We're just friends....

Postby bind_diane » Sat Nov 30, 2013 6:29 pm

The idea of playing tie up games with friends came up elsewhere on the boards, so I thought I'd share one of my two experiences being tied by a male friend. I don't know if this will help anyone here, but who knows....

By the time I was in my third year in college, I had a lot of experience being tied up. My boyfriend (now my husband) and I had a friend who was just getting serious with a girl he had recently met. We were probably a little too open in those days with friends about our bondage games, and our friend knew about them. For whatever reason, the idea that our friend might want to tie his new girlfriend came up, and he wasn't sure he could.

My future husband told him so casually that he could practice...on me. I was pretty shocked that I wasn't consulted, but since he was going to be there, I decided not to make it an issue.

A little later, in the same day I think, my boyfriend/future husband tied me in front of our friend, with my hands behind my back, and my legs together. I can't remember if he tied my arms or not that time. Then he untied me, and our friend tied me.

Just not very well. So Future Husband showed him again. and our friend tried two or three more times.

For whatever reason, we decided he needed to come over again to practice on me some more, and the time ended up being when Future Husband wasn't around. So we established ground rules....I wasn't going to wear anything overtly sexy, I wasn't going to be blindfolded or gagged, he wasn't going to a "accidentally" run his hands over certain areas while tying me, and he wasn't going to leave me tied up.

When we got together for his private lesson, he tied my hands behind me and tied my legs together. So far, so good. Then he hogtied me, which he did a good job with. next, I was tied to a chair.

he really wanted to blindfold me, and tie me to the bed....both of which were against House Rules. Once he had me tied up, I started getting nervous at his pushing what he wanted...but he backed down.

As it turned out, he and the girl he was seeing broke up not long after, but I think he did have a pretty good bondage relationship with his next girlfriend....
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Re: We're just friends....

Postby Kyle » Sat Nov 30, 2013 8:49 pm

At least you got to help him out for the future relationships.

Re: We're just friends....

Postby LordNelson » Sun Jan 12, 2014 5:26 am

Hello bind_diane

I wish my friends had wives and girlfriends that would have let me "practice" on them. People like us often can't be as open about our hobbies as we would like to be and as a result many of our encounters never become more than fantasies. I have imagined what it would be like to tie up just about every one of my female acquaintances and now that I've read your story it makes me wonder how many of my day dreams may have become reality if I had met someone as open as you.

I see that you joined about the same time as me. Hopefully posting here is a good experience for you and that you continue to share your stories. I look forward to seeing more.

LordNelson