Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby tieup2008 » Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:20 pm

Just wondering after a conversation today if anyone has ever been tied up by their parents for misbehaving when they were kids?

Anyone? :tied:
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Scottstud94 » Sun Sep 05, 2010 1:35 pm

No, my brother on the other hand...

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Boundgal08 » Tue Sep 07, 2010 8:17 am

Never been tied up by parents as punishment but more of for a reward ;)
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Sep 08, 2010 9:29 am

Like Scottstud, just my brother - and his friends. Later my cousins and *their* friends.
My parents would have been appalled at the idea; especially my mother.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Chris12 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 9:32 am

Is that even legal?

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby tieup2008 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 9:49 am

Not sure. Suppose it depends where you are in the world.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Sep 08, 2010 10:03 am

Chris12 wrote:Is that even legal?

In the USA, it's kind of muddled. Some types of restraints are legal; others are not - I am unsure which are which however. I thin k it depends more on duration than severity (unless the immobility os pretty total). Right now there's been a practice of using certain restraints in some schools for unruly students. This is now the subject of considerable controversy in the area where I live, and people want to ban it altogether. I doubt there are any clear cut laws about these things specifically; they're just lumped under abuse if there is too much restraining going on.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Plueschbabycd » Wed Sep 08, 2010 10:09 am

Chris12 wrote:Is that even legal?

Hallo, Chris now days not I think in Europe. But know that court for 30 years say it was legal to bound girl on her bed, that can´t go to disco and can´t meat boy.:)
But would believe that parents would punish her child for a something where she not ask if is legal.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Sep 08, 2010 11:09 am

Well, parents tying up kids could have these consequence:

1. Jail Time
2. Having child taken away from them
3. Forced to register as a sex offender if that was the main goal

So, it is not worth it.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Scottstud94 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 12:07 pm

Now if its a game, and both sides agree to it. Is it legal? It should be.

Even so it shouldnt be illegal as long as they arent injured

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Discovery00 » Wed Sep 08, 2010 1:09 pm

My dad walked in on me being tied up by my sister, but said nothing and went about his business.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby haloguy » Wed Sep 08, 2010 1:22 pm

Jason Toddman wrote:
Chris12 wrote:Is that even legal?

In the USA, it's kind of muddled. Some types of restraints are legal; others are not - I am unsure which are which however. I thin k it depends more on duration than severity (unless the immobility os pretty total). Right now there's been a practice of using certain restraints in some schools for unruly students. This is now the subject of considerable controversy in the area where I live, and people want to ban it altogether. I doubt there are any clear cut laws about these things specifically; they're just lumped under abuse if there is too much restraining going on.


in most states, domination is perfectly legal

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Sep 08, 2010 1:32 pm

Depends on what you mean by domination. An adult keeping a kid handcuffed or roped up at home (especially in a way that keeps them relatively immobile) on a frequent and regular basis is as far as I know a misdemeanor (if not a felony) whether the kid is willing or not in most states. Between kids it is a probably a different matter however. It is probably prosecuted though only if other kinds of abuse is involved, such as neglect of the tied person's physical needs - usually because it is usuually not reported at all until such other factors are involved not because the bindage itself is legal. As far as I know, anyway. I think though that any truly consensual family tie-up situation is unlikely to be prosecuted anyway, but I think it IS possible.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Kyle » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:19 pm

Parents tying up their kid as punishment would qualify as child abuse just about everywhere. Even parents tying up a willing kid will look suspicious and will probably invite unwanted questions at the very least so doing it to an unwilling kid is going to get the authorities called in.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Sep 08, 2010 6:24 pm

Well, when children is tied up, they are restrictive of freedom. They do not have any choice of what they can do, so I think it could fall under the line of slavery.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Boundgal08 » Fri Sep 10, 2010 2:41 am

Wow, Illegal issues are being addressed here... in the UK I think it would be classed as illegal if the child is under the age of 16... If a stranger was to do it as well it would be the same, it would be illegal and could face prosecution even if both parties made an agreement, about the age of 16 I think its legal... but don't go with me on this...
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Gemscot » Mon Sep 13, 2010 1:56 pm

Remember Tyler McMillan. He was tied up as a punnishment and now he's in his grave!

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby PetSilkenvixen » Sat Sep 18, 2010 10:28 am

Nope, I never was, thankfully.

My trick was to try and hide all of my restraining toys from their eyes!
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Sep 18, 2010 10:45 am

PetSilkenvixen wrote:Nope, I never was, thankfully.

My trick was to try and hide all of my restraining toys from their eyes!

Ummm.... same here. That and all the drawings I made and stories I wrote.
Luckily the only thing relating to TUGs that was ever found was my diary - and I'd had the foresight to write *that* in my own made-up alphabet so that no one else could read it! :twisted:
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby spiderlads322 » Fri Sep 24, 2010 7:34 am

i don't know if thi counts, but when i was in middle school, i did... something, and my sisters tied me and told mom and dad what i'd done. Then when they found me, they lectured me and left me in the restraints.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jay Feely » Fri Sep 24, 2010 8:51 am

That may not count since they were not the ones that tied you up.
However, it is kind of bizzare that they would lecture you in restraints.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Sun Sep 26, 2010 2:11 am

There seems to be quite a lot of debate as to whether this would be illegal and if it is in some countries but not others etc. But I have a fail safe method to work it out =) Ask yourself the question - if you were ever questionned by a police officer, would you feel comfortable telling them that you bondage up your kids when they misbehave? No? ILLEGAL. Simple xD (Unless the answer is yes in which case you may need some help. . .)

Regardless of whether the child is a premature TUG fan and therefore would enjoy it, I think its probably a bad idea. . ? And even if it isn't illegal, it's WEIRD?!

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Sep 26, 2010 6:15 am

Spiderlads said: i don't know if thi counts, but when i was in middle school, i did... something, and my sisters tied me and told mom and dad what i'd done. Then when they found me, they lectured me and left me in the restraints.


jay wrote:That may not count since they were not the ones that tied you up.
However, it is kind of bizzare that they would lecture you in restraints.


Even worse was leaving you in them afterward; legally that would make them as responsible as if they had done it themselves! Also, the sisters could still be charged as minors had you pressed charges (and could prove what had happened; say, if they were dumb enough to take pictures and keep them). Of course, that would have likely ripped your family apart completely and probably not worth the hassle unless you'd have *liked* becoming a foster kid.
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby fungirlkatie » Sun Sep 26, 2010 10:13 am

I don't know if i would say it's punishment, but sammies mum has tied us up
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Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby ropendope » Sun Sep 26, 2010 11:54 pm

Its def illegal. One of the episodes on Judge Judy involved a Mom suing a Step mom for abusing her daughter. One of the cases was that she duct taped her mouth shut. Girl was 10 years old and Judge Judy was letting the step mom have it for doing that.

Re: Tied by parents as punisment?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:39 am

Illegal or not, tie ups should definitely never be used as punishment for another good reason. Someone who doesn't like being tied up can be severely traumatized by the experience; expecially when it is done by the people they should be able to trust the most. Non consensual ties between parent and child could destroy their relationship almost as surely as statutory rape because of the feeling of helplessness it induces.
Despite the fact that I grew to love TUGs, I think lingering resentment over my older brother tying me up for fun starting from when I was only 5 (when I didn't enjoy it) was partly what destroyed my relationship with him by the time I was 13. Even when you learn to enjoy it, remembering how you initially felt when that person forced you can make you bitter towards them when you're a child/teenager. Sounds illogical perhaps, but show me a perfectly logical child and I'll show you a child from the planet Vulcan in disguise!
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