Postby Jack Roper » Tue Jan 22, 2013 2:54 pm
Bondage can be highly erotic, sensuous-- if that's what she likes. Obviously, some girls like it rougher, but that will be up to you to explore. Use soft cotton rope at first, make it tight but maybe use tennis sweat bands for her wrists (and ankles?); clothed or not--let her decide. If you want, agree beforehand on the limits but then do a sponaneous role-play scene, suggested by eithrer of you, and have fun!
PS: Cleave gags are probably best--or ball gags: you can call for help and/or breath with those. Not so much with duct tape, so saved that for later. Same goes for handcuffs, leg irons, etc. That's more serious stuff--maybe for never.
You two can safely engage in bondage play within definite boundaries for an infinite eternity, and that would be excellent.