Selfbondage Help? (F)

Postby asdfjkl » Sun Feb 20, 2011 10:36 pm

Hi im new, im sorry for starting off so quick but i've been around and now have just decided to register lol
So i've never done a complete self bondage before and was wondering if you could help me.
Here's my materials:
Shoe laces ( i have a many but im not sure on the correct count)
Knee high socks ( 4 pair)
Bandanas (2)
belt (1)
Bathrobe belt (1)
and im sure i could search around for more stuff if suggested.

i cant really attach the ropes to anything because i dont have a basement and i have no head board. I also can never get my hands to stay tied behind my back no matter how hard i try.
Please help!
asdfjkl

Re: Selfbondage Help? (F)

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:25 am

There are plenty of things that you can do :)

The knee socks are probably the best bet for tying your hands - even better if you can find yourself some pantyhose. Anything that's stretchy is pretty good for a beginner because it means you can wiggle out quickly if you need to, but you still get the feeling of being bound. Look up different types of knot online - there are some pretty good guides for self bondage. If you just follow the basic idea of them then you should be able to keep your hands behind your back easily.

And as for not having anything to attach your "ropes" to, I'm absolutely sure you do? A standard house is an absolute haven for self bondage opportunities. I'm sure you have chairs? Tables? Beds? A shower or bath? Drawers/wardrobes with handles on? You just need to think outside of the box and get inventive. You can find a way to tie yourself to pretty much ANYTHING if you give it a little thought :)

Re: Selfbondage Help? (F)

Postby markusthe1st » Wed May 04, 2011 11:13 am

Since you're starting out, you really need to consider safety. People have died from self-bondage, plain and simple. Also, they have cut off circulation to their limbs so bad that they lost the use of them. People unfamiliar with being gagged often have mixed reactions, but it is possible to cough, choke, or vomit into a gag and die from it. While this may not be the norm, before you start out, you should accept that there is danger, plain and simple. With no one to look out for you, the danger is worse.

And you always want to have an exit plan - how do you get out of the predicament you put yourself in. If you're wearing handcuffs, for example, and you tie yourself to the headboard or a chair, can you reach the key? What if you can and drop it? If you can't get free and no one is coming home soon, you could seriously be in a "bind" (pun intended :-])

Personally, I'm not a fan of self-bondage because just too much can go wrong, but I had a girlfriend once that LOVED it. She would hogtie herself, tie herself to chairs, beds - you name it. She was always very careful, though. Just some food for thought.
Walk the mile first... then have the fun!

Re: Selfbondage Help? (F)

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Mon Sep 19, 2011 5:59 pm

markusthe1st wrote:Since you're starting out, you really need to consider safety. People have died from self-bondage, plain and simple. Also, they have cut off circulation to their limbs so bad that they lost the use of them. People unfamiliar with being gagged often have mixed reactions, but it is possible to cough, choke, or vomit into a gag and die from it. While this may not be the norm, before you start out, you should accept that there is danger, plain and simple. With no one to look out for you, the danger is worse.

And you always want to have an exit plan - how do you get out of the predicament you put yourself in. If you're wearing handcuffs, for example, and you tie yourself to the headboard or a chair, can you reach the key? What if you can and drop it? If you can't get free and no one is coming home soon, you could seriously be in a "bind" (pun intended :-])

Personally, I'm not a fan of self-bondage because just too much can go wrong, but I had a girlfriend once that LOVED it. She would hogtie herself, tie herself to chairs, beds - you name it. She was always very careful, though. Just some food for thought.

I hate to admit it cause the thought makes me cringe if death by selfbondage but sir you are as right as rain