## Letter of Instruction

Post by bottop » Sun Aug 10, 2014 2:34 pm

Hi there,
I "top from the bottom", tying myself up for my wife to take advantage of.
My birthday is coming up and I recently sent her this email:
--------- Email to wife:
You mentioned during our fun this past weekend that you don't like hints, you want explicit direction about the games I want to play. I can honor that!
I mentioned that I'm tired of being embarrased by this stuff, but it's still much easier for me to write this than to tell you directly.
So, here's a game I'd like to play sometime between now and my birthday. It's explicit, but with choices for you to make just to keep me guessing a bit.
You never know what to get me for my birthday, but here's something I can't buy and makes me very, very happy..
First I want you to pick out some thigh highs or garter/stockings for ME to wear. I know you don't much like this idea, but I'm asking you to consider it a b-day present to me. You can buy them, just pick out some of yours, order them online, whatever, but I want you to pick them out and I'm going to wear them in front of you.
Then I want you to pick my grooming level. You could go with just the way it is, shaved down under, shaved chest, whatever you want, but you pick. I'll make it happen.
Then I want you to pick how I tie myself up. You could pick a chair tie, or a spread-eagled bed tie, or one of those bed ties where I leave more room for you on the bed. You pick. All of them are awesome to me.
I guess I imagine you writing me a Letter of Instruction to follow, in a packet with the assigned stockings. You dismiss me to bed and I prepare myself according to instructions and wait for you.
I really liked the sensory deprivation from Saturday. I got very aroused a couple times when I was convinced you were sneaking up on me. My heart pounded and when it was clear you hadn't snuck up I would realize I was covered in sweat and then I'd relax until it all happened again. It was awesome. So, I will probably do that again. Once you know the kids are out, if you leave the door open I'll never hear you coming.
Once I'm tied up, you know what I like. It takes very little to arouse me when I'm like this, so if you could come in like once every 30 minutes and just lay a hand on me it would be spectacular. No hard work required. I'm sure just having you sit next to me will do it.
I'd like to finish it all off with an experiment. Basically I want to wait for you, you get what you want (I love when you straddle my face), you get me off but then DON'T UNTIE ME. Go call your mom or sister or something. Or watch something. Then come back and see if you can arouse me again. I think I'll be able to go again.. I might not, but I want to see.
All in all, it isn't much to ask for a fortieth b-day is it? I guarantee I'll never forget it.
--------- End of Email
So, this hasn't happened yet, but is about to. I'll let you know how it goes!
About me: Love the feel of tights, stockings, pantyhose, garters, and girdles. Helplessness and intense pleasure have been joined for me since I was a kid

### Re: Letter of Instruction

Post by bottop » Thu Aug 14, 2014 2:37 am

12 Aug 2014: The Result
[Warning: This is long. I really enjoyed the experience and I want to share as many details with you as possible..]
My wife didn't deliver on the birthday request perfectly but deliver she did; here's what happened.
I had an all-day birthday. In the morning we went and got bagels and lox to eat, along with my favorite coffee:Dunkin Donuts. Then I went and shot at the local archery range for a little bit. After I got back (and jumped in the pool with all my clothes on because I was so overheated) we all drove to Orlando to go see Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and have dinner at Red Robin (my favorite shakes). We got home from all that and Kay went to put the kids to bed.
I had been expecting to see something waiting on the bed.. My requested letter of instruction. But, it wasn't there. So I sat in my reading chair and began to read. It wasn't long until Kay came out from the kids' bedroom. She said, "So are you interested in collecting on your birthday request?"
"Of course!" I said.
"I've left something on the bed for you to wear and I want you to do what you did last time. [a chair tie]."
"Any grooming requests?" I asked.
"No, I like what you are doing." That's shaved legs and a trimmed pubic region. Otherwise I'm not a very hairy guy in general, though I do have to shave my ears pretty much daily. Don't laugh, it's going to happen to you.
I was surprised on two accounts. I thought for sure she would want me to shave everything. I used to shave my chest and she was sad when I stopped. I was also expecting to be told to do a bed tie. But I had been designing and imagining my self ties for all possibilities all week, so I was ready.
She said, "Now go off and do your thing and I'm going to leave you there for a long time."
Heh heh. Okay.
I grabbed our chair (Ikea Henrdiksal with red slip cover) and put it in position. I started laying out my ropes. Then I realized.. She had put out a fantastic pair of black, sheer, nylon thigh highs for me to wear. Well, I'm sure as heck going to wear them as long as possible! I stripped naked and put them on. They had a slight shimmer and a great, wide, lace top. They felt awesome.
I went back to my ropes. I intended this to be inescapable, so I had to make sure I planned it all right. Since my last chair tie (just a couple of weeks ago! I'm on a roll!), I bought two Niteize CamJams and I was going to use them today. I used an 18" Gear Tie to go around each front chair leg, under the seat, as a mount point for the CamJams. Gear Ties are just easy to use for this kind of thing and are very secure.
On one end of the thin rope of the CamJam I tied a metal ring that planned to clip my wrist rope into when ready. I decided I would get best effects by "crossing the streams". So, the CamJam on the left front chair leg would be used to secure my right wrist, and vice-versa. I carefully crossed the ropes under the chair and then laid the ends on top of the chair where I would be sitting, so I could reach them easily and they would stay in place until I was ready for them.
Next, prep the blindfold. I used a green, satin hankerchief and wrapped it around my wife's sports head band. I positioned the whole thing on my forehead.
Last step before sitting down, getting my rope cuffs on. I use a 6-ft length of thick (like 3/4"), shiny, soft nylon rope. I place my wrist in the middle and then wrap each end over a couple of times until I have a nice rope cuff of 5 widths. Then I cross the ends, tuck them between the rope coils and my skin, pull them through and tie a simple overhand knot on the back of each wrist. This ensures that tension on the tie down is transferred to all of the coils of the cuff and spreads the pressure evenly. I find this method super comfortable and super secure. Finally I tied a simple spring hook (like at the end of a leash) on to the loose ends of the rope, about 3-4 inches from my wrist.
Doing that part always gets me excited, but the next step almost made me moan. I sat down and started to lash my right ankle to the chair leg. I had been so busy I basically forgot I was wearing stockings. One look at the shiny white rope against those black stockings and I got aroused. Then I fed the rope around a bit and felt the nylon slide along the nylon. I had to stop a moment to appreciate that. I tied my ankles to the sides of the chair legs by simply wrapping the rope around both ankle and leg 5-6 times, crossing the ends, passing them between leg and chair and tying off with simple overhand knots. This cinches the bind down good and also spreads pressure.
I decided to belt my knees in place with Kay's belts. She got mad at me last time I used her belts and I wanted it to happen again.
At this point I decided I wanted to take some pictures. Except all I had was my Galaxy Tab and I had turned off most of the lights to set the mood. I only managed one grainy image of my left leg. You can see the belt tie, and some rope ends where my ankle is. The cord you see is the headphones I had on, playing iHeartRadio the Alternative Project for sensory deprivation. I'm going to leave more lights on next time..

