Gags and my partner

Postby Edgeworth » Fri Mar 12, 2010 11:44 am

So, I'm into bondage and my fiancee is not, but she lets me tie her up still because I want to. Well, I want to gag her but she's not willing to cross that line. It sucks, but there is not much else to do about it. Strangely enough, we've been talking about a RP session in which she would be gagged and she's willing to be gagged then. But this RP session is a reward for something I did so it's not going to happen often. She seems like she might let me gag her outside of role-playing if I presented the idea to her as more than just because I like gagged women. Honestly though, what other reason is there? Control and trust wouldn't work. Anyone have any ideas?
"If a man cannot not care, what can he do?"

Adieu

Edgey Edgington Edgeworth the VIII

Re: Gags and my partner

Postby PREPPYGUY » Sat Mar 13, 2010 4:18 pm

Why dont you try covering her mouth with your hand and pleasuring her or whatever you do when shes tied and see if she gets a thrill out of being pleasured while "gagged".

Re: Gags and my partner

Postby Viper7 » Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:01 pm

^^That could go very wrong in a multitude of ways. If she really doesn't like it, catastrophe could happen.

Drat, I was gonna bring up trust until I read the last sentence of your post. Yeah, if its not her fetish, the control route wouldnt work.

If she's gagged shes completly at your mercy, she pretty much has to have complete trust in you. When you choose to love and care for her even when shes in that state of helplessness, she'd feel closer and more intimate with you than ever. I would think thats the best route to go, since I think that at a subconcious level thats why a lot of people enjoy being gagged, as well as gagging others since it shows that they have a lot of trust in you. Idk, maybe thats just me. :P

I don't know, if nothing else it could just be that being gagged isn't her thing. :<

Re: Gags and my partner

Postby Edgeworth » Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:21 pm

Thanks, that's good advice, but gagging just isn't her thing. It maybe a lost cause, but thanks all the same.
"If a man cannot not care, what can he do?"

Adieu

Edgey Edgington Edgeworth the VIII

Re: Gags and my partner

Postby duct_t@p3 » Sun Mar 14, 2010 4:42 am

How do you want to gag her ?

Re: Gags and my partner

Postby Edgeworth » Mon Mar 15, 2010 8:14 pm

Cleave gag with a silk scarf
"If a man cannot not care, what can he do?"

Adieu

Edgey Edgington Edgeworth the VIII