Indianjones wrote:"Bondage" is not synonymous with pain and domination. The way its depicted in tv and movies is just one aspect of bondage. It is shown in such a way that makes it out to look like some kind of satanic deviation. Honestly I don't like this one sided depiction of bondage. Yes, some people prefer the harder stuff, for some the domination and submission aspect are more important and for others it is not as much, but that's not the case if you see how its shown in media.
Jay Feely wrote:that's it's not about being a victim of crime
SolidSnickerdoodle wrote:Some sort of common misconception or predisposition that you would want to put to rest?
Stef wrote:Care to explain that @rocketroy?
I tend to disagree with the above statement as i generally believe that it's actually all about having/not having control, but I'd like to hear some other opinions as well.
Terry wrote:That it's not always about sex or crap like that. I tend to use the term tie-up rather than bondage when talking about it.