## Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jack Roper » Wed Aug 31, 2011 3:37 pm

I was wondering what, if any types of thoughts or feelings go though this site's readers minds and hearts just before they experience a TUG's or bondage thought? In other words, do you feel perfectly calm and centered, or frustrated, angry, sad, maybe depressed or just plain bored--prior to your previous or next such TUG activity or thought pattern?
Hope I'm making myself clear.

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by TUfriend » Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:02 pm

Nervous. My throat gets all dry and a knot forms in my stomach. The fear that my parents might come home early as they have done before makes it more fun.
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### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jack Roper » Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:09 pm

Hey TUfriend,
Guess I wasn't particularly clear. I too feel a nervousness when doing bondage to myself or being tied. I really was thinking about what leads you--or anyone on here--to move into thoughts of bondage.
I realize that the subject ocupies my mind a lot but what thoughts or feelings make your desire arise in the first place?
Does that make sense?

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by TUfriend » Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:04 pm

Oh, yeah it makes sense. I dont know the answer. Almost everything. Even looking at my rubiks cube collection makes me think of being tied up. I have no idea why.
Heil Toddman, the Wonderful Wizard of Odd
I'm a nerd with a dangerous side.
See my most recent TRUE story, "SPL Initiation", here.
Read my most recent FICTIONAL story, "The Birth of a Whovian", here

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jack Roper » Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:49 pm

hahaha! That's amazing...maybe after you get some "play" in you will find a "proper" place for your bondage thoughts. I know, for me, I would be real frustrated at work and hear myself saying: "I wish I was bound and gagged right now!" It has been said that Type A folks are more likely needing domination.

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jason Toddman » Fri Sep 16, 2011 5:42 pm

For me, there IS no trigger. I always want to be tied up!
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jack Roper » Fri Sep 16, 2011 5:50 pm

Jason, have you ever even been tied up for a really long time--say, several days? isn't the only thing you want to be set free? tell the truth.

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by TUfriend » Sun Sep 18, 2011 6:41 pm

From his stories, I think Jason would rather be sat on rather than set free.
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See my most recent TRUE story, "SPL Initiation", here.
Read my most recent FICTIONAL story, "The Birth of a Whovian", here

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by lonewolfandfriends » Wed Sep 28, 2011 6:17 am

Well just looking at my gf gets me goin

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jay Feely » Wed Sep 28, 2011 9:28 am

Nervous to give up control of my body to someone else. They could tickle me, flog me, burn me, and etc if a stranger did it as part of real kidnapping. For my tickling buddies, I would probably be tickled until I pass out or wet myself and I may embarrass myself in front of witnesses. Like, being tickled by 6 girls in camp while my feet and hands was tied to stakes was cruel and unusual because no advance warning was given and no safewords was given to me, so I ended up being tickled on my feet, stomach, underarms, and sides/ribs until I wet myself in front of the boys and that gave them an idea to tie me to my bed in the evening, and give me the same treatment. So, I do get nervous before every tied up game because my weakness might be exploited to other people or my limits could be violated.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by lonewolfandfriends » Wed Sep 28, 2011 1:57 pm

> jay wrote:Nervous to give up control of my body to someone else. They could tickle me, flog me, burn me, and etc if a stranger did it as part of real kidnapping. For my tickling buddies, I would probably be tickled until I pass out or wet myself and I may embarrass myself in front of witnesses. Like, being tickled by 6 girls in camp while my feet and hands was tied to stakes was cruel and unusual because no advance warning was given and no safewords was given to me, so I ended up being tickled on my feet, stomach, underarms, and sides/ribs until I wet myself in front of the boys and that gave them an idea to tie me to my bed in the evening, and give me the same treatment. So, I do get nervous before every tied up game because my weakness might be exploited to other people or my limits could be violated.

well ya but only if your with someone you do not know-trust very well

### Re: Pre-bondage mindset

Post by Jack Roper » Wed Sep 28, 2011 2:16 pm

Jay, I can appreiate that feeling but what I was getting at was what leads a person to want to be tied up--what thoughts or desires--is it something on TV, what someone says to you, a continuous desire (like Jason has, apparently) or some deep frustration perhaps. The PRE-bondage thought-feeling, not what transpires AFTER the desire has arisen.