## help

Post by rocketroy » Mon May 21, 2012 8:18 pm

hey i want to be tied up but i dont know how to tell my mom what if shes not ok with it or i could tell a friend but i dont know how to do it can you help i want to be tied i could let my self be caught but she might make me stop doing it
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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Tue May 22, 2012 9:30 am

Why don't you just not tell your mother like most people. . ?

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Post by rocketroy » Tue May 22, 2012 3:24 pm

because she looks at what i spend my money on so i cant buy any handcuffs or anything and i cant tie myself
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Post by MHW » Tue May 22, 2012 3:27 pm

To further this line of questions, could I ask how she checks to see what you buy? Does she check a statement for a bank card or something?

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Post by Rope_guy » Tue May 22, 2012 8:29 pm

Just obtain enough cash to make the necessary purchases. Or does your mother interrogate you on cash purchases? Also, how have you gotten on this web site? If your mother keeps track of every purchase you've made, she must also keep track of all of your Internet activities as well.

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Post by TUfriend » Tue May 22, 2012 8:44 pm

> rocketroy wrote:because she looks at what i spend my money on so i cant buy any handcuffs or anything and i cant tie myself

Buy amazon gift card
Buy books with said gift card
Also buy TUGs supplies.
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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Wed May 23, 2012 3:24 am

I'm thinking pretty much along the same lines as what everyone else has said - there is no way that your mother can feasibly check every single purchase that you make.
But on the other hand, why do you need to buy proper TUGs supplies for self bondage? I'm sure you can find some scarves or some tape lying around at home. . .

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Wed May 23, 2012 6:39 am

Hallo, think I understand him. By my mother was same she had will always know what buy and if I get packet she will know what in it the "sanctity of the mail" not really accepted by her. No she would not open it, but say "our family is open I need no secrecy".
On other hand if she know what me secrecy are, she would not like that I do it.
He can buy thing without her know and she found later, that could make more trouble.
I see now she way protect me and have fear that if get know by other especially by relative that it is loss of reputation family.
Andrew
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Post by rocketroy » Wed May 23, 2012 5:02 pm

plues is right if it came in mail my mom would get it but not open it and my family would want to see whats inside so id have to open it in front of them and my mom puts my allowance into the bank so she sees how much is in there so if iv spent any with my bank card she askes the bank where i spent it and they tell her so i have to get it from someone else or buy somthing small with it to say i bought that but you cant really buy most of these things in a regular store
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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Thu May 24, 2012 12:54 am

You seem to be under the assumption that you can only buy this stuff online. . .
When I was younger, everything I bought came from actual stores. You don't even have to go to crazy sex/fetish stores to find it. Pretty much every major high street in the UK has an Ann Summers somewhere along it - and I'm sure there's an equivalent in the US. You can't get the more hardcore stuff in those places, but they're great for basics.
And if there really is absolutely no way at all that you could ever buy any bondage items without your mother finding out, why don't you just do what most other young people do? Just use items from around your house to do your self bondage when your mother is out! It's not like you NEED "proper equippment" to tie yourself up. . .

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Thu May 24, 2012 3:56 am

Hallo Think you can get most normal stores Wal-Mart is as read in USA great and don´t not need 200 feet rope 50 what need. As Blindfold can use sleep mask (for sleep mask can say that light for Window wake you up too early) or scarves. Are tap and Rope not things that boy need (you can disclame that fan of Mac Gyver) .
Andrew
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Post by MHW » Thu May 24, 2012 5:18 am

I`d say the last two posters are right. If you think hard enough, there is bound to be (sorry for the pun ) plenty around your house to tie with. When I was younger, I hid a few pairs of old pajamas, rolled them like a bandana, and used them! If your creative enough, you can get the job done.

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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Thu May 24, 2012 6:31 am

> MHW wrote:I`d say the last two posters are right. If you think hard enough, there is bound to be (sorry for the pun ) plenty around your house to tie with. When I was younger, I hid a few pairs of old pajamas, rolled them like a bandana, and used them! If your creative enough, you can get the job done.

