How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Matthewtheman » Sun Feb 15, 2015 9:32 am

What was your first exposure to it, or the first one that made you realize you were into it? For me, it was Raiders of the Lost Ark. Seeing the scenes of Marion bound and gagged sparked my interest in women being tied and gagged.
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Re: How did you discover your interest in bobdage?

Postby Kyle » Sun Feb 15, 2015 9:52 am

I don't remember anything specific. Cartoons certainly helped, especially Ninja Turtles, but I can't point to one single incident and say that sparked the interest. I played some games when I was a kid that involved capturing although tying up was pretty rare.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bobdage?

Postby gagfan867 » Sun Feb 15, 2015 9:54 am

Kyle wrote:I don't remember anything specific. Cartoons certainly helped, especially Ninja Turtles, but I can't point to one single incident and say that sparked the interest. I played some games when I was a kid that involved capturing although tying up was pretty rare.

haha ninja turtles for me as well, the first episode where april is basically mummified with rope to a chair and gagged is probably my first real experience seeing it and liking it.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Kyle » Sun Feb 15, 2015 4:17 pm

I think a lot of people got an interest from cartoons, comics, TV shows, and other media like that. Kids like to reenact things they see and read about and then they find out if they like it or not.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Jay Feely » Sun Feb 15, 2015 4:22 pm

Being tied up after losing a card game when I was in high school.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby ebascoray » Sun Feb 15, 2015 7:04 pm

With me, it had to be watching TV shows, as a young kid, like "Fury", "The Rifleman", etc. And, along about the same time, having a large neighbor family across the street. The older brothers would come over to our front lawn, and play some friendly, brotherly, tie-up/escape games with their younger brothers. I would watch, in wide-eyed fascination, their trying to escape from their "predicament." Little did I realize then, that they were having "tie-up games." Best Regards, all!

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Re: How did you discover your interest in bobdage?

Postby Nexus » Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:01 am

Kyle wrote:I don't remember anything specific. Cartoons certainly helped, especially Ninja Turtles, but I can't point to one single incident and say that sparked the interest. I played some games when I was a kid that involved capturing although tying up was pretty rare.


Mainly this. Seeing it in television/movies and thinking "hmm, I like the look of that...wonder why that is?"

...still wondering why...

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby EricU1845 » Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:57 am

I can't remember seeing a lot of it on tv or movies, or not thinking anything special about it anyway when I was younger. For me it was my cousins, one who wanted to be a cop, and we played tons of games of cops and robbers, so it didn't take long for that to grow into capturing a prisoner and keeping him tied or cuffed. I just loved that game, and that was that.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby menma » Mon Feb 16, 2015 8:41 am

I think i was between 6-10y old, and a friend of me had a really nice soft nylon down jacket. We played catch with the jacket at school (throw to eachother, i just loved it). And i got several dreams about the jacket where we get tied up every day. A few examples:

- We were tied up back to back to a chair in a huge bucket with slime, i was naked, he in his jacket, i loved to feel his jacket on my back we were trying to get free. tied to a chair on a elevated platform and the slime was raising.

- I was sleeping while he had hundreds of the same jacket, he zipped them all together and wrapped them all tightly around my bed, so i was stuck and covered in jackets.

I had dreams like this almost every time.

Some other stuff:

- There was a jacket monster living below my house, it grew bigger by feeding himself on jackets, and it was hunting me. The monster looked a bit like a squid and it would squeeze me in his soft nylon jacket tentacles while it was swallowing me.

- I also dreamed about being wrapped up in a sticky slimy carpet, don't have anything with carpets. I think it was just about being unable to escape.

Also when watching dragon ball-z i had something with cell, i always dreamt about him to absorb me with his tail.
CellImperfectAbsorbingAndroid17.png


However i never really did something in bondage at that age, i always had kind of a special feeling about it.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby drawscore » Mon Feb 16, 2015 5:18 pm

I guess it was when I was around seven or eight, when one of my neighbors, about a month older, asked me to tie him up. He got out, then said it was his turn, so I let him tie me. We both thought it was kind of fun, so we tried it out on some of our other friends from cub scouts. I played various forms of TUG's until I was around 15-16, then my interest dropped off, when I started to take an interest in those of the female persuasion.

