Tie up failures

Postby Jay Feely » Mon Mar 13, 2017 12:25 am

Have you ever had a failure in tying someone up, whether they escaped, or you weren't paying attention, and something went terribly wrong?
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Tie up failures

Postby Kidnapable82 » Mon Mar 13, 2017 2:09 pm

Well, it wasn't a failure, but more of a prank.

My Brother and his friend (mainly my brother's friend provoked it) loved to pick on me when I was a kid (about 12 or 13) and tie me up. My brother was about 11 and his friend was about 14. One day, they thought it would be a fantastic idea to drag me to the basketball goal and tie my hands around the pole. Well, sadly my brother's friend thought it was a brilliant idea to strip me to my underwear. I didn't like that one bit, but I was skinny and he was strong and I could not fight him, and my brother would just laugh. Then, here comes Granny, coming outside to do hang her clothes on the line (yes, clothes hanging outside on the line. Remember, I was 13 back in 1995, but I assume many people still do it today). I was so embarrassed that she would look in my direction, and she did. "Denver! Why do you let them pick and torture you like this?" and I remember her going after them. But it was embarrassing for me. VERY embarrassing.
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby drawscore » Mon Mar 13, 2017 11:49 pm

Isn't escaping part of being tied up? If you are tied, isn't the objective, to get loose? I'd say that the failure, was in not getting free, and then having to pay a "penalty" for your failure. But the opposite was true, too. If you did get out, then whoever tied you had failed, and it was he who had to pay the "penalty."

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Re: Tie up failures

Postby BoundJana » Tue Mar 14, 2017 12:18 am

I once tried cuffs with a friend of mine, she had handcuffed my wrists and my ankles with another pair aswell, when suddenly the key, which opened the cuffs, broke in the lock.
Because we hadn't any extra keys, we had to cut the cuffs with a chain cutter. Since then, we never used handcuffs again...
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby Kidnapable82 » Tue Mar 14, 2017 7:00 am

BoundJana wrote:I once tried cuffs with a friend of mine, she had handcuffed my wrists and my ankles with another pair aswell, when suddenly the key, which opened the cuffs, broke in the lock.
Because we hadn't any extra keys, we had to cut the cuffs with a chain cutter. Since then, we never used handcuffs again...



Guess it would depend on the situation for me. I am the type of person that can be easily embarrassed. I am 34 years old and I've been into cuffs since I was 19. Some reason, there is the fun feeling but panic when the key breaks, but if I knew someone that was able to cut them, then there would be no issue. Now if I were at home or something and my family saw this, I'd be totally embarrassed and never do it again. lol
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby EricU1845 » Tue Mar 14, 2017 7:38 am

Jay Feely wrote:Have you ever had a failure in tying someone up, whether they escaped, or you weren't paying attention, and something went terribly wrong?


When I think of "went terribly wrong," it's this story (Chapter 6) that I wrote here a couple of years ago.

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Re: Tie up failures

Postby SparkTex » Tue Mar 14, 2017 8:08 am

I've had someone escape, but it was because I only had about 5' of rope to work with... basically a shoe lace... impromptu tie up with a friend. Other than that one time it's never happened :wink:

Re: Tie up failures

Postby Kidnapable82 » Tue Mar 14, 2017 8:13 am

TGT88 wrote:I've had someone escape, but it was because I only had about 5' of rope to work with... basically a shoe lace... impromptu tie up with a friend. Other than that one time it's never happened :wink:


Yes, need more than that. :P
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby BondoFox » Sat Jun 03, 2017 9:54 am

Oh yes. And oh gawd, yes!

When my wife and I were engaged (though she wasn't my wife when we were engaged) she was, then, allowing herself to be tied up when we played. The first time I tied her ankles and she sounded a little panicky, saying, "No, not my feet!" (never understood why) and I put her into her first and only-ever hogtie. She was tied with bathrobe sashes since she said rope hurt her too much -- she pulled on her legs and it pulled the bonds off of her wrists! Never saw that happen before, weird.

The scariest time was a few years ago when I met a girl from Fetlife who was a submissive with no real experience, and never been *seriously* tied up before. On her third tie of the night I tied her elbows first, doing that makes her more helpless after you've tied her hands. Long story short she was hogtied and I was taking pictures when her hands changed color, from blue to purple to deep dark purple to BLACK! I got her out of that tie as fast as I could!! She was all right, but the really scary thing was that she never knew anything was wrong, everything felt okay to her. Word to the wise, watch her after you've tied her up!

