Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:50 pm

Blindsim: Simulating blindness. Example: sunglasses and eye patches in public, getting a glimpse in the life of a blind person. In regards to TUGS, it's a method of foreplay and a precursor to TUGS:). use said items on your partner, guide them out for the day, and bring them in and tie them up after. :tied:

I'm wondering if there is anyone here who might have an interest in either of these two topics. With no concrete blindfold forum, I'm trying to see if we can establish one here on the TUGS site. Some topics, such as blind date(literally going out on a blindfolded date).

Also curious if anyone here is a fan of soft bondage. scarves, bandannas, bondage tape, duct tape, stuff of that sort?

I'm just trying to see if I get any bites, see if anyone here is interested??

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby sarobah » Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:13 am

I love blindfold dining (what I call sans vue – I don’t know if that’s a common expression or just mine) and blindfolded dancing (even though I’m not much of a dancer even without the blindfold).
I’ve been on “blind dates” (nice term, BTW), and I must say – if I had to choose just one tie-up item, it would definitely be the blindfold.
~ Sarah
Words, like Nature, half reveal and half conceal the soul within.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:30 am

Now the blindfolded dining is something I forgot, That's also something I have yet to try. A little difficult to without anyone to dine with :(

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby fungirlkatie » Sat Jan 30, 2010 2:58 pm

I like using blindfolds in tugs, but never used one outside of tugs, also i love soft bondage, not into the hardcore or bondage gear stuff.
Bound, gagged and blindfolded, all with silk scarves

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:15 pm

It's really fun, because if you're blindfolded for a good length of time and actually out doing something(shopping, or out for a walk) your other senses do make up for loss of sight, and it's a very interesting experience. Just walking around the house blindfolded and feeling your way around can be very interesting.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby sarobah » Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:13 pm

I have mentioned the joys of the blindfold in several of my stories, both the fiction and the true episodes.
These are two of my favourite real-life experiences:
Birthday Girl (Gift-Wrapped) – the first part
viewtopic.php?f=12&t=1604&p=6501#p6501
All-Day Sucker – about a third of the way through
viewtopic.php?f=12&t=3185&p=11095#p11095
~ Sarah
Words, like Nature, half reveal and half conceal the soul within.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Sat Jan 30, 2010 7:50 pm

Wow.....I'm at a loss for words...absolutely amazing!! I've got a lot of ideas from your writing as well!

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Suestruggles » Thu Feb 04, 2010 3:29 am

I love blindfolds and , like Sara, it is my favourite bit of bondage kit. I guess some people have only ever used BFs or at least it's their starting point. When I'm tied up (not too often now) It realy makes the helpless feeling complete.
Sue

Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Ravenkin » Fri Feb 05, 2010 3:14 pm

blindfolds are quite an amazing thing to use, with the ability of boosting ones sensations, a few outdoor bondage experiences I've been involved in have been very satisfying with the use of a ballgag, cuffs and so on but even those didn't have the effect a blindfold had when I cuffed, ballgagged and blindfolded my slavegirl in a doorway witinh the city centre (a back street with passerbyers every so often), I pretended to walk away, watched her standing there then quickly delivered a nice spank =], in short, blindfolds are very useful; plus using a scarf to hide a ballgagged mouth is nice to do in public, especially when you "interrogate" that person, as I find it fun to listen to my slave as she tries to answer through the gag >=).

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Wed Feb 10, 2010 9:13 pm

I'd love to try the outdoor stuff sometime. Especially the blindfolding(blindsimming). I'd love to go somewhere remote, blindfolded the entire time, preferably using the eyepatches/sunglasses thing. the outdoor bondage would be something I would consider, supposing I could find the right place to do it.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Thu Feb 25, 2010 10:07 pm

Hey Sarobah/Sarah, I don't know if you've ever heard of this, either "dark dining" or sans vue(nice choice of words:P)in restaurants designed for exactly that purpose. I found a few sites of places designed for blind dining.

http://chickiepoo.wordpress.com/2010/01 ... ed-dinner/

http://www.yourtango.com/20083549/a-ver ... -date.html

It's either darkened room, or blindfolds on. They have choices of either, I"m probably going to try whenever I get the chance.
I have to go 5 hours from here to though:P

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby sarobah » Fri Feb 26, 2010 11:50 am

Very,very nice. I’m especially impressed by ChickiePoo’s, where just the one partner is blindfolded (that would be me, of course :o)
I love some of the “rules”:
“Plan on the kids staying somewhere else that night, because you’ll be enjoying most of Sunday morning in bed… All blind-folded individuals will be encouraged to remain that way. If you need to use the restroom please ask your partner to lead you there… Blindfolds will be provided and may be taken home at the end of the evening… What happens at ChickiePoo’s, well, let’s hope it doesn’t stop at ChickiePoo’s but continues at home.”
~ Sarah
Words, like Nature, half reveal and half conceal the soul within.

