My first time tomorrow!

Postby hoodieboy » Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:38 pm

I've wanted to be tied for so long, and it's finally happening tomorrow.

Any tips/advice/recommendations? :D :bound:

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby haloguy » Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:10 pm

how is it happening? I like a good chair tie, and make sure you eat well before, because it is common for people to pass out while tied because of an empty stomach

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby xtc » Sat Nov 20, 2010 10:24 am

How do you know you're going to be safe?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:51 pm

More than anything, the best advice anyone can give you is to be safe. Only do it if its with someone you know, trust and are very comfortable with. Discuss everything beforehand so you know what to expect and where eachothers limits are. Have a safe word or signal so that you can end the situation if you need to. If its at all possible, let someone else know where you are (not necessarily what youre doing) and when you should be back.

I know it puts a bit of a downer on it and makes it seem less exciting and dangerous which is half of the appeal, but safety is so important - especially with beginners. I know that TUGs can go really wrong if you jump in without being careful. Im not just being overly cautious - from ersonal experience, I know its THE most important thing to do.

However, if you're sure that you've covered all of that then I'd suggst that you just have fun! Try things that interest you and be open minded. It'll probably be a little embarassing at first, regardless of how much you've fantasised about it, but just push through that because you'll have an awesome time!

Have fun! =)

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby snobound » Sat Nov 20, 2010 4:30 pm

As XTC and Samantha alluded to, I hope you were safe. I also hope the experience was everything you hoped it would be. There's nothing like surrenduring yourself to another for the very first time. Especially thrilling is the moment when you KNOW that you can't free yourself without the aid of your captor- then the fun REALLY begins.

Please, let us know how it went!!!!
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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Ducttapestar » Sat Nov 20, 2010 7:51 pm

how'd it go, hoodieboy?

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby hoodieboy » Sun Nov 21, 2010 5:50 pm

Hello guys,

Well - thanks all for your safety tips and advice. It was all extremely useful to know, alas, they cancelled at the literal last minute - as I was travelling to meet them in fact! Oh well, hopefully there will be a next time! :(

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Nov 21, 2010 11:07 pm

Well, how about giving us the details about what was *supposed* to happen, at least? Even that would be a story worth reading even if it didn't pan out. Maybe you'll be able to do a happier follow-up some day and we can all be glad for you... and some of us busybodies can give you more useful advice based on actual possibilities in the meantime! :P
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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby fratboydanny » Mon Nov 22, 2010 6:09 am

one piece is, don't be too disappointed it didn't happen. unfortunately it happens and sometimes for the best. but, i agree with Jason. let us know what you thought might happen.

good luck with it happening soon.

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:19 am

Thats a real shame to hear! But I agree, post what you thought might've happened - Im sure itd be fun to read ^^

And (sorry, I sound like a complete nag!) you said you were travelling to meet them. I just want to say that if you were travelling because it was someone you met online then its definitely for the best that it was cancelled. Meeting people online is dangerous enough as it is - let alone when youre going to volunteer to be tied up in their presence xD Im sure youre not actually crazy enough to agree to a TUG with someone youve met online - just thought I should make the point in case xD

Hope it happens for you soon!!

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:47 am

SamanthaBoundx wrote:Thats a real shame to hear! But I agree, post what you thought might've happened - Im sure itd be fun to read ^^

And (sorry, I sound like a complete nag!) you said you were travelling to meet them. I just want to say that if you were travelling because it was someone you met online then its definitely for the best that it was cancelled. Meeting people online is dangerous enough as it is - let alone when youre going to volunteer to be tied up in their presence xD Im sure youre not actually crazy enough to agree to a TUG with someone youve met online - just thought I should make the point in case xD

Hope it happens for you soon!!


My only criticism with the above being that if Hoodieboy *was* rendesvousing with an online person he may be too ashamed to admit it to us now! Well meant and supportive of course, but if I were Hoodieboy it'd probably also make me clam up about the whole business!
If so Hoodieboy, please tell us about it anyway. I for one have no intention of poking fun or being judgmental (and I think none of the rest intend to be either), and would even understand; I've been tempted to do the same thing myself despite being older and (supposedly) wiser. I just want to hear your story and be supportive as much as I can be, so that when you *do* experience your first Tug it will be a fun one for you as well as a safe one.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Mon Nov 22, 2010 9:37 am

Jason Toddman wrote:My only criticism with the above being that if Hoodieboy *was* rendesvousing with an online person he may be too ashamed to admit it to us now! Well meant and supportive of course, but if I were Hoodieboy it'd probably also make me clam up about the whole business!
If so Hoodieboy, please tell us about it anyway. I for one have no intention of poking fun or being judgmental (and I think none of the rest intend to be either), and would even understand; I've been tempted to do the same thing myself despite being older and (supposedly) wiser. I just want to hear your story and be supportive as much as I can be, so that when you *do* experience your first Tug it will be a fun one for you as well as a safe one.


You raise a fair point - but Im sure Ive said before on here, when I have a point to make, Im not always the most tactful xD And it IS a very important point in all fairness. As great as TUGs are and as tempting as it might be for someone (especially a young person) to do anything in their power to experience them, I genuinely think it would be ridiculous to advocate or support someones plans to meet up with a person that they dont actually know and allow them to tie them up - its practically ASKING for something to go wrong!! Besides which, TUGs are far nicer when its with someone who youre comfortable with and care about - may as well make your first time the best it can be, no?

But as I said, I doubt thats the case anyway ^^ And if it is, no offence was meant - Im just looking out for you =)

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Nov 22, 2010 10:52 am

I completely agree with the sentiment behind what you said, SamanthaBoundx. I simply want to be sure that Hoodieboy also realizes that it's okay to admit it to us if he *was* contemplating such a thing before, rather than keep silent out of sheer pride or embarrassment. I don't know if he is or not of course; but even if he was I just want him to realize it's okay to discuss his feelings with older and wiser heads like us. :D
I'm also a curious bastard; I'll admit it. :wink:
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby xtc » Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:51 am

What has older got to do with wiser?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:59 am

Oh, in *your* case, xtc... well... maybe nothing! :twisted:
In *my* case, definitely nothing! :oops:
Still, it sounds better than: "You're on your own, kid! We're too dumb to know what *we're* talking about, so we can't help you!" 8)
How about: "We made our own dumb mistakes and learned from them, so learn from us and don't make the same mistakes *we* did?"
Is that better, xtc? :big:
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Chase Ricks » Wed Nov 24, 2010 8:57 am

I agree with you perfectly there Jason.
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Re: My first time tomorrow!

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Nov 24, 2010 10:03 am

Shane Bikman wrote:I agree with you perfectly there Jason.

I'm not sure Hoodieboy does though; he still hasn't responded.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...