You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Sat Apr 22, 2017 7:49 am

Here's a fun little exercise that I've seen on other bondage forums. "You know you're into bdsm when...".

It's a bit to similar to "Never have I ever" and basically involves posting a characteristic that is often indicative of an interest in bdsm. Usually these are things that others might not give much consideration to, or may seem mundane to the average person, but catches the attention of a bdsm enthusiast.

For example, you know you're into bdsm when the main selling point of a bed frame is whether or not you can attach ropes to the headboard.
Or, you know you're into bdsm when you can't walk past the rope aisle at Home Depot without giggling a bit.

I shall leave the rest up to you!
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Dominik » Sat Apr 22, 2017 8:30 am

... at the end of summer, you have tan lines round your wrists and ankles.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Stef » Sat Apr 22, 2017 8:39 am

Ahh you already took mine! Whenever i walk into someone's house and see his/her bedroom, i always notice if there are posts on each corner of the bed...!

You know when you're into bdsm when while watching a movie with a random tie up/kidnap scenario, you imagine how you could do much better at tying up that person, or cringe about how easily he/she could escape...

All in all, a nice thread. I'm very curious to see other people's thinking to see if i can relate
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby soyoutie » Sat Apr 22, 2017 9:07 am

...you know that you are into bondage when you go shopping with your wife and you pass a great deal of time close to scarves to see if anyone would fit your hobby... or ...when you keep a handkerchief in your pocket even thou you use tissue to blow your nose

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Sat Apr 22, 2017 7:29 pm

Dominik wrote:... at the end of summer, you have tan lines round your wrists and ankles.

Tied outside in the sun?
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby petraspeds » Sat Apr 22, 2017 10:03 pm

You know you are into bondage when you always look at your colleagues wrists on monday morning to see if they are trying to hide red marks.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby wololololo bondager » Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:04 am

You know you are into bondage when you try to think of a matching scarf colour to gag that lipstick model

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:44 am

Funny story. I actually wasn't aware until my high school Psychology class that CBT also referred to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Now whenever I hear/read the acronym I have to remind myself that it's not cock and ball torture.
Such is the struggle.
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Kyle » Sun Apr 23, 2017 11:23 am

You can't pass the aisle with all the rope, chains, and duct tape at hardware stores without getting ideas about how to use that stuff...that have nothing to do with home improvement projects.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Apr 23, 2017 12:16 pm

You don't even feel complete unless you're bound and helpless and the center of attention of at least one person wanting to dominate you.
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby fratboydanny » Mon Apr 24, 2017 1:04 pm

You can't see a bandanna in a store and not buy it thinking the whole time how you will feel when it is used as a gag.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby BoundBoyBeta » Tue Apr 25, 2017 3:16 pm

You can't see or use a piece of rope without trying to figure out what its length is best suited for tying.

You can't walk past someone with red marks on their wrists without wondering what they have been up to.

You can't be told to shut up without being tempted to instinctively reply "make me".

You can't walk past duct tape in a store. No matter the colour or pattern.

You can't get dressed without making sure your underwear matches your outfit... (What... just encase...)

You can't get handcuffed by your friend then immediately be very curious about their internet history? - Okay that one might be a bit me specific.

You can't get handcuffed to your friend without wishing you were handcuffed properly... Okay also a bit me specific... what that guy is annoying after a few seconds, it was a whole daymn afternoon...

You can't go to bed without quickly going on a random internet forum and seeing if any of your favourite stories have been updated.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby tieup2008 » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:29 pm

You're constantly looking at female ankles wondering if cuffs would fit
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby MisterBones » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:33 pm

You can't BEAT your MEAT unless somebody's fucking TIED UP
I have ocs or whatever

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:50 pm

MisterBones wrote:You can't BEAT your MEAT unless somebody's fucking TIED UP

Well, that escalated quickly...
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby BoundBoyBeta » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:52 pm

MisterBones wrote:You can't BEAT your MEAT unless somebody's fucking TIED UP


But what if that somebody is you, then you can't do it either :P

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:53 pm

BoundBoyBeta wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You can't BEAT your MEAT unless somebody's fucking TIED UP


But what if that somebody is you, then you can't do it either :P

WHAT A TWIST!
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:55 pm

Or you know you're into BDSM when you hate Fifty Shades of Grey, but for a different reason than your friends.
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby BoundBoyBeta » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:58 pm

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:Or you know you're into BDSM when you hate Fifty Shades of Grey, but for a different reason than your friends.


