Postby FelixSH » Wed Feb 24, 2016 11:43 am
If you were the one who wanted to get tied up by her, there might be ways of tricking her into doing so without directly telling her you want it to happen. But if you want to tie someone up you need consent. No question about that, she has to know exactly what you want, so she can make the correct decision.
Honestly, the only thing you can do is just tell her about it. Though be aware that she might find it strange, or even creepy. Just a heads-up, because there is a possibility that your interest will make her feel uncomfortable around you. And even if she has no problems with bondage in itself, many people see it as a sexual thing. I told a friend about my interest, and that's the reason why he doesn't want to tie me up. He is a great guy, so he doesn't mind, but I only asked him because I knew he is relaxed about stuff and open for everything. Most people I wouldn't even think about asking, because I wouldn't want them to be uncomfortable around me.
Wait a few months, so you get to know each other. Build up trust. Than you can bring the topic up, if you think she might be cool with it. But really, WAIT. Don't come up with something like bondage before you know each other well.