I thought about the basic principles I operate under when tying someone up. I will post them here- thoughts and comments welcome.
This is not to say that these principles are good for everyone, or even for a majority- these are just my personal point of view.
-Safety first
If I tie you up I will take every measure to ensure your safety. You will not be permanently harmed or injured (this includes not to leave a bound&gagged person without observation!!)
-Safeword/gesture
A kind of word or signal will be selected. Using this signal instantly will stop any action going on. This is for emergency use, and should not be used just because "something itched a little"!
-Before the event
Before any action, we will talk about many things. Limits, do's and don'ts, preferences. I don't play with partners unknown to me.
-You will wear the attire I choose
you want me to do something for you, so it is only fair that you wear something which pleases me (I am willing to listen to your wishes, though).
-You will be tied tightly
I am not into half-hearted things. If I tie you up, you will be tied very tightly (not just hands-in-front or other such stuff). This may lead to the bondage position not being comfy.
-You will be tied securely
I have quite some experience with tie ups. Chances are, you won't get free quickly- most likely, you won't be able to free yourself at all.
-I won't untie you quickly
Unless something concerning safety happens (as above), you will stay tied up for quite a while. I am not for quick tie-untie sessions.
-You will be gagged
To me, a gag is a major point for every tie-up. So unless absolutely necessary, you *will* be gagged.
-You will be at my mercy
When bound, you will be helpless and at my mercy. Be prepared that I could do anything to you (within the agreed upon limits, of course).
-I am in charge
I am in command of the session. Unless something bad happens (safety et al) I decide what happens. When it happens. And I decide when to untie you.
These principles may seem harsh for some people...but hey, you don't need to do a session with me

Curious about response...
cheers
FF