A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Boundgal08 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:52 am

Heya all,
I just thought id share with you a recent experience, I have made some great friendships on this board... over the time I have been here, I got talking to one person, and we became great friends, but last friday night, it all came to an end, I was so upset, I was so distraught, that he didn't even have the guts to tell me himself, and let his girlfriend do it for him! I felt like I had been played for the fool, and so I was... I hope he regrets the decision he has made, and that If he even has a bit of a heart to explain why this has happened.. and have the decency to say good bye!

It was heart wrenching to build such a close friendship, for it to be exposed and then to be torn apart! I was very disappointed in him!

I have to get this off my chest...Its been bugging me, how he could do such a thing... Im not exploiting who he is, so dont ask me who he is, Its unfair on him, but as he does visit this board, a lot, maybe he will read this, and see what he has done!

Maybe he wont...

But I thought Id just post it here, to see If he reads in and see if he has a heart, to do something about it!


Thanks Boundgal!
BOUNDGIRL!
Probably the kinkiest woman you will ever meet!
I am a switch, I like to put a man in ropes and also have a man put me in ropes!
I am the 'Queen of bondage'

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby barefootboy » Sun Dec 13, 2009 12:05 pm

So sad Boundgal. But rest assured you have many friends here.
Tied :tied: gagged :gag: and tickled :tickle:

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Boundgal08 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 12:06 pm

I know it is barefootboy! and I know I have, and so glad for that :)
BOUNDGIRL!
Probably the kinkiest woman you will ever meet!
I am a switch, I like to put a man in ropes and also have a man put me in ropes!
I am the 'Queen of bondage'

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Boundgal08 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 12:51 pm

Needs cheering up anyone willing to do that!
BOUNDGIRL!
Probably the kinkiest woman you will ever meet!
I am a switch, I like to put a man in ropes and also have a man put me in ropes!
I am the 'Queen of bondage'

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby barefootboy » Sun Dec 13, 2009 1:42 pm

Hmmm, would tying you to your bed naked blindfolded and gagged then tickling every inch of your bare skin cheer you up? :tickle: :lol:
Tied :tied: gagged :gag: and tickled :tickle:

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Boundgal08 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 2:33 pm

certainly would :D
BOUNDGIRL!
Probably the kinkiest woman you will ever meet!
I am a switch, I like to put a man in ropes and also have a man put me in ropes!
I am the 'Queen of bondage'

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Scottstud94 » Sun Dec 13, 2009 7:58 pm

I am sorry to hear about this, hopefully everything turns out ok.

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Fesselfan » Mon Dec 14, 2009 2:09 am

Friendships sometimes shatter. Online friendships even easier.
There has already been a nice idea for cheering up...
I'll add a complete tie-up, gag and blindfold...and then spending some hours in my cellar to the list ;)

Cheers

FF
There are 10 kind of people in the world.
Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Boundgal08 » Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:01 pm

I know, shame though, when you get real close to them, and dont want to lose them, and then you do! It tore me up! Big time!
BOUNDGIRL!
Probably the kinkiest woman you will ever meet!
I am a switch, I like to put a man in ropes and also have a man put me in ropes!
I am the 'Queen of bondage'

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Spreadeagle » Mon Dec 14, 2009 2:27 pm

Yea not nice when you like someone and they dont even bother writing back...
Always looking for new TUG buddies :)

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby haloguy » Mon Dec 14, 2009 2:29 pm

We are not just a board, but a community. And in a community, there are friends and enemies. But we all share mutual thoughts and feelings that bind us together (no pun intended). In my opinion, there are only a few other things that make me feel better than to look into my inbox, and finding a message from someone. We are all friends to you.

