Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby just4fun » Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:22 pm

Ok we all love being tied up- but does that love have a limit? Hypotheticlly, if it comes up that you and someone else have this same interest and they offer to tie you up- but you do not know them and perhaps distrust them- would you still let tha person tie you up to where you were helpless? Possibly putting yourself in danger?
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby davyuk » Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:51 pm

If it is someone from this forum and you been chatting to them for a while then yes i would let them tie me up but a complete stranger will be a no, as you said "possibly putting yourself in danger' no matter how you want to be bound and gagged i wouldnt do it

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby mcsproot » Tue Sep 06, 2011 8:09 am

Hell no.

When you get tied up, you have no power over anything. The responsible person/top/dom is in charge. You NEED to be able to trust them to not do anything you don't want.
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Kyle » Tue Sep 06, 2011 4:40 pm

Why in the world would you ever let someone you didn't trust tie you up? That's just sheer stupidity.

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby sarobah » Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:42 pm

mcsproot wrote:When you get tied up, you have no power over anything. The responsible person/top/dom is in charge. You NEED to be able to trust them to not do anything you don't want.

Exactly. Trust is a wonderful thing, but in requires absolute confidence in the one to whom you are entrusting your health and safety.
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby just4fun » Tue Sep 06, 2011 9:43 pm

totally agree with all of you! So glad we all know to play safe ;)
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Sep 07, 2011 6:39 am

no because I would be afraid of being hurt or killed
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby markusthe1st » Fri Sep 09, 2011 7:43 pm

Never with a capital "N".

I knew a woman who met a guy on one of the alterative phone lines a while back. She was submissive, and really wanted a good "Top". Anyhow, she met him, he tied her up very tightly without ever checking on her comfort level, and when she complained, he gagged her very tightly with stuffing and duct tape. Once she was bound, he beat the crap out of her, abusively. I saw the bruises - it was horrible. She was all kinds of embarassed and ashamed, when really, the guy was a total dirtbag and comitted a criminal act.

Never let that happen to you. Know and trust first and always.
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:09 pm

I've been tiedup enough times to know that even people you DO trust are not always worthy of that trust.
I was never betrayed by any of my friends in adolescence except in ways I found pleasurable (tickle tortured and so on) and even then never to excess. Twice in my adult life however I was robbed of money and left tied up by people I'd known for years and thought I could trust. Not once, but twice! I wasn't hurt either time, but I could have been.
Never give your trust lightly, and for God's sake never let anyone you don't already fully trust tie you up! Even when you DO trust them, think it through carefully!!!
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby ropendope » Tue Sep 13, 2011 10:41 pm

I think its ok if you think you'll have a relationship with this person. Back in highschool I met this girl and we talked on the phone for a while and after like a week or so I told her I liked bondage. She didnt seem to mind at all and even took some self bondage pics. The night of our first real date, once we came back to her house, we kissed and I asked her if I could tie her up and she said yes and I did (HOGTIE). Maybe she was easily trusting but like i said, after a week she was down to do it and I cant honestly say she trusted me fully or I did to her. I was at HER house at the time with HER family members were just 2 rooms over.

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Sep 14, 2011 1:08 am

Derrville wrote:I think its ok if you think you'll have a relationship with this person. Back in highschool I met this girl and we talked on the phone for a while and after like a week or so I told her I liked bondage. She didnt seem to mind at all and even took some self bondage pics. The night of our first real date, once we came back to her house, we kissed and I asked her if I could tie her up and she said yes and I did (HOGTIE). Maybe she was easily trusting but like i said, after a week she was down to do it and I cant honestly say she trusted me fully or I did to her. I was at HER house at the time with HER family members were just 2 rooms over.

Sounds to me like there was no real distrust there or she wouldn't have even let you into the house. Anyway, I don't think this is the same thing at all as what Just4fun was asking.
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Tue Sep 20, 2011 5:28 pm

NEVER seriously man who would?

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:02 pm

I would never allow someone that I had never met or had only met briefly to tie me up, but in the past, I have let a couple of people do bondage with me who I really didn't know THAT well - or at least not well enough to do something that intimate with. I got lucky in that nothing ever went wrong for me with them and they were just as respectful as the people I've done TUGs with who I've known well and trusted - but it easily could have and I was probably quite stupid to do it.

In fact, the only time that I've ever had a negative bondage experience, it was with someone who I DID trust!

You've just gotta be careful - whoever you're doing it with :)

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Zookar » Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:26 pm

No matter how desperate you are to be tied up, never ever do that, it could be the stupidest mistake in your life. I would never, I don't know who would.

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:29 am

Zookar wrote:No matter how desperate you are to be tied up, never ever do that, it could be the stupidest mistake in your life. I would never, I don't know who would.


Yes people die or get kidnapped that way

Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby bookl0ver » Wed Sep 28, 2011 2:46 pm

dude u'd b nuts. i wudn't trust my freaking BROTHER to tie me up. But i ain't trusting so there we go. I'd tie some one i don't know up. Defo but to have a total stranger completely in control and in power of you. that'd just freak me out. I had to beg my m8 who i've known since i was born (she's older) for like ages a few months back even though we've known each other for like ten yrs. And even then i wasn't allowed to gag her.
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Re: Would you let someone you didnt trust tie you up?

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Sep 29, 2011 8:12 am

bookl0ver wrote: i wudn't trust my freaking BROTHER to tie me up.

Not all of us had a choice in the matter growing up. :big:
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