## Pain

Post by Jay Feely » Tue Mar 27, 2012 12:57 pm

Do you enjoy being subjected to pain?
Initially, I decided that I would not enjoy it.
But recently, my friends had introduced me to pain with pink bellies, bastindo on the soles of my feet, and spankings. All of a sudden, I am interested in receiving pain as long as it's not the main focus because I still enjoy the light things such as tickling, sensual play, and having itching powder applied to my skin.
But, what about the other people on this site?
Give me your honest view on the subject and if you are willing, share an experience in which you were tied up and tortured with pain.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

### Re: Pain

Post by Chris12 » Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:07 pm

No not really.
Things like pink bellies and wedgies are tollerable for me though since and as long it is done in good fun.

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Post by sarobah » Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:49 pm

Since I am a wimp (for which read crybaby) and my boyfriend is a softie, we don’t incorporate pain into our TUGs – although to be honest, if it came to a choice, I would prefer pain (within reason) to tickle torture. Feet-tickling is especially unbearable, whereas the rubber band on the sole of the foot I kind of enjoyed, because the sensation is short and sharp, more of a shock than actual pain. (Like eating wasabi – the burning in your mouth is intense but doesn’t linger.)
The conventional wisdom is, of course, that pain induces a pleasurable rush of endorphins, but for me it does the opposite, short-circuiting the pleasure-producing parts of the brain.
On the other hand, I have had a few spankings. Because of my pain aversion, I’ve only been spanked when I really have been a “bad girl.” I am not like the heroine in the movie “Secretary” who intentionally misbehaves to earn her punishment. (And I wasn’t tied up at the time, so this is not really an answer to your question.) But while I don’t invite it, I enjoy the occasional spanking because of the submission and humiliation aspects.
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Post by TUfriend » Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:15 pm

I think if I had a partner, I would want him or her to tickle me or light torture. I feel like pain would take away from the humiliation whereas tickling would add to it.
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### Re: Pain

Post by barkytea » Tue May 08, 2012 4:19 pm

Don't mind pain once in a while, it's sorta like that reminder that's given to you every now and then to remind you that you can still feel your own nerves. However with spicy food...now that's something hard to deal with -_-.

### Re: Pain

Post by viking » Wed May 09, 2012 7:17 am

i don't really like to cause pain to my victims... it looks like it hurts.
and when it comes to receiving it, i don't know...
usually when someone causes me pain i just get mad and shout something at them. so i honestly don't think i would enjoy this sort of things.
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### Re: Pain

Post by Jay Candice » Wed May 09, 2012 8:02 pm

Why cause deliberate pain? That makes no sense.
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### Re: Pain

Post by Jason Toddman » Thu May 10, 2012 8:54 am

> Jay Candice wrote:Why cause deliberate pain? That makes no sense.

It would to a masochist.
For myself, I used to enjoy light to moderate pain but nothing too severe; was more into the humiliation aspects than pain itself. Everyone has their own limit, from little to none at all all the way to whippings. There's no accounting for taste. Pain is all right if both giver and receiver enjoy it; otherwise it should be excluded.
As for giving pain, no way unless the receiver was outright insisting on it (thus removing all doubts from my own mind) and it was clearly their idea. You can't be to cautious when it comes to matters like this.
IMO it should always be the receiver who initiates the idea. Any pressure by the giver should be an absolute no-no.
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### Re: Pain

Post by bind_diane » Sat Nov 30, 2013 6:32 pm

> boundandgaggedgirl wrote:I think pain can feel good while tied up to an extent. Like a spank or pinch or strain of the position, something just to make you feel helpless and make sure you are aware of it

I think I can agree with this, if we're talking about a limited amount....like a paddling, for instance.
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