Hello,
So ummm... I'm new here and also quite new to the whole BDSM scene. My girlfriend is really into BDSM and she's a submissive. She wants me to dominate her during sex, but I really don't know how and I've tried some things like smacking her butt and tie her up and stuff, but I never really can get into that dominant mindset and I always feel a little guilty after doing it. I really love her and I would do anything for her. Does anyone have advice?