Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby Sew53 » Wed May 10, 2017 5:25 pm

The subject question is something I've wondered about for quite a long time. Peter Frampton not withstanding it is a relevant question regarding how I feel about tie up games with women vs men.

I've always been open minded and it's never really mattered who tied me. It feels the same, as long as the rigger is competent and understands how to tie. Male, female I really don't care. I seem however, to like M/M stories more than F/M tie up stories. I'm basically hetero but I'm intrigued as to why that is. Could it be the loss of control? It seems like I'm less in control tied by a man than a woman. When a woman ties me its slightly more sexual, less kidnap more willing slave. When a man does it, it's more about the bondage than anything else. I could actually enjoy bondage more with a man than a woman because there's less of a distraction. I have been tied by men before but have had many more experiences with women. Nonetheless, I seem to get a charge out of "my male roommate, best friend, cousin, school buddy (fill in the blank) tied me up" than Sally the girl next door.

Interesting. Anyone else feel like I do?

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby MisterBones » Wed May 10, 2017 5:45 pm

You might be bi! Here's a test:
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If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions
I have ocs or whatever

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby MisterBones » Wed May 10, 2017 5:48 pm

It's not an official test I just wanted to show y'all my favorite boy
I have ocs or whatever

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby bondagefreak » Wed May 10, 2017 5:56 pm

Sew53 wrote:Interesting. Anyone else feel like I do?


Don't worry, a lot of hetero guys prefer being tied up by other guys and even get turned on by it, even if they have no attraction towards members of their own sex.

It has nothing to do with sexuality as much as physical arousal at the thought of being trussed up and losing control.

If you're a man, chances are it'll take another man to physically overpower you.
For a lot of guys, the joy of bondage comes directly from genuinely being overpowered and being unable to do anything about it.
So unless you're a particularly weak guy, or have the privilege of dealing with a particularly strong woman, chances are, those particular fantasies of yours can only be properly tended to by other guys.
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Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby Sew53 » Thu May 11, 2017 2:06 am

bondagefreak wrote:
Sew53 wrote:Interesting. Anyone else feel like I do?


It has nothing to do with sexuality as much as physical arousal at the thought of being trussed up and losing control.

If you're a man, chances are it'll take another man to physically overpower you.

I tend to think that is the reason more than anything else. I know in my own mind it's not a sexual thing as much as it is psychological. Weakness isn't an issue, I've spent my life in sports and strength conditioning. One aspect is being tied by surprise. Not knowing that it's coming and being given no choice is exciting for me.
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Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby EricU1845 » Thu May 11, 2017 2:41 am

Hey nice to see comments from guys opening up like this. I think a lot of this is how I feel too. I actually don't like tugs with girls, even though I'm hetero. My love for tugs began back with cops and robbers, which boys always wanted to play and girls never did. Today, I'm like you, being tied by a guy seems like more of a challenge, therefore more fun. It seems I get excited by it for the same reasons you all listed. But it's all a control thing, not an attraction thing.

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby Chris12 » Thu May 11, 2017 9:31 am

MisterBones wrote:You might be bi! Here's a test:
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If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions


But everyone thinks Lucius is handsome :D

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby That-animeguy » Thu May 11, 2017 10:23 am

Chris12 wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You might be bi! Here's a test:
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If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions


But everyone thinks Lucius is handsome :D


Well, not everyone! :lol: I don't..
So... gulible!

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby Chris12 » Thu May 11, 2017 10:25 am

That-animeguy wrote:
Chris12 wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You might be bi! Here's a test:
Image
If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions


But everyone thinks Lucius is handsome :D


Well, not everyone! :lol: I don't..



Gasp! :shock:

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby That-animeguy » Thu May 11, 2017 10:25 am

Chris12 wrote:
That-animeguy wrote:
Chris12 wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You might be bi! Here's a test:
Image
If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions


But everyone thinks Lucius is handsome :D


Well, not everyone! :lol: I don't..



Gasp! :shock:


Plot twist!
So... gulible!

Re: Do You Feel Like I Do?

Postby MisterBones » Thu May 11, 2017 12:46 pm

That-animeguy wrote:
Chris12 wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You might be bi! Here's a test:
Image
If you think this boy is handsome you are absolutely harboring gay emotions


But everyone thinks Lucius is handsome :D


Well, not everyone! :lol: I don't..

Bad post
I have ocs or whatever