## POLL: Which is THE most important element for you in TUGs?

Post by bondagefreak » Wed Jun 25, 2014 7:36 pm

Discuss and explain why you voted the way you did.
If you feel the poll in incomplete, share your thoughts with us!

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Post by Wyatt9999 » Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:45 am

I need to be willing in order to trust the person tying me up. That is the most important thing.

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Post by bondagefreak » Thu Jun 26, 2014 1:39 pm

Some interesting results so far.
Keep it coming people!

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Post by chadmc90 » Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:40 pm

I've never been involved with a TUG, but I would think trust would be the most important for me(If I'm the one being tied). If I don't trust the person generally, I would certainly not want them tying me up where they have full control over me.
EDIT: I see Wyatt beat me to it, but I fully agree with him.
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Post by Wyatt9999 » Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:46 pm

hehe sorry buddy.

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Post by chadmc90 » Thu Jun 26, 2014 3:55 pm

Wyatt: lol
If I had to suggest a poll option, then I definitely say trust as one of them.
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Post by BandG » Fri Jun 27, 2014 8:06 am

There are many different elements for me.
Firstly I have to be the one being tied up, I wouldn't mind doing the tying but being tied is an amazing feeling.
I like to feel as helpless and humiliated as possible so I like to be tied secure and tight (with rope), I like to be made to wear panties (I'm a male) and importantly I like to be gagged. I love not being able to talk when tied up - my ideal scenario is a very sexy female first if all getting me tied up nice and tight then hand gagging me for a bit and teasing me and finally gagging me with a sock or panties then tape wrapped round to secure it.
Then a really important part is being teased a lot. Tickle torture is fantastic for me as I'm really ticklish so being tickled relentlessly while I squirm and scream into a gag is a major turn on.
I like a girl to tease me vocally as well such as saying "what a shame you're all tied up right now huh? You can't do anything to stop me." An ultimate fantasy would be for a girl to answer my phone while I'm tied and gagged and tell the person I'm a little tied up, but keep talking on the phone whilst having the other hand over my mouth or rubbing my body.
I've never done it before but roleplay would really turn me on. I'd love for a girl to pretend to be a cat burglar who breaks in, ties and gags me and then rummages through my stuff or for a girl to pretend she's kidnapped me and is holding me for ransom.
I like a girl to be a mixture of playful and teasing but also stern when it comes to things like me making any noise. If I'm still too loud with a gag I love the girl to put her hand over my mouth as well and tell me to shut up.
After a good while of all that going on I'd finally like to be pleasured so the pent up arousal is relieved.
I love bondage so much! And I wouldn't even class any of that as extreme, it's just so sensual.

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Post by NemesisPrime » Fri Jun 27, 2014 10:43 am

I can't vote cause there's multiple elements that play a factor for me.
Definitely the gag, no tie-up is complete without one!
Role-play would play one along with what both captor and captive are wearing as it plays into my uniform fetish.
Definitely the sexual gratification or delayed stimulation ; cause it adds a layer of torture.
I like being helpless but I also like being in control so that plays a factor.
I also like the method of restraint used, anything involving handcuffs, leg irons, or chains in general!
And last but certainly not least the equipment as especially if it's part of a school uniform or athletic gear!
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

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Post by bondagefreak » Fri Jun 27, 2014 12:21 pm

There are multiple factors involved for everyone...just saying!
The goal of this poll is for you to try (as hard as it may be) to pin-point THE thing that does it for you.
For those who said "trust", you feel that the most important element for you in a Tug is to be tied up by someone you trust implicitely...so vote for "The person who's tying you up."

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Post by lockedup » Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:35 pm

i like being completely helpless .
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up

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Post by tony2 » Fri Jun 27, 2014 9:00 pm

> lockedup wrote:i like being completely helpless .

