Questions for women

Postby Daniel77 » Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:02 am

I've posted this to know what kind of ties do women like? I'm doing this to get some ideas of the best way to tie my Girlfriend where she would enjoy the MOST!
Like
Wearing what? Bra? Blouse? Skirts? Etc.
Which kind of tie-up? Pole tied? Chair Tied? Hogtied? Etc.
Do you want to include crotchropes? vibrators? whips? ice torture? or pure evil torture?
Gag? Ballgag? Tape-Gag? Cleave Gagged? Etc.
Tied where? Bedroom? Barn?

This is for women ONLY,Though if Men have any ideas,Please do tell me....
I've tied my girlfriend many times,She never enjoyed much,So whats the best way?
Please help me...

Re: Questions for women

Postby TeenGirl1239 » Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:19 am

My favorite tie-up is -
-Wearing Nothing
-Hogtied
-Crotchrope added ONLY [Love them]
-Cloth-Gagged
-Bedroom

Re: Questions for women

Postby sarobah » Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:43 am

Keep in mind that one size does not fit everyone. What’s good for the goose is not necessarily good for... well, another goose.
Having said that, I’m too lazy at the moment to finish the story I’m supposed to be working on, so here’s my input...
Wearing what?
Depends on the circumstances, of course. When I’m alone with my boyfriend, I love being naked; but keep in mind we’ve been practising intimate bondage and playing intense tie-up games together for a couple of years. It’s not just the attraction of raw sexuality though. There’s the aesthetic and sensual appeal (for him to see and me to feel) of unyielding rope against soft flesh and bare skin.
In company, it still depends on the circumstances, but because my TUGs circle is small and close-knit, it might be lingerie, bikini or a dress. I don’t like to be tied up barefoot – but that’s because I’m devilishly ticklish.
Which kind of tie-up?
My favourite by far is the hog-tie, complete with gag and blindfold. I like my tie-ups to be strenuous, pushing the limits of comfort without being painful, and the longer the better.
As for the gag – definitely the ball-gag, because it looks and feels sexy (to me, anyway).
For the tying material, I prefer nylon cord, especially if it’s been treated with fabric softener. Having sensitive skin, I don’t like any kind of tape. I love being tied up with my own underwear (for the symbolism) – clean of course!
Tied where?
Depends on the aim of the game, doesn’t it? :o)
Naturally the bedroom is my number one venue, followed by the living room. I’m an indoors gal.
Optional extras
As I have made clear elsewhere, I am a big fan of the well-placed crotch-rope.
I won’t stand for anything painful or which leaves marks (that last longer than maybe an hour or so).
As mentioned, I don’t enjoy being tickled, but ice is good.

~ Sarah
Words, like Nature, half reveal and half conceal the soul within.

Re: Questions for women

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:16 am

Wearing what?

I'm a big fan of roleplay so I love to be tied up wearing sexy costumes and outfits. However, sometimes that's just too much effort, so a lot of the time I like to be bound in nice lingerie or just nude, which can also be very sensual.

Which kind of tie-up?

My absolute favourite tie is a chair tie with each of my limbs tied seperately to an individual chair arm or leg. I like hogties - although not strict ones, as I'm not a fan of pain. Spreadeagles can be a lot of fun too! I also enjoy just a standard tie with my legs bound tightly and my wrists behind my back - as boring as it sounds, it's really great for struggling around, which my fiance really loves! Whichever position I'm tied in, I always prefer to bound with ropes or scarves - although I don't mind cuffs and tape, I just don't think they look as sexy and they're also less comfortable.

I'm not fussed about where I'm tied. It usually ends up being in our bedroom (for obvious reasons), but it is fun to mix it up sometimes and try somewhere that youve never been before. I have a particular like for being bound and gagged outside or in public, but for obvious reasons, that happens very rarely.

Whatever the tie and wherever it is, I absolutely insist on being gagged - if I'm not going to be gagged, then I'd rather not be tied up at all. Cleave gags are my favourite - nice and tight with mouth packing underneath. I like ball gags a lot too. For me, it isn't about how effective the gag is - a good damsel will pretend she's completely helpless even if she coudl get out in a second. I prefer them to look and feel nice. I also enjoy being blindfolded - although it's not a complete must, it can be very sensual when you're completely helpless.