Creativity is the way forward! When I first got into it me and my then-boyfriend would design our own home-made ballgags and stuff It's nice to have the real gear for bondage, but not having it doesn't mean that you can't have fun!

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Thu May 24, 2012 7:40 am

Hallo,
I can only hop that his mother not freak out, she find him tied up, surprising.
Andrew
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Thu May 24, 2012 8:00 am

Haha, yes, well it certainly would be a little awkward to be caught in self-bondage by your parents xD
Most people tend to wait until their parents aren't in the house before they do anything that is difficult to escape from though

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Thu May 24, 2012 9:06 am

> SamanthaBoundx wrote:Most people tend to wait until their parents aren't in the house before they do anything that is difficult to escape from though

The I know thought more unexpected early home coming of parents
Andrew
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Post by rocketroy » Thu May 24, 2012 7:43 pm

ya i could do all of these but i am crap with knots so if i had handcuffs i could use those but i have no where to get them doller store ones are crap i bought some once and they would come off we had to hack saw them off lol but how did you make youre own ball gags note my mom is my only form of transportation other than bus with i dont have cash for since i only have debit i cant figure out how to get my hands done ether
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Post by rugas » Thu May 24, 2012 11:37 pm

ok... idk you, but about me, I thought the safer was not hide them at all, but keep them in the light of day...I mean
when I was yunger, me and some my friends were in a band and so... my handcuffs used to peep out from my back pocket just as a fanciful onstage stuff...

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Post by Scottstud94 » Fri May 25, 2012 12:38 am

So... From my understanding, your mother is like a ruthless dictator
?
Stalinmom!

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Post by rocketroy » Fri May 25, 2012 6:26 pm

no my mom is pretty nic its just difficult because she doenst want me spending money on her idea of crap
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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Sun May 27, 2012 10:26 am

> rocketroy wrote:ya i could do all of these but i am crap with knots so if i had handcuffs i could use those but i have no where to get them doller store ones are crap i bought some once and they would come off we had to hack saw them off lol but how did you make youre own ball gags note my mom is my only form of transportation other than bus with i dont have cash for since i only have debit i cant figure out how to get my hands done ether

Well, you seem to be saying that you literally have no way of buying handcuffs. So there's no sense in asking for advice about it really. Just learn how to do a couple of simple ties using scarves and stuff - there are some pretty good tutorials around and it isn't that difficult once you get used to it.
Making your own ballgag is pretty easy too. Just find yourself any small, spherical object, poke a hole through it and attack a ribbon/lace or something through the middle. It's pretty rudementary, but if you're desperate to try one out but can't afford one then it's not a bad approximation.

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Post by Jason Toddman » Mon May 28, 2012 12:35 pm

> rocketroy wrote:no my mom is pretty nic its just difficult because she doesn't want me spending money on her idea of crap

Is this money she keeps track of from your allowance or from money you earn yourself?
If an allowance then, unless she keeps careful track of your free time too, maybe you could earn money for occasional odd jobs like mowing lawns 'under the table' that she can't keep track of. Then you could spend the money you earn any way you like with her none the wiser. I don't mean a full time job or anything, just a couple of hours a week or however is enough to get you what you need. And if she finds out about you earning money, tell her it's *your* money (which it is!) and you should get to spend it any way you like - just don't be so blunt she cuts off your allowance!
If you're already earning all your money though, then maybe you should tell your mom that she needs to back off just a wee bit! Kids should save at least *some* of their money, but should be free to enjoy at least some of it too without having to endure supervision unless they've been caught using it buy stuff kids shouldn't buy (cigarettes, beer, porn, joints and such)!
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Post by rocketroy » Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:51 pm

my mom doesnt check evrythign but if theres nothing in the account or noth the amount she thought there was she checks what ive spent it on i just need an excuse to buy handcuffs form dollar store sigh then i can probavly get some . how i liked when i was younger when we got things cause we wanted them now im to old for this stuff . my moms nice and cool but she might not like me dooing it but thats part of the attraction
. i have read stories about kids caught and there parents then help them with it
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