drawscore wrote:I've purchased handcuffs, leg cuffs, and thumbcuffs at local magic shops. They usually don't ask questions, and, if they do, the stock answer is "My (pick a relative) is in to magic and escapes, and his/her birthday is next week.
Drawscore
Probably the right place and certainly the tactful approach. Making your own ballgag can be fun as well, everything aside from metal objects can be procured without having to go anywhere other than your local hardware store or supermarket. That said, no one will fault you for going to an Adult Toy Store and purchasing some silk rope and bondage tape. If you're really worried just pay with cash; i.e. no record of purchase.
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