Drawscore

Re: How did you discover your interest in bobdage?

Postby Soul_Rebel » Sat Feb 21, 2015 12:43 pm

Nexus wrote:
Kyle wrote:
...still wondering why...


Haha there have been attempts to answer it. Not satisfied with what i've read thus far.

Yeah cops and robbers seemed like a natural entry into tugs, or at least holding someone in your power (tag and hide and go seek could be like this).
Whips and chains may break my bones, but ropes and gags excite me!

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Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby surgicalorb » Mon Feb 23, 2015 7:56 pm

Daphne from Scooby Doo. Also played some tugs as a kid. Fun times.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby EvilSir » Thu Feb 26, 2015 2:30 pm

surgicalorb wrote:Daphne from Scooby Doo.

I was going to say

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby abductionfan » Thu Feb 26, 2015 8:42 pm

My first was an ex girlfriend who whenever her parents left for a weekend or longer, i would stay with her while they were gone. Note, we were Freshmen in high school; and one night laying in bed she handed me a pair of pantyhose and asked me to tie her wrists to the headboard, she wanted to see how it felt. So, i did; and we slept that way the whole night. Since then, it has been with her and me both.

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby MisterTheEdge » Mon Mar 09, 2015 8:01 am

April O'Neil from the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles cartoon from the 80s and 90s. Things really started to click once I learned bondage was a thing.
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Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Mar 09, 2015 6:14 pm

I discovered it when, after numerous previous times being tied up by my older brother, I realized that I was enjoying the attention.
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Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Soul_Rebel » Tue Mar 10, 2015 7:51 am

MisterTheEdge wrote:April O'Neil from the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles cartoon from the 80s and 90s. Things really started to click once I learned bondage was a thing.


I wonder just how many of us April made into little Shredder jr's!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pX9OGhZC870
Whips and chains may break my bones, but ropes and gags excite me!

The image in my avatar is the work of Vonnart

"Duct tape makes you smart." - Michael Weston

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Mar 10, 2015 8:22 am

menma wrote: Also when watching dragon ball-z i had something with cell, i always dreamt about him to absorb me with his tail.

And a lot of it was censored out for American audiences, I've heard. Ever see the uncensored Japanese version? That's supposedly even more erotic than the American dubbed version.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby Bourne » Tue Mar 10, 2015 10:42 am

I remember playing cops and robbers as a kid and I was always a robber who got caught first all the time and tied to a table or tree which started it but a scene in 24 season 1 got me interested even more so heres a link to the pic I mean

http://i.ytimg.com/vi/mVtmHUnyFYM/hqdefault.jpg
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You can call me Dexter (nickname ive been given) im into either being tied up or tying you up :P
Always looking to hear new self bondage ideas to try out and am open to a TUG buddy in my area (UK)

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby tie_up_kathy » Sat Mar 28, 2015 5:38 pm

I think I've always liked it. I used to get tied up by friends just goofing off, and I know, of course, getting tied by a boyfriend would be really cool, so...

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby rachelbound » Mon Mar 30, 2015 11:46 pm

I've loved being tied up for as long as I can remember and can't pin down the moment when I thought, 'I'm loving this bondage thing'. Maybe it's something most of us are born to love and compelled to do xxx

Re: How did you discover your interest in bondage?

Postby rodger11 » Thu Apr 02, 2015 5:10 pm

I think it has just always been a part of me.

I always enjoyed the damsel plots of all the films and stories when I was a kid. It always lead me to daydreams about it. I believe I was the hero who saved the day in the dreams back then though, and not the one with a fondness for the actual damsels and tying them up :lol:

I was a bit of a late bloomer in terms of sexual nature. Even when moving towards my teens, I still enjoyed it, tying people up, but again there didn't seem to be anything sexual in it, or at least there wasn't at first. It was just a bit of fun, an entertaining way to annoy the babysitter. Unfortunately, I didn't have a babysitter for long, so when it randomly clicked (Cameron Diaz tied to the tree in The Mask) I was already without a babysitter, so there would be no fantasies lived out for a while yet at that point. Obviously nothing would have happened beyond the usual annoyance of the babysitter, but it would have at least given me a few memories and thoughts to go along with the fantasies that rapidly developed as my mind went into overdrive.