Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Wed Apr 09, 2014 3:45 pm

My mum was watching some awful tv programme earlier this evening, possibly Downton Abbey or something similar. I kept talking through it at various points and naturally she told me to be quiet so she could actually concentrate.

All I could think was how much I wished she would bind and gag me to keep me really quiet, so I'd have to sit their and watch it all tied up.

Now you go...

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Kyle » Wed Apr 09, 2014 6:04 pm

My interest in tie-ups itself is not something I'd share with very many people. I think two people know about it for sure, maybe three.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Apr 09, 2014 6:15 pm

I do not share the fact I enjoy dressing up as animals nor do I post there on the internet.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Chris12 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:23 am

My memberships here :big:

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby canuck100 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:46 am

I never shared with anyone that I created a TUGs stories site (the one you're on right now - or its previous format on Dreambook / Asstr). It has been my little secret for 16 years now....

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vakira » Thu Apr 10, 2014 12:20 pm

I wish I was Gay. I'm not. I'm biologically attracted to the opposite sex.
But for some reason, I wish I wasn't.

I can't tell this to anyone except strangers on the internet....

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Thu Apr 10, 2014 1:37 pm

Vakira wrote:I wish I was Gay. I'm not. I'm biologically attracted to the opposite sex.
But for some reason, I wish I wasn't.

I can't tell this to anyone except strangers on the internet....



Why do you wish that? Are you not in anyway attracted to members of the same sex as you?

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vakira » Thu Apr 10, 2014 2:04 pm

It makes no sense, I know. I don't think I could get as "exited" by a girl, but the thought of it makes me wish I could.

Does that make any sense?

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby TicklishCosplayBoy » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:14 pm

I did some very basic selfbondage last night and afterwards when I was asleep I dreamed I was in my GF's bed o_O

Cheese does weird things to you guys.
Tickle me, I dare you! See what it gets you! Well, probably not much because I secretly enjoy it :P

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby EricU1845 » Fri Apr 11, 2014 3:16 am

I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Fri Apr 11, 2014 5:17 am

EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vakira » Fri Apr 11, 2014 9:40 am

NoMeansYes wrote:
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.



I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Fri Apr 11, 2014 10:45 am

Vakira wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.



I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.


Personally(and I can't speak for everyone regarding this) it's to do with the fantasy you've been taken over/bound against your will, although you know it's ultimately consensual. For many people being tied my a male represents this the best. There are no rules that say only a man can achieve this, however - women can have power over men too. Which leads me to say that...

The person (doing the tying) needs to have a side to them which makes it obvious they actually enjoy tying others, and they they have some kind of dominant streak in them. Otherwise it just lacks conviction and any sense of realism.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vakira » Fri Apr 11, 2014 1:29 pm

NoMeansYes wrote:
Vakira wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.



I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.


Personally(and I can't speak for everyone regarding this) it's to do with the fantasy you've been taken over/bound against your will, although you know it's ultimately consensual. For many people being tied my a male represents this the best. There are no rules that say only a man can achieve this, however - women can have power over men too. Which leads me to say that...

The person (doing the tying) needs to have a side to them which makes it obvious they actually enjoy tying others, and they they have some kind of dominant streak in them. Otherwise it just lacks conviction and any sense of realism.


I think the one being tied (in my opinion) has to also be reluctant to be tied, to a degree not so consensual, in my two whole tug experiences (Yes, two!) in my life, the guy tying me had no idea how into it I really was. (And I guess I didn't at first)
I guess being in a family full of men made me more eager to prove myself and not be so submissive to others.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Fri Apr 11, 2014 2:24 pm

Vakira wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
Vakira wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.



I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.


Personally(and I can't speak for everyone regarding this) it's to do with the fantasy you've been taken over/bound against your will, although you know it's ultimately consensual. For many people being tied my a male represents this the best. There are no rules that say only a man can achieve this, however - women can have power over men too. Which leads me to say that...

The person (doing the tying) needs to have a side to them which makes it obvious they actually enjoy tying others, and they they have some kind of dominant streak in them. Otherwise it just lacks conviction and any sense of realism.


I think the one being tied (in my opinion) has to also be reluctant to be tied, to a degree not so consensual, in my two whole tug experiences (Yes, two!) in my life, the guy tying me had no idea how into it I really was. (And I guess I didn't at first)
I guess being in a family full of men made me more eager to prove myself and not be so submissive to others.


