Postby Fesselfan » Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:13 pm
These are pretty broad questions, and really hard to answer to.
i.e. not everyone into tying up sees this as a sexual thing- some people tie each other up just for the fun of it.
However, I shall try to answer your questions to the best of my knowledge, being in the world of BDSM for a decade now.
1. More common than you would think. I met a lot of BDSM people during my time. I vaguely remember a psychological study claiming that a third of the human population has at least latent fantasies about that issue. Remembering that humans have developed from herd animals, it's not completly of track that we tend to develop hierarchical structures (be it in job, in school or DS play).
2. IMHO, Tug and Bondage fetish is not as widespread as 1.). especially the active part. But maybe that's because it takes a little bit of skill and practise to tie someone up effectivly- while being tied up is possible for almost everyone.
3. See 1 and 2
4. As general answer? no. If you like sexual tugs with guys and "normal" **** with girls, you may have some bi tendencies. If you prefer males in both- well then yes. However, being bi or homosexual carries no stigma to me.
Cheers
FF
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