How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby BandG » Sat Oct 03, 2015 4:09 am

My question is, when people are tied up in real life, say when they are being robbed, what do you think is realistic?

Do you think people actually get hogtied or spread eagle very much or is it more likely to be tied to a chair or just hands and feet tied or taped?

I would imagine mostly chair ties and perhaps tape for a gag but I doubt anyone ever gets gagged with panties or a ball gag very much in these situations.

What do you think?

Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby That-animeguy » Sat Oct 03, 2015 4:26 am

It's usually a good question whether some make up a fantasy, and all that indeed.
Personally, I think most isn't realistic on the site, but let others hope it is I guess.
If friends tie you up, it's still hard to believe, unless there is some good proof I guess :P
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Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby janus4089 » Thu Oct 15, 2015 7:51 am

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Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby janus4089 » Thu Oct 15, 2015 7:52 am

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Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby janus4089 » Thu Oct 15, 2015 7:53 am

Just my opinion, but I think there is a huge difference between real life and fantasy. In a real robbery for example i'm pretty sure that (most of the time) there is little room for thought, let alone fantasy. Whereas in private life, bondage activities are/should be driven by preference and choice. Of course, there is no perfect substitute for a 'real life' experience that might fit the fantasy but with some effort and imagination, it is possible to set up and play out a scenario that is close enough that you can feel like it is the closest thing to 'real'.

The nature of a fantasy is a scenario that we are extremely excited by, imagine sometimes obsessively and long to experience. And yet, experiencing it is not always what we might have imagined. In my opinion, some fantasies are better left as a fantasy (I realize that most won't like that statement, I don't! and I wrote it lol).

The thing is, our minds are wonderfully creative and fully in our control. However, real life scenarios often come hand in hand with a multitude of unforeseen complications and can make us feel anything but in control. You only really get to find out for sure when/if your fantasy happens for real and lets face it, the last thing you want to feel is...disappointed!. A fantasy is a thing of wonder and so any real life experience will always have a hell of a lot to live up to.

You also have to bear in mind that, with respect, most stories on this site (including those listed under true experiences) are most likely based on fantasy or what the writer would 'like' to be reality. This is nothing bad at all, in fact it is very healthy and I believe it is one of the reasons that this site is so popular. Those of us with fantasies, also long for acceptance and understanding and I for one have found it here.

All the best.

V

Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby Plueschbabycd » Thu Oct 15, 2015 8:35 am

Hallo,
yes I would say in realistic would it chair ties or in the night strait bed. Yes ball gag are unrealistic if not visited BDSM lover. But I think panties, cleave gags and handkerchief could happen if bugler brings nothing with him. If bugler not go in on time where all out, he is sometime not interested that victim survived.
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Re: How realistic are certain tie ups?

Postby Piratestan » Thu Oct 15, 2015 9:26 am

The police reports I've encountered on such things tend to have people tied with thing like duct tape and zip ties, and generally have their wrists and ankles tied. Serial killers, rapists, and long-term abductors tend to go for things like handcuffs and other metal restraints since they don't want their victims to escape at any cost.

The reality of non-consensual bondage is rather grim when you get right down to it.
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