Poll: Sexuality

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Oct 12, 2013 8:45 pm

Although I experimented a bit with others of my own gender when I was younger (and in fact got kicked out of the Air Force for it in 1983), I consider myself asexual. Whereas I love TUGs and have an even stronger obsession about being sat on, my desire for what most people would consider to be sexual contact is non-existent. I'm not repelled by it; but I'm not attracted to it either. My fantasies involve just TUGs - and being sat on. I rarely if ever imagine engaging in oral sex, definitely never think about anal sex, and just about never fantasize about vaginal sex. And I am perfectly fine with that. I miss the occasional cuddling I used to engage in, but that (and, yes, being sat on) about all I miss. My sexual drive even in adolescence was never very strong, which probably greatly impaired my already dysfunctional social life from having Asperger's Syndrome.
And even TUGs are just fantasies to me now; I've engaged in no TUGs since my early 40s and undoubtedly will never do so again for various reasons (including but not limited to health reasons and social ineptitude). Unlike sex, TUGs I DO miss!
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Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby Sealherlips » Sat Oct 12, 2013 10:03 pm

Jason Toddman wrote:Although I experimented a bit with others of my own gender when I was younger (and in fact got kicked out of the Air Force for it in 1983), I consider myself asexual.


You were kicked out of the Air Force for that? I never even knew you were in the Air Force! You just became even more intriguing!

Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Oct 13, 2013 3:21 pm

Sealherlips wrote:You were kicked out of the Air Force for that? I never even knew you were in the Air Force! You just became even more intriguing!

You mean you considered me intriguing before? I don't think anyone's ever told me that before! :quirk:
Strange, yes; intriguing, no.
Anyway, this was before even don't ask, don't tell, which many people today don't realize was an improvement over what was the case before. Back then, they definitely DID ask and unless you lied (and were lucky enough not to get caught) that was the end of your military career right then and there!
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Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby xtc » Sun Oct 13, 2013 4:12 pm

Where's the option for "mind your own bloody business"?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby Kyle » Sun Oct 13, 2013 4:48 pm

xtc wrote:Where's the option for "mind your own bloody business"?


The X at the top of the window.

Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby tiedlad » Thu Oct 17, 2013 12:04 am

Indeed, if its something you don't want to share...don't share it!

Re: Poll: Sexuality

Postby Jay Feely » Thu Oct 17, 2013 6:07 am

I'm straight. Was gay but later decided it was not for me.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.