Postby HushedPuppy » Sun May 28, 2017 7:05 am
I have always found the sensation of being immobile, silenced and maybe blindfolded very calming. I find it exciting at the same time too, if that makes sense?
I work in a job where I manage a lot of people, so I have to appear "in control" and communicate clearly. Being tied and gagged especially if I'm blindfolded too helps me block out everything.
I find the feeling of being under someone else's control, very calming. I love the heightened sensation from having my movement, speech and vision restricted. Not being able to speak and influence my captor is particularly disempowering, I can't even negotiate!
I love the psychological intensity it produces, I can focus on the feeling of ropes or ligatures, or my measured breathing in the gag. I "switch off" thinking about stressors and often drift in and out of consciousness.
I've since done mindfulness classes and this is similar in both technique (focus on body) and effect (though I find bondage more intense).