Help!

Postby Amordaza » Thu Oct 13, 2011 4:24 am

The first thing I would recommend is talking with your boyfriend more to get a better idea of how he wants you to tie him up and what he wants you to do once you have him tied up. The direct approach would be to just sit down and ask him questions about it. A more romantic approach would be to integrate the conversation into your tie up game. For example, you could make the trip to the cabin a kidnap role play in which you tie his hands, blindfold him, and put him in the car; on the way to the cabin, he can ask if you're going to do certain things to him (those things being the things he'd like to do once there). As another example, you could tie him up at the cabin and begin to question him on what he likes. Get him to keep talking for awhile, and then at some point, mid-sentence, gag him and tell him that you've "heard enough." A third option is to play a game I call "Please don't:" you tie him up, and he begs you not to do things to him. The things he mentions, of course, are things he actually does want done to him, and you do those things.

Some ideas for what to do with him are:


I hope that gives you some ideas. You might want to check out a thread from last month in which I asked for ideas about what sort of intimate escapes I can do (http://www.tieupgames.net/viewtopic.php?f=47&t=11122). You and your boyfriend might like some of the ideas there (some of the other suggested ideas were...pretty wild).