The only times I have tied up a guy were a couple of spontaneous, spur of the moment occasions, in league with a couple of other girls. I get my turn-on from being on the receiving end of the ropes. The four males who have tied me up the most – my brother, two ex-boyfriends and my current bf – I have never tied up.
In fact, apart from sharing vicariously in the captive’s pleasure
*, I don’t really understand the appeal of tying someone up, as opposed to being tied up. However, I realize that (1) this is just my personal preference, and (2) if everyone was like me, I wouldn’t have anyone to tie me up!
On the other hand, I’ve tied up a few girls in my time. I’m a lot like...
spiderlads322 wrote:My friend Brittney is ... dominant to her kittens but she seems a bit more submissive towards men.
I must confess that I do get a kick out of “dominating†other girls. It’s my way of reconciling the two facets of my personality, the public/assertive and the private/submissive.
When I do tie up a girl, depending on my mood I try to make it a sensual experience for her, what I call silk-and-satin bondage; or else I go for the torment – rigorous, make-her-sweat-and-groan bondage. However, because most of the girls I’ve worked on have been TUGs newbies, I haven’t attempted a long-term tie-up.
* That describes my boyfriend. He doesn’t really “get†tie-up games, but he indulges me.
~ Sarah
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