I am a guy and I get turned on by tie ups in general, regardless of whether it is guys or ladies getting tied up. I have been tied up several times myself and have done a fair share of tying up as well.
This happened to me when I was 20 and my girlfriend, Amy at the time had just turned 19. We were hanging out at her apartment which she shared off-campus with two other girls. Her room-mates worked during the day, so we had the apartment pretty much to ourselves until they got home in the evenings. Being in college gave us many free hours during the day to study or to just hang out.
On this particular day, we were relaxed, making out on Amy's couch when Amy got a call from her brother Jake. He was in town and was planning to stop by. Now I had never met Jake before but I had heard a lot about him. Jake was a couple of years older than us, 22 at the time, and had been serving overseas in the military. It was cool to get to meet him in person.
Jake showed up a couple of hours later and we hit it off quite well. Jake was definitely a stand up guy with a maturity and confidence that impressed me. After a quick lunch, the three of us were lazing around by the TV and the conversation quickly turned to the thrills of being in the military. Jake revealed that growing up he always knew he'd either become a cop or join the military. He had always had a passion to serve and protect people. This is when he remembered something and dug into his bag, pulling out a small gift wrapped box. He gave it to Amy as a birthday gift. Amy opened the box and smiled. It was a pair of handcuffs that Jake had bought from a military store in Germany. This was completely unexpected and I was immediately turned on.
Jake offered to show us how to handcuff someone. "Would you like me show you the proper handcuffing technique?" Jake asked. I volunteered to be cuffed and Jake obliged. We both stood up and Jake asked me to turn around with my hands on my head. Then, with law enforcement like precision, Jake swiftly brought my left hand behind my back, slapped one cuff over it snugly, then followed with my right hand, tightly cuffing my hands behind my back. "There", Jake said admiring his own handiwork.
I stood there like a suspect who was about to be taken to jail. Jake pulled out the key from the box to get ready to uncuff me but Amy stopped him. "Not yet", she said winking at him. So we sat back down on the couch, with my hands cuffed behind me. Amy ran into the room, and returned with a roll of silver duct tape, and gave it to Jake. "Lets finish the ensemble", Amy told Jake smiling. "Sure, why not", Jake said sportingly. Without wasting any time, Jake tightly duct taped my mouth using a long strip of the duct tape. I did my best to keep Amy or Jake from knowing how turned on I was at the time.
Amy made sure I remained gagged and cuffed through the rest of the afternoon and I was finally let go just as Jake was about to leave. This was one of the most unexpected bondage experiences of my life, but one of the hottest ones I have had.