Optional Extras?

I really don't go in for any pain or tickling - they just make it unenjoybale for me. However, I'm quite keen on using sex toys like vibrators when tied up. I would definitey recommend getting hold of one to have some fun with!



But like Sarah said, it really depends on the girl! Why not ask your girlfriend what appeals to her most? If she hasnt been keen on what you've done in the past, maybe she has some ideas that might make it better for her. Otherwise, just try to be creative. Try lots of different combinations and I'm sure you'll be able to find one that really gets both of you going!

Have fun! :P

x

Re: Questions for women

Postby Daniel77 » Fri Feb 04, 2011 9:20 pm

Thnx anyways,Keep em comin!

Re: Questions for women

Postby Suestruggles » Sat Feb 05, 2011 7:07 am

sarobah wrote:Keep in mind that one size does not fit everyone. What’s good for the goose is not necessarily good for... well, another goose.
Having said that, I’m too lazy at the moment to finish the story I’m supposed to be working on, so here’s my input...
Wearing what?
Depends on the circumstances, of course. When I’m alone with my boyfriend, I love being naked; but keep in mind we’ve been practising intimate bondage and playing intense tie-up games together for a couple of years. It’s not just the attraction of raw sexuality though. There’s the aesthetic and sensual appeal (for him to see and me to feel) of unyielding rope against soft flesh and bare skin.
In company, it still depends on the circumstances, but because my TUGs circle is small and close-knit, it might be lingerie, bikini or a dress. I don’t like to be tied up barefoot – but that’s because I’m devilishly ticklish.
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Optional extras
As I have made clear elsewhere, I am a big fan of the well-placed crotch-rope.
I won’t stand for anything painful or which leaves marks (that last longer than maybe an hour or so).
As mentioned, I don’t enjoy being tickled, but ice is good.

~ Sarah


I kind of think bare feet and tickling go together, although you can be tickled lots of places tied up bare feet seem to be too much of a temptation. Some people love ticklig, some people hate it and others kind of love to hate it. Ice has similar spectrum too and a crotch rope can be anything from good fun to evil torture
Sue

Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.

Re: Questions for women

Postby MissTieMeUp » Sun Feb 20, 2011 9:51 am

Daniel77 wrote:I've posted this to know what kind of ties do women like? I'm doing this to get some ideas of the best way to tie my Girlfriend where she would enjoy the MOST!
Like
Wearing what? Bra? Blouse? Skirts? Etc.
Which kind of tie-up? Pole tied? Chair Tied? Hogtied? Etc.
Do you want to include crotchropes? vibrators? whips? ice torture? or pure evil torture?
Gag? Ballgag? Tape-Gag? Cleave Gagged? Etc.
Tied where? Bedroom? Barn?

This is for women ONLY,Though if Men have any ideas,Please do tell me....
I've tied my girlfriend many times,She never enjoyed much,So whats the best way?
Please help me...


Well I love to wear costumes or anything sexy b/c that just adds to the whole fantasy part of being tied up. My all time faves are the secretary, nurse or police woman but anything with a short skirt and tight top will work. I always wear thigh highs and heels b/c it just adds to the role and I think my legs look better with hose underneath when there is lots of rope wrapped on tope.

Hmm I LOVE rope! lol i love the ankles, knees, thighs, wrists elbows and either below or above the breasts. not a fan of when the breasts are flatted by rope on top and bottom. Hog-ties are fun but not too strict as the guise of thinking you can struggle free adds to the excitement. A ceiling hook is so useful and fun in so many ways.

Love a snug crotchrope and teasing with a vibrator - on the edge but just not there. Oh so painfully fun!

Gag? Yes! My personal fave is a thick white cleeve gag with or without mouth packing, a mouth packed with stuffing and then a few strips of duct tape over, a ball gag is good but a jaw can get sore after a while so I like to try various gags, but yeah you can't be tied up without gagged. the sounds are just so delicous as you struggle.

House (bedroom, kitchen, garage), hotel room, barn (but no spiders or splinters haha), private setting outside, even a tent in the backyard can be fun, day or night! TUG"s are about having helpless fun and experimenting. Hope you find something you both like! :D
Rainbow rope & a white cleeve gag are my BFF's ;)