Ideas for your first time

Postby thewrath248 » Tue Jan 22, 2013 1:57 pm

I just found out my girlfriend is into tie-ups, but she hasn't experienced anything yet, how would you all suggest I lead her into it? What would I use to tie her up? What type of ties? and any extra comments would be greatly encouraged :D :big:
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Re: Ideas for your first time

Postby Jack Roper » Tue Jan 22, 2013 2:54 pm

Bondage can be highly erotic, sensuous-- if that's what she likes. Obviously, some girls like it rougher, but that will be up to you to explore. Use soft cotton rope at first, make it tight but maybe use tennis sweat bands for her wrists (and ankles?); clothed or not--let her decide. If you want, agree beforehand on the limits but then do a sponaneous role-play scene, suggested by eithrer of you, and have fun!

PS: Cleave gags are probably best--or ball gags: you can call for help and/or breath with those. Not so much with duct tape, so saved that for later. Same goes for handcuffs, leg irons, etc. That's more serious stuff--maybe for never.

You two can safely engage in bondage play within definite boundaries for an infinite eternity, and that would be excellent.

Re: Ideas for your first time

Postby The Black Falcon » Sun Jan 27, 2013 10:42 pm

First of all, congratulations. It's nice to find a significant other who's actually into bondage. I'd suggest making a scenario about it. Be a burglar breaking into her house or be her dashing hero saving her from a villain (depending on which scenario she prefers).
With regards to ties, I highly suggest that you ask her first. I always use duct tape, mainly because I can't tie knots to save my life, duct tape is always around, and it's more realistic in roleplay situations. But either way, I'd suggest asking her first.
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