Postby Finn4323 » Tue Jul 29, 2014 5:14 am
I have several guys who are in their 20's and 30's and actually started overpowering me in wrestling matches and tying me while they were in their teens. Most of them are straight (as am I) and they tell me that one of the reasons they tie me is that it makes the sex with their girl friend, that much better. Somehow knowing that they can wrestle me down and tie me up, then submit lovingly and willingly to their girl friend makes their cuddling and loving embraces that much more tender. Not quite sure how it would affect your love life if you were to be tied up by a guy, rather than tying a guy. But, there are a LOT of us guys on here who are straight, yet tie up other guys. Just BE CAREFUL. Make sure you are comfortable with the guy and can trust him (and have a friend available somewhere if you don't call him by a set time), and see what happens. I really don't think you'll feel "cheated" if you get tied up by a guy, before you get tied by a girl. Nor would I worry about being aroused by the fact that you are tied and helpless, by a guy rather than a girl. We all use certain stimuli to get aroused. None of that SHOULD detract from a normal, natural sexual response with your partner. Not unless you use that stimulus to the point that you are doing it so often that you are "cheating" on your partner. Go ahead and explore the fun side of bondage. And don't worry if you enjoy tying up, or being tied by guys. It might just help your sex life with your gf.