Wearing what?I'm a big fan of roleplay so I love to be tied up wearing sexy costumes and outfits. However, sometimes that's just too much effort, so a lot of the time I like to be bound in nice lingerie or just nude, which can also be very sensual.
Which kind of tie-up?My absolute favourite tie is a chair tie with each of my limbs tied seperately to an individual chair arm or leg. I like hogties - although not strict ones, as I'm not a fan of pain. Spreadeagles can be a lot of fun too! I also enjoy just a standard tie with my legs bound tightly and my wrists behind my back - as boring as it sounds, it's really great for struggling around, which my fiance really loves! Whichever position I'm tied in, I always prefer to bound with ropes or scarves - although I don't mind cuffs and tape, I just don't think they look as sexy and they're also less comfortable.
I'm not fussed about where I'm tied. It usually ends up being in our bedroom (for obvious reasons), but it is fun to mix it up sometimes and try somewhere that youve never been before. I have a particular like for being bound and gagged outside or in public, but for obvious reasons, that happens very rarely.
Whatever the tie and wherever it is, I absolutely insist on being gagged - if I'm not going to be gagged, then I'd rather not be tied up at all. Cleave gags are my favourite - nice and tight with mouth packing underneath. I like ball gags a lot too. For me, it isn't about how effective the gag is - a good damsel will pretend she's completely helpless even if she coudl get out in a second. I prefer them to look and feel nice. I also enjoy being blindfolded - although it's not a complete must, it can be very sensual when you're completely helpless.
Optional Extras?I really don't go in for any pain or tickling - they just make it unenjoybale for me. However, I'm quite keen on using sex toys like vibrators when tied up. I would definitey recommend getting hold of one to have some fun with!
But like Sarah said, it really depends on the girl! Why not ask your girlfriend what appeals to her most? If she hasnt been keen on what you've done in the past, maybe she has some ideas that might make it better for her. Otherwise, just try to be creative. Try lots of different combinations and I'm sure you'll be able to find one that really gets both of you going!
Have fun!

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