Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Scottstud94 » Wed Jul 15, 2009 4:05 pm

I am curious as to how many of you guys managed to keep your love of TUGS a secret throughout your childhood? I have not told anybody or been caught yet, so I was curious about everybody else.

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Postby sw633 » Thu Jul 16, 2009 9:02 am

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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby dav » Sun Jul 19, 2009 6:09 pm

I never made a secret of it, but I didn’t make sw633’s mistake :)
The key was to not make a big deal about it. I gave up a couple of pretty good opportunities to tie up my girlfriend because I didn’t want to seem overeager and blow it. But as a result, other good opportunities came along, and in the long run I’ve came out ahead.
So I don’t think you have to be secretive, just exercise some subtlety. That worked for me anyway.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby wadeb444 » Mon Jul 20, 2009 9:24 pm

its not really a secret for us. my cousin plays games where he captures me and ties me up, and my parents think its funny when it happens.
WADE

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Chris12 » Tue Oct 06, 2009 11:33 am

The only one who knows outside the guys that tie me up is my older sister as most of the time my friends or brother force her to pay my ransom or just show me to her for fun.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Kyle » Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:37 pm

The only people who could have possibly known were my parents, and if they knew they never let on. Considering my relatively few experiences I don't know how they could've figured it out either but maybe they did.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby kidnapper » Wed Oct 07, 2009 5:09 am

"it must be secret against others." it was a rule between us, me and other friends in tug.
even if we got a picture of the tied up victim for fun, we deleted it immediately! and if we wanted to put it on a site, we used a mask for the victim and tried to filter any object that can reveal us to others. at least i was (and am) successful about it. :mrgreen:

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Writer » Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:38 pm

I'm trying to keep it hidden only to my parents and family, as they found out once since i told them and are not that into the idea of me liking TUGs. My aunt even suggested therapy once, but i dont think it's a mental problem. I'm trying to tell my friends who i want to bring into tugs about it. is that good?
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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Scottstud94 » Sat Oct 10, 2009 6:27 am

To Writer: I myself am trying to do the same, tell two of my closest friends about my little secret enjoyment of TUGS but have not gotten the right oppurtunity. The thing is you can't sound to weird when you say it and dont make it sound like an obsession

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Jay Feely » Tue Oct 05, 2010 7:54 pm

I have managed to hide it from most people as a child, but in one situation, my parents walked into my tied up game. They gave me a lecture about safety in being tied up, and allowed me to continue it.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby josh » Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:51 pm

i did like a 50% job. mom caught me with porn when i was young.. and dad saw me tie up my little annoying almost step sisters once or twice but didnt care too much.
So if i has to say yes or no yes. But in teenage years when i actually tied someone and got tied i was good enough to not get caught by mom.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Chase Ricks » Thu Oct 07, 2010 8:00 am

Never been caught doing it but was caught seeing bondage porn pics online seven years ago. Talked my way out of it by saying it was a popup ad. Now I am way more careful indeed so that I never can be forced to explain just where my great story ideas come from that are fiction based only.
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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby anjell » Thu Oct 07, 2010 8:09 am

I never tried to keep it a secret. But i never went around telling either. I think my brother knows but i never asked and if he do know it would not be something that would bother him.
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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby ropendope » Thu Oct 07, 2010 8:53 am

I think everyone knew but they dont care. I used to tie up my mom, sister, and cousins and everytime i had them wear heels or flats. So based off that im sure people knew. And one time after tying up my sister my aunt was like "why did you tie up ur sister? Ur supposed to tie up ur girlfriend!" and another aunt asked me if i was gonna tie her up.

