Questions about dominatrixes? (Warning NC-17)

Postby purpledumplings69 » Tue Feb 12, 2013 8:11 pm

cornypoop69 wrote:In this post I'm kinda just gonna throw out all my interests or fantasies and ask a few questions too. To start off, I'm a 16 year old boy. I've had some interest in bondage ever since I was born. Long ago, I used to get soooooo excited when I saw daphne from scooby doo tied up and gagged. But back then I was too young to understand that my interest was simply of sexual nature. My interest has been evolving up to today. I went from watching cartoon bondage to mild real people bondage to naked girls bound and gagged to lesbian domination and then occasionally now I watch some stuff even more hardcore. But all my life this interest has been more of an obsession or an addiction. If I'm not watching videos of girls bound and gagged, I feel greatly deprived, probably just like a junkie who hasn't shot up in a while. Im always having fantasies in my head and I don't even bother trying to get them out because they're stuck with me forever. So if I get turned on by bondage, why should I stay away from it? At this point in my life, I like relatively mild stuff. As long as there's a girl tied up and gagged, I'm happy. I'm into spanking and whips and shit too but sometimes bondage can "cross the line" for me. I've seen some videos where girls are in these weird machine things or have fucked up contraptions on their heads. Basically it's too tough for me to explain and I don't want to imagine it because that stuff freaks me out. So I like to keep what I watch relativity mild. Sometimes if I decide to be extra kinky(remember, I'm 15 and have fully gone through puberty), I'll masturbate to something as mild as  girl getting handgagged. For example in that stupid show Hannah Montana, Miley cyrus handgags her hot friend lily and I've jacked off to that scene like 6 times. Or I occasionally watch cartoon bondage now too. That's a summary of what I like to watch. Well unfortunately my obsession had reached a point where I personally want to be involved in bondage. That leads me into the next paragraph 

So I'm interested in both a submissive and dominative role. I guess if I only watch videos of girls tied up, I should really only be interested in a dominative role. I'm without a doubt not gay so I would never watch a
bondage video with a guy in it. But I'm interested in being the victim too. I'll start by expanding on the dominative side. I love seeing women tied up and gagged. I love seeing them fight against their bonds or have their screams muffled by their gag and I love it when I see them cry. It may sound fucked up but I don't really care. So I would want to be in a dominative role where I can make a girl do whatever I want. Now I'll talk about my opinions on the submissive side. In a nutshell, I want to be treated like a bitch. First off I need to be gagged. Gagging is my favorite
part of bondage. I'm into tape gags, cleave gags, OTM gags, ball gags ad handgags. I want to be gagged and try to scream but won't be able to. I want to be completely powerless. I want to be hogtied on a bed, gagged and blindfolded too. There's another crazy thing I'm interested in doing. Here is where you could think I'm gay but I'm not into guys at all so I guess I'm not. When I said I wanted to be treated like a bitch, I almost meant literally. I want to be wearing woman's clothes while Im bound and gagged. I want a hot girl to put me in a dress, tie me to a chair and ballgag me, then do my hair like a girl and put makeup on me. Even crazier, I'm interested in dressing like a princess.  I want to wear the dresses that Belle, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Alice from Wonderland, Jasmine and Princess Peach wear. I want to look like those girls while being dominated. I would be treated like a pathetic defenseless girl crying into her gag and fighting against her bonds. And I really believe that doing so can excite me to a sexual peak. So I want to tie up girls or get tied up. But unfortunately, neither has happened and I don't think either will in a while.

I read some of the stories on this website and they almost seem "too good to be true". For example, I read a story where a girl strips in front of her mom who ties her to a chair, gags her and shoves a vibrator down her panties. Now that...was so hot. But seriously, how is that possible? What person is lucky enough to randomly end up in a situation like that? First, I would never let my parents be involved in my bondage activity AT ALL. They've caught me watching videos 3 times and the third time I was met with a pretty bad reaction. So that's out of the question. I'm not too good with the ladies haha so I don't hang out with any girls out of school. So I'm assuming that a girl won't tie me up any time soon. I'm definitely not letting any of my guy friends do it. So chances are, I'm not going to be able to ask someone I know to tie me up or get randomly tied up. I sometimes think about a dominatrix, but I don't even have a car or any trust from my parents. Plus it's kinda fucking stupid and mentally unhealthy while I'm this young. So if I want to get a dominatrix, I'll probably have to wait until I'm living on my own. So this next paragraph is questions regarding a dominatrix

First, what is the price range for a dominatrix? Cuz I don't consider myself an idiot so I would never waste money on anything like that. I probably wouldn't have the money to blow anyway. Second, are there dominatrixes who will dominate you several times? like could I have my own personal dominatrix? Or will I just need to find a new random one every time I want to do some bondage? Third, do dominatrixes allow YOU to take the dominating role? So could I pay for a dominatrix and get to tie her up? Fourth, do you kinda get to tell a dominatrix what to do? I kinda want the element of surprise to be present but I want to specify that there's some stuff I want to do and some stuff I don't. So could I tell a dominatrix beforehand what I want her to do to me? Fifth, are actual dominatrixes generally hot or ugly? I mean, I would want a hot chick tying me up over an ugly one. Sixth, do dominatrixes ever pleasure you? like would one ever suck my cock while I'm tied up?  Seventh, how exactly do you find a dominatrix? I'm assuming that they're not in the yellow pages. So how do you find and contact one?

I was just asking all those for the future cuz I'm probably going to go for it one day. Help out a fellow bondage fan. And just throwing it out there...if there's a girl who can drive and has a car in south jersey...maybe we could meet up and have some fun. Just a possibility...