leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby andrewtied » Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:14 pm

im leaving tugs soon and be done with bondage i feel like people hate me and thats fine im sick of being treated like shit because im not in your level of limits in bondage and the people who are my friends thank you i will never forget the kindness.

i came here to find somewhere to fit in and i guess i was wrong i might leave tugs this march but it may changed later on when i do leave i will post another a farewell post but things might changed but if not im will officially be done in march

Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby mikeybound » Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:55 pm

You really shouldn't feel the need to give up something you love. I know this definitely doesn't give you much comfort now, but you have absolutely no reason to feel bad about loving this. The people who make you feel this way have a very good reason to feel bad. Of course depending on who they are, what you think is hate is actually just worry. I can say from personal experience this this interest has led me to do some very reckless things, and everyone involved really did care. I should have relented, but there was never a need to give it up.
Another thing is this post. Leaving a message saying months in advance that you plan to leave the bored and might change your mind feels like you trying to reach out. So how about we all help our fellow tug lover and show some support?

Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby andrewtied » Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:31 pm

thank you for the support and kimmi i can post this whatever i pleased their is the example people question and judge

Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby bondagefreak » Wed Jan 08, 2014 9:24 pm

mikeybound wrote:So how about we all help our fellow tug lover and show some support?


Hard to do when I can't even understand the meaning of this thread :?
AndrewTied, what exactly are you talking about? Can you refer to some specific incidents leading you to believe people on here hate you?

On another note, Kimmi's remark is in fact quite valid.
You're not showing a team spirit when you say things like "I can post this wherever I please". It's each and everyone's job here to help the staff keep the forum in relatively good order.

Without knowing any details, just your response to Kimmi seems...confrontational.

I don't want to say things that I don't know, because quite frankly I don't know what prompted you to start this thread in the first place...but maybe you are a tad bit on the defensive? Yes?


The problem won't fix itself by threatening to leave the forum or by snapping and accusing others of being judgemental.

You need to slow down and explain yourself properly. Only then can a good solution be found.
What incident(s) prompted you to start this thread in the first place?
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Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Jan 09, 2014 4:04 pm

Moved to Tugs Talk as being a more appropriate forum.
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leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby andrewtied » Sun Jan 12, 2014 8:24 pm

im leaving in February can't take it anymore can't wait till march needs to be sooner

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby bondagefreak » Sun Jan 12, 2014 9:11 pm

If you wanna go, just go!

Why create a second thread about wanting to leave?
You already posted about it here: viewtopic.php?f=4&t=21797

On your first thread, some of us asked why you felt the way you did...maybe if we knew the source of the problem we could help you find a solution. But you did not answer any of the questions, and instead you create a second thread telling us the very same thing.

We can't help you if you don't wanna help yourself.
If this place is making you bitter and sour, just go. The sooner you do, the happier you will be.
If you want to reach out, in hopes that we can find a solution to the problems you are facing, you need to be specific and explain why you feel the way you do.
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Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby EmperorDave » Mon Jan 13, 2014 2:10 am

I usually don't write here all that often but Andrew I think you should take it easy man, talk it out and let it all out but don't make another thread about you leaving. Tell us the problem, let us help you because believe me when I say that if you are not going to be blunt and straightforward about your problems thant how can you expect anyone to help you or even care. I hope you understand man, because from what I have seen in your first post you made there were people who wanted to help, so you need to take that help before it is gone. I do not know what else to say but I hope things get better for you.

Also I too love turtles, especially Gamera, no better turtle than a giant Kaiju saving the day. Well except Godzilla, but he is not a turtle. :big:

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby NemesisPrime » Mon Jan 13, 2014 3:25 pm

You know Andrew, if you want to leave just leave. No one is making you stay but yourself. I really don't feel it's worth making a thread about when your leaving cause that to me makes it seem you're crying out for attention and sorry to disappoint but you're not getting any from me. All it does is make me angry.

WITH THAT SAID, I would like to know what prompted this decision and how we can help you but you have to be the one to take advantage of it. If this is prompted by me not responding to your PMs as fast as you'd like understand my life has gotten alot busier now and I'm in the process of moving so I don't have as much time to visit the forums as I'd like.
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Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby lockedup » Mon Jan 13, 2014 3:49 pm

well its a shame that your leaving but if your not going to explain why you're leaving or anything then no-one can do anything to help you. if this is stressing you out somehow and you need help then u just need to tell us what u want us to help u with. this is a great community and i havent found another site like this. just do what u think is best. and im sorry but if u want help dont go posting 2 topics on the same thing just saying your leaving. we cant help u. anyway sorry if anything ive said has offended u - i read the first topic and apparently u are very sensitive to people "judging" you. anyway hope you can solve whatever your problem is :).
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Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby Kyle » Mon Jan 13, 2014 4:17 pm

I mourn for the 45 seconds I lost while on this page.

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby tyme115 » Mon Jan 13, 2014 4:46 pm

I'd comment, but sorry, not worth my time.

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby Fesselfan » Wed Jan 15, 2014 12:27 am

Stop whining and go (or stay).

Nuff said.

Cheers

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Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby xtc » Wed Jan 15, 2014 3:56 am

Why don't we all add up the time we've wasted and submit our invoice? What do you think would be a fair hourly rate?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

More by the same author: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=22729

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby Sealherlips » Wed Jan 15, 2014 5:29 am

AndrewTied wrote:im leaving in February can't take it anymore can't wait till march needs to be sooner


My input: m.youtube.com/watch?v=tiFm3EUC8q0

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby Joker21 » Wed Jan 15, 2014 6:38 am

i don't understand why u..um..why we even keep posting on this!!!?

Re: leaving changed leaving in febuary

Postby Potato_head » Wed Jan 15, 2014 9:42 am

Well umm... G'Luck to you, I guess :?

Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby Nuclearo » Fri Jan 17, 2014 12:54 am

People were mad this was two topics, so I fixed it.
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Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby xtc » Fri Jan 17, 2014 3:54 am

You know, I'd be pleased if ANY thread of mine got this number of responses (or any at all, sometimes). Do you think we've got our priorities wrong?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby Nuclearo » Fri Jan 17, 2014 4:14 am

xtc wrote:You know, I'd be pleased if ANY thread of mine got this number of responses (or any at all, sometimes). Do you think we've got our priorities wrong?

Maybe you should leave. Art gets much more valued once the creator is gone.
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Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby xtc » Fri Jan 17, 2014 4:20 am

Good point!
Should I stamp my foot, throw teddy out of the pram and swear at you first?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Jan 17, 2014 8:49 am

Nuclearo wrote:People were mad this was two topics, so I fixed it.

Actually there's even a third one, but I locked that one because it was even more acrimonious and whiney than these two have been.

xtc wrote:You know, I'd be pleased if ANY thread of mine got this number of responses (or any at all, sometimes). Do you think we've got our priorities wrong?

Quite so. Maybe i should threaten to leave and see how many people respond to that. might be more feedback than i've gotten all year.
I'm just afraid people will just say "Good riddance!" or "So What?".
Dare to be different... and make a difference.
To boldly go where no one in their right mind has gone before...

Re: leaving tugs soon maybe in march

Postby bondagefreak » Fri Jan 17, 2014 10:21 am

Jason Toddman wrote:I'm just afraid people will just say "Good riddance!" or "So What?".

Get out...no one will say that!
And you two better not be trying to leave! If you do we'll have no choice but to tie you up and make sure you stay here. :tied: :tied:
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