Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:40 am

My wife and I will be doing some tie-up games for my birthday soon. I'm thinking that I want to play a game in which I pretend to be an escape artist; my wife will tie me up, and then I will try to escape.

I'm looking for suggestions on what sort of escapes I could try. How do people think I should be tied up? Are there ways to make the escape easier or more difficult?

Also, do people have ideas on how I can make my escape more...intimate?

Has anyone else done something similar? How did it go?

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Billy Shears » Thu Sep 15, 2011 12:08 pm

[ This is probably Waaaaaaayy off topic and I guess it's my fantasy for the reason you sparked the deepest longing in me for what I'd want my girl to do to me and tell me : nyah nyah ! now do it !

[ I've gone into a heap of detail because hey what do I know ? Maybe you and your wife WILL want to take some things to extremes. You did pretty much tell us you want her to be happy with your strugggles, am I right ?

[ if in any way I : anger, insult, tick or piss you off in any way, I am genuinely sorry.
[ May I please emphasize that. If I anger, insult, tick or piss you OR your wife, I'm honestly sorry.

So, without further ado, here are a concept, and some Ideas.
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First, find a way of keeping his buddies away while he Assumes they're coming (aw, he'll be Tied Up tomorrow)

DING you pinned him DOWN in M minutes. Now pay up hubby - STRIP.

Ah, poor boy, how embarrasing :big:

Now for b n d prep --

Lots of _Thin_ Rope, tell him it's so comfortable but it isn't, no play or give
No play, no give - tight.

Buy more than one color, should you fancy.

Now, relishing the delusion he'd had about winning two of three or you can't pin him down, hitch a elbow tie to him. As a Rule, men are hopelessly inflexible. You don't wanna take that chance.

Next you rope that steer up. Cross his ankles. Lash 'em tight. Bind him above and below his knees. Draw the loops tight. Now either cross or place his hands palm to palm. Palm to palm has the option to use hinged handcuffs, even better if you apply them palms OUT.

Aren't you wicked :)

Now you are going to Go For Gold and cinch THREE times, not two, never one. This is a escape CHALLENGE, not a "loosie."

Ankle and knee cinches in between, tied off in front, two tugged on knots, two to four inch tails. To him, technically but not in reach. The square knots tied off in the hardest to get place with his fingers should have triple tight knots on _their_ tails, as much as six.

Yank HARD on every knot.

Do use thumb and toe cuffs. He want to make a escape ... atempt.

Now tug at hubby's bonds. Make certain none of them'll give.

Next to last - super glue all knots. Let dry. Even brush super glue around each band of ropes.

You now have the Surprise !! option of mummify him. So as not to allow him to summon hope at any time before being gagged, do have music playing loudly in the room you're tying him up in. And the Party room. You can turn it down a little when the Party begins. Two reasons why - your girl friends will be in hysteria at seeing what a good job you did on him and .... the Gag I'll tell you to make, NOW, will make SURE no one hears a peep.

Get say, oh, three WET thongs from the girls.
Open up !!
STUFF 'em.
Get a nice big foamy NERF ball.
Pack it in.
Are his bulging enough now? Nah.
Get a couple more soaked up thongs from your friends.
Open up !!
Now bite down. Close your lips mister.
OK, time for the microfoam/pore tape. The one doctors/nurses use. Get the widest.
Cheek to cheek, nose to chin.
Then around and around the head.
_further overkills_ if he WANTS you --
take a bandage. roll THAT around the head.
And to touch it off, you know the stretchy band the physical therapists use ?

Add one of 'em.

What's wrong 'hon ? mmmmmmmmmmmm !!

He's YOURS. All evening ..............
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Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby tyme115 » Thu Sep 15, 2011 1:19 pm


Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Jack Roper » Thu Sep 15, 2011 1:41 pm

With that much "stuff" stuffed into your hubby's mouth he is clear danger of choking to death. Be careful--don't leave him alone if you attempt all of this!
Last edited by Jack Roper on Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:54 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:51 pm



Wow. That is a lot of tape. Someone at the hardware store is happy. :big:

Thanks for the suggestion and the video link. Tape bondage is not quite my thing, but I might consider it since it might be easier for me to escape from tape than from rope or bandanas. I think I'd like to have some chance of getting out! :D

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:31 pm

Billy Shears wrote:[ This is probably Waaaaaaayy off topic and I guess it's my fantasy for the reason you sparked the deepest longing in me for what I'd want my girl to do to me and tell me : nyah nyah ! now do it !

[ I've gone into a heap of detail because hey what do I know ? Maybe you and your wife WILL want to take some things to extremes. You did pretty much tell us you want her to be happy with your strugggles, am I right ?

