Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 6:54 am

You'd think on a site of 2601 people there would be at least ONE female Domme....

Re: Dommes

Postby TheRopeGuy » Thu Nov 17, 2016 7:30 am

Nope. There aren't girls on the internet.

Re: Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 7:51 am

Haha. I feel like that's a joke but also I'm sad because it's probably not..,

Re: Dommes

Postby Naughty boy » Thu Nov 17, 2016 8:27 am

What a shame

Re: Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 9:44 am

Yeah... It sucks...

Re: Dommes

Postby Naughty boy » Thu Nov 17, 2016 10:01 am

Here I am alone and very vulnerable and no WOMAN to come kidnap and tie me up!

Re: Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 10:42 am

Is that you being subtle about something ....? Either way, I agree with you.

Re: Dommes

Postby Naughty boy » Thu Nov 17, 2016 12:21 pm

Lol

Re: Dommes

Postby ravish » Thu Nov 17, 2016 1:03 pm

We're all too busy with our girlfriends. ;)

Re: Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 3:34 pm

Of course....

Re: Dommes

Postby callmeanon » Thu Nov 17, 2016 6:43 pm

Go to FetLife or somethin
Mew ^^

Re: Dommes

Postby Vector5227 » Thu Nov 17, 2016 10:22 pm

Tried. Not very successful considering half the site are men and half of the woman that make up the other half are like 50 and above and the OTHER half probably get so many PM's about subs who don't know jack shit about the life style and are just looking for kinky sex so they don't respond. Not a very helpful site...

Re: Dommes

Postby BoundJana » Thu Nov 17, 2016 10:58 pm

Many switchs are on this side and sometime you just must have the courage to ask a girl ^^
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

Re: Dommes

Postby Mmph Squad » Fri Nov 18, 2016 4:40 am

I agree a bit with Jana and also suggest that you consider try being a switch; most people like a give and take relationship so you have to be willing to do some tying before you get a chance to be tied. Although it seems like a secret that you don't want to get out, sometimes it's also good to consider asking a girl that your friends with if she wants to play tie up games with you. Believe me there are people out there with much worse secrets, and once a secret is no longer secret it ceases to bother you like it might have before.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

Re: Dommes

Postby cellofello » Fri Nov 18, 2016 4:54 am

Vector5227 wrote:[Fetlife is n]ot a very helpful site...


It can be if you use it correctly (and you don't live in the middle of nowhere). Look for groups devoted to your interests and participate. More importantly, look for groups that have announcements for munches and events in your area. True, you won't have much luck if you live in rural Kansas. But many large (and even medium sized) cities have munches where people can meet at a restaurant and socialize and get to know each other face to face. Large cities may have play spaces. A couple of weeks ago I went to a dungeon in Baltimore. I played briefly with one young woman, and would have played with another if there had been another hour in the evening. There is a good chance we will do something the next time I am up there, in mid-December.

OK Cupid is a general dating site, but it has kink-related questions and lets you search for women who might be compatible.

BTW, maybe you shouldn't be so quick to dismiss those 50-year-old women! For one thing, if you're looking for a domme, they probably have a lot more experience than most of the ones your age. Some of them are cougars who go for much younger men. Check out The Cougar Den group on Fetlife; it has over 10,000 members. And many of them are still quite attractive (and under 50) - though I have always found that if I click with a woman mentally, looks really don't matter. If you're willing to be open to the possibilities, you might just have an amazing experience.

Re: Dommes

Postby Janbound » Sun Nov 20, 2016 2:01 am

Naughty boy wrote:Here I am alone and very vulnerable and no WOMAN to come kidnap and tie me up!


Ifonly I'd seen this last night. Youd have spent a night in a Cougar's den all trussed up naked and helpless. Dream of it slave , dream :tied: :gag: :bondage1: