## Do I risk it?

Post by TicklishCosplayBoy » Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:13 pm

So, I've been inactive recently (trying to give up bondage, don't try to disuade me I got my reasons ) but I came across a masive problem, I'll start by going iver some back story-
So all through primary school I was fixated on bondage, gags mostly. Being young nobody else thought the same as me :'( anyways, I came across bondage @ 12ish and began self gagging soon after.
Recently I moved upstairs so I began some good selfbondage (I'd done some VERY light self downstairs but couldn't get away with much) but recently had my 4 shoelace strings stolen away so all I have is some broken plastic keyless handcuffs. Socks are always reliable for gags, hand ties, ankle ties and of course, being socks anyway.
So I have NO idea why but I googled for my local bondage shop online and found a... Decent? Sex shop that sells gags, handcuffs and other various sex toys however strangely it uses euros even though it specifically states it is my local bondage shop (I didn't muck up it's 100% the local one) and my currency is British sterling. Anyone know why?
Okay, my issue, my parents haven't a clue about bondage (as far as I know) and I'm not sure I could hide ANYTHING properly from them. So, do I
A. Not buy anything
B. Buy a ball gag and a pair of cuffs and try to hide them
C. Buy a ball gag and pair of cuffs and come up with an excuse
D. Subtley drop hints that I'm into hetrosexual non sex related bondagw for recreational pusposes until they get the hints and I can happily tie myself up and live happily ever after.
E. Drop the bomb and have a lengthy discussion about the 'issue' (I don't see it as an issue but they probably will :I)
F. Tell my GF or a trusted friend (not a good supply of either atm) and ask their opinion first?
I'm awkwardly antisocial about this stuff so I prefer self bondage to being tied by someone, anyway, anyone who can help about that Euro thing or has any other suggestions about my dillema please comment.
I will try to check each night but if I don't thank you for your answer/reply please forgive me
Thanks!
Tickle me, I dare you! See what it gets you! Well, probably not much because I secretly enjoy it

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by NemesisPrime » Wed Mar 12, 2014 4:04 pm

I find it weird you're trying to give up bondage by getting more bondage equipment. Very contradictory.
But onto your problem.
B would be the most likely route to go as long as you don't use your folks card cause it will show up on their statement but C. is also viable as well as F but understand that's not exactly an option (Of which I'm in the same boat lol)
D maybe but it depends on how creative you get but E might be the nuclear option cause I have the feeling that they'll be more understanding of the hetrosexual non-sex bondage than if you were gay lol (Again, I speak from experience)
A is not recommended as that defeats the whole point of this.
Hope I was able to help!
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by TicklishCosplayBoy » Thu Mar 13, 2014 12:50 pm

I have my own debit but tbh idk if it knows I'm too young to buy from that kinda website ;-;
I will probs just bluff it with the whole "I am experimenting respect my privacy man" thing because you can pre-guilt trip them into not being nosey ;P
Tickle me, I dare you! See what it gets you! Well, probably not much because I secretly enjoy it

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by NemesisPrime » Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:02 pm

That works too xD
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by lockedup » Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:35 pm

i think it should let you buy from any website. i bought lots of things on my debit card that require you to be 18 and my bank didnt care. but then again none of it was really inappropriate.
as for your question well until you're completely sure what your gonna do dont buy anything. it would probably be good to do option B, but you're going to have to think of a good place. make sure it's nowhere people will look a lot. also i wouldn't recommend putting it under your bed or other common hiding places. put it somewhere safe but still easy to access. i wouldn't really recommend C. D i guess you could try but i personally wouldn't. id just try and hide it. E would only be ok if you're parents are understanding of you and dont judge easily. F is probably best if you've got some nice understanding friends.
also being tied by someone is way better than self bondage but of course its hard to find people who are interested. what i usually do is make tiny hints or make like a dirty joke about it but so far no-one has noticed =(.
anyway hope you figure this out and have lots of funnnnnn =D.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by TicklishCosplayBoy » Fri Mar 14, 2014 8:02 am

Lockedup I think I may follow your advice (and a big thanks to Tideup2008 aswell) and go with B. If they find out I'll say it was a dare from ages ago and that I didn't know how to dispose of it so I just left it ^^
Tickle me, I dare you! See what it gets you! Well, probably not much because I secretly enjoy it

### Re: Do I risk it?

Post by Hogtieroh » Sun Mar 16, 2014 11:30 am

Well who reads your bank statement? Most use an anonymous name you'd still have to say what you bought tho. With a few tools you can make some fun bd toys sufficient for your needs