Stef wrote:Propably because you're interest in bondage, and people with such kinks, love the idea of getting tied up/tying up regardless the gender. For example, i'm straight but i've had fantasies of me getting tied up by a male from time to time, just because i like the bondage part.
I somewhat agree with this statement. Personally I prefer the way women
look tied up, and the way men
sound while gagged. That deeper grunting just makes my day. I don't consider settling down with a man or having sex with men, however I wouldn't think twice to involve a male friend in a tieupgame.
Honestly the spectrum of sexual orientation is hard to understand for us in this hetero-normative society. You will find that most of us who are secure with ourselves will identify as being somewhere on the spectrum instead of shielding ourselves with a label of straight, gay, or bi. I'm not suggesting that all people who identify as straight are "insecure" but it is not realistic to suppose that human beings have always lived with a victorian ideal system of heteronormativity.