Escape or Not?

Postby Kyle » Sun Jun 23, 2013 7:46 pm

When you're in a tie-up game, do you try to escape or not? I always thought part of the fun was trying to escape and get free, but a lot of people don't seem to want to escape. Granted, I wouldn't want it to be easy where I could escape in 30 seconds but I want to try to escape.

This is talking more specifically about tie-up games, and not more adult sexual bondage where you really wouldn't be trying to escape or a real life-and-death situation where you absolutely would.

I'm not saying anybody's idea is wrong, just asking the question.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby drawscore » Sun Jun 23, 2013 8:18 pm

I think the natural urge, even in play, is to escape, or at least, to make the attempt. Most of us are competitive, some, even highly competitive, and the thought of just giving up on a challenge, is abhorrent to us. The more difficult the tie, the greater the thrill, or feeling of accomplishment is, when you do escape, and it's an "adrenalin high" which can become addictive, and make you want to do it again and again.

On the other side, consistent failure to escape may prove discouraging, and turn people away from TUGS. My friends and I knew that, even as young teenagers (13-14-15), which is why we sometimes made it easier (without being too obvious about it) for the younger kids (10-11-12) to get loose - so they would beat the challenge, and feel a sense of accomplishment. Of course, making sure the younger kids got to tie someone, also helped, and it helped even more when one of us would say we couldn't get loose. Again, there's that feeling of beating the challenge, and it was especially effective if 11 year old Mark tied up 14 year old Charlie, and Charlie "couldn't get loose."

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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Tiemeforhours » Mon Jun 24, 2013 12:48 am

If I ever got to play, then yeh I'd struggle a bit and I'd moan thro my gag. But I wouldn't want to be able to escape. That would defeat the object for me. And if I ever did manage to escape then I'd expect to be tied right back up even better!
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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Chris12 » Mon Jun 24, 2013 1:11 pm

I always struggle and scream in my gag, wouldn't be complete without that. But as long as the one doing the tying doesn't torment me to much and if it doesn't last to long I won't actively try to escape

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby fungirlkatie » Mon Jun 24, 2013 1:47 pm

I like to struggle about and try to escape, but don't really want to. Sometimes I am able to wiggle free I'm usually retied right away
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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Nexus » Mon Jun 24, 2013 5:23 pm

When I tie my wife, I always want her to struggle for freedom. Seeing a woman struggle in bondage is a lot of the allure for me. She'll usually just lay there, so I have to persuade her to struggle. "If you can't get loose in 30 minutes, you'll be sorry" Early in our relationship she would be able to get out often, and I must say it was pretty deflating for me, but I think she had that sense of accomplishment mentioned above. Over the years I have improved my tying, and within a few minutes she knows she can't get out, then I get to have my fun :twisted:

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby henry1001 » Mon Jun 24, 2013 10:37 pm

I always to try to escape, TO GET REVENGE :twisted:
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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Wyatt9999 » Tue Jun 25, 2013 8:22 am

hehe for me I love being the captive more. So if I get caught I don't try to escape at least for a good while. I'll let my captor have his fun first then try to escape. If it's a game like cowboys and Indians I'll just wait for a teammate to find me.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby ropedin » Fri Jun 28, 2013 9:37 pm

I think it's fun to struggle or try to make noise through my gag, but I want to be in a tie where escape is impossible. It's part of the allure knowing that my struggling is futile and I'm truly helpless.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby tightlytaped » Sat Jun 29, 2013 4:14 am

Definitely try to escape. Kind of boring just laying there!

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Janbound » Mon Jul 08, 2013 7:49 am

When I'm tied up I Wang to stay ghat way. But although I'm ever so passive and compliant whilst I'm being tied up I'll kick and struggle to get free one I'm tied. I don't get free often though

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Sealherlips » Tue Jul 09, 2013 10:14 am

I want to be tied so well, that there is no chance of escape. I like to try my best to escape, but if it is impossible to get out I just love it. It's even better when my captor does whatever they want to me while I am tied.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Jay Feely » Tue Jul 09, 2013 8:43 pm

I have escaped twice but in both cases, I was tied by someone who is not experienced in tying someone up. Was outsmarted by a 10 year old kid once though when I was 14 when he effectively hogtied me after I was ambushed set up by his older brother.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby NemesisPrime » Tue Jul 09, 2013 10:24 pm

I'd put up an act of struggling and complain a bit about it being too tight but in actuality I do not want to get free because I love being tied up and played with.
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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby bind-me » Wed Jul 17, 2013 2:03 pm

I'd prefer it to be that I would be tied up in any way the person wanted and if I didn't escape in a certain amount of time I would have to do a forfeit, like I would have to be their slave for a day or something that put some real excitmebt in it

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Paulscot » Wed Jul 17, 2013 9:43 pm

Gemscot has being tying me up since I was 5 - I'm 17 now. Sometimes she ties me up and I have to try to escape. She was a girl guide so she's an expert with ropes and knots - I've never once in 12 years escaped. When Gemma ties me up, I stay tied up until she releases me.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby bind-me » Thu Jul 18, 2013 12:26 pm

I would like there to be a sense of hope that I might be able to escape but then later realise that it was hopeless

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Fesselfan » Wed Jul 24, 2013 12:13 am

I like my victims to struggle and try to escape.
Usually, they fail (which I like very much, too!) and are very aware then that they are at my mercy.

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Re: Escape or Not?

Postby trammel » Sat Jul 26, 2014 5:42 pm

I like trying to escape but also like it to be very difficult. Lately I seldom am able to.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby lockedup » Sun Jul 27, 2014 11:26 pm

yes i do try to escape because hopefully that will mean i'll get tied up again and much more securely so there's no way i can escape, and then i'll be punished for being a naughty boy and trying to get away.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby cellofello » Mon Jul 28, 2014 11:36 pm

I like to struggle against my bonds and try to escape. This is why I don't like handcuffs much - straining against metal is painful. I'm disappointed if it takes me less than half an hour to escape. I like it even better, though, when I can't escape and it's completely up to my captor how long I stay bound.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby gagfan867 » Tue Jul 29, 2014 12:11 am

If i ever got the chance to play I would try to escape, but preferably I would be tied in such a way that the struggle was fruitless.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby gaglover » Tue Jul 29, 2014 1:43 pm

I always try to escape, but I prefer for it to be a good enough tie that its impossible for me to succeed, or that if i do escape, it will result in me getting captured again and tied up even tighter

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby Wyatt9999 » Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:10 am

gaglover wrote:I always try to escape, but I prefer for it to be a good enough tie that its impossible for me to succeed, or that if i do escape, it will result in me getting captured again and tied up even tighter


Oh yeah it'd be such a thrill to escape only to be recaptured because not only will you get tied up more effectively but you'll also get a nice dose of tickle torture or something like that.

Re: Escape or Not?

Postby EricU1845 » Wed Jul 30, 2014 1:42 pm

Me and my buds always tried to escape, but I like it best when I'm not able to. Still, gotta try, just get disappointed if I can.