Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Thu Dec 31, 2015 2:32 pm

Some stories that I've read on here have sometimes involved the tie-er leaving the bound person alone. For example, telling their hogtied girlfriend "I'm gonna run to the store. Be back soon!" Then they are left to struggle for well over an hour.

My entire life, I've only been able to breath through my right nostril, meaning that a gag would significantly hinder my ability to breath normally. But even if that weren't a problem there's too many variables for me to ever consider being left tied up alone or leaving someone tied up alone. What if the captive's nasal passages get congested? What if their blood circulation gets cut off? Or (and these are very extreme circumstance) what if a fire started? You would have no way of knowing until you returned, and the captive would have no way of alerting anybody or saving themselves (you know, cuz of the whole "bound and gagged" thing).

But don't let this sway you. This is just my point of view. I want to hear what you guys think.
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Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby TickledToes » Thu Dec 31, 2015 3:45 pm

No, I would never let a bound person out of my sight. It's not safe. And I would never tie them up in a way their breathing could be restricted, or anything else without their explicit permission... no duct tape over the mouth from me. It takes a lot more care than fantasies let on, to keep things fun and safe. I might let them THINK I left them alone though, for a few minutes, opening and closing a door then silently sitting back down and watching them struggle... blindfolds can be fun.

I would never agree to have done to me, and if anyone tried it on me... they would never see me again.

But in the world of TUG stories, everything is safe... So bring it on :D

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby cyrus6347 » Thu Dec 31, 2015 3:54 pm

I wouldn't leave 'em alone for two reasons.
1. Unsafe
2. Captives need to be tortured (Tickles or foot stench, nothing too nasty 8) )
Pretending to leave them alone is enough, get to hear them struggle more because I've left the room & even then, I'd rather have them licking my boots while I type away at my laptop.
I can't think of a valid reason why I would leave them completely considering Tugs are usually a limited time opportunity.

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby drawscore » Thu Dec 31, 2015 7:28 pm

Not only "no," but "hell no!" And we knew this, even as kids. We might leave two captives alone, but it was OK with us because when two (or more) were tied in the same place, and left by their captors, we had sense enough to get back to back with one of the other captives, and pick our hands loose.

Even those that were slender enough to slide their hands under their butts, and escape that way, were not left alone.

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Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby cellofello » Fri Jan 01, 2016 7:10 am

It depends on both the person and the bondage, and also on what you mean by "unattended".

I wouldn't leave the house. But unlike TickedToes, I might leave the room. How long I would leave the room for, and whether I consider it safe to go out of hearing range and for how long, depends on the bondage and the person. A tape gag is much more of a safety concern than a gag that still permits breathing through the mouth. There are days when my nose is a little stuffed, and in that case I wouldn't consent to having a tape gag used on me. I could still take a ball gag even then. I know my own body well enough to know what I can handle that day. A captor's knowledge of the victim can likewise change the rules. As captor, I would be far more cautious with someone new (especially with someone completely new to bondage) than someone I was familiar with and knew was safe to leave alone long enough for me to go down the hall to the bathroom for a few minutes.

Just as there is a safety difference between a tape gag and a ball gag, there's a safety difference between tight rope bondage (where circulation is a concern) and comfortably-applied handcuffs. But even with circulation issues, things don't go from completely fine to gangrene in the blink of an eye. If someone has a breathing problem, that has to be fixed IMMEDIATELY. But the onset of pins and needles in the hands won't cause permanent damage if five minutes go by before the ropes are removed. And again, different people have different tolerances (even in different parts of the body). I can get circulation or nerve problems in my hands. But my legs have never had a problem, no matter how viciously the ropes are applied.

A captive who likes to struggle can easily be monitored by ear - if I suddenly _stop_ hearing sounds of struggling, or the sounds become unusual, those are the danger signals. When I am gagged, even with a tape gag, I can still make a high-pitched squealing noise through my nose. Other people have the gagged captive hold something (e.g., a ring of keys) that will make a noise when dropped. So I don't think it's always necessary to have _eyes_ on the captive; ears can serve.