Just remembered one other time. Back when I owned my late slavegirl Nikiya. She had this awesome black leatherette subbie outfit a Domme we visited in Maryland gifted her, it zipped up from Munchkinland to the top at her cleavage, with straps that went around her breasts and kept them hanging out. I had her tied up good, her mouth duct taped, hopped her to the bed, threw her down and pulled the zipper down to expose her down there.....suddenly she "MMWWPH"'d loud! I told her to shut up and went on, again "MMMMWWWPH!!" and she lifted herself as far as she could! My hand went to her chest and pushed her down with another warning to be quiet. When she did it again I knew something was wrong and I ripped the tape from her mouth -- turns out when I pulled the zipper down I caught one of her short hairs and when it pulled she gasped in through her nose and couldn't breathe! She forgot her "3-mmfph" safeword and panicked. I never made that mistake again.
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Sat Jun 03, 2017 9:11 pm

BondoFox wrote:Just remembered one other time. Back when I owned my late slavegirl Nikiya. She had this awesome black leatherette subbie outfit a Domme we visited in Maryland gifted her, it zipped up from Munchkinland to the top at her cleavage, with straps that went around her breasts and kept them hanging out. I had her tied up good, her mouth duct taped, hopped her to the bed, threw her down and pulled the zipper down to expose her down there.....suddenly she "MMWWPH"'d loud! I told her to shut up and went on, again "MMMMWWWPH!!" and she lifted herself as far as she could! My hand went to her chest and pushed her down with another warning to be quiet. When she did it again I knew something was wrong and I ripped the tape from her mouth -- turns out when I pulled the zipper down I caught one of her short hairs and when it pulled she gasped in through her nose and couldn't breathe! She forgot her "3-mmfph" safeword and panicked. I never made that mistake again.

Jesus, man. This is why I'm always hesitant to involve a gag. Even if there's nothing covering the nose all it takes is allergies or a clogged nasal passage for someone to die of asphyxiation. Situations like this is why it's important to always monitor whoever you're tying up.
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby freyjaceleste862 » Sat Jun 03, 2017 9:58 pm

had failures on my side--boys couldn't tie wrists and ankles properly, too loose breast bondage, awkward crotch rope--or one that hurts. Lotsa of wasted tape, cloth, rope, plastic cuffs
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby MisterTheEdge » Fri Jun 16, 2017 5:17 am

I was doing a scene with a girlfriend in my university days. We were both staying on campus for spring break and my roommate was gone. So I blindfold her and using my belt as a leash and start... guiding her face to parts if my body when there is a knock at tge door. A mutual friend if our's who didn't kniw we were together came for a surprise visit.
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Re: Tie up failures

Postby BoundSub » Sat Jun 17, 2017 7:54 am

Wow BondoFox! The wrists are the first body part to loose circulation when restrained. Many times the person getting tied up is distracted enough by their adrenaline rush and heightened dopamine levels from all the fun they're having. Things like that creeps up on them without much warning beside the skin changing colors. Good to hear they're alright.

As for myself I've had my share of tie up fails over for all the years I've been into bondage; mostly involving self bondage. The time when I tied myself up with tons of rope a little too securely to a chair resulting multiple knots tightened while I was play struggling.... was all alone in my apartment and it took about 4 hours to get out of that one but I was fine.

Sometimes when tying myself up and a knot or two would come loose, rope would slip down and I'd spend more time trying to tighten it than enjoying myself being tied up. Still have to improve my rope skills. Or the rope would be so tangled up from being tossed in the closet from the last use I would give up in frustration trying to untangle it. Thankfully these issues don't happen with duct tape.

There was a time when I was a teenager exploring my interest in bondage and I duct taped myself to a chair in my bedroom when my parent's left to run errands. They returned earlier than expected. My father called down for me to help them and heard the sound of duct tape from my room. Naturally wondering what I was doing he went up to investigate and knocked on the door. "What are you doing in there?.... *tries to turn door knob* Why is the door locked?" Come down and help us unload the groceries from the car!" If the door hadn't been locked he would've walked in despite it being closed and I would have some explaining to do. :mouthopen: He never asked but he knew something was up.

Most recently I was tied and tickled by a guy with not much bondage experience a few months ago. He put me in unpadded ankle and wrist cuffs (not a fan of these since a lot are cheaply made and don't fit right) secured them to his bed without giving the rope much slack. It was a lot of fun...until I twisted my left wrist from enthusiastic struggling and gave myself a mild sprain. Since I was gagged I couldn't tell him something anything wrong... thankfully he stopped about a min later since he noted my moaning in pain and I told him I probably injured my wrist when he took the tape off asking what was wrong. Took about a month for the sprained wrist to heal due to twisted ligaments. I'm fine now thankfully but that was my first somewhat scary bondage injury.

Going to emphasize to guy's to be careful tying wrists, use well padded cuffs if and give the rope enough slack to move my arms a bit.

Don't let these things put you off to exploring your interests in getting tied up and/or tying others but you should know how to play safe.

Re: Tie up failures

Postby HelplessKev » Fri Jul 07, 2017 5:09 pm

I once tickled my ex so hard that she peed herself.
Luckily she was wearing a swimsuit at the time.

Re: Tie up failures

Postby ABird » Sat Jul 08, 2017 2:36 pm

Although I don't have much actual bondage experience, most of the people I know take safety very seriously - shears are generally to hand and workshops teach the safest locations to tie so fortunately I've never had something go wrong in that way. Plenty in the other direction though - on more than one occasion someone's been in the middle of tying me up before realizing they don't actually know what they're doing.