Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Fri Apr 28, 2017 7:43 am

Well, since everyone else is doing this, and I'm getting a lot of PMs...~

It might be worth checking out my profile first, 'cause there's a couple things you might wanna ask that probably wouldn't come up otherwise.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby soyoutie » Fri Apr 28, 2017 8:06 am

Best tie up you have ever been involved in?

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Postby naomi » Fri Apr 28, 2017 8:31 am

Ah, gosh, I've got so many good ones! I think I'm going to go with the one where I was a prize in a poker game. It's something of a long story, but someone bet having me as a servant for the upcoming weekend (my idea) and they tied me up to a chair so I couldn't renege on it. There's just something so sexy about watching helplessly as your fate gets decided!
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Postby soyoutie » Fri Apr 28, 2017 10:29 am

Favourite position, restraint and gag?

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Fri Apr 28, 2017 10:44 am

SilentAlarmBNG wrote:Are you aware that your name spelt backwards is "I moan" ??

Can't say I've ever had it pointed out before.

soyoutie wrote:Favourite position, restraint and gag?

If I'm getting tied up with ropes, a box tie, a chair tie, or getting tied to my bed. Overall, I prefer armbinders or straitjackets, but the elegance of rope makes it a close second. If blindfolds count as a restraint, those too.

I'm not really into gags. I'm not opposed to wearing one, but it's more something you spring on me when I'm powerless to resist.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby That-animeguy » Fri Apr 28, 2017 11:23 am

Due your interest in characters, and their traits, and behavior. :)
Have you ever created your own character?
So... gulible!

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Fri Apr 28, 2017 11:40 am

Frequently! So far, it seems like people here lean more towards quick, pickup-style RPs, so I'm playing as more or less myself, but I'd love to do some bondage-themed worldbuilding with the right partner.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Fri Apr 28, 2017 11:52 am

When I was a kid, I liked to put on a blindfold when I was alone. The struggle of doing things that I couldn't see was fun, even if the task was something as simple as getting dressed or pouring a bowl of cereal. Early in my teenage years, I got handcuffed as part of a party game, and the rest is history.
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Postby acecondor » Fri Apr 28, 2017 11:01 pm

How were you when you finally asked someone to REALLY tie you up? (Nervous, confident, etc.)
Me gusta le bondage

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Postby naomi » Sat Apr 29, 2017 6:09 am

That would be my sister Akane when we were 16 (fraternal twins!), and by that point it was a pretty open secret between the two of us. I was a little bit nervous only because, y'know, I was getting tied up for the first time, but more excited than anything.

My first time getting tied up by someone who I didn't already know was near the end of my first year of college. I was in a film class at the time, and asked my roommate how she'd feel "kidnapping" me for an assignment. It wasn't particularly exciting and nothing more came of it, but it was easy enough to ask.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby BoundJana » Sat Apr 29, 2017 7:21 am

What do you like the most about bondage?
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Postby That-animeguy » Sat Apr 29, 2017 7:22 am

And with the bondage concept still in mind, what would you dislike most when being tied?
So... gulible!

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Sat Apr 29, 2017 9:53 am

BoundJana wrote:What do you like the most about bondage?


Well, to a degree, that depends. Whether I'm in the dominant or submissive role, I like to build up slowly, starting with relatively minor bondage and adding more over time. I like pushing boundaries or having my boundaries pushed, respectively; but that requires a degree of trust and understanding about when it's acceptable to push what. That trust and understanding is itself an important part of the experience itself, which is why I don't care much for kidnapping plots.

In the submissive role, I find that being tied up makes me more open to other things. I usually dress pretty modestly, and feel uncomfortable even in most swimsuits; however, I let bondage partners take my shirt[1] off all the time, reach under my skirt[2] and feel my thighs, etc. This is related to the boundary pushing I mentioned above, and, of course, it can easily go wrong if my partner isn't sensitive to when it's okay and when it's not. My online persona is fairly direct, but in real life I'm quite submissive even when not tied up, and being told to do things[3] while restrained is amazing.

In a dominant role, I like my partner's boobs.



