## Harrassment

Post by Sealherlips » Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:14 am

I feel that users who constantly hunt down and attack users, as well as insult people who try to calm things down, should be banned from the site. Harassment is making this site considerably less enjoyable.

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Post by Sealherlips » Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:16 am

And stalking. That's another thing I should have added. Considering it only took mere seconds for you to find my post and insult me. Congratulations. A new record.

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Post by bondagefreak » Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:28 am

Hello Sealherlips,
The moderation team is already aware of what is happening. One of the concerned posts has been reported to them last night. We just need to wait for them to make their move.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Sat Sep 14, 2013 9:36 am

Mirae herself has asked that all her posts be deleted. This is now in progress.
She says she is now leaving. I hope this suffices to end this feud.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by notlongerhere » Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:39 am

-h.
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Post by Jason Toddman » Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:46 am

She said she was having colon cancer surgery.
Perhaps this changed her, but I don't see it. *I* had colon cancer surgery myself a few months before I joined this site. It didn't change me or my priorities or the way I talk to people. But I was in my 50s; she's just shy of 20. Maybe that age difference has something to do with it. At that age, my life was far less stressful - I don't know if I could've coped then with the problems I cope with now.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by notlongerhere » Sat Sep 14, 2013 11:03 am

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Post by Diminished » Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:38 pm

Wait what happened to Mirae?? I cant find her stories or anything?

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Post by notlongerhere » Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:43 pm

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Post by Diminished » Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:46 pm

Do you know why she left and had everything removed? I talked to her through pm a while ago and she said she was behind in law school because of her surgery...is thats why?

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Post by Fesselfan » Sun Sep 15, 2013 2:18 am

Geez...maybe someone who leaves doesn't want her reasons for it spilled out all over the board?
Cheers
FF
There are 10 kind of people in the world.
Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

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Post by notlongerhere » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:55 am

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Post by Chris12 » Sun Sep 15, 2013 1:15 pm

Sorry but....what now? I seem to have missed all of this.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Sun Sep 15, 2013 1:55 pm

She wanted to leave, so she left. That's about all there is to it.
I made copies of her stories though for anyone who wants any of them.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by GoneGoneGone » Sun Sep 15, 2013 2:06 pm

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Post by MHW » Sun Sep 15, 2013 5:15 pm

> Jason Toddman wrote:She wanted to leave, so she left. That's about all there is to it.
> I made copies of her stories though for anyone who wants any of them.

Maybe it's not that fantastic an idea to give out what she asked to have deleted?

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Post by Jason Toddman » Sun Sep 15, 2013 9:13 pm

> MHW wrote:
> Maybe it's not that fantastic an idea to give out what she asked to have deleted?

Anyone who wants a copy of her stories, PM me with a request.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by Diminished » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:24 pm

> Jason Toddman wrote:

> > MHW wrote:
> > Maybe it's not that fantastic an idea to give out what she asked to have deleted?

> Anyone who wants a copy of her stories, PM me with a request.

shouldn't you ask her first? I mean if it's her stories?

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Post by MHW » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:27 pm

> Jason Toddman wrote:

> > MHW wrote:
> > Maybe it's not that fantastic an idea to give out what she asked to have deleted?

> Anyone who wants a copy of her stories, PM me with a request.

Ok, or just ignore what i said i guess?

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Post by notlongerhere » Sun Sep 15, 2013 11:52 pm

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:35 am

Or, if you don't want them, you don't have to ask for them.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by Diminished » Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:48 am

I think we should just mourn the departure of an awesome writer instead... but I would still like her stories. Do you send them through PM or a link?

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:59 am

> Diminished wrote:I think we should just mourn the departure of an awesome writer instead... but I would still like her stories. Do you send them through PM or a link?

I'd have to send them through a PM (or series of PMs; most are too lengthy to fit into just one) as i don't know how to do the other and feel that would violate her wish to have her stories removed from a public domain anyway. Or you could give me your email address if you're willing to trust me with it and i could send them all to you in just one shot inside an attachment, which would much easier (for me at least).
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by Fesselfan » Mon Sep 16, 2013 9:24 pm

Which leads me to a question...who has the copyright of stories posted here?
Cheers
FF
There are 10 kind of people in the world.
Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 16, 2013 9:42 pm

> Fesselfan wrote:Which leads me to a question...who has the copyright of stories posted here?
> Cheers
> FF

As far as I know, any stories posted here (or anywhere on a blog or website) are under a Creative Commons License, leaving one free to share the material with anyone they like provided they give proper credit to the author. After all, once a story is posted here, anyone can copy the thing and keep it for their own; there's absolutely nothing to stop them.
But this is obviously about my sharing Mirae's stories. Fine. I won't pass them on. I was trying to make an offer to those interested in her stories, not start another GD stinking controversy. I'm sick and tired of my attempts to help being misunderstood or questioned. No one has asked for the things so far anyway, so it's literally a case of making a mountain out of a molehill.
So everyone, consider the offer withdrawn. If you didn't download her stories yourself and wanted them, you're now flat out of luck.
There everyone; are you all satisfied now?
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by Fesselfan » Mon Sep 16, 2013 9:51 pm

Jason, I asked because I have some own stories posted here and asked myself under which legal code they are. Of course, anyone can copy and save them here (and, in my case, at least once it was posted by another person in another forum, claiming to be his own stories). That's not the point- still, I just wanted to know the legals of it. If you take this as an attack on you, well, not my fault.
Cheers
FF
There are 10 kind of people in the world.
Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 16, 2013 10:02 pm

> Fesselfan wrote:Jason, I asked because I have some own stories posted here and asked myself under which legal code they are. Of course, anyone can copy and save them here (and, in my case, at least once it was posted by another person in another forum, claiming to be his own stories). That's not the point- still, I just wanted to know the legals of it. If you take this as an attack on you, well, not my fault.
> Cheers
> FF

Sorry. Recent misunderstandings and accusations in a similar vein (involving the Summer writing contest among other things) have made me punchy and touchy, i guess. I apologize for my own misunderstanding of your intentions.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

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Post by notlongerhere » Mon Sep 16, 2013 10:13 pm

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 16, 2013 10:31 pm

Yes, afaik Creative Commons means the writer must be given credit, but otherwise it's in the public domain. At least, that's my understanding of the situation for most things posted on the web. I could be mistaken of course.
As for someone stealing my stories, i'd probably be more flattered that anyone would consider them worth stealing in the first place than be annoyed by it, but then I never thought like a normal person anyway. I can certainly see why it'd annoy most other people. It just seems to me that since no one else here but me knows who the hell Jason Toddman IS, what difference does it make? Now, if other people took credit for something the real me (who shall go nameless) did, then I'd be madder than hell. But if Joe Blow takes one of Jason Toddman's stories and claims it as his own, it's kind of hard for me to see what difference it makes to me... it'd still MY story other people are (hopefully) liking and who the heck knows the difference between Joe Blow and Jason Toddman but Joe Blow and Jason Toddman? But, like i said, I don't think the same way as most other folks, I guess.
I wouldn't be caught dead ripping off another person's stories in any case, even if we hadn't had such a notorious (and absurdly obvious) example of it right here on this site two to three years ago. I have too much pride (and perhaps an over-inflated sense of my own writing skills) for that!
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...