TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Nuclearo » Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:11 pm

I am curious, is your computer stuck on caps lock?
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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:26 am

To answer your question, I was myself VERY sexually aroused by being tied up when I was an adolescent - and the friends who did it to me were aroused by doing the tying. All this made for some very interesting experiences for me back then. Perhaps TOO interesting, because since then my interest in both TUGs and sex have been 'stuck' in the same age group I was then concerning partners that appeal to me... making for a very unhealthy and potentially dangerous situation for me as I got older. Not being a pedophile and yet unable to fully enjoy either TUGs or sex with people of my own age I've done little in the way of TUGs or sex since. What few times I did so were with adults (guys over 18) but still with a significant and growing age gap between me and them, until that gap (over 15 years in one case; i was 40 and he was 25) finally got so large I was extremely bothered by it and stopped completely at about age 45. How much was cause and how much effect I don't know, but I decided this was no good for either of us. If sex didn't enter the picture, that might have been different... but it did. Even where it is just TUGs involved, peer age is probably best - but to me that lacks any appeal after the amazing experiences I had as a teenager.
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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Fesselfan » Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:34 am

I dont get turned on by being tied up- but that's because I don't like to get tied up at all. However, when I tie a (or especially my) sweet damsel up, it arouses me a lot.

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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:33 pm

george1909 wrote:
if a guy is 16 and you and he are friends and you care about each other than there is nothing wrong. at least not here in ireland and the UK were the age of consent is 16.

If you're talking the other guy being 16 and me being my current age of 56, well... I think a lot of people would see something VERY wrong with it. And regardless of what *I* felt about such a match-up, I'd probably avoid such a situation just to avoid any unpleasantness from such people. Maybe people are cooler in Ireland than they are here, but I doubt they're THAT laid back over there!
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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Canuck33 » Thu Aug 30, 2012 7:00 am

I agree there's a very sexual aspect to bondage, and I am one of those people who get seriously turned on by it. HOWEVER! That really depends on the circumstances and nature of the bondage. First of all, I can't be fully dressed. I'm much more like to get turned on if I'm tied up in my underpants or some sort of tight outfit (superhero? lol), but I can't be wearing my work/everyday clothes. :lol: . I'm more likely to get turned on if I'm gagged with duct-tape, or blindfolded, or better - both! The way I'm tied is not even that important, as long as it's tight and inescapable. Poor TUG work that is easily escapable doesn't do anything for me.
Throw some naughtiness into the mix, and you got yourself an NC-17 movie. :P

Jason, your situation is unusual and interesting. You said that you were 40 and your partner 25, yet you were extremely bothered by the situation and stopped TUGs altogether. I don't necessarily think the age gap is such a big deal. Last year, when I was 23, I had a relationship with a much older man - he was +50. (Please try not to visualize this if you're easily disturbed lol). It was a wonderful relationship, I was not coerced, in fact I tried to get him to tie me up but he didn't enjoy it so much. :( My view is this: I don't support doing ANYTHING sex-related with underage people, at all. And a few years ago, I was one of those underage boys who couldn't get a date (things changed!) and fantasized being picked up by someone older. Now I'm glad it hasn't happened hehehehe. As long as your partner is an adult (I'm not even going to say "legal", because lots of 18 year olds and ESPECIALLY 16 year olds, even more so if they're boys, are naive and haven't lived enough to make an informed decision regarding certain things) and there's no physical coercion involved, I don't see what's so bothersome about it. Did your partner enjoy himself, or was it an awkward experience? That could definitely be a factor. There are LOTS of guys in their 20's and 30's who are either straight, gay or bisexual who probably wouldn't mind having TUGs with an older guy. You're going to have to find someone who's nice to you, and respectful, and if possible, is good looking and athletic. Like...me for example :wink: . Too bad I live in Ontario lol.
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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby HailstormHailey » Sun Sep 16, 2012 10:45 am

I do when I both tie and get tied, I always thought that was a rather common feeling

Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby burner59 » Sun Sep 16, 2012 11:10 am

I do when tied or tying, for I just feel something...sexual...about it all.

Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Rope_guy » Sun Sep 30, 2012 8:15 pm

Isn't the phrase "tie up" supposed to be a nonsexual alternate to the word "bondage", which, to many people, has sexual connotations? I thought the whole purpose of this site is to talk about situations which someone was bound but sexuality was not a major element in the situation. Of course some people cannot avoid being turned on sexually by the sight of someone else tied up, even though the reasons may be nonsexual. I myself have a sexual attraction to a female tied up, particularly if she is a young woman who is lightly clad. I actually enjoy the stories of females in their teens and twenties who are tied up more than anything else on this site, even the ones which sex was not a factor. So, yes, sexuality plays a large role in my preference to the stories on this site.

Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Laurenight » Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:40 am

My answer is definitely yes I am!

Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby MissTieMeUp » Tue Oct 09, 2012 11:39 am

I get turned on just looking at a picture of rope or a gag (or DID"s bound and gagged) lol so yes for me to be physically bound and gagged is one the biggest turn ons for me.
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Re: TURNED ON BY BONDAGE?

Postby Tieup1 » Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:29 am

Seeing a female bound and gagged can, and usually does turn me on. :)