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby cyrus6347 » Fri Jan 01, 2016 7:46 am

cellofello wrote:Other people have the gagged captive hold something (e.g., a ring of keys) that will make a noise when dropped. So I don't think it's always necessary to have _eyes_ on the captive; ears can serve.


That was a pretty detailed response and I have to say, I actually really like the sound of that and will use this in the future.

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby Rachel_Tied » Fri Jan 01, 2016 3:16 pm

I love the idea of it feeling like I am left unattended (i.e. blindfolded and hear the door close) but I would never want to be left alone to the point of someone being away for an extended period of time. Anything can happen. Not to sound dramatic, but in the time it takes someone to run down the street to the store for something the house could catch on fire if a stove or something was left on or a neighbor did something stupid. It's just too dangerous of an idea to me. Being tied up is fun, but not to a point that I feel like my life might be in danger.

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby TUfriend » Fri Jan 01, 2016 3:21 pm

I think here it does depend on the bondage like cellofello said. I'm into a lot of comfortable bondage, meaning no chance of escape but no pain and no discomfort. Things like medical restraints, straight jackets, mummy suits, etc. are all much safer to leave someone unattended for an amount of time. As opposed to things like handcuffs, rope and tape where if it's too tight, they can lose circulation. Additionally, I would never leave someone unattended if they were gagged.
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Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Jan 01, 2016 3:35 pm

I wouldn't now, in this safety conscious era. When i was a teenager and actively engaged in TUGs though, i was often left tied and gagged unattended for hours or overnight with only occasional checks to make sure i was okay.
But remember too that this was a more carefree era where seatbeats and auto insurance were not mandatory (and in those years many automobiles weren't even equipped with seatbelts at all; I even used to own a vehicle in Germany that lacked any - naturally that's the one i had an accident in). People thought nothing of riding in the back of a pickup truck; there were no special restraints for infants, toddlers, or pets; and no one thought of any safety rules in TUGs (my cousins were probably unusual in being an exception; if perhaps only because they knew they'd be in deep trouble if anyone bad happened to me while I was 'in their care'). It's probably a minor miracle i never suffered any serious harm from being tied up, gagged, and left unattended as much as i was while living with them. But no one - not even myself - saw anything wrong with this at the time; unless I had to go use the bathroom anyway!
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Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby Jay Feely » Tue Jan 19, 2016 7:15 pm

absolutly not. if something goes wrong, like circulation is lost and that person dies, I don't want to be convicted of neligient homicide.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby freyjaceleste862 » Sun Jan 24, 2016 11:55 pm

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:Some stories that I've read on here have sometimes involved the tie-er leaving the bound person alone. For example, telling their hogtied girlfriend "I'm gonna run to the store. Be back soon!" Then they are left to struggle for well over an hour.

My entire life, I've only been able to breath through my right nostril, meaning that a gag would significantly hinder my ability to breath normally. But even if that weren't a problem there's too many variables for me to ever consider being left tied up alone or leaving someone tied up alone. What if the captive's nasal passages get congested? What if their blood circulation gets cut off? Or (and these are very extreme circumstance) what if a fire started? You would have no way of knowing until you returned, and the captive would have no way of alerting anybody or saving themselves (you know, cuz of the whole "bound and gagged" thing).

But don't let this sway you. This is just my point of view. I want to hear what you guys think.


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Re: Would you ever leave somebody bound and gagged unattended?

Postby spd138 » Tue Jan 26, 2016 1:53 pm

I've been left alone on occasion. IMO it ok if the tied up person is not gaged and the person leaving is within ear shot. Also I like it because it add to the mystery of what will happen next. But as I already said safety must be taken seriously and nothing should be done that could restrict breathing. Spread eagle is our position of choice.