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby barefootboy » Mon Dec 14, 2009 3:12 pm

Well said haloguy, friendships should be honest on this board even if we never intend to meet. And especially if we do.
Tied :tied: gagged :gag: and tickled :tickle:

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby Plueschbabycd » Mon Dec 14, 2009 4:08 pm

Hallo yes it never good if friendships brake. But must say that found here some people there story I never will miss. I wait ever day if post new and I hear long form some nothing ask me what happened to them.
Andrew
"Don“t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby chloroformmeplease » Sun Dec 20, 2009 8:59 am

Friends,such a complex subject some of the time This past year a friend who had been a friend of mine for some years proved he wasn't a friend at all. I was there when his first marriage ended and tried to help him through that. He met someone else and married her. I was his best man and literally held him up as she walked down the isle. I was there for he and his wife through difficult times in their marriage.
They ended up eventually getting a divorce but I tried to help them to be together because it was what they said they wanted. They planned a life together but could not fogive each other for the things they did and said toward one another. I helped him fix things around the house that were broken and spent many hours landscaping and showing him to landscape his yard.
In all this time I found out afterward that he lied to me about so many things. That hurt and then made me pissed off at him. I forgave him because that is what friends do. One day in May I needed a friend. It was the anniversary of the death of my younger brother which is now the hardest day of the year aside from his birthday. He said he would call and try to be there for me on that day. I simply needed a friend who knew my brother so we could get together down at the river and drink some beers and talk about old times we had with my brother. My so called friend never showed up nor did he call me at all. Days and then weeks went by and finally I wrote to him on myspace. I asked him why he wasn't there for me as i had been for him so many times and I only asked this one thing from him. He gave me so many lame ass excuses but not one real reason.
He said his car was acting up on him that day. Then he said he had to take his girlfriend to her father's house for a b-day party. He also said he had to laundry and that some of her family got into an arguement and he had to be there. There was a few more excuses also. This to me was unforgiveable but once again I tried to be friends with him. As I look back now he didn't deserve my forgiveness after what he had done or rather not done.
Then finally the last straw came when he stole from another friend of ours. He actually called my house last week and when I realized it was him on the other end of the phone I said "Are you kidding me,I have nothing to say to you at all and I never will have anything to say to you", and then I hung up the phone. Friendship,yes it can be complicated.
I am sorry about your friendship being destroyed but if the other person dropped the ball then were they really even your friend? I look back now on the friendship I spoke of and I realize all the things I did for him to make his life easier and all he did was make me mad and constantly disapoint me. He was my friend but I was not his friend as he merely used me to do all the things I did for him. We all make mistakes in life but when you don't consider your friends feelings then what kind of a friend are you to that person? I would safely say perhaps not a friend at all.
I am sure we all have our stories about friendship gone wrong. Unfortunately I have a few more of these stories. I find it easier to walk away from someone now and not give them three chances as I did him. Everyone only gets two with me. How about you? How many chances do you give someone before you call it quits?
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

Re: A close friendship. Destroyed!

Postby chloroformmeplease » Wed Dec 23, 2009 9:38 am

Another person who I thought was my friend really played me like a fiddle not too long ago. This young lady and I met in a forum and began to message each other on yahoo. We got to know each other somewhat and made plans to eventually meet.
The meeting never took place. Sometimes when we chatted she seemed really nice and one time we got into an arguement which I tried to avoid. In any case it seems she went behind my back and tried to hook up with someone else which would not have bothered me if she was just honest about it. Honesty goes a long way and I'd rather be hurt by someone changing their mind then being lied to and finding out they lied in the end.
I was hurt but not surprised. When you decide to meet someone you met online and they keep putting it off the chances are they are not serious about meeting you which I figured out the second time she canceled on me. I kept talking to her because I cared about her and I thought maybe some day in the future we might meet. I actually didn't count on it but there was a small chance it might happen. After I decided it didn't much matter I stopped thinking about her altogether. Then out of the blue she sends me a message on the computer. She says she is sorry for the way she acted and wanted to still be friends. I wrote back to her and didn't hear from her for the longest time.
Other things happened after that and now I don't want to meet her anyway and I will not contact her again simply because she is a gamer.
I have had my share of tieupgames with several people over the years and waiting for one to come around is not what I have in mind and is also a pure waste of time for me. It wasn't just the thought that we might play if we met but I really liked her. In short people just beware of those you meet online who seem to good to be true because it is usually more often then not alot of BS. People read your posts and see what kind of person you are and then play off that. If you do go to meet someone in person do not go alone. You simply never know who it is you are meeting. I don't care if they sent you a pic of them because that pic could be anyone and not them.
True friends are hard to come by but when you find one true friend hold on to them.
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.