[ if in any way I : anger, insult, tick or piss you off in any way, I am genuinely sorry.
[ May I please emphasize that. If I anger, insult, tick or piss you OR your wife, I'm honestly sorry.

So, without further ado, here are a concept, and some Ideas.
[ Hey Rocky ! Watch me pull a Rabbit out of my hat ! ~ That trick Never works. ]


No, I'm not offended. In fact, I rather like your ideas; you're quite devious! I'm also glad that I could spark you.

I totally agree on having my wrists, elbows, ankles, and knees tied, cinched, and secured. I so enjoy being tied that way. Having her yank the knots tight and using extra cinch loops sounds good too; I had not thought of that. As far as using thin rope, I'm not really sure I want to do that. I actually want to be comfortable if I fail to escape.

I definitely want to be gagged for my escape. I'd do a ball gag if I had one or a good scarf/bandana gag.

Your party idea has given me an idea. Perhaps my wife could tie me up and then tell me I have to escape before her friends arrive. I could sit bound in the living room trying to escape while she gets the place ready. As time runs out, I'll begin to wonder if she'll leave me bound up for her guests to see or if she'll show mercy and untie me.

Hrm. That last idea is probably too extreme for us right now, but it's fun to think about.
:D

So, when I asked about making the escape more intimate, I wasn't so much thinking about making the restraints very strict (in fact, one problem I'm having is trying to find an escape that is difficult to do but not entirely impossible). While my wife likes seeing me helpless, it's not as strong an interest for her as it is for me. I was looking for a way to either make the escape more romantic (if that is possible) or to think of some predicament I could be restrained into that would make it more interesting for her to watch.

Thanks for the ideas. If you think of any more, please post them!
:D

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Billy Shears » Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:57 pm

Jack Roper wrote:With that much "stuff" stuffed into your hubby's mouth he is clear danger of choking to death. Be careful--don't leave him alone if 7you attempt all of this!


Oh Lord you're so right what the hay was I thinking ! sheeet , I'm the Safety Guy who's always piping up and quipping, safe, safe, safe - and SANE.

I don't know what came over me.

First, as you say, this matters Very Much -- without a gag; with a simple cleave gag; covered by a mere strip of tape; a little thong, a smaller ball gag or the Nerf ball I mentioned ONLY .... be very very careful - watch your bottom; you want to act IMMEDIATELY if s/he begins to choke.

Or has to have bonds removed for examples because : s/he's freaking out ! ; hands have gone numb ; an Act of God is happening or with blunt EMT scissors (ALWAYS have them) just get him/her OUT.

I so very much apologize for being so caught in my masochistic fantasy I neglected to emphasize safety, not to mention sanity.

Sorry, everyone. Please, forgive me.
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Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:06 pm

Don't panic. I'm well versed in bondage safety. I even have safety scissors.

However, Jack's message brings up a good point; not everyone knows all the safety information needed for tie up games. I'll have to remember that when I make suggestions.

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Billy Shears » Fri Sep 16, 2011 7:42 am

Amordaza wrote:
Billy Shears wrote:[ This is probably Waaaaaaayy off topic and I guess it's my fantasy for the reason you sparked the deepest longing in me for what I'd want my girl to do to me and tell me : nyah nyah ! now do it !

[ I've gone into a heap of detail because hey what do I know ? Maybe you and your wife WILL want to take some things to extremes. You did pretty much tell us you want her to be happy with your strugggles, am I right ?

[ if in any way I : anger, insult, tick or piss you off in any way, I am genuinely sorry.
[ May I please emphasize that. If I anger, insult, tick or piss you OR your wife, I'm honestly sorry.

So, without further ado, here are a concept, and some Ideas.
[ Hey Rocky ! Watch me pull a Rabbit out of my hat ! ~ That trick Never works. ]


No, I'm not offended. In fact, I rather like your ideas; you're quite devious! I'm also glad that I could spark you.

I totally agree on having my wrists, elbows, ankles, and knees tied, cinched, and secured. I so enjoy being tied that way. Having her yank the knots tight and using extra cinch loops sounds good too; I had not thought of that. As far as using thin rope, I'm not really sure I want to do that. I actually want to be comfortable if I fail to escape.

I definitely want to be gagged for my escape. I'd do a ball gag if I had one or a good scarf/bandana gag.

Your party idea has given me an idea. Perhaps my wife could tie me up and then tell me I have to escape before her friends arrive. I could sit bound in the living room trying to escape while she gets the place ready. As time runs out, I'll begin to wonder if she'll leave me bound up for her guests to see or if she'll show mercy and untie me.

