Need help.

Postby Eloise » Thu Feb 18, 2010 8:33 pm

I would like to try self-bondage and never have before, could you guys give me ideas and a step by step guide to tying myself up and pleasing/torturing myself at the same time.

Also how can I toture/tease a guy?

Help me please! It may lead to a story...

;)
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Re: Need help.

Postby OverLooker » Thu Feb 18, 2010 10:09 pm

Eloise wrote:I would like to try self-bondage and never have before, could you guys give me ideas and a step by step guide to tying myself up and pleasing/torturing myself at the same time.

Also how can I toture/tease a guy?

Help me please! It may lead to a story...

;)


Part 1 (Self-bondage)
What you can do is buy a pair of handcuffs they dont have to be real but they have to work. The get whatever you want to use to bind your feet and gag.blindfold yourself. tie your feet, blindfold, and gag yourself then put on the handcuffs however you want (example: cyffed to the bed or cuffed behind your back). Next you struggle or make up a little story in your head on how and why you are like that.

Part 2 (toture/tease a guy)
Get whatever you want/need to restrain the boy/guy (example: rope, tape, rags, cloths...). Next tie up your boy/guy and make sure hes nice and tight. Then you could start to "play" with yourself and teasing him by getting ur body close to him but just out of reach he will go crazy... atleast i think so :bound:
"Mmmmppphhhhhhh"

Re: Need help.

Postby Eloise » Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:42 am

Thanks, anyone esle? Also self torture/tease and differant possitions for myself and more torture/teases for the guy please?

Thanks again.
The mistress of TBC...

Re: Need help.

Postby Reidy » Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:50 pm

For the teasing one try a strip tease. Knowing that said guy won't be able to do anything about it.

Re: Need help.

Postby surgicalorb » Fri Feb 19, 2010 6:32 pm

Self-bondage: I would first tie my legs very tight with rope. Then I would tie up my theigs, For my hands, I was able to once tie my own hands with a pair of pantyhose (it was a litle difficult), so you should try that. Before the hands obviously would be the gag, tape or cleave are my preferences.

If I could be tortured/teased, I would want a girl to sneak up behind me, perform a HOM and instruct me to sit down and put my hands behind my back. After tying up my hands and legs, I would want to be gagged with (your) socks and a tape or cleave to tighten it as much as possible. Then I would be thrown onto a bed and played with (tickling, sock domination, spanking).

Re: Need help.

Postby Nuclearo » Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:21 pm

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Re: Need help.

Postby Boundgal08 » Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:54 am

Nuclearo wrote:Orgasm control works on guys too, not just girls ;)


Yep and I already know that...... No Im not a man, I just liked to tease my ex bf a lot, tie him up, gag him... and then sexually torture him, it was great! :)

Cheers,
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Re: Need help.

Postby chloroformmeplease » Sat Feb 20, 2010 3:46 pm

I agree with handgagging the guy. It is always a turn on for me anyway. Gag the guy with your panties and then some duct tape so he can't spit them out.

Torture? Well that depends are you talking about painful torture or something like tickle torture that I would not consider painful or both types of torture?

Tying a guy up? Are you tying him to torture him or to please him? Many factors must be considered in my opinion and I have been in this fetish for many years. PM me with your answers if you want my knowledge and experience. I am also wondering how old you are because if you are too young to hear what I have to tell you then I probably won't tell you about painful torture.
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

Re: Need help.

Postby Eloise » Sun Feb 21, 2010 4:18 am

I would like to know all you can tell me ;)

And i'm 19.
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Re: Need help.

Postby Kinkychris » Mon Feb 22, 2010 5:07 am

Self bondage is not that hard it just takes a bit of practice. You can start by binding your ankles and knees together with rope. You can use the fake hand cuffs like someone suggested. You can even use real hand cuffs as long as you have a good escape plan before you start. One idea is to freeze the hand cuff key . place the ice cube containing the key somewhere in reach of your cuffed hands. Now your are cuffed up until the ice melts and you can release yourself. If you try this it's a good idea to get handcuffs that have a few extra links in the chain between the cuff to make it possible to handle the key a little easier. It's also a good idea to have a bondage buddy scheduled to check in on you at a at a preset time just incase you get in trouble.

As for self torture. That is not as easy as it sounds. I think it's impossible to actually tickle yourself effectively. You can try taping small plastic bags of ice on special spots. You can also use
a sports cream such as Ben Gay or the like just be careful with that stuff. A little bit goes a long way.