Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby Mitchman » Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:02 am

Hey there all, I've been away from tugs for a while as things hit the floor in my life...I split up with my GF, I almost failed college etc...

Just been in a really down mood lately, wondering if that special girl is ever gonna come along again, how my future will be and a few other things.

On top of that I have a serious health issue to deal with at the moment too,

*Sigh*

Mitch
Only had 2 tugs in my life...never experienced full blown bondage....

Nuc is awesome.
<3

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:00 am

Except for your age stated in your profile you sound rather like me. But I'm 54, and you're only 17; way WAYYY too young to be feeling as despondant as all that!!! Though it's still pretty common I guess.
I split up with my girlfriend too when I was 16 - her idea, not mine; she decided she preferred other girls to guys (which might explain all the times she had me wear girls' clothing).
Felt like the bottom dropped out of my life there for a while too, but I got past it... though I had other friends to help me with that. Fortunately I wasn't fussy about gender (just kidding - sort of :big: ).
No one can tell you if there will be another special girl (I take it a special 'guy' is out of the question) in your life or how things will go. All that will be up to you. But you'll have to go and look for these things; they're not likely to come right to you (well, MY TUGs experiences in adolesecence did; they dropped right in my lap in fact - but not the ones I had later in life).
Sorry for all the platitudes (have plenty more but I think you get the point), but sometimes they're true all the same. Things WILL get better, but the chances will improve greatly if you keep a positive outlook and keep your eyes open to the possibilities around you. I bet you have opportunities you never even realized were there all along before. At your age you almost certainly have far many more than a balding, overweight, antiquated nerd like me. :big:
You'll find that special someone someday; just give it time. Tomorrow is a whole new day.
I've been there at your age. I know what it's like. It happens to most of us, if not all of us. Just hang in there. It WILL get better.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby Mitchman » Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:28 am

Thanks for that Jason, and after having a nice relaxing bath and talking to some people I came to the realisation of...
I'm 17, I should be focusing on college and living.

NOT if i'm not gonna get the right girl, etc etc.

But thanks, you really helped with that post :)
Only had 2 tugs in my life...never experienced full blown bondage....

Nuc is awesome.
<3

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Jan 30, 2011 11:59 am

Mitchman wrote: I should be focusing on college and living.


Ummm... that was meant to be my main point, but somhow my train of thought got derailed. But you got it on your own, which is always better anyway. :D Good luck with all of it, anyhow.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby Appleguy224 » Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:13 pm

man, everyone has their ups and downs, I had mine a while back, and right now I am in an up, you just have to make the best of it and move on, good luck

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby SamanthaBoundx » Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:38 am

Mitchman wrote:Thanks for that Jason, and after having a nice relaxing bath and talking to some people I came to the realisation of...
I'm 17, I should be focusing on college and living.

NOT if i'm not gonna get the right girl, etc etc.

But thanks, you really helped with that post :)


I was already to offer some advice and a shoulder to cry on, but it seems you've got it all sorted out! :P

Hope you keep that mindset, it's a good one to have ^^

Re: Does anyone else feel like this?

Postby sarwrductan » Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:54 am

I'm in a down time right now.....But its nothing some good clean tieup games wouldn't solve taking my mind off all that to focus on getting loose and avoiding penalties or becoming a captive. Come to think of it, I've never been captive of my TUG buddies longer than six hours...Longest time it took to get loose. Thankfully,I didn't get tickled while trying to get loose either....By golly, there's a couple of uppers! LOL
Those who walk forward always looking back, don't see that which makes them stumble