Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:41 pm
Different people get different levels of thrill out of it. Some get none at all, whereas they may be extremely thrilled once another person does it instead.
Offhand though, I'd say if you've had no experience being tied by another person, self bondage is more likely to thrill you than if you have had that experience. Once you've been tied by another and are at their mercy for a while, self bondage palls on you. Especially if you enjoy tie ups merely as a warm up for something else (from tickle torture on up), self bondage alone just doesn't do it for you. When you've been tied up - and dominated by others - as much as I was as a child and teenager, self bondage holds no allure whatsoever. I myself gave up on it over 15 years ago even though no one else has tied me up during most of that time either. Without someone else there to - ummm - make me really feel helpless, it's no fun at all for me. Whereas with the right person it'd be the most fun I've had in many years!
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