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Post by simthj » Wed Apr 20, 2016 7:30 pm

I like the way boys ( my age and older ) look tied up. i dream and fantasize about tieing one of my classmates up in his baseball uniform but i am straight!!! But why am i attracted to boys

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Post by .... » Wed Apr 20, 2016 7:57 pm

Well oviously you might be bisexual witch ain't a problem...trust me. It's hard to admit it first or even to be shure about it (Only you can juge and decide) but somtimes you are curious and wanna look for somthing else.
My advice? Go ahead and try! It can be fun... and who never trys gets nothing! And you will be told about your fate sooner than later.

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Post by simthj » Wed Apr 20, 2016 8:03 pm

I mean its not a sexual attaraction. I would never make love to a man. I guess its just that ive made such a friendly relationship eith him that i do look at him differently

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Post by .... » Wed Apr 20, 2016 8:17 pm

Maybe!

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Post by Stef » Thu Apr 21, 2016 3:49 am

Propably because you're interest in bondage, and people with such kinks, love the idea of getting tied up/tying up regardless the gender. For example, i'm straight but i've had fantasies of me getting tied up by a male from time to time, just because i like the bondage part.
For long you live and high you fly
And smiles you'll give and tears you'll cry
And all you touch and all you see
Is all your life will ever be...

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Post by Mmph Squad » Thu Apr 21, 2016 4:30 am

> Stef wrote:Propably because you're interest in bondage, and people with such kinks, love the idea of getting tied up/tying up regardless the gender. For example, i'm straight but i've had fantasies of me getting tied up by a male from time to time, just because i like the bondage part.

I somewhat agree with this statement. Personally I prefer the way women look tied up, and the way men sound while gagged. That deeper grunting just makes my day. I don't consider settling down with a man or having sex with men, however I wouldn't think twice to involve a male friend in a tieupgame.
Honestly the spectrum of sexual orientation is hard to understand for us in this hetero-normative society. You will find that most of us who are secure with ourselves will identify as being somewhere on the spectrum instead of shielding ourselves with a label of straight, gay, or bi. I'm not suggesting that all people who identify as straight are "insecure" but it is not realistic to suppose that human beings have always lived with a victorian ideal system of heteronormativity.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

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Post by Kauron » Thu Apr 21, 2016 4:23 pm

Sounds like something that would be confusing but I would say don't worry about labels like gay or straight. Just have fun with whatever you like. Look to live out your fantasy, after actually experiencing it maybe you'll feel differently about it.

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Post by simthj » Thu Apr 21, 2016 6:29 pm

Thanks for the advice guys

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Post by simthj » Fri Apr 22, 2016 9:09 pm

If anyone want to see a pic of him pm me

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Post by alkaid_ » Sat Apr 23, 2016 12:58 pm

> simthj wrote:If anyone want to see a pic of him pm me

are you talking about the guy you want tied him in his baseball uniform?

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Post by simthj » Sat Apr 23, 2016 6:55 pm

Yes

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Post by fratboydanny » Fri Apr 29, 2016 10:14 am

As a former high school baseball player who got tied up by a teammate and fantasizes about a couple of others, I would suggest just going for it and have fun. He might like it a lot.