## Please Help

Post by BartFisher » Sun Feb 21, 2010 5:51 am

please help with this question, as it is a question i have wanted to ask for a long time.
Questions:
1) is it normal to want to be tied up or is it strange?
2) is it slightly gay or bisexual thing to want to be tied up or is it ok for straight people to do it?
3) as part of bondage is the torture part and the pain involved is it mostly emo's and goths that do bondage or is it ok for normal people to do it too?
(no offence when i put normal i mean someone who is not an emo, chav, goth etc)
please help me with this as i am a little confused.
thanks

### Re: Please Help

Post by Eloise » Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:20 am

1) It's not strange unless YOU think it is.
2) It has NOTHING to do with being gay/bi unless you choose to do so, it is ABSOLUTLY FINE for straight people to do it.
3) It is okay for non-goth/emo to do it so long as they want to, bondage can include nearly whatever you want.
Hope I helped.
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### Re: Please Help

Post by BartFisher » Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:22 am

thanks for the help i enjoy reading ur posts ellie and feel free to read my other posts
thanks again now i understand a lot more

### Re: Please Help

Post by Eloise » Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:24 am

Glad I could help, Thank you and I'm not busy so I may do that now.
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### Re: Please Help

Post by BartFisher » Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:24 am

thankyou

### Re: Please Help

Post by Fesselfan » Mon Feb 22, 2010 1:52 am

Is it not normal -or wanted- to post discussion topics in story sections.
Cheers
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Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

### Re: Please Help

Post by Eloise » Mon Feb 22, 2010 2:30 pm

> Fesselfan wrote:Is it not normal -or wanted- to post discussion topics in story sections.
> Cheers
> FF

Haha, fair enough... but I think he meant the fetish it's self?
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### Re: Please Help

Post by shadow20 » Mon Feb 22, 2010 4:10 pm

I don't think its wise to ask the first question: 1) is it normal to want to be tied up or is it strange? in a forum just people who have a fetish for bondage. lol
But no to be serious, its fine. Its not gay in anyway. Im straight and i love bondage.
Trust me, your fine!!!
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### Re: Please Help

Post by tiedup101 » Mon Feb 22, 2010 4:12 pm

i am straight, but do gay things. Torture, i do to my friends for the fun of myself and the embarassment of the victim.
Hey! I'm John! I love bondage! Send me a PM or send me a message at John_9734@yahoo.com! Open to anybody, but more into m/m bondage!

### Re: Please Help

Post by Nuclearo » Mon Feb 22, 2010 6:54 pm

Gay torture really is more effective against straight people. It's not quite as torturous if you actually like doing that kinda stuff anyway XD
I also don't see where you got that torture is goth/emo. It's not like you're slitting your wrists. Depending on the case it could just as well be there to mess with a person while they can't do anything. Think of tickle torture as an example.
Last thing: this really isn't near being a story, this goes in the talk section.
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### Re: Please Help

Post by Kinkychris » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:44 am

> BartFisher wrote:please help with this question, as it is a question i have wanted to ask for a long time.
> Questions:
> 1) is it normal to want to be tied up or is it strange?
> 2) is it slightly gay or bisexual thing to want to be tied up or is it ok for straight people to do it?
> 3) as part of bondage is the torture part and the pain involved is it mostly emo's and goths that do bondage or is it ok for normal people to do it too?
> (no offence when i put normal i mean someone who is not an emo, chav, goth etc)
> please help me with this as i am a little confused.
> thanks

First thing first. You are throwing around the word "NORMAL" like it is some kind of a yard stick. Different things are "NORMAL" for different people.
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Gay and bisexual people by no means have the bondage market cornered. Likewise I have known my share of heterosexuals who like a bit of pain as well.
Don't let your curiosity about bondage, s&m, confuse you. If yourself aroused by a little or a lot of it it perfectly fine to explore it no matter what orientation you identify with.
Go ahead, check it out and you me be pleasantly surprised at how much of this stuff is "NORMAL" for you.

### Re: Please Help

Post by BartFisher » Tue Mar 30, 2010 7:54 am

im sorry for using the word normal chris i didnt mean to offend anyobdy i spose what i meant was the opposite of alternate people