## Trying to Find a BDSM partner

Post by Foryourpleasure13 » Thu Mar 20, 2014 12:28 pm

I have been trying to find a girl who shares my interests in BDSM for years now and have had little success. Being a guy looking for a girl as most of yall guys know, it is very hard to find a girl who continually stays in the conversation.
Does anybody know of any FREE sites to find a partner to talk to about bondage where the partner is also interested in chatting about bondage? I can't find any reliable places that have members who continually respond in a bondage conversation.
I'm also interested if anyone has had any luck using a website to arrange a bondage meeting with another person from online. If so, please share the link!

### Re: Trying to Find a BDSM partner

Post by Al7162001 » Thu Mar 20, 2014 1:04 pm

fetlife

### Re: Trying to Find a BDSM partner

Post by NoMeansYes » Sat Mar 22, 2014 11:48 am

Every guy knows this feeling really, unless you've got a girlfriend then it's very difficult, especially via the internet where trust is an issue, to meet someone for what you're looking for.
As the previous poser said, Fetlife is basically your best bet. There are some other message boards, forums etc but really Fetlife is the one you need. Even then it's kind of the same as everywhere else, a ton of horny guys trying every trick in the book to attract the girls. I guess as men we're just more forthcoming and proactive about what we want.
It's tough, but I guess if you don't buy a ticket you don't win the raffle.

### Re: Trying to Find a BDSM partner

Post by Fesselfan » Fri Mar 28, 2014 6:13 am

Go out into the real life and find someone who shares your kink there. It's far easier than most of the guys who "only" hang around in the internet think.
Cheers
FF
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