Postby PamelaCH » Thu Nov 11, 2010 8:53 am
Guys in general--not always, but in general--like to be the leader, to take charge. A lot of girls, and I'm in this group, like to be the follower. It's in the culture--guys ask girls out, guys pay for the date, the guy is the one driving us around.
Girls like me like to be asked out, like for the guy to take charge, drive us around, pay for the date. I'm not going to say that we're submissive, as in S&M, but we follow your lead. And we're more interested in being tied up than tying you--those of us interested in bondage.
Why do you like to tie girls, but are disgusted by the idea of tying guys? Probably becuase it's becoming sexual to you, and from what you say, you aren't interested in guys at all romantically, just girls. Girls look sexy to you bound. I don't think it's more complicated than that.
I'm not dissing same sex romance, but that's just not you.