Im positive my sister knows because she was the one i tied up the most and i still do tie her up and she knows ive done it to at least one girlfriend and everytime i tie her up i tell her its for practice. Like ill walk up to her while shes not busy and hold out some tape or rope or whatever and tell her i want to try something different and she lets me tie her up.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Kyle » Thu Oct 07, 2010 1:47 pm

I have to change my prior answer a bit now. At least 2 people definitely know now, and a 3rd possibly does. One thing I didn't mention before is I used to have a pile of rope I collected I used to tie myself up with when I was a teenager that my parents did come across once, so it's possible they had an idea, but they never mentioned it to me.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby snobound » Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:43 pm

I may have posted this elsewhere once, but when I was 13 or 14 I bought an old fire safe at a yard sale for the sole purpose of storing my TUG toy collection. Initially it only contained a few lengths of rope, chain, and some padlocks and snap hooks. By the time I was fifteen there were handcuffs, improvised leather restraints, some dog collars, and a home-made ball gag as well! I was in and out of that safe every couple of days, and got sloppy. I came home from school one day to find a note taped to the safe. It said "Be sure to close your safe!" The handwriting was my mother's. I nearly died. I don't know if she merely glanced in then shut the door, realizing the contents to be of a "private" nature, or if she rifled through my toy box, becoming increasingly shocked and alarmed the deeper she dug. What do you think she did? She never mentioned it to me, and I couldn't make eye contact with my own mother for at least a week.
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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:33 pm

snobound wrote:I may have posted this elsewhere once, but when I was 13 or 14 I bought an old fire safe at a yard sale for the sole purpose of storing my TUG toy collection. Initially it only contained a few lengths of rope, chain, and some padlocks and snap hooks. By the time I was fifteen there were handcuffs, improvised leather restraints, some dog collars, and a home-made ball gag as well! I was in and out of that safe every couple of days, and got sloppy. I came home from school one day to find a note taped to the safe. It said "Be sure to close your safe!" The handwriting was my mother's. I nearly died. I don't know if she merely glanced in then shut the door, realizing the contents to be of a "private" nature, or if she rifled through my toy box, becoming increasingly shocked and alarmed the deeper she dug. What do you think she did? She never mentioned it to me, and I couldn't make eye contact with my own mother for at least a week.


That last part probably gave you away even if nothing else did! :twisted:
Lots of people knew about MY Tugs, but only because I played Tugs with lots of people. No one else (least of all my mother or aunt) ever knew anything about them until many years later. My mom found my Tugs diary once, but I'd had the foresight to write it in my own made up code and so she couldn't understand what was in it.
And my Tugs equipment was kept in a place she was physically unable to reach - inside the attic right beside my bedroom! :twisted:
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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby james14 » Sat Oct 09, 2010 2:12 am

My parents were so naive they would not know what it was anyway. The secret(if you call it that) was easy to hide and as , in the main, I had a collection of comics with bondage pictures in them, my parents would not suspect. As for my sisters, they were also so naive and grey also. They were so naive and grey, I often wonder how they had children- they married the first male that came along and still live in a grey and dull world of their own.

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby snobound » Sat Oct 09, 2010 1:47 pm

Writer wrote:I'm trying to keep it hidden only to my parents and family, as they found out once since i told them and are not that into the idea of me liking TUGs. My aunt even suggested therapy once, but i dont think it's a mental problem. I'm trying to tell my friends who i want to bring into tugs about it. is that good?



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Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Oct 09, 2010 9:35 pm

snobound wrote:
Writer wrote:I'm trying to keep it hidden only to my parents and family, as they found out once since i told them and are not that into the idea of me liking TUGs. My aunt even suggested therapy once, but i dont think it's a mental problem. I'm trying to tell my friends who i want to bring into tugs about it. is that good?



You'll regret it if you don't... go for it.


I second that notion, with a qualifier: Go slow and careful so you can make it look like a joke or something if their reaction seems less than favorable.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Loz » Sat Oct 09, 2010 10:56 pm

No one ever knew that I like tugs, except for my boyfriend who I only told in April :P

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby samstud95 » Mon Oct 11, 2010 7:21 pm

well my cousin been tying me up since i was like 6 or so but yeh my mom caught us not to long ago when i was tied up and he was filming me trying to escape and she freaked and made us delete all of it and made us promise not to do it no more but we didn' listen and did it even more!!! i'm about to tell my girlfriend to i think so hope it goes ok!!

Re: Childhood Secrecy?

Postby Jay Feely » Mon Oct 11, 2010 7:31 pm

What if you had two parents who did not approve of your tied up games? Than, what could you do?
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.