## All most caught out

Post by james bound 1997 » Fri Jul 24, 2015 2:00 pm

A couple months ago me and my friends were hanging out when one of the girls turned to me and asked if i could be her pet in BDSM way and then she said that my look, face and the type of person i am would be into bondage which we all cracked out laughing saying she was a Miss Dominatrix then we changed the subject.
Have any of you guy been all most caught out when the conversation of bondage and tie ups games come up in your social group
Please post your experiences and anecdotes on this topic
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Post by MisterTheEdge » Fri Jul 24, 2015 3:49 pm

No, I was pretty open about it.
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Post by 31acujoker » Fri Jul 24, 2015 3:53 pm

Me and a few of my friends were in McDonald's one time, and one of them randomly brought up that he'd had a friend that he found out was into bondage, there was this weird silence around the table and to be honest I was dying to say something 'cause I hate keeping secrets from my friends and family, but now he and a few of my closest friends know about my fetish and accept it, which is a huge load off my shoulders
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Post by Mmph Squad » Sat Jul 25, 2015 4:00 am

I use to hide it waaay back in the day, but recently i've been in conversations with others I suspect have the kink as well. Many seem caught off guard by how open I am about it. However it was this very experience, seeing someone be honest and upright about who they are, that made me do the same. It's a little risky, others might not like that fact about you, but think about it, if you convince just one other person to accept who they are and stop living in fear, isn't it all worth it?
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Post by Nexus » Sat Jul 25, 2015 5:59 am

I have pretty mixed feelings on the topic. On the one hand, I'm dying to talk about all things bondage, which is why I frequent this board. But on the other hand, I don't want anybody to know it about me.
Recently, a friend of mine began dating a guy who she says "wants to tie me up and dominate me, so I guess we're doing that now." Apparently she already knew about my kink, so when she mentioned this Dom she was dating, the flood gates opened and we had a long conversation about bondage. It was great.

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Post by NoMeansYes » Sat Jul 25, 2015 11:40 am

There was a time when I'd have been completely mortified if anyone found out about the kind of things that I'm into with regards to TUGs. But that time's been and gone.
There's been a few instances of when my friends have looked at my laptop when I've accidentally left it unlocked (I knew because they posted some hilarious Facebook statuses from my account at my expense) and though they didn't say anything about anything bondage related, I'm sure that they'd have very easily found out some very eye opening things on my browser history. It doesn't bother me at all though.
I've accepted that it's always been a part of me, and always will be. If someone finds out, who cares? The absolute worst they can do is think you're a little bit weird. You can guarantee the person judging you has a fetish of their own that they don't want you to know.
Sure I'm not gonna deliberately shoehorn it into every conversation I have or loudly broadcast my love of bondage to the whole world, but if someone does find out, I'm not bothered at all.
I've nearly been caught doing self-bondage on a few occasions too, but I'm always prepared for that so if I hear the slightest peak then I'll free myself before being incriminated. It's one thing people knowing you like bondage, it's another them walking in on you tying up and gagging yourself. To be honest though, I do kind of have a fantasy where someone does walk in on me doing just that and decides they may as well finish the job and tie me up properly.

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Post by tieup2008 » Sat Jul 25, 2015 11:48 am

I'd like to find out if the people I know are into a bit of bondage but a bit reluctant to bring the subject up.
Halloween when I dressed up as a cop with real cuffs was a bit of a giveaway though
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Post by Mmph Squad » Sun Jul 26, 2015 4:10 am

> tieup2008 wrote:I'd like to find out if the people I know are into a bit of bondage but a bit reluctant to bring the subject up.
> Halloween when I dressed up as a cop with real cuffs was a bit of a giveaway though

Reference something in the news, like that recent hillary clinton rope line situation where staff "wrangled" reporters who were getting too close. Or as brought up many time on this board, a tie and gag filled movie always seems to do the trick!
I don't think the cop outfit would be enough to "give it away." My straight jacket idea, however, might just.
To tie or be tied? I'm not one to care as long as there are gags!

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Post by tieup2008 » Sun Jul 26, 2015 6:43 am

> Burlap_Mac wrote:

> > tieup2008 wrote:I'd like to find out if the people I know are into a bit of bondage but a bit reluctant to bring the subject up.
> > Halloween when I dressed up as a cop with real cuffs was a bit of a giveaway though

> Reference something in the news, like that recent hillary clinton rope line situation where staff "wrangled" reporters who were getting too close. Or as brought up many time on this board, a tie and gag filled movie always seems to do the trick!
> I don't think the cop outfit would be enough to "give it away." My straight jacket idea, however, might just.

It was more that they were real as in what the cops use in the UK in a holster on my belt plus another hinged pair. Also the previous Halloween with other cuffs and legirons.
I was asked if I had brought along the chain legirons again as the girl being cuffed thought the hinged cuffs on her feet were too tight and she wouldn't have thumbcuffs on her big toes cause the hinged cuffs were too tight
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Post by James Bondage » Mon Aug 10, 2015 7:21 pm

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Post by truly_trussed » Wed Aug 12, 2015 7:07 pm

JB- speaking of Disney this clip is from the Pirates of the Caribbean ride at Walt Disney World in Florida from 1991. It's one of two Audio-animatronic guards who were captured, bound and gagged. I don't know of he made grunting sounds. I understand they've been replaced by the Captain Jack Sparrow character. Does anyone else remember the characters from FL or any other Disney Parks worldwide? This video runs 9 seconds, so don't blink or you'll miss it.
https://youtu.be/HUGoaMdzw9M

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Post by Jay Feely » Sat Feb 13, 2016 7:36 pm

left my laptop open on fetlife.com with my bondage pics and my roommate found it. he thought I was weird. Was not into it.
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Post by spd138 » Sat Mar 12, 2016 1:45 pm

It's hard keeping a secret and kinda fun but once people start finding put you'll realize it's not a big deal. Some find it wild and cool and ask questions some don't care much and ya some are weird about it but who cares about them.