TUG Guilt?

Postby Scottstud94 » Sun Aug 01, 2010 9:15 pm

If you get one of your friends to do a TUG with you, and they don't know you like it. Should you feel guilty?

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby ropendope » Sun Aug 01, 2010 9:39 pm

I dont

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Postby haloguy » Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:08 am

nope

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Scottstud94 » Mon Aug 02, 2010 8:53 pm

I don't want too but for some reason I do... Cuz if they find out they might think you used them

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Misquamicut » Tue Aug 03, 2010 9:26 am

If friends willingly participate, why would anyone feel guilty? Unless something the friend really didn't want occurred. Friends should not violate the trust they have for each other. That would make me feel guilty!

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Aug 06, 2010 8:33 pm

If I had any friends I thought would be willing to play TuGs with me, I'd be upfront with them about my liking for it beforehand anyway.
Otherwise I doubt they'd even do it at all. And I couldn't think of any other way to persuade them in any case. Not at *my* age!
So for me (or any partner I hope) guilt would probably never enter the picture.
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Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby chloroformmeplease » Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:07 pm

If you took your friend to a movie and they didn't like the movie would you feel guilty? Would they think you used them because you had no one else to go with you? Seriously speaking why would you or should you feel guilty? Most people would more then likely be curious about the subject of TUG's and if they were really against it they would not do it anyway.

It has not happened to me where I have ever felt guilty of liking TUG's or getting anyone else to try it. Besides how can you know if you like or don't like until you try it?
Treat others as you wish to be treated. Having said that I will not sit idly by while someone is disrespecting another just because they think they are better than everyone else.

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:13 pm

chloroformmeplease wrote:If you took your friend to a movie and they didn't like the movie would you feel guilty? Would they think you used them because you had no one else to go with you? Seriously speaking why would you or should you feel guilty? Most people would more then likely be curious about the subject of TUG's and if they were really against it they would not do it anyway.

It has not happened to me where I have ever felt guilty of liking TUG's or getting anyone else to try it. Besides how can you know if you like or don't like until you try it?


For some reason that last line reminded me of an old Alka Selter commercial from the '70's and now I can't get it out of my head. Some guy was telling about how some cook at a restaurant was plying him with too much spicy food, and kept saying (in an Italian accent) :"Try it! You'll like it!"
Wonder if that line ever works for TuGs? 8)
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby anjell » Mon Aug 09, 2010 4:38 am

Nope i never felt guilty. They have felt guilty once i know of. But to be honest it was either tie me or someone was going to get servilely hurt. But in my defense some one drugged me and i don't remember close to any thing that night. but when you wake up tied to a bed and in cloths that is not yours you can only guess what happened that made five guys and two girls have to restrain one girl for safety.
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Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:25 am

anjell wrote:Nope i never felt guilty. They have felt guilty once i know of. But to be honest it was either tie me or someone was going to get servilely hurt. But in my defense some one drugged me and i don't remember close to any thing that night. but when you wake up tied to a bed and in cloths that is not yours you can only guess what happened that made five guys and two girls have to restrain one girl for safety.


Hmmm... that sounds like a special circumstance though rather than a simple "Can I tie you up/ can you tie me up for the fun of it?" type of situation.
Can't say anything like *that* ever happened to me, Thank God. I hope you didn't wind up in any trouble! Well... besides being tied up etc. like that, anyway.
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby anjell » Mon Aug 09, 2010 10:15 am

I never got in trouble but i haven't gone bar sense except if one of my jobs needed me to be. Even then people that know me wont let me drink lol.
I have been told what happened and it is actually the first story i typed up to post on this site. But i decided to not post it because i did not know if it fit in with the site.
Let's use all the colors.
Dust 'em, Pix!
Yup! That tasted purple!

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Aug 09, 2010 10:22 am

anjell wrote:I never got in trouble but i haven't gone bar sense except if one of my jobs needed me to be. Even then people that know me wont let me drink lol.
I have been told what happened and it is actually the first story i typed up to post on this site. But i decided to not post it because i did not know if it fit in with the site.

You never know until you try. If you want to post the story, you should; conversely, if you don't want to, you shouldn't.
Frankly, I think it would make a very interesting story and a change of pace from the usual TuG story - IF you feel good about sharing it, that is. :D
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby LoTUG » Tue Aug 10, 2010 4:25 pm

I never have.....that's the only way I've been able to tie a few girls, is just by bringing up some crazy scenario. A few were "kidnap dates".... I only have one real tug buddy who willingly participates but I don't get many chances to tie her. The rest I have to provide an innocent sounding reason for them to be tied.

Re: TUG Guilt?

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Sep 02, 2010 6:18 am

No for the following reasons:

1. It was at least worth it to at least try because you would never know unless you take the first intitative to be brave and ask them if you are interested in tied up games.
2. Even if they say no, the thought will still be planted in their mind, and they may change their mind later on.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.