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Fri Feb 26, 2010 8:29 pm

Yeah, some of those rules are just perfect...
I, personally would check out the place 5 hours away since it's the closest to me lol. The rules in Chickie Poo's(erotic suggestions) are very thought provoking though lol

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Soul_Rebel » Sat Feb 27, 2010 8:40 am

Love the idea! lol. I remember blindfolding a former GF before we kissed from time to time, and on one occasion my friend stepped in, saw us, laughed silently, and left. My significant other didn't even realize he saw us (being blindfolded and kissed), and it was a point of humor for a while lol.

I would have to say that soft bondage is the only kind I really engage in, and that I almost wish the distinction was better represented as I don't like the idea of being classified as a sadist whom uses ballgags and nipples clamps, when i've never even been excited by such things. Just seems that these are almost two separate ideas, and not mere degrees.
Whips and chains may break my bones, but ropes and gags excite me!

The image in my avatar is the work of Vonnart

"Duct tape makes you smart." - Michael Weston

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Mon Mar 01, 2010 8:26 am

I agree, Soul_Rebel. To the unenlightened(one of my exes specifically!), one who enjoys the comforts of soft bondage is declared as being a freak(at least, that's how she deemed me). The whole leather and chains thing came up(I don't remember her mentioning anything to the effect of sadism, but I'm sure she was thinking something along those lines) and it was difficult to explain my perspective. The way I see it, we are what we are, don't judge until you try, and even then respect the opinions of those who have their own way of thinking.

Now, on a lighter note, I'm still trying to research some more dark dining places, I know there's nowhere close to me that has one(at least not one I've been able to find). As I said in my last post, I have to travel 5 or 6 hours to get to one. I think I'd rather wear the blindfold anyways if I were in the darkened room. It keeps things interesting, especially, as Sarah said, for the after:P

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Accro de la jupe » Sat Jan 19, 2013 3:03 am


Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby kateknots » Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:56 am

I have used blacked out wrap around sun glasses on a partner while driving. They sit in the passengers seat, effectively blind folded, They appear to be wearing regular sunglasses while I drive them to an "undisclosed location".

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby ilikeblindfolds » Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:16 am

Hi Everyone,

I like blindfolds, blind simming, blackout contacts a lot. :blindfold:
They really turn me on.

Hi Accro de la jupe,

Those links you shared are awesome.
I couldn't watch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ka15HrPG ... A&index=29 as it is a private video.
By the way what is the content of the video? Can I find it somewhere else?

Respects,
Pravara

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Accro de la jupe » Sat Apr 06, 2013 12:24 am

Hi Pravara,

The video has unfortunately been deleted. There's a very short preview here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0KaDhVScSc) which shows the title of the series and how the reporter wears ophthalmic eye patches under her dark glasses. She's completely helpless.

A less-subtle variation is in this series: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfFQpp1GmKo

Do be very, very careful with contact lenses; don't damage your eyes. I hope when blindsimming that you have a sighted guide?

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby ilikeblindfolds » Sat Apr 06, 2013 3:10 am

Hi Accro de la jupe,

Thanks for your reply.
Fortunately I saw those videos when they are available in '21 días a ciegas'.

I hope you will be interested to watch this series http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0F5E3C5896150F31.
By the way do you have a FetLife profile?

Respects,
Pravara

Re: Blindsim(public blindfolding) and Soft bondage

Postby Accro de la jupe » Mon Apr 08, 2013 8:25 pm

Two more from Flickr - the use of liquid latex. This will be harder to remove than adhesive eye patches, and, with skilled make-up, easier to conceal for the purposes of public bondage.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/megathron/5286771370/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/8458330@N05/512696992/ - would love to know where the film is!

Are there any similar examples?