Sexuality

Postby Scottstud94 » Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:30 pm

Somebody had to ask it eventually. I am interested to see if those with fetishes are more likely to be gay, bi, lesbian, etc.
You don't have to answer if it makes you uncomfortable, but iam just curious.
I am a 100% Straight male by the way

Re: Sexuality

Postby chrisw1412 » Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:43 pm

Interesting question, i am bi, and my friend is bi. I have also heard a fact that most people into tugs are either gay or bi

Re: Sexuality

Postby Fesselfan » Mon Jan 04, 2010 11:50 pm

Short answer: no.

You will find the same spectrum of sexualities as with the "normal" crowd. And that is not "I have heard a fact" but 10 years of involvement with the BDSM crowd.
I.e., I am heavy into tying people up, but would neither tie a guy or would want to have any sexual interaction with him. Just not my world.

Cheers

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Re: Sexuality

Postby The Piano Man » Tue Jan 05, 2010 4:41 am

I'm a man and I am gay
Though when it comes to your average fun sort of tie-up game, i enjoy some simple light bondage with either sex.
It all just depends on what you're hoping to get out of the experience i guess
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First you have to learn the rules.
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Re: Sexuality

Postby Kyle » Tue Jan 05, 2010 2:08 pm

I'm straight. The few tie-up experiences I have have mostly been with girls or women, although I have been tied up by guys once or twice and tied one of my friend's hands for a couple of minutes once. Under the right circumstances I could perhaps be in a tie-up game with a guy but would much rather do it with a woman (not a girl, I am 24). I don't know why because I wouldn't do anything...adult... but it's the way I am.

Re: Sexuality

Postby Ducttapestar » Tue Jan 05, 2010 6:27 pm

I'm staright, but I enjoy games with guys. In fact, I feel weird tying a girl. It just doesn't feel right.

Re: Sexuality

Postby Scottstud94 » Tue Jan 05, 2010 6:50 pm

Same as Ducttapestar. Straight but I'm ok doing it with guys.

Re: Sexuality

Postby tiedup101 » Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:20 pm

i completely agree. I am straight, and have been tied by girls, but isnt fun for me. it is more fun just to be a guy and inflect titty twisters, and cut off the jockstrap and make them sniff your shoes than worrying about impressing a girl of a different gender.
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Re: Sexuality

Postby wadeb444 » Mon Jan 11, 2010 8:34 pm

im straigt but never been tied up by a girl. i think id be way mor embarased by that, but its fun with friends.
WADE

Re: Sexuality

Postby tiedup101 » Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:04 pm

i agree
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Re: Sexuality

Postby haloguy » Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:08 pm

straight, but I play the games with my buddies. I like doing it with someone I cant accidently hurt as easily as a girl (no offense)

Re: Sexuality

Postby Blindfolded_Bynx » Fri Jan 15, 2010 6:33 pm

Straight, prefer tying up females, can't say I really want any interaction of said kind with males, just not my preference.

Re: Sexuality

Postby dreadnaught3200 » Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:48 am

Well, just to mix things up a bit... I'm pretty much Asexual. (Yeah I know... weird huh?) I'd be happy to do TUGS with either gender, though I can't help but think it might be a bit embarrassing to be tied up by another guy.
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Re: Sexuality

Postby chloroformmeplease » Sun Jan 17, 2010 1:20 am

I have no idea where any of you has heard that most people into TUG's are bi,gay or lesbian. I have to say that those who are gay and open about it are more then likely to be open about their fetishes and their love of TUG's. So you probably hear more about them liking to play bondage games.
I am straight and do not tie up or get tied up by males. That simply would not work for me. If a guy ever tried to tie me up he would more then likely end up getting punched or karate kicked by me. I am not advocating violence it would just offend me alot and piss me off if anh male tried to tie me up.
Getting tied up by females is a turn on for me not only sexual but in other ways too. I am always the go to guy whenever my circle of friends have problems. It is nice to escape the real world sometimes and submit myself to the power of a female specially when she ties me up. My fetishes go way deeper then just the likes of being tied and gagged by a woman but I feel this forum would not be the forum to discuss this simply because there are many people under the age of 18 here.
Tug lovers are from all walks of life and there is no lower or higher percentage of this type of person or that type of person who is into it more or into it less. I will say though that most of the people that I know who are into TUGS have more fetishes then just TUGS. They like it to go more steps further then just being tied up and gagged for an hour or two.
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Re: Sexuality

Postby nestatugs » Tue Jan 19, 2010 10:16 am

