think that's a factor in my search in this day and age.
I'm into somewhat more involved bondage which is a bit different than playful tie up games (I think) and I've had an account on Fetlife and Recon as well as being on here for a number of years now. I've even attended a few local event's for face to face networking but have encountered..... well a lot of flakes, a handful of one time meetups and a few guys who unfortunately didn't know much about safety which resulted in some close calls with safety when I was tied and gagged with my hands tied up just a bit too tight cutting off circulation; which can be dangerous if circulation is cut off for more than a few minutes. I have gained a few overseas pen pals but that's not really my goal either.
Anyway, for those guys and women who found regular bondage buddies I'm wondering how'd you find them? Were they friends of yours? A boyfriend? Girlfriend? I know it's bit of a process like anything else but it shouldn't be this difficult...or should it?
