Why does a male being tied

Postby vantran » Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:35 am

turn people on? I see a whole chunk of males/boys being tied stories. How is it exciting.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Sealherlips » Thu Mar 20, 2014 3:31 pm

Aren't you a guy? I assumed the name "vantran" meant you were a transvestite.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 20, 2014 4:29 pm

Just because you don't see the appeal Vantran doesn't mean others do not. We're not all like you.
Consider, do you like TUGs? Ever wonder why other people do not like TUGs? Someone else could very well ask you like you like TUGs. Likely they'd get the same answer someone else like me would to your own question: because I do.
I myself like things (like being sat on) that appeals to very few other people. That doesn't bother me in the least. Everyone has their own tastes. No one else can (or should have to) give you any other explanation.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby NemesisPrime » Thu Mar 20, 2014 4:54 pm

vantran wrote:turn people on? I see a whole chunk of males/boys being tied stories. How is it exciting.

I can't speak for everyone, only myself but it turns me on cause I like guys sexually.

Some girls like seeing guys tied up cause of the power exchange involved.

Point is there's variety of answers that are all correct.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Driverman » Thu Mar 20, 2014 11:15 pm

I don't get anything out of it, I am a straight guy and only like the idea of females being tied up.

That being said, there is no reason to think everyone will think like me. It's a big world and everyone has different things they like, I see no reason to judge what someone else likes just because it's not what I like. A forum like this is for all kinds of people, not just people who like things a certain way. I love that we can all co-exist here and there is something for everyone. Perfect example... it sounds like NemesisPrime and I are here for completely different reasons... but the fact is that he is not "wrong" and I am not "wrong." People like what they like.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby vantran » Fri Mar 21, 2014 2:44 am

Jason Toddman wrote:Just because you don't see the appeal Vantran doesn't mean others do not. We're not all like you.
Consider, do you like TUGs? Ever wonder why other people do not like TUGs? Someone else could very well ask you like you like TUGs. Likely they'd get the same answer someone else like me would to your own question: because I do.
I myself like things (like being sat on) that appeals to very few other people. That doesn't bother me in the least. Everyone has their own tastes. No one else can (or should have to) give you any other explanation.


we hate each other, enough said.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby vantran » Fri Mar 21, 2014 2:44 am

Sealherlips wrote:Aren't you a guy? I assumed the name "vantran" meant you were a transvestite.


'and you have no penis.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 21, 2014 5:05 am

vantran wrote: we hate each other, enough said.

Incorrect. You may hate me, but I don't care about you one way or the other.
I do not hate you. Unlike you apparently, my hatreds are not aroused merely because the other person acts petty and spiteful.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Sealherlips » Fri Mar 21, 2014 5:19 am

vantran wrote:
Sealherlips wrote:Aren't you a guy? I assumed the name "vantran" meant you were a transvestite.


'and you have no penis.


Actually I do. And you probably do too, which is why you're so upset, because you want to feel like a woman.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 21, 2014 5:51 am

Whoa whoa whoa! Okay, Sealherlips, this is going too far.
Vantran may not like me, and I may think Vantran has a chip on her shoulder, but this is getting out of hand and is uncalled for.
Let's keep it civil, people No more exchanges of insults - or at least keep it off the public board!
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby NoMeansYes » Fri Mar 21, 2014 8:47 am

Can we not all just be friends? :D

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby NemesisPrime » Fri Mar 21, 2014 8:55 am

Well THIS devolved quickly into a Scottstud-type thread...
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Chris12 » Fri Mar 21, 2014 10:58 am

Uh...am I missing something?

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 21, 2014 11:03 am

Chris12 wrote:Uh...am I missing something?

Well, I don't know about you but I am assuming some people don't care to be compared to transvestites.
I certainly wouldn't care for it anyway (even if someone had any reason to do so other than to be a jerk), but maybe I'm being old fashioned.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Chris12 » Fri Mar 21, 2014 11:05 am

we hate each other, enough said.


Talked about this one to :big:

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 21, 2014 11:09 am

Chris12 wrote:
we hate each other, enough said.


Talked about this one to :big:

Vantran has her viewpoints; i have mine. Fortunately I don't hate people as easily as she seems to.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby TicklishCosplayBoy » Fri Mar 21, 2014 3:35 pm

Driverman wrote:I don't get anything out of it, I am a straight guy and only like the idea of females being tied up.

That being said, there is no reason to think everyone will think like me. It's a big world and everyone has different things they like, I see no reason to judge what someone else likes just because it's not what I like.

-Cut-

People like what they like.

Just to get back to OP;

I'm one of said "guys who like being tied up" and like Driver I am a hetrosexual male and I'm pretty sure most of us guys like a tied up girl, however I also enjoy being tied up. I have always been easily able to talk to groups of people and control most situations, so being tied up is kind of a release for me. I am tied up, I do as I am told and everything is a whole load easier, I don't have to think about what I'm doing because somebody I trust is in control instead.