[1] I don't usually wear a bra - I'm Asian; there's not much for one to hold up. If I am wearing one for some reason, that can come off too.
[2] I'm almost always wearing some sort of comfy skirt, usually with a preppy sort of aesthetic. The only time I routinely wear pants is as pajamas during the winter. And, yes, I've let partners pull off my pajamas before.
[3] Mostly simple errands - housework, preparing meals, or just fetching things; I have very little experience with sex and it's been almost entirely vanilla[4].
[4] Totally gay, but vanilla.

That-animeguy wrote:And with the bondage concept still in mind, what would you dislike most when being tied?


When I'm not allowed to be an active participant. I see bondage as a romantic (or platonic) experience, not a sexual one, and, much like flirting is a two-way street, that's how I'd like to be tied up - as an equal partner, not an object to be degraded. I know that's a turn-on for many people, and more power to them, but it's just not my cup of tea[5]. Of course, that's not to say someone can't dominate me, or deny me the option to decline, say, a gag; but doing so with me requires a certain level of sensitivity.

My second semester of sophomore year, I had a suite with four other students. Over a vacation, myself and a suite-mate were the only ones still there, and he knew of my interests in bondage, so as soon as the others were gone, out came the handcuffs. We had a great time (see footnote 3 above), but I eventually wanted to take a shower. He wanted some assurance that I'd get cuffed again after (it was playful, not a serious thing), so I offered to give him my shirt until I was cuffed again. When I came back, he took advantage of the letter of our agreement and insisted on cuffing me before giving the shirt back, which, of course, prevented me from putting it on, so I spent the rest of the weekend shirtless.

This worked because I knew I could have demanded to be let out at any time, or my shirt back, and he'd have immediately complied. I was in full control the whole time, and we both knew it; I made it known when I was comfortable moving along to something more strict or more sexual, and he knew to push as far as I'd let him and no further. There were dozens of things he could have done differently over the weekend, and the actual sequence of what happened was all up to him, but he was sensitive to how much I wanted to happen, and picked up on my hints. Had he not been, I wouldn't be speaking of that memory so fondly.

Of course, weak doms are no fun, either. Even if I'm the one setting the pace for things and hinting at what I'd like, I need to feel helpless. This is probably why I don't get tied up as much as I'd like - that sort of sensitivity requires the right person, and takes a long time to build regardless. It's also a serious problem in roleplays, and a series of RP partners (not here) that couldn't find the right balance turned me off the whole thing for a time.

This answer turned out a lot longer than expected.



[5] Green tea, of course. I have to be at least somewhat stereotypical.
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Postby That-animeguy » Sat Apr 29, 2017 10:50 am

Nonsense, these are the answers I was mostly looking for! :)
Anyone can say yes or no, but a good answer is worth enough to read.

I guess patience is a strong part of many things, along trust, it takes alot of effort, and time to built.
But when built properly, it's strong enough for it, if not, you'll see it break, likely. :)
So... gulible!

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Sat Apr 29, 2017 11:35 am

That-animeguy wrote:Nonsense, these are the answers I was mostly looking for! :)
Anyone can say yes or no, but a good answer is worth enough to read.


I still surprised myself. The things with me and trust are pretty deep in my psyche, and I didn't expect to go into quite so much detail about them on a bondage forum. I guess, in retrospect, with the link between bondage and trust, it was inevitable, but I still didn't see it coming.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby truly_trussed » Sat Apr 29, 2017 6:51 pm

Do your parents know of your "hobby"?

Play safe, T.T.

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Postby naomi » Sat Apr 29, 2017 7:13 pm

Not to my knowledge. Don't get me wrong, I have a great relationship with my parents, but there are some things I don't want to try to explaining to them. Of course, just because I haven't told them doesn't mean they don't know.

Okay, that's not actually quite true. As a little girl, I did try to clue my mom in, but she didn't get it and I dropped the subject pretty quickly. I don't think she remembers it.

I dunno. Bondage is a pretty big part of my personality, especially of my spiritual side, and it would be good if I could find a way to explain it. I'm just not sure how.

