So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby Dezvark77 » Mon Jun 17, 2013 4:32 pm

A question for you cats; I have quite the girlfriend, but I'm not sure how to exactly bring up bondage........anyone have any tips, advice, persuasion potions I could borrow?

Re: So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby Antonius97 » Wed Jun 19, 2013 7:36 pm

I have a lack of experience in the field, so don't take what I say as proven, but I have heard that handcuffing yourself to the bed frame shortly before she enters the room and encouraging her to have her way can work...
I didn't choose the TUG life, the TUG life chose me.

Re: So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby Unknown-User » Fri Jun 21, 2013 6:33 am

I may have another solution but I am not completely sure it works. I myself haven't had a girlfriend since I got interest in TUGs but this is something I would think of.

Tell your girlfriend you want to play a game. You will tie eachother up and you want to see if you can get out. Any other TUG game would do as well but this is an example. When you're done ask your girlfriend what she thought of being tied up. If she likes it, you have a good start to go further and play more TUGs or even get it into more sexual bondage if this is what you want. If she doesn't like it, try the method used in the first sentence of SteveLuis' respond.

I hope this is helpful :P

Re: So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby Tiemeforhours » Sat Jun 22, 2013 1:15 pm

I've had two exes who liked to handcuff me to the bed, that was fun but a bit boring for me and it was the most adventurous they were going to be, but that's another story. I knew for ages they wanted to do it with little comments they made over and over again. I think they were waitin for me to get the hint. In the end, with one of these guys, I bought him some handcuffs for Xmas. He was in heaven but I found them pretty boring. He never wanted to gag me or try thin me any other way than with my hands above my head.
Tie me up, gag me, do whatever you want to me. Just don't untie me

Re: So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby girl4boysub » Sun Jun 23, 2013 7:53 am

Well i would have loved to have been him cause i would have been far from boring

Re: So, how to first bring ropes to the relationship........

Postby Nexus » Mon Jun 24, 2013 7:07 pm

SteveLuis wrote:When I started going out with my girlfriend I didn't reveal anything of my interests until a few months in so that we both trusted and understood each other by then. We discussed any interests we might have in the bedroom one night and I suggested being handcuffed to the bed which she seemed to find interesting but instead she used some socks and scarfs. She only tied my hands to the headboard initially but as the months went by she started tying my feet and knees then my body with hands behind my back tied and finally a blindfold. Only recently I managed to get her to start gagging me with her panties and with her hand sometimes while pleasuring me.

Just ease her in slowly and see how she reacts, if it's positive then suggest more things to her.


Sound advice.