Max S wrote:All of those are so good, except the one where selfbondage doesn't count, it does count
Well, at least to you it does. And if it works for you that's perfectly fine.
But for me personally, self-bondage is no fun at all. maybe because for me bondage is just the set-up for some (mild to moderate anyway) torture/torment/teasing/tainting fun. It's a means to an end not the actual goal. Even if i were tied by someone else, if they just up and left me alone to stew that would also be kind of boring for me. Maybe it's a deep-seated, unconscious desire for attention but i like it better when my captor keeps me company, even if only (or maybe even preferably) to mildly torture me (tickle, slap, taunt... that sort of thing. Nothing gruesome or extreme).
That's my feeling anyway; anyone who feels satisfied with just bondage is also perfectly correct of course. It's not a one size fits all kind of thing, nor should it be.
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