## Biggest obstacle

Post by MisterTheEdge » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:09 pm

What is the biggest obstacle between you and TUGs?
For me, mine and my wife's energy levels and work schedules. It makes it hard to plan an involved TUG.
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Post by DUCKY0631 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:21 pm

My biggest is I wanna act out these scenarios with my girlfriend but she's not into it like that it drives me crazy

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Post by SparkTex » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:23 pm

Finding people to do TUGs with who aren't 500 miles away :/

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:24 pm

Yes this is also true

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Post by Vector5227 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:26 pm

Finding people who are close who want to do it or wanting to do them with people who will probably react negatively for all I know...

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:28 pm

Yup I wish I could find people on Long Island

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Post by MisterTheEdge » Thu Jun 15, 2017 12:56 pm

Finding people who are into the same things you are can be hard, but with such a wide and open world proximity can seem like a huge problem. It is if you connect with people strictly online, but is less odlf an issue if you connect with people in person. I might consider myself a very nonsocial person, but last year was huge for me. I went to an event were dome bondage scenes were a possibility. So, in certain places and times at the event, I asked and I had sone takers. It helped that the spaces were public and I was open with people.
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Post by BoundJana » Thu Jun 15, 2017 1:45 pm

University schedule amd my waitress job. Plus my play partner went to another city to study, so we can only play when she visits us or I visit her, which wasn't very often in the last time :/
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 1:47 pm

Ya that has to suck

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Post by BoundJana » Thu Jun 15, 2017 1:55 pm

> DUCKY0631 wrote:Ya that has to suck

It really does. Especially when looking at the fact that before the Semester started and she moved we had tugs nearly every single day. Now every few weeks....
What are you looking at? Finally put a gag in my mouth and play with me!

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Thu Jun 15, 2017 2:00 pm

Ya I would go nuts for sure

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Post by BoundSub » Sat Jun 17, 2017 7:57 am

> TGT88 wrote:Finding people to do TUGs with who aren't 500 miles away :/

This. Also finding people who are local and aren't skittish/ flaky about meeting in person is also an obstacle.

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Post by BoundSub » Sat Jun 17, 2017 8:01 am

> BoundSub wrote:

> > TGT88 wrote:Finding people to do TUGs with who aren't 500 miles away :/

This. Also finding people who are local and aren't skittish/ flaky about meeting in person is also an obstacle.
It's less an issue when you search offline thankfully as MisterTheEdge noted (bondage oriented events, munches, etc...) leading to good experiences but finding like minded people who are on the same page with what you're seeking can still be slightly difficult even then. It's a process that requires both patience and persistence I've learned.

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Post by Jay Feely » Sat Jun 17, 2017 8:50 pm

finding someone interested in tying me up and tickling me.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Sun Jun 18, 2017 1:54 am

I have a question for everyone here where do each of you live because it sound like we are all looking for the same thing someone to physically play with so I'm curious

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Post by SparkTex » Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:21 am

^ South Carolina

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Post by Plueschbabycd » Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:24 am

Hallo, yes we search more less for same, I could find possible find in forum a female person I like if she would tied me up first all I possibly travel around half Glob. Than is question will this person do it. But my obstacle would can I trust, if she would only do it in way that she can stay totally anonymous.
"Don´t dream it, be it." Dr. Frank N. Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show

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Post by DUCKY0631 » Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:32 am

I'm in New York Long Island to be exact

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Post by HelplessKev » Sun Jul 09, 2017 3:28 pm

Don't have a gf at the minute so the only person who ties me is my aunt.
I have to kind of provoke her into tying me without seeming like I want it too much or bribe her with a foot rub without trying to eager.