Do you think it is harder to find a permanent captor?
I know my girlfriend is one example of a permanent captor because she will always find an excuse to restrain me and torture me. However, it took me nearly 3 years from the time I turned 18 to find one like her. She accepted my interests even though she was freaked out by it at 1st. Then, she did research using books, the Internet, and videotapes to drive me insane. However, I know most people in the general population is not like that.