Well I do believe that's what the OP wanted, just another point to add though-

I noticed a bit of a war going on in above threads and would like to clarify;
Subjects covered on this kind of forum will always involve talk about transvestites and the such. Somebody talking about these things casually is a way of coping with the sometimes bizarre things that can occur. I still find myself weird and that's perfectly okay. However, it may seem like people are 'having a go' at you, often this will not be the case and name calling and assumption taking gives the wrong impression all around. Just wanted to
Throw that out there.

Anywho, I gave my answer as to why guys like tugs. Well, some guys :P
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby henry1001 » Fri Mar 21, 2014 4:46 pm

Tugs may just be games but they never seem to be fair ones, although often when you repeat something, you start to dislike it, and get bored of it, however I have to admit, I never used to enjoy being tied up, except for pleasing other people, now I have progressed into enjoying it.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Fri Mar 21, 2014 9:03 pm

henry1001 wrote:Tugs may just be games but they never seem to be fair ones, although often when you repeat something, you start to dislike it, and get bored of it, however I have to admit, I never used to enjoy being tied up, except for pleasing other people, now I have progressed into enjoying it.

Yeah, that's much the way I started out, with my older brother tying me up when i was still a little kid - partly to amuse his friends. It was learn to like it or go a little nuts.
So i did both.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Sealherlips » Sat Mar 22, 2014 7:19 am

When I said I thought she was a tranny, that wasn't an insult. I just thought she was.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Mar 22, 2014 7:58 am

Sealherlips wrote:When I said I thought she was a tranny, that wasn't an insult. I just thought she was.

I don't know whether she is or not. That's not really the issue. I see you point, and it's not really what i was referring to. It was the last statement of this little exchange:

Sealherlips wrote:
vantran wrote:
Sealherlips wrote:Aren't you a guy? I assumed the name "vantran" meant you were a transvestite.


'and you have no penis.


Actually I do. And you probably do too, which is why you're so upset, because you want to feel like a woman.

It'd have been fine to explain things as you just did, and point out that she is a tad hyper-sensitive and too easily offended (which Vantran definitely is), but the whole upset feeling like a woman thing is carrying it a tad far. Granted, her snarky attitude called for a snarky response, but that one seemed a little too condescending to women in general and not just to her.
Anyway, now you're both even, so i suggest you (and you too Vantran) just simply drop it.
I'd also suggest to Vantran that she develop a thicker skin and not be so abrasive to everyone she doesn't like... which seems to me to be almost everyone, period.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby linkedin » Sun Mar 23, 2014 12:26 pm

What a stupid question.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby MHW » Sun Mar 23, 2014 12:43 pm

linkedin wrote:What a stupid question.


Not really. The problem is how the question is handled. By itself, it's still a valid thing to ask. I don't enjoy seeing other guys tied, so I don't get why it's interesting. As long as It's just a question there's nothing wrong.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:15 pm

MHW wrote:
linkedin wrote:What a stupid question.


Not really. The problem is how the question is handled. By itself, it's still a valid thing to ask. I don't enjoy seeing other guys tied, so I don't get why it's interesting. As long as It's just a question there's nothing wrong.

But imo it's essentially the same answer as to the question of why you like TUGs... in whatever form you prefer them... while other people do not.
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby MHW » Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:33 pm

very true. but if the answer is just "because i do", it might not be very helpful, but that's a valid answer as well.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Jason Toddman » Sun Mar 23, 2014 2:51 pm

MHW wrote:very true. but if the answer is just "because i do", it might not be very helpful, but that's a valid answer as well.

That is exactly my point. There IS no other answer than this... at least, that would make sense to someone else who is not into the same thing. :quirk:
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby bondagefreak » Sun Mar 23, 2014 4:01 pm

linkedin wrote:What a stupid question.


IMO, that sums up the whole topic pretty well.
Moving on...
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Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Sealherlips » Mon Mar 24, 2014 8:30 am

If you're not into guys, then of course you won't be excited by them being tied up. This WAS a stupid question.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Scottstud94 » Mon Mar 24, 2014 11:13 am

NemesisPrime wrote:Well THIS devolved quickly into a Scottstud-type thread...


Hey Nemesis buzz off. I wasn't at all a part of this and YOU start insulting me.

Re: Why does a male being tied

Postby Scottstud94 » Mon Mar 24, 2014 11:15 am

I'm straight, I like seeing males and females tied. Makes no difference to me. As far as any arguments vantran clearly went too far her, sealherlips maybe a bit as well. Nemesis calling me our for no reason ticks me right off though... If anybody Mikeybound is the argument starter, not I.