Hey all, I have a VERY interesting situation on my hands, and wouldn't mind some input as to how to handle it.
First a little intro. I'm lucky enough to have a girlfriend, who we'll call "Anna", who is really into TUG's. All my life I had pursued tugs with other girlfriends who showed little interest in them. So to have Anna, who not only enjoys them but actually instigates them sometimes, is a dream within itself. We have engaged in these activities for over a year now.
Months ago, I confessed ANOTHER fantasy of mine to her, which was to have 2 damsels bound before me. I was extra careful to make sure she knew how important she and the TUG's were to me, and that I wasn't bored with her or wanted to see other people or any of that, just that its always been a fantasy of mine and NOTHING sexual would happen with the other girl. She said she was somewhat interested, but we both had an unanswerable question: just who would be tied up with her? All of the girls in our social circle had boyfriends, so we figured we couldnt involve them without pissing off the guys, and I'm not one to want to start that kind of drama with my friends. So we just kind of let it go, just kind of saying "someday...maybe..."
Now just a couple weeks ago, one of these girls, who we'll call "Katie", has split with her boyfriend.
Katie seems to be the perfect match for my fantasy for alot of reasons. 1) Anna wanted someone she knew well, and wouldn't feel so embarassed around. Anna and Katie just so happen to be best friends. 2) I had actually had a fling with Katie a few years back, which lead to us just being good friends. 3) Katie and I had talked after our fling, and she told me that she was INTO the whole bondage scene. She's into it! And she tells me AFTER we fooled around! She tells me that her previous boyfriend wasn't too into it, and I know her recent boyfriend and don't think she ever got to live out her fantasies.
So I resurect this idea with Anna, and she seems sheepishly interested, but what she DOESN'T agree with, is how I plan on dumping this on Katie, my plan is as follows:
Anna generally has her apartment to herself (lives with family) for a few hours in the evening every day. I would tie her up in her room, then invite Katie over. I would hide in the main hall bathroom, with a strip of tape waiting in my hand. When she passes the door I jump her from behind, taping her mouth quickly. I get her hands and feet tied however I can. At this point I tell her that this isn't serious, just a game that Anna and I play often, and that there is no sexual play. I explain that I knew she liked this thing, hence her current involvement. I offer her the option of freedom, or continuing down the bondage road with us.
So yeah Anna didn't agree with this approach, but didn't have any other suggestions. I don't really wanna do the whole sit-down and discuss thing, it takes away some of the fun, and is hella embarassing.
Sorry for rambling, but I just HAD to vent this stuff.
So I guess what I'm asking for is feedback as to what I should do, and past experiences bringing newbies into your bondage fun?