Hi guys! This is Kiupp9.
I have some opinions about bondage on my mind for quite a long while, and I would love to share with you guys about what I've thought.
From my perspectives, I rarely associate bondage with sex. Bondage is something that, although may seem and look kinky, has ALMOST (not absolutely) nothing to do with sexual activities.
50SOG kind of turned the concept of 'bondage' in a wrong way. The movie has influenced and convinced us that bondage is always represented as something sexual.
I may agree that this kink is somewhat erotic when being performed in front or on us. However, bondage applied in many other ways instead of just eroticism. From what my thoughts, bondage can be something meditative. By being bound and gagged, you shut down all your senses temporarily to focus on your soul and mind through the lack of sight, speech and movements. This will keep you undistracted from the outside world.
Bondage is like an act of sensual deprivation. Without the control of your senses and bodily actions, you are able to discover and open up your own mind freely. The meditative effects helps to keep your thoughts at peace, being undisturbed and unruffled. You have bordered yourself out from the real world and subjected yourself to your state of mind.
Overall, bondage, in my opinion, does not majority involve in kinky sex. I thought of it as something that is meditative to relieve stress and anxiety.
So next time, why not get yourself tied up comfortably and place yourself in a dark, spacious room? Gag yourself to refrain speech and blindford yourself to block your sense of sight. Put on some soothing music using earphones and keep yourself at mind for several hours.
So what are your views about the application of bondage?