to walk her home like this, but it was too cold, so I slipped a ski mask over her head and put deck shoes on her feet and lead her home the five blocks to my place. After a block she balked and kicked me, loosing a shoe in the process. I took both of the shoes and headed home. She was more than a block behind me when she finally decided to co-operate and came running after me.
-- It, too, was another great picture, she has such beautiful legs, running barefoot down the sidewalk, and knowing that she was well-tied under the overcoat, but the ski mask hid her hair, which I regretted. I think she was really panicked, but I couldn't see her face.
-- It turned into a super evening and she has been into bondage ever since.
-- My motto here is just keep trying new stuff. Some stuff is great only because it is new. (and) Some things leads to other things.
-- Now isn't that poetic, !!
-- Kitty is now into bondage but it is so that she can reach her forced exhibitionism; it gave her an excuse as to why she was naked in public. i.e.-She needed an excuse to do what she wanted to do, anyhow.
I have another Kitty Story if you like.