Well that's the trouble at least with people on here - we're all into it :lol: So it would never be 100 % non-consensual, although I suppose there are games and things where that can be adjusted accordingly if the idea is to not lose that particular game.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vakira » Fri Apr 11, 2014 2:58 pm

if I tied you up, you may consent to that. But once you're tied up with nowhere to go.... well, if you knew what came next you'd never turn your back on me. ;)

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby EricU1845 » Fri Apr 11, 2014 6:49 pm

NoMeansYes wrote:
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.


I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.

My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.


I really never thought if it as girls not being ABLE to do as good, or not being able to be dominant like the others said. I guess since it started when I was a kid (and it sounds like a lots of people here started that way) with games like cops and robbers, that was always guys games, girls just didn't play rough like that. So all of my tugs experience has been with guys. Now I got 3 older sisters, so yeah I got tortured a lot in different ways! But never tied up by them.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Nexus » Tue Apr 15, 2014 1:30 pm

Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Wed Apr 16, 2014 2:43 am

Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).


That's the best person to know about them though, surely? :big: I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Nexus » Wed Apr 16, 2014 4:27 am

NoMeansYes wrote:
Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).


That's the best person to know about them though, surely? :big: I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.


Oh most definitely. While she indulges me in them, she's not as...enthusiastic as me. Sometimes wish I had other...enthusiasts to talk to. Guess that's why I post here.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Wed Apr 16, 2014 5:03 am

Nexus wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).


That's the best person to know about them though, surely? :big: I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.


Oh most definitely. While she indulges me in them, she's not as...enthusiastic as me. Sometimes wish I had other...enthusiasts to talk to. Guess that's why I post here.


I know what you mean totally - in an ideal world she'd feel exactly how you do about them, which may not be the case. But hey it's better than nothing, right? cheers

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Cpt Wiggles » Wed Apr 16, 2014 9:34 am

Nexus wrote:
NoMeansYes wrote:
Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).


That's the best person to know about them though, surely? :big: I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.


Oh most definitely. While she indulges me in them, she's not as...enthusiastic as me. Sometimes wish I had other...enthusiasts to talk to. Guess that's why I post here.


Same here mate, my wife's a good one. Love her to bits, but it got to the point she was going through the motions with the bondage, so we don't do it anymore. Maybe I'll bring it back one day down the line before we have kids. Which won't be that long.

Keeping with the theme though, before I met her and after my previous girlfriend, who was into bondage, I considered hiring a prostitute or going to a brothel to see if I could get some bondage action with one of them.
There's always time for a nice cup of tea.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Sealherlips » Tue Apr 22, 2014 9:51 pm

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Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Boundboy2013 » Sun Apr 27, 2014 10:04 pm

Im gay
boys +/-5 years add me on kik :) kik: boundboy2013

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby lockedup » Wed May 21, 2014 3:17 pm

im going to meet someone from online in real life for tugs.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NoMeansYes » Thu May 22, 2014 6:16 am

lockedup wrote:im going to meet someone from online in real life for tugs.


Interesting. Was it someone you met on here?

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Lelouch » Thu May 22, 2014 1:56 pm

lockedup wrote:im going to meet someone from online in real life for tugs.


Remember to be safe about it. Tell somebody about it. Maybe a close friend. Or tell family that you're going to meet someone, you don't need to give them all the details. But you never know who is out there.

Something I'd never tell anyone in real life. Hmmm.... actually kinda hard for me. Somebody already told everyone (literally the whole city) about my fetishes so now I admit to them and laugh about it. (Bondage, feet, the likes) So I'd probably never share my Tumblr blog with people in real life. That actually is really appropriate.

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby lockedup » Thu May 22, 2014 4:57 pm

well i havent done it yet and im gonna get to know them for a long long time before i do.
i'm 17, male, a bit of a computer geek, and love to be tied up :D

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby NemesisPrime » Sat May 24, 2014 4:53 am

I'm gay and want to be forced to dress as a schoolboy...
Everyone speaks in multiple languages...But gag talk is universal and a sock in your mouth is the perfect translator!

Re: Tell us something you'd never tell anyone in real life

Postby Vulture » Sun May 25, 2014 5:03 am

If I had my arms and legs amputated (at the knee and elbow) - I would enjoy it very much (I'm into that kind of bind with the hand to shoulder, foot to butt), it would be nice not to have the joint pain after a while and I would be permanently helpless.

I'm not saying that I would choose to have my limbs amputated, just I wouldn't complain :P
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