Hey Locked --- I can help with that. Now we just need to get you to Hawaii.
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Most of you won't really understand this --- yet, but the most important part of TUGS to me is staying young - at least inside. Me? I'm going on 17 or so. My body would add another 50 years to it if I would let it.
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Post by Kyle » Sat Jun 28, 2014 6:09 pm

It's hard to pinpoint one thing for me, because a lot of elements go together to make it a good experience. I can go with being the one tied or the one doing the tying so that cancels a lot of answers right there. Gags usually do help the experience but I don't personally think they're always necessary, I'm not someone who has to have certain binding materials used, and so on. But I guess I have to go with the scenario. I have to admit, just getting tied up can get dull pretty fast for me. There has to be something else to it, even if it's as simple as trying to escape in a certain time limit. Even if the bondage itself is great, just sitting there tied up just loses excitement quickly.

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Post by Matthewtheman » Wed Aug 13, 2014 11:53 am

The gag. TUGs only turn me on if the woman is wearing a gag. If she's just tied up, it does nothing for me. Conversely, if a guy is just tied up, it also does nothing for me, but if he's gagged it's a straight up turn off.

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Post by tony2 » Wed Aug 13, 2014 12:41 pm

Two actually: Getting into it ...... and getting out of it.
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Post by Nexus » Wed Aug 13, 2014 1:51 pm

I gotta go with the majority on this one: the gag.
Someone here had a signature that said it pretty perfectly: "A TUG just isn't a TUG without a gag." (...maybe not word for word, but the gist of it)

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Post by Rachel_Tied » Wed Aug 13, 2014 4:42 pm

I voted for being helpless, because that in itself can lead to several of the others, like frame of mind, being teased, etc. But that helpless feeling is kind of the root of it for me.

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Post by bry2002 » Thu Mar 26, 2015 8:25 am

Ughh I had a hard time picking one. I ended up voting for the gag, because at the end of the day it's the part of the scenario that turns me on the most. But there are other dynamics that I would like to point out. Being a switch I have found that there are different types of gratification with each role. I do like to do the tying as it gives me more of a feeling of control. But I have found that being tied up by women that I find attractive can invoke more of a sexual influence (for obvious reasons). I also think that something that is highly underrated in tugs or RPs is the detail and anticipation. If the act of tying up or being bound and gagged stands for sexual gratification, then I look at the detail/buildup to that scene as foreplay. The better the foreplay the better the.....well you know. Fellow RPers who put a lot of detail and buildup to their RP's tend to score extra points with me.

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Post by drawscore » Thu Mar 26, 2015 7:50 pm

I think the most important element would be for all parties involved to have fun, and for everyone to know the limits, and adhere to them. That means trust between all involved.
When I was young, my friends and I frequently played games that involved getting tied up. I liked tying up my friends more than I liked getting tied, but when I was tied, I preferred being tied with at least one friend. Two or three was even better. The thinking, was that our imaginary adventures and danger were always more fun when shared with a friend or or two (or three or four).
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Post by abductionfan » Sat Mar 28, 2015 11:30 am

As long as my female partner is having funis most important after safety. I picked torture or tease, because my female captives like being sexually teased, tickled etc;;; once in awhile i get the receiving end being tied and teased so it is all fun and fair.

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Post by gagfan867 » Sat Mar 28, 2015 12:18 pm

Honestly I think the person you are playing with is the most important because if you have the right person all the others will come into place because the right person is going to respect what you like.

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Post by Mr Underheel » Sat Mar 28, 2015 1:04 pm

It's impossible to deny that the one tying you is the most important thing of all--unless you're someone who has to throw caution to the wind in order to get ANYBODY to tie you up.
Once we're past that part, I think there are 3 things that are critical for me: 1. the use of rope (over any and all other binding material); 2. the skill of the person who is tying me up (assuming that I'm the one that's being tied); and 3. the communication between me and the one that's tying me up so that I know that SHE (i only want to be tied up by a "SHE") knows what I want; and 4. (ok, so there are MORE than 3 critical things. Shoot me.) that she enjoys it almost as much as I do.

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Post by tie_up_kathy » Sat Mar 28, 2015 5:10 pm

I think the whole trying to get free (and hopefully failing, lol) would be it for me

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Post by Hienhien88 » Sun Mar 29, 2015 8:52 am

In my case I chose to be impotent after greatly hesitated but if I had the ability to have multiple choices I would also put The person who's tying you up; the gag; Sensory Deprivation; Being tortured/teased by your captor(s) and that in my case