## A question for the women here

Post by chloroformmeplease » Tue Nov 16, 2010 11:58 pm

I am just curious how many dominant women we have here in this forum. I know many like to be tied up but who here of the women like to be the ones that tie up either other woman or men?
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by hogtiedupgirl » Fri Nov 19, 2010 12:39 pm

I do sometimes

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Post by SamanthaBoundx » Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:53 pm

I think there are very few women who like tying men. I've tried it a couple of times before with my boyfriend, but I cant say I enjoyed it in the slightest.
As far as tying women goes, I've done it and I'm definitely more comfortable with it, but at the end of the day, I always prefer to take the submissive role.

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Post by anjell » Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:34 am

I have never tied any one so i wouldn't be able to say if i am or not.
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### Re: A question for the women here

Post by kristenbound » Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:42 pm

> SamanthaBoundx wrote:I think there are very few women who like tying men. I've tried it a couple of times before with my boyfriend, but I cant say I enjoyed it in the slightest.
> As far as tying women goes, I've done it and I'm definitely more comfortable with it, but at the end of the day, I always prefer to take the submissive role.

This is prolly where I am. I'm ok with tying other girls for escape tries or goofing off, but the idea of tying a boy I wanna date....ugh.
But, getting tied by him would be ultra cool!
Kristen

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by cellofello » Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:21 pm

> chloroformmeplease wrote:I am just curious how many dominant women we have here in this forum. I know many like to be tied up but who here of the women like to be the ones that tie up either other woman or men?

If you're asking only for women who are strictly dominant, I don't think you're going to find many. But I think you'll find a lot more who switch. Are you looking to hear only from the pure dominants, or from the switches as well? I didn't find it entirely clear, so I suspect some of the women you may be trying to reach didn't find it clear either.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by SamanthaBoundx » Mon Nov 22, 2010 6:36 am

> kristenbound wrote:This is prolly where I am. I'm ok with tying other girls for escape tries or goofing off, but the idea of tying a boy I wanna date....ugh.
> But, getting tied by him would be ultra cool!
> Kristen

I agree with everything you just said down to every last word xD Haha!

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by spiderlads322 » Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:35 pm

My friend Brittney is into tying otheres, though I really don't know if she has ever tried it with a boy. She's alway been dominant to her kittens ( a.k.a TUGs parteners), but she seems a bit more subbmisive towards men. I'm not sure. She'll be signing up here soon so maybe you should ask her.
Kitten- [kit-n] noun
Young female whom participates in bondage or bondage related activities, while wearing costume cat ears and/or a tail
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### Re: A question for the women here

Post by chloroformmeplease » Sun Jan 30, 2011 12:04 am

Okay then allow me to elborate on the question and make it a series of questions. Answer which ever pertains to you.
For those of you women in this forum,have you ever tied anyone up? If so,did you like it? Would you do it again?
Did you tie up a male or a female or both? If you have not ever tied anyone up would you ever do it? If you did or would tie anyone up how far would you go? Meaning how would you tie them up and for how long and what would you do to them while you had them tied up? Would you gag them? Blindfold them? Maybe place earplugs in their ears?
I think it is much more clear now.
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by sarobah » Sun Jan 30, 2011 4:56 pm

The only times I have tied up a guy were a couple of spontaneous, spur of the moment occasions, in league with a couple of other girls. I get my turn-on from being on the receiving end of the ropes. The four males who have tied me up the most â€“ my brother, two ex-boyfriends and my current bf â€“ I have never tied up.
In fact, apart from sharing vicariously in the captiveâ€™s pleasure*, I donâ€™t really understand the appeal of tying someone up, as opposed to being tied up. However, I realize that (1) this is just my personal preference, and (2) if everyone was like me, I wouldnâ€™t have anyone to tie me up!
On the other hand, Iâ€™ve tied up a few girls in my time. Iâ€™m a lot like...

> spiderlads322 wrote:My friend Brittney is ... dominant to her kittens but she seems a bit more submissive towards men.

I must confess that I do get a kick out of â€œdominatingâ€ other girls. Itâ€™s my way of reconciling the two facets of my personality, the public/assertive and the private/submissive.
When I do tie up a girl, depending on my mood I try to make it a sensual experience for her, what I call silk-and-satin bondage; or else I go for the torment â€“ rigorous, make-her-sweat-and-groan bondage. However, because most of the girls Iâ€™ve worked on have been TUGs newbies, I havenâ€™t attempted a long-term tie-up.
* That describes my boyfriend. He doesnâ€™t really â€œgetâ€ tie-up games, but he indulges me.
~ Sarah
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### Re: A question for the women here

Post by chloroformmeplease » Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:14 pm

> meri20098 wrote:I haven't tied anyone up. I don't think I ever would tie anybody up because I'm not that experienced with ropes and duct tape seems harsh and painful. I'm just not that good with knots in general and the material used has to be just so. I guess I'm picky but I try not to be. But I always fake being scared for the fun of it when my friend used to tie me up when we were kids.