Hrm. That last idea is probably too extreme for us right now, but it's fun to think about.
:D

So, when I asked about making the escape more intimate, I wasn't so much thinking about making the restraints very strict (in fact, one problem I'm having is trying to find an escape that is difficult to do but not entirely impossible). While my wife likes seeing me helpless, it's not as strong an interest for her as it is for me. I was looking for a way to either make the escape more romantic (if that is possible) or to think of some predicament I could be restrained into that would make it more interesting for her to watch.

Thanks for the ideas. If you think of any more, please post them!
:D


I'm so glad I didn't offend you. And like you and Jack say, watch off for how cruel, dangerous and extreme the gag. Looking back at myself I absolutely agree with you, thin rope wound so TIGHT around you and Without Your Knowledge isn't nice and would do a heck of pain, perhaps even damage. I totally agree, this is about intimacy, helping your wife become VERY aroused and very probably being STUCK in your seat in the living room, resigned, after two much struggling, that her friends WILL come in and all during "you" party, that's right, it's your day and you'll be the subject of conversation.

I'm so glad I've given you a good few ideas.

I hope the experience will increase your wife's likes to tie you up, I hope you have a Lot of fun, and by the way you lucky Man, how I wish I'd already found a woman like this.

Good luck and, enjoy !!

:)
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Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Billy Shears » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:03 am

Hi again Amardaza, I hope it's not too late

- you're tied to a coffee tape, gagged, belly up or down. Your wife serves cake on you to [ her :) ] guests

- tied to a quick-construct St. Andrew Cross [gagged !] nude, the party goers smear cake icing remnants' over your, eh, intimate regions. And eat you :)

- tied blindfolded but not gagged to a support pole in your living room, who knows ? keep French Kissing you

- you're tied hand and feet again, gagged, hidden Anywhere in the house by your wife, while her friends play hide and seek, the winner of which gets a "special gift"

- depriving you of lunch and/or dinner as you normally do, you sit, tied and very WELL gagged, while you watch your wife and friends pig out on meat lovers pizza. you get the cold left over slices

- here's a wild one - all your wife's friends arrive
- and only when they ALL arrive

- they hand their car keys (labeled) to her
- she puts them in her purse, whispers : NO PEEKING !

- then she shoulder carries you out the door

- then she selects a car at random, opens that trunk, dumps you in
- returns to hand the keys back, do the usual girl talk, ends the party early

- (you're in the trunk, right ?), bades them a late good night and says ....

- oh, btw there's a Captive for you to enjoy 7 days in a week in One of your trunks
- when you get him home, ENJOY yourself
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Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Sat Sep 17, 2011 8:03 am

zerat08 wrote:http://www.boundstories.net/storiesad/challenge.html

I do this with my wife(mistress) often. She picks 3 pieces of bondage equipemnt(nothing that locks) like rope, tape, scarves etc. Ties me up(ususaly it starts with two socks as mittens and my hands tied behind my back) and I have 10 minutes to escape. If I don't she adds another 3 pieces and this time my escape time is doubled. This countinues until she decides I am tied up helplessly. By then I ususaly have 2 hours and 40 minutes to escape. All through my "escape training" she's teasing me(physicly and verbaly), tickling me, making me lick her to "distract" me from escaping. By the end if I dont escape she leaves me with a bad case of blue balls and goes to sleep.


This sounds like a good escape game; it increases the difficulty of escape as time goes on. However, it seems to me that if one doesn't escape after the first round or two that it is unlikely that one will escape at all.

How often do you successfully escape? When you do escape, is it usually in the beginning when the restraints are lighter, or do you sometimes escape later on in the game when more restraints have been applied?

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Sat Sep 17, 2011 12:40 pm

Billy Shears wrote:Hi again Amardaza, I hope it's not too late


No, it's not too late. We haven't even picked a date for the game yet (our schedules are all over the place), so there's still time to give ideas.

Again, it's highly unlikely that we'll be having my wife's friends over for our little game, but I think your thought processes are going in the right direction.

Billy Shears wrote:
- you're tied to a coffee tape, gagged, belly up or down. Your wife serves cake on you to [ her :) ] guests


One variation of this would be to place the cake on me and then try to escape without causing the cake to fall. It's an interesting idea, but since the escape will probably be difficult enough, I don't think I'd try to incorporate this.

Billy Shears wrote:- tied to a quick-construct St. Andrew Cross [gagged !] nude, the party goers smear cake icing remnants' over your, eh, intimate regions. And eat you :)


Replacing the party goers with just my wife would be equally exciting.

Billy Shears wrote:- tied blindfolded but not gagged to a support pole in your living room, who knows ? keep French Kissing you


This certainly is a good idea.

