bindKelly wrote:Qarl wrote:yes young lady, we're waiting semi-patiently, looking forward to details
Unfortunatly, there are no details. We went to dinner, then over to his place, which was conviently parent-free. But, his idea was for us to get undressed and for him to tie me to the bed, with my arms and legs spread apart.
That was NOT what I was hoping for. I was thinking he could tie my hands behind my back, tie my legs together, and we could kiss and cuddle. So, there was no tying games at all, and just watched TV for a little bit. Lasr night he called me and said we prolly shouldn't go out again. He's prolly right.
Good for you for sticking to your plan. I don't know many guys, maybe none, that would resist the urge to have sex if he & she were naked and she were tied up. Even if he was a saint and fully intended NOT to have sex to begin with, it would be too arousing and too tempting, at least for mere mortals, and eventually he would take the plunge, so to speak.
You deserve a fun, smart, respectful guy who shares your interests, and who will honor your boundaries, and I have no doubt you'll find one at the right time.
Thanks for writing back, and though I'm disappointed for you that it didn't work out like you hoped, I'm SO glad you found out quickly, that he had the courage to make the decision and actually tell you, and that nothing happened that you regret.