They make bondage tape that sticks to itself not to the skin. If you roll it back up it can be used again also.
You never know if you like tying someone up until you've actually tried it.
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by captain21z » Tue Feb 01, 2011 7:51 am

Most of the dominant "women" you'll meet online are male posers. They exist, but there aren't that many dominant women in real life, and those I've known are mainly into other women and/or into more extreme things than just tying.

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Post by TeenGirl1239 » Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:32 am

I've been tied more than a 100 times,since I was 12,Thanks to my brothers and when I reached 19,Thanks to my boyfriend
Chester[Husband now]Even though I'm 30 now and have 2 sons,When they go school,Me and Chester still continue the tradition of ours

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by cellofello » Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:52 am

> meri20098 wrote:I haven't tied anyone up. I don't think I ever would tie anybody up because I'm not that experienced with ropes [...]

Everyone who is experienced with tying people with ropes started out by tying someone for the first time.
The reality is that the majority of people into bondage are more interested in being tied than in tying. So if you find a TUG partner, it's likely to be someone else who also wants to be tied. If you're going to have fun, you both need how to learn to tie and take turns with each other - it would be rather selfish to expect always to be the one tied, no?
Over in the "TUGs links" forum, I just posted a URL that has a long list of URLs that are tutorials in various aspects of bondage.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by SamanthaBoundx » Wed Feb 02, 2011 3:40 am

> cellofello wrote:Everyone who is experienced with tying people with ropes started out by tying someone for the first time.
> The reality is that the majority of people into bondage are more interested in being tied than in tying. So if you find a TUG partner, it's likely to be someone else who also wants to be tied. If you're going to have fun, you both need how to learn to tie and take turns with each other - it would be rather selfish to expect always to be the one tied, no?
> Over in the "TUGs links" forum, I just posted a URL that has a long list of URLs that are tutorials in various aspects of bondage.

In my experience everything you said is completely true xD
Although my boyfriend tied me up the first time we tried bondage, when we talked about it afterwards he told me that he always thought of himself as being more submissive. However, when he tied me again the next tim, the idea of being dominant seemed to grow on him and luckily, I've never had to tie him (apart from on my own whim once or twice - which I haven't really enjoyed).
And being experienced with roped really doesnt matter! I started out using scarves and pillowcases and whatever we could get our hands on! It was only when we got more and more into TUGs that we stared buying ropes etc.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by chloroformmeplease » Wed Feb 02, 2011 8:04 am

> captain21z wrote:Most of the dominant "women" you'll meet online are male posers. They exist, but there aren't that many dominant women in real life, and those I've known are mainly into other women and/or into more extreme things than just tying.

As I agree many dominant women or those who claim to be online are more then likely posers but I totally disagree with your statement about there aren't many dominant women in real life. I have met many dominant women in my life. Search around on the net in the right places and you will find that there are many more then you think there are.
I do know there are more submissive men in the world then there are dominant women but that does not dwindle the vast numbers of dominant women as a whole.
Many men have high stress careers and high stress jobs where they are in control and at the end of the day or week they want to give up that control to a woman,hence their submissive side. Trust when I say I have been with more dominant women in my life then I have with submissive women.
Now think about this. Even though a woman might claim to be totally submissive I believe all women have a dominant side. The fact is some are afraid to embrace that side of themselves while others simply hide it in fear that it will not be accepted in a world that is male dominated. Which to me is ironic. I hear many men say they are the king of their castle and they have their wives permission to say so. No that is not my proof but I have been around many married couples enough to know that when she is ready to go home that is when they leave. That might not sound dominating to some but it is often where and how it starts. I am probably older then most members on this site and I have been on both sides of the fence when it comes to tying someone up. I am not saying I am an expert but I have many years of experience. Probably more years then most people on here have been alive.
Just some food for thought.
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

### Re: A question for the women here

Post by MissTieMeUp » Sun Feb 20, 2011 10:03 am

> chloroformmeplease wrote:I am just curious how many dominant women we have here in this forum. I know many like to be tied up but who here of the women like to be the ones that tie up either other woman or men?

depends on the mood! lol I will be a dom if my guy wants that but am more happily the well bound captive for his pleasure...well for both of ours!
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