TUGs with Minors

Postby Sealherlips » Tue Dec 24, 2013 1:27 pm

What does everyone think about young adults tying up people a few years below an adult? Nothing sexual going on, just tie ups. I have a 15 year old cousin (not blood related) who recently confessed being into bondage. I am 21. Would it be crossing the line if I bound and gagged her? She said she would think about it.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Ducttapestar » Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:27 pm

Given the context, I wouldn't see an issue. As long as everything stayed tame, and the "vegas" rule is applied.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:47 pm

Should be fine as long as she is willing without being pressured into it. Ideally it would be best if it were her idea though; not yours.
When I was in my late 20s I had some male cousins and again in my early 30s i had some neighbors' kids who were then in their teens who enjoyed TUGs, but they were usually the ones who did the tying rather than the other way around. Unlike my cousins from my teenaged years however, they weren't very skilled at it. But they wanted to do it and it was their idea to begin with (they had no idea *I* was into TUGs), so i always felt it was fine. I did the tying only when specifically asked to do so, and even then was very careful about it.
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Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Chris12 » Wed Dec 25, 2013 2:42 pm

Though question.

I'd say that if you know each other well enough and the age difference isn't to big then its a careful yes. If not then I would advise against it.

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Postby Lake Lover » Wed Dec 25, 2013 3:15 pm

When I was 15, I tied the 21 y.o. guy who lived across the street. I was doing yard work there and I caught him off guard when he dozed in a lawn chair. I knew the whole family, and his mom was one of my school teachers. When he woke up half-dazed he chuckled and said, "Well, isn't this something! I might as well go back to sleep until you decide to free me!" I said yeah, because I was doing all the work anyway.

I let him loose, and he grabbed me and tied me in the same chair until his mother came back and set me free. We all just laughed about it. We tied each other a hundred times since then. So, I think you have to make a judgement about how trustworthy is your cousin??

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby barefoot99 » Wed Dec 25, 2013 4:07 pm

what is the vegas rule
BAREFOOT AND CUFFED, THAT'S THE ONLY WAY TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Dec 25, 2013 4:21 pm

barefoot99 wrote:what is the vegas rule

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. You've probably heard it before and just didn't make the connection.
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Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby barefoot99 » Thu Dec 26, 2013 7:13 am

oh ok
BAREFOOT AND CUFFED, THAT'S THE ONLY WAY TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Nuttella » Thu Dec 26, 2013 6:02 pm

I believe it is due to the obvious stigma that comes with it, frankly if someone who is way older than me who i barely knew wants to randomly decide to tie me up, i do get slightly disturbed.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Sealherlips » Thu Dec 26, 2013 9:56 pm

Well we know each other, it's just this information is new.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Fesselfan » Thu Dec 26, 2013 11:55 pm

I'd say don't do it. Depending on your local laws, you can really mess up your life with it.

Example: you tie her and all is fine. Yet, she tells her parents afterwards...and they don't like it and sue you.
You *may* get convicted in court or not- but often enough just the accusation of having done something nasty with a minor is enough to ruin your life, wether you are guilty or not.

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Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Dec 27, 2013 9:21 am

Fesselfan wrote:I'd say don't do it. Depending on your local laws, you can really mess up your life with it.

Example: you tie her and all is fine. Yet, she tells her parents afterwards...and they don't like it and sue you.
You *may* get convicted in court or not- but often enough just the accusation of having done something nasty with a minor is enough to ruin your life, wether you are guilty or not.

Cheers

FF

Definitely. there is no such thing as being too careful when minors are involved; especially if they are the ones being tied up. This includes your own safety as well as theirs. NEVER assume a minor understands what discretion is. And never ever tie up a minor if it wasn't their own idea to begin with, and even then think twice. Better yet, mention to the parents what is going on BEFORE it happens. Better safe then really, really sorry!
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Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Sealherlips » Mon Dec 30, 2013 1:26 pm

Well I've decided against it. I have a gut feeling it would lead to trouble.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Dec 30, 2013 1:42 pm

Sealherlips wrote:Well I've decided against it. I have a gut feeling it would lead to trouble.

Probably a very wise decision on your part.
Now, if that younger person wanted to tie you up, that would likely be different. Under the right circumstances it would merely look like you're indulging the kid (Aw look, isn't that cute?) But you tying her up?! Not a good idea under any circumstances; especially any that involved secrecy from her parents and any others concerned.
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Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby imgonenow » Wed Jan 01, 2014 6:43 pm

Well, I'm 14 and to be honest I would love to be tied by anybody, regardless of age.

Re: TUGs with Minors

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Jan 01, 2014 10:22 pm

jakersrampage wrote:Well, I'm 14 and to be honest I would love to be tied by anybody, regardless of age.

But you can see where someone MY age would be wary of doing that, no matter how much you said you wanted it. Unless you and they knew each other pretty well already and everyone else like your parents were cool with it, it'd be tricky.
Heck, even if someone like me came along and we decided it'd be cool for you to tie me up rather than the other way around, it could rather dicey - at least, for me. Age differences have become more (perhaps too much more) important than ever before... and at least to some extent for good reason.
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