ok so...

Postby bostonmagic31 » Sun Aug 08, 2010 8:20 pm

ok so i tried self bondage and i didnt think it was so exciting i handcuffed myself behind my back and gagged myself but i just didnt get excite is there something im doing wrong help me out please :gag: :tied:

Re: ok so...

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:41 pm

Different people get different levels of thrill out of it. Some get none at all, whereas they may be extremely thrilled once another person does it instead.
Offhand though, I'd say if you've had no experience being tied by another person, self bondage is more likely to thrill you than if you have had that experience. Once you've been tied by another and are at their mercy for a while, self bondage palls on you. Especially if you enjoy tie ups merely as a warm up for something else (from tickle torture on up), self bondage alone just doesn't do it for you. When you've been tied up - and dominated by others - as much as I was as a child and teenager, self bondage holds no allure whatsoever. I myself gave up on it over 15 years ago even though no one else has tied me up during most of that time either. Without someone else there to - ummm - make me really feel helpless, it's no fun at all for me. Whereas with the right person it'd be the most fun I've had in many years!
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Re: ok so...

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Sep 02, 2010 6:20 am

Maybe you could be better off by getting someone to tie you up instead of self bondage.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: ok so...

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Sep 02, 2010 7:31 am

jay wrote:Maybe you could be better off by getting someone to tie you up instead of self bondage.

Not sure if you are talking to me or Bostonmagic, but in either case the real trick is finding that someone - at least, one you can trust and enjoy such an experience with. It's easier when you're younger and physically fit (good looking helps too); a hell of a lot harder when you're older and running to flab.
Even when you're just talking TuGs - no sex- nobody will even look at you if you're over 30 these days! At least, not where I am!
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Re: ok so...

Postby anjell » Thu Sep 02, 2010 8:23 am

Self bondage is like bondage it means different things to each person. JT is right in the fact self bondage becomes less if you have been tied a couple time by someone else. Most like to fantasize of things wile they do it. For me the only bit of self bondage i do is on my lags. Because i find that if my lags are stiff or giving me any pain, If i tie them to some thing the grab and stretch them out a bit it helps and some times feels so mush better and good. I may seem odd but don't know is any one else in my situation does this but if they have not they should try it.
As for not getting a look in if you are over 30. I my self have to say even if someone was 90 ill still consider it (just think of the stuff they can show you). If you think age is a problem try being in my situation, it is a lot harder to find willing people.
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Re: ok so...

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Sep 02, 2010 12:05 pm

I was referring to bondagemagic.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.