For comparison, they know about my sexuality and are supportive of that. My mom was nervous for a while, but got over it when she met my then-girlfriend.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby BoundJana » Sat Apr 29, 2017 11:57 pm

When was the last time you were tied?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Postby truly_trussed » Sun Apr 30, 2017 5:49 am

Do you find being bound and gagged very relaxing? It is for me as long as the ropes are tight and inescapable but comfortable. :tied: :gag:

Also have you ever been tied to another person? If not would you like to try it.

Play safe, T.T. cheers

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Sun Apr 30, 2017 7:30 am

BoundJana wrote:When was the last time you were tied?


Last Halloween, when I went to a party in a straitjacket... and let's just say my roommate wasn't rushing to untie me afterwards. ;)

I don't actually get tied up that much in real life. I do have a couple stories I'd like to share some day, that Halloween one and the poker game among them, but by and large I'm pretty shy about bringing it up with people I don't know very well. I'm also very academically motivated[1], which does a number on my free time. I'unno. Some day, I'll find a wife who's on the same wavelength about bondage things; until then, I'll keep writing.



truly_trussed wrote:Do you find being bound and gagged very relaxing? It is for me as long as the ropes are tight and inescapable but comfortable. :tied: :gag:

Also have you ever been tied to another person? If not would you like to try it.

Play safe, T.T. cheers


As I've said earlier, I don't like gags. But yes, being tied up is very relaxing for me, especially if I'm blindfolded. I've got a hobble skirt nightgown[2] that I like to sleep in, which I've been doing a lot more of this semester because I don't have a roommate.

I've never been tied to someone else, but it sounds fun with the right person.



[1] Blame my ethnicity. :P
[2] Navigate to this page and Ctrl-F "sleep".
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Postby BoundJana » Sun Apr 30, 2017 8:40 am

Nice ^-^
Where did you got the straitjacket?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Postby naomi » Sun Apr 30, 2017 8:44 am

BoundJana wrote:Nice ^-^
Where did you got the straitjacket?


eBay, believe it or not. I found a really nice one - and my roommate threw in a couple bucks so I could afford it, which really should have clued me in.
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Postby BoundJana » Sun Apr 30, 2017 8:50 am

Oh okay ^^
Where do you buy the other stuff for bondage?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Postby truly_trussed » Sun Apr 30, 2017 4:30 pm

Naomi, does your college / university have a Kink Club? A lot of them do nowadays in the U.S., Canada and the U.K.

Study hard, play safe. T.T, :bound:

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Sun Apr 30, 2017 5:11 pm

BoundJana wrote:Oh okay ^^
Where do you buy the other stuff for bondage?


I mostly use rope, which isn't exactly hard to find! Don't get me wrong, I'd love to own more legit bondage gear, but I'm also a very private person and would be mortified if anyone found it.



truly_trussed wrote:Naomi, does your college / university have a Kink Club? A lot of them do nowadays in the U.S., Canada and the U.K.

Study hard, play safe. T.T, :bound:


It's honestly never occurred to me to check. I'll have to get back to you...~
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby BoundJana » Sun Apr 30, 2017 9:58 pm

What is your prefered outfit when you are getting tied up?
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Postby naomi » Wed May 03, 2017 6:53 am

A comfortable-but-nice skirt and (usually) a matching top, nothing too fancy. :)
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby Kyle » Sat May 06, 2017 9:11 pm

Do you remember how you got interested in this in the first place?

Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby naomi » Sun May 07, 2017 1:11 pm

I believe I spoke about this earlier in the thread, so you might want to look for that if it's something you'd like to know more about. As far as I can remember, I've always been interested in bondage. As a little girl I liked to blindfold myself, and I started experimenting with self-bondage as I grew older. My first "real" bondage experience was wearing a pair of handcuffs during a party game at a friend's birthday, and I don't think I'd be as interested as I am were it not for that.
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Re: Naomi's AMA

Postby MisterTheEdge » Wed May 10, 2017 10:45 am

Ever been tied up with another person?
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Give me a hell yes!
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