## How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by Steak in a Tree » Fri Oct 13, 2017 9:10 pm

Family will be away for the weekend, gf is spending most of it over here with me. Naturally the goal is to get her acquainted with this little hobby of mine. Hopefully I'll have an actual story to share once this is all done.
So, all of you who had to introduce your SO to tugs, what was your strategy going in? On the flip side, how did the other person introduce you?
"They didn't call him 'Einstein' for nothing."
-Albert Einstein

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by BandG » Sat Oct 14, 2017 6:27 am

I always just wait until we are fooling around in bed and say 'can we do something a little kinky?' The answer is usually 'what?' And I say 'can you tie my hands up?' Then I build up to more like I then add a blindfold, ask them to put their hand over my mouth and eventually a gag but I always find that the most difficult to ask for...
I've tied my girlfriend up a few times now - usually I'm more of a sub but really enjoyed the switch! We had some hot sex that way

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by soyoutie » Sat Oct 14, 2017 8:11 am

Well as for me it started FROM a tie up game so it was kinda easy. I think anyway you got a good advice there, wait to be in the action and go step by step. Don't go too kinky all at once. Even better I think is to share fantasy either before or (better) after sex. Something like "what is your kinkiest fantasy" and then u tell yours

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by freyjaceleste862 » Sat Oct 14, 2017 8:36 pm

My older sisters and her male friends introduced it to me and my younger sister.
love cooking, panty/knicker gags, nappies, handicapped.

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by HelplessKev » Mon Oct 16, 2017 3:39 pm

I actually tied my ex up while she was asleep.
She was mad at first but soon got into it

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Post by RKOJason03 » Tue Oct 17, 2017 8:49 pm

What’s the best way to get a tug partner? I want help any suggestions thank you.
Jason Gines

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by freyjaceleste862 » Tue Oct 17, 2017 9:14 pm

> RKOJason03 wrote:What’s the best way to get a tug partner? I want help any suggestions thank you.

Movies/Tv series re-enactment
If the person has played games like cops and robbers, pirates and (can't remember), fox and chicken
If its for sexual acts easy
love cooking, panty/knicker gags, nappies, handicapped.

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by Mmph Squad » Sat Oct 21, 2017 11:01 am

> RKOJason03 wrote:What’s the best way to get a tug partner? I want help any suggestions thank you.

The safest and most reliable method is to be honest. If you have a responsible friend who is open minded, you may consider sharing your interests with them and asking if they would tie you up. Research suggests that 30-60% of people worldwide are interested in bondage so you are fortunate to have one of those "common kinks."
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by KingMush » Sat Oct 21, 2017 2:24 pm

Just be direct really (with hints) and she loves it. Yep, I'm a lucky guy
War, war never changes.

### Re: How did you introduce your tug partner to tugs?

Post by Steak in a Tree » Sun Oct 22, 2017 9:03 pm

Turns out she already knew about this stuff, so no introduction was needed, heh. Still nice to hear about you guys' experiences and such, so thanks for those.
"They didn't call him 'Einstein' for nothing."
-Albert Einstein