Billy Shears wrote:- you're tied hand and feet again, gagged, hidden Anywhere in the house by your wife, while her friends play hide and seek, the winner of which gets a "special gift"


That is quite a creative idea. Another variation would be for my wife's friends to tie me up somewhere in town and then have my wife try to find and rescue me using clues provided by her friends. It's basically a scavenger hunt to find hubby.

I think, for my birthday, I'd prefer to play this game in reverse (I'd go look for my wife). Also, there's not much of an escape game in the scavenger hunt idea (but it's a good idea for another birthday; hopefully I'll have lots of those).
:D

Billy Shears wrote:- depriving you of lunch and/or dinner as you normally do, you sit, tied and very WELL gagged, while you watch your wife and friends pig out on meat lovers pizza. you get the cold left over slices


Another good idea that works with or without my wife's friends.

Billy Shears wrote:
- here's a wild one - all your wife's friends arrive
- and only when they ALL arrive

- they hand their car keys (labeled) to her
- she puts them in her purse, whispers : NO PEEKING !

- then she shoulder carries you out the door

- then she selects a car at random, opens that trunk, dumps you in
- returns to hand the keys back, do the usual girl talk, ends the party early

- (you're in the trunk, right ?), bades them a late good night and says ....

- oh, btw there's a Captive for you to enjoy 7 days in a week in One of your trunks
- when you get him home, ENJOY yourself


This idea, to be honest, is a little bit too wild for me. Also, there's a little bit of a safety concern; with what you've described, I'd probably be left restrained and unmonitored for longer than is wise. That said, I'm sure it can be adjusted to alleviate the safety problem. For example, I could be dumped in the trunk right before the party is over.

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Billy Shears » Sun Sep 18, 2011 8:24 pm

Good , I've suggested my ideas with plenty of lead time.

Balancing the cake while you make a futile struggle to escape ... delicious :big:

I'm so flattered you like my ideas, and I'm amazed by your own variations on them.

Oh GOD would I love enjoying my birthday these ways.

I agree, the wild idea as laid out is too risky.

Just as you say. Not even gagged - Right as your party ends - THEN you are put in there. But why the trunk ? Why not the back seat - that's what your wife would mean by saying NO PEEKINg, not to see if you are there until they all get home and individually confirm it.

Or if the car your wife puts you in is a van, slide the door, and lay you down carefully in the cargo space. Here a blindfold would be very sexy.

Be careful, rolling around tied up as a van travels can break bones or even give you a concussion. But if you're tied down to a mattress or spreadeagled ............

There you are ! Hey ! There are people LURKING. What are YOUR ideas ?
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Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Mon Sep 19, 2011 6:49 pm

zerat08 wrote:Make no mistake, if the person doing the tying does a good job you aint getting out. I escaped 2 times out of about 40 (trust me I Am really trying). Both times it was later on. It takes time to undo tight knots especially if you have to find them first while your wife is tickling/teasing you.


Hrm. That's a 5% success rate. From what you and others (on another forum) have said, it looks like the odds are not in favor of a successful escape (maybe I should not have taught my wife how to tie cinch loops :odd: ).

Any ideas of how I could even the odds? On the one hand, I prefer to be tied securely. On the other hand, I'd like a decent shot at escape (say, 20%-30%). It's easier to struggle when you think you can escape than when you know that you're most likely going to fail.

The one thing I know is that being tied with a single piece of long rope isn't as effective as being tied with several smaller ropes (this is why escape artists always use a single 100 foot rope in their rope escape challenges). Maybe I should go that route.

Of course, if I do that, I think Billy will be disappointed.
:D

Re: Intimate Escape Challenge Ideas

Postby Amordaza » Mon Sep 19, 2011 6:55 pm

Billy Shears wrote:Good , I've suggested my ideas with plenty of lead time.

Or if the car your wife puts you in is a van, slide the door, and lay you down carefully in the cargo space. Here a blindfold would be very sexy.


So, one of my ideas was to rent one of those U-Haul small vans and be tied up in the cargo area. I think those vans have places on the side to secure the stuff in the cargo area. I'm sure they could be used to secure me during a fantasy kidnap.
:)

Billy Shears wrote:Be careful, rolling around tied up as a van travels can break bones or even give you a concussion. But if you're tied down to a mattress or spreadeagled ............


Good safety tip. I had not thought of that issue.

Billy Shears wrote:There you are ! Hey ! There are people LURKING. What are YOUR ideas ?


I concur. I'm interested in what others think or what experiences they've had. I'm especially interested in what sorts of things people have successfully escaped from or what sort of predicaments made their escape (or escape attempt) more intimate.