I started in on my left wrist. I fed the clasp end of the rope cuff behind the rear left chair leg, hooked the clasp into the ring attached to the CamJam, grabbed the tightening end and began to pull, holding my breath. It ratcheted perfectly!
I pulled it snug, but there was still too much play, so I worked the rope around to take out slack and pulled. It tightened down awesomely and there was almost no movement in the rope cuff. I dropped the tightening (and release) rope on to the ground.
And then I realized my mistake. I had slouched over to work on the left wrist. When I sat back up I realized I had made it REALLY snug. I worked at it a bit and made it comfortable enough. I decided to commit and deal with it.
Now time for the moment of truth. I threaded the right rope cuff clasp around the back of the right chair leg and worked to click it into the CamJam ring. It wasn't so easy. I think I'll use a carabiner next time for easy one hand click. But I got it in. I checked to make sure the tightening rope was where it should be, then pulled my blindfold down.
I grabbed the tightening rope and began to pull. It too worked perfectly and after some shifting and jiggles I got that thing ratcheted down so that now my right wrist was held fast by the rope cuff against the chair. I gave it another click for good measure and dropped the tightening rope.
I was done. I was lashed ankle, knee, and wrist to the chair. The rope cuffs were solid and unyeilding. I was blindfolded and deaf to the world with my music. It was a really awesome self-tie and unescapable without some sort of chair breaking heroics. And even then I don't know how it would have gone.
And then I remembered. I was wearing stockings! I wiggled my toes to feel the stretchy fabric. It was now only a matter of time before Kay came in and saw me. The first person, ever, to see me wearing women's stockings. I've been sneak-wearing them from time to time for years, but this was the first time anyone has ever seen it. I was excited and scared.
I needn't have been. Kay knew what was up and what the "score" was. After about two hours, she touched me. She didn't just touch me, she rubbed along the lacy top, pulled it out and let it snap back down. She stroked my nylon clad legs from thigh to ankle and back.
I was rock hard, instantly, cock bouncing to my pulse. And she'd only touched my legs. I love this about bondage.
She gave me a shoulder rub, a chest rub, ran her fingers over my legs some more until finally she brushed my cock. It was late, and she actually didn't waste any time. She slathered baby oil on my cock and began to rub it a bit. Then, she fairly abruptly straddled me and pushed me inside of her.
What can I say.. I didn't last so long.. In a matter of minutes I had pushed my legs out against the belt ties, leaned my head back on the chair and was groaning and squeaking as a I came inside of her.
When I finished, I unclenched my ass, which had been straining to lift me into her.
"Yay!" she said and got off of me.
At this point, according to what I had sent her, I wanted her to leave me tied up and try again in a bit. But, she was tired and I actually had to work the next day, so she tried to untie me.
She couldn't figure out the CamJam release ropes.
"Hold on, hold on," she said, "let me get dressed."
"I'll hold on..." I said. I was totally torn on if I wanted her to untie me or not. I was tired and really didn't think I had anymore left in me. But, I'd be lying if I said I wanted to be untied.
Anyway, I watched her get dressed and then she came back to try and untie me. Eventually I had her release the rope cuff clasp from the steel ring on one hand and I was free to move.
It was another awesome session and a great birthday present. We'll see what she says when I put the stockings on next time without warning her ahead of time!
About me: Love the feel of tights, stockings, pantyhose, garters, and girdles. Helplessness and intense pleasure have been joined for me since I was a kid