## How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by just4fun » Tue Aug 23, 2011 11:01 am

Okay, my question is as the title states, "when did you first find out you liked (or like the idea of) being tied up?"
Was it something you saw in a movie? Did a friend "jump" you?
For me it was the time i was hanging out with the girls (one was 9 and the other was 12) down the street when i was about 9 years old. I had gone down there to hang out before dinner and was imiediatly ordered to a pole and tied up, hands behind the pole in an x tied and then around my torso...all of a sudden i found myself having fun! They were the kidnappers and i was the son of a rich guy and they were waiting on ransom- of course this was all in play. I was tortured by being tickled relentlessly! It was great, but i was able to weasle out of the ropes and we ran around and basiclly changed the game into a game of tag, but ill never forget that as the first time i was ever tied up. Oh what stories came from that! Cant wait to share them!
*I do this for fun...and JUSTICE!*

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by Kyle » Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:11 pm

I don't really remember any instance in particular, but more of a series of events. I was always really small for my age until I hit my growth spurt, and I liked the idea of being a big hero going to rescue the damsel in distress. Since damsels in distress are often tied up, I think I related that to my first fantasies. I used to play with a girl across the street and she'd frequently be the kidnapped girl and I'd be the hero. She was never really tied up that I can remember. I remember trying it once or twice and it didn't work very well because I couldn't tie anything back then, so we just pretended she was tied up.
Also about this time some of us kids in the neighborhood occasionally played war/cops and robber type of games with toy guns. Whoever got shot usually ended up in jail. I was the youngest kid around for the years we played these games and as I said I was small for my age and frequently got captured. Most of the time this just meant having to go to whatever we decided doubled as the jail for that day, but I do remember getting tied up at least a few times. I had a pair of toy handcuffs that got used sometimes but I don't have many clear memories of it. I was about 6 or so when these games first started but they seemed to really take off a couple of years after that for a while and then died when the older kids moved on.
Besides that, just seeing it on TV shows (Ninja Turtles especially) and reading about it in books helped spur my imagination.
I'm an adult now and my bondage tastes have changed and matured somewhat over the years but I still have a pretty strong connection to my original interests and fantasies (I hate using that word because it sounds so...adult, talking about childhood memories at a time I still thought girls had cooties but I don't know how else to put it).

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by tyman » Wed Aug 24, 2011 2:58 pm

For me it was around the age of 11. I loved they Hardy Boy books and would look at those drawings of Frank and Joe tied up, over and over. I started tying myself around the same time with anything I could find. I was finally tied up by someone else when I was 12 and have been doing it ever since!

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by w3sKer96 » Thu Sep 08, 2011 3:09 pm

Mine was very simple. Age 8 or 9, Aladdin scene. Beginning of fascination. End of story

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by rugas » Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:27 pm

You can't believe but when I was about 3/4... I used to enjoy wrapping myself in a little carpet in my bed room cause the feeling was awesome (!!)
Obviously I didn't know what it was... for me it was just a game...
When teenager, then I became aware step by step of the whole matter... although I've never had any experience with other people (my insatiable desire)

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by cellofello » Fri Sep 09, 2011 3:00 am

> rugas wrote:You can't believe but when I was about 3/4... I used to enjoy wrapping myself in a little carpet in my bed room cause the feeling was awesome (!!)
> Obviously I didn't know what it was... for me it was just a game...

Oh, I can quite believe it, because that is almost the same as my own experience. I used the comforter on my bed rather than a carpet, but the effect was the same (as was the age). I likewise didn't learn until my teens that what I was feeleing was sexual arousal, and that I was far from alone in this interest.

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by lonewolfandfriends » Wed Sep 28, 2011 3:53 pm

I was watching a show and it showed a girl captive tied and it turned me on completely

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by SecretAgent » Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:31 am

Same for me as for many others: being excited and intrigued by pretty women tied up on TV (Daisy Duke, Gilligan's Island, Elvira, etc.) and in comic books (jungle girls, Wonder Woman, etc.) Even before I knew anything about being attracted to the opposite sex, I remember being excited by women tied up. I don't remember the exact first time, but one early memory is seeing Daisy kidnapped and tied up on some of the old Dukes of Hazzard when I was young (1980s)--realizing there was something exiting about it, trying to figure out how they had her tied, waiting for that episode to come on again, etc.
Jeff

### Re: How Did You First Learn You Were Into Bondage?

Post by bindKelly » Sat Oct 08, 2011 3:36 am

I've been tied up a couple times by friends, and I've been thinking it would be fun to be tied up by a bf for romance, so for me this is pretty new.....