On facebook I usually go on rants about stuff such as relationship problems, problems at work, and just other stuff in general.
I've wanted to go on a rant about my problems with being into TUGs for a long time now but I don't want to post it on facebook because I have family there and not everyone knows I'm into it. So i decided to post it on here and hopefully you guys can agree with me.
Well first off, I've had relationship problems because most of the time where the other person wasn't into it. then after a while we'd break up because they were just freaked out about it.
Then I'd chat with other friends and let them know I was into this and then later on they'd make fun of me whenever they get the chance.
Sometimes I would find a friend that would be into it or is very interested. It usually ended the same where we either never get a chance to have a tie up game and/or they would get tired of me constantly bringing it up.
Then people usually say for me to try out fetlife. And I do have a fetlife but I have a lot of problems with that website. not the website itself but with the people on there.
first I like to point out that I am a heterosexual male and only interest in tie up games/talk with women. there is an oversaturation of guys on there. let's say 80% of people on there are male. that leaves 20% of the site female (not including cross-dressers) about 15% of those females are lesbian and wouldn't talk to guys anyways. that leaves about 5% of females that i can actually talk to. but there are so many guys on fetlife that they're all messaging the same girls that i am that it'll probably months before they get to my message. now some of the girls are really nice when they do write back but they're rarely on. and the rest of the girls have such a superiority complex that I was actually blocked by someone just because I said hello in a message. "I have so many guys messaging me on here. don't be coming out with some boring ass message like that. waste of my time. goodbye" like what am i suppose to expect with women that are dominant as opposed to submissive.
So anyways, what are some of the hardships you all face with being into bondage. Am I the only one who faces things like this?
I'd like to hear some of your not so positive experiences.