Hi everyone.
I'm mostly a lurker here but I thought Id share a story today. It happened last month and I wanted to write about it last week but I was planning on meeting my friend again and thought it might happen again (it didn't) so I'll write it here now. It's the only time I got to tie up one of my good friends who I wanted to tie up. Its definitely not the only time I've tied up a friend but this girl is kind of special to me and we've known each other for over a year.
Lets say her name is Soojin (it sounds similar but I don't want to give her real name). Shes 28 years old. Shes one of my best friends and shes from Korea, and her English isn't very good because she's only lived here for a few years. I'm half Korean, but I don't look like it, and we met by speaking Korean first, so usually we don't use too much English together except around other people.
This day we went to eat lunch together. Her long black hair was tied, and she was wearing a light pink and white patterned dress that went to her knees, earrings, and some light pink low-heels (she often wore dresses). She's skinny and really cute. She's also never done face surgery like many Koreans do, and she doesn't wear too much makeup. We planned to eat at a nice restaurant because they had some good lunch specials but the restaurant was completely full, so we had to leave and drive somewhere else. Well we couldn't decide where to go so she suggested we just eat something at her apartment and she'd cook something, and I said sure. Here I'll write what we said (most of our conversation is in Korean though but I translated the best I could)
Her: I can cook you something at my apartment.
Me: I wanted to treat you but now you're going to cook for me instead. I feel like I'm kidnapping you.
Her: Oh! It sounds fun.
Me: Really?
Her: So what should we eat?
Me: Because I am kidnapping you, I can choose, right?
Her: Ha ha! You are really kidnapping me?
Me: Sure. You said it sounds fun.
Her: Okay so you choose our meal.
Me: But if I'm kidnapping you shouldn't you be tied or something like that?
Her: Okay you're right, but how?
Up until here we were kind of joking, but I was getting excited talking about this, even if it was just a joke. Sometimes we joke like this but this time I thought we could actually try something. So I wanted to check if it was really okay.
Me: I can tie you up like I'm kidnapping you. And then I can drive to your apartment and make you cook me something. (I was jokingly saying this)
Her: Okay, but, with what?
Me: Hmm.... (pretending to be serious, but I was trying to keep the mood light) Let me get something at the store. We can buy ingredients for food too.
Her: Okay.
We drove to the supermarket and bought some vegetables to make some Korean food, and also bought some duct tape and some rope. I tried to separate the duct tape from the rope on the cashier area. Then we went back to my car and I drove to an adjacent empty parking lot. I was sitting in the driver's seat and she was in the passenger seat.
Me: Okay, first let's kidnap you. (I took the rope and the tape out of the bags)
Her: Okay, not too tight.
Me: (trying to stay casual) Be quiet, I'm kidnapping you! (we laughed)
Her: You're funny.
She brushed her hair to the side and put her wrists out in front of her. I was getting excited when I took out the rope and started tying it around her wrists, but then I undid it and realized something.
Me: Put your hands behind your back. This is how they kidnap people in the movies.
Her: Oh, you're right.
She put her arms behind her back and turned in her seat to face away from me. I crossed her wrists and slowly began to tie the rope around them. I looped the rope a few times, then wrapped it between her wrists, and knotted it. It looked secure but not too tight to hurt her.
Me: It's not too tight right? (I laughed a little)
Her: No. I'm okay.
I didn't have any scissors to cut the rope, so I just had to pull the remaining long end of that rope toward her feet.
Me: And I should tie your feet too so you can't run away. If you run away I'll catch you!
Her: Okay.
I wrapped the rope around her ankles as she turned back to face me, putting her ankles together. I looped the rope several times around them and then tied a knot. Then I brought the rope up to her knees, and began looping it around her knees as well, pulling them together but not too tightly (this was right under the bottom of her dress). Then I knotted it again. There was still extra rope so I just wrapped it around her upper stomach and knotted it when I ran out, but didn't want to do anything beyond that.
Me: Okay now you're kidnapped.
Her: Oh (she started laughing)
Me: Are you okay?
Her: Uh huh.
Me: One more thing. You shouldn't be able to speak, right?
Her: Oh, really?
Me: Yes, it's like the movies, right?
Her: Oh, okay.
I took out a long strip of tape and gently pressed it against her lips, and smoothed the edges out with my fingers.
Me: Can you talk?
Her: Mmuh uhh. ("uh uh")
Me: Okay now I'll take you away. Let's go. (I was acting like a kidnapper, but jokingly)
Her: Mmg. ("okay") (she was kind of laughing)
I put her seat belt on for her, then drove back to her apartment, telling her to keep her head down or toward me so other drivers don't see her. We were laughing about this. Her laughs sounded extremely cute from the tape on her mouth. We got to her apartment and parked the car in front of her place, then I checked that nobody was outside, and got out of the car to open the door for her.
Me: Come here. There's nobody else. (I was trying to not laugh)
She turned in her seat to face out, and I reached in indicating I was going to pick her up. She started to shake her head while smiling.
Me: Let's just try it once.
She stood up, also checking nobody was around, and I lifted her up in my arms, kicking the car door closed. She wasn't heavy at all. I carried her right to her door then set her back on her feet. We took a minute trying to get the keys out of her purse, and keeping her balanced since her legs were tied. I joked asking her "isn't kidnapping fun?" and could tell she felt a bit embarrassed, but was still kind of laughing. Once her door was unlocked I carried her inside again, and then set her down on her sofa, and closed the blinds to her apartment.
Me: I'm tired.
Her: Mmh. (maybe it was "me too" or just a grunt)
I lifted her upper body and sat down on the sofa relaxing, and put her head to rest on my lap. I put my arm on her shoulder. Then I pretended that I was sleeping and was snoring, and she sat up.
Her: Mhem hrhwrhrmm? ("Are you hungry?")
Me: Okay, let's eat. I'll untie you.
I untied her legs, then her arms, and finally slowly took off the tape from her mouth to not hurt her. She had some light rope marks on her skin but nothing bad, so she seemed fine.
Me: Make me something good.
Her: Okay.
We ate together and now sometimes we joke about "that time I kidnapped you." I didn't tie her up again but it's only been a few weeks so I'm going to ask her about it again later. We still meet often but we do various things such as eat or watch television. I really hope I can tie her again.