Lol I was talking to my friend about how poor his list of watched films is. Literally the only things he has really watched are The fault in our stars (the cri is real), the Simpsons movie (who hasn't), Kingsman (Great film), the human centapede (seriously...) and Fifty Shades Of Grey...
Like what are those film choices.
I'd hate to see what Netflix suggests for him...

You know you are into BDSM when you are sad there is no bondage filter on Netflix.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby BoundBoyBeta » Tue Apr 25, 2017 4:59 pm

You know you are into BDSM when you are on a BDSM forum at 2am typing times you know you're into BDSM.
What? Too Meta?

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Tue Apr 25, 2017 5:02 pm

BoundBoyBeta wrote:You know you are into BDSM when you are sad there is no bondage filter on Netflix.

Back in my day a VCR and carefully timed use of the rewind button was the bondage filter. Kirsten Dunst tied up in Small Soldiers...
10 year old me was in Heaven.
There is only one God, and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: Not today.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby MisterBones » Tue Apr 25, 2017 5:20 pm

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:
BoundBoyBeta wrote:
MisterBones wrote:You can't BEAT your MEAT unless somebody's fucking TIED UP


But what if that somebody is you, then you can't do it either :P

WHAT A TWIST!

Fuck.... I've been owned...
I have ocs or whatever

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby spandexm » Tue Apr 25, 2017 5:49 pm

You know you're into BDSM when you do your own taxes.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby cellofello » Wed Apr 26, 2017 3:41 am

SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:Funny story. I actually wasn't aware until my high school Psychology class that CBT also referred to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Now whenever I hear/read the acronym I have to remind myself that it's not cock and ball torture.
Such is the struggle.


I sometimes joke when negotiating a scene: "CBT is a hard limit. I'd rather have you rub Ben-Gay on my cock and balls than subject me to one more minute of computer-based training."

In the past, we've had some pretty stupid CBT modules where I work. I wished I could safeword!

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Wed Apr 26, 2017 3:05 pm

spandexm wrote:You know you're into BDSM when you do your own taxes.

Why would that... Oh, I see.
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby petraspeds » Wed Apr 26, 2017 3:11 pm

tieup2008 wrote:You're constantly looking at female ankles wondering if cuffs would fit

Try mine. They may be a little large for you

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby tieup2008 » Wed Apr 26, 2017 4:52 pm

petraspeds wrote:
tieup2008 wrote:You're constantly looking at female ankles wondering if cuffs would fit

Try mine. They may be a little large for you


Only one way to find out :wink:
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Wed Apr 26, 2017 6:24 pm

tieup2008 wrote:
petraspeds wrote:
tieup2008 wrote:You're constantly looking at female ankles wondering if cuffs would fit

Try mine. They may be a little large for you


Only one way to find out :wink:

I concur. Measure the dimensions of said ankles and the circumference of the cuffs, extrapolating roughly 1 inch for comfort and blood flow.
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Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Apr 26, 2017 9:52 pm

When someone asks if you are busy and you just have to say I'm all tied up when there are plenty of others ways to answer that question.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: You know you're into bdsm when...

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Apr 27, 2017 10:48 am

Jay Feely wrote:When someone asks if you are busy and you just have to say I'm all tied up when there are plenty of others ways to answer that question.

Even more so if it is the literal truth at the time!!! That actually happened to me once (about 28 years ago more or less) when someone called me on he phone and my captor had to hold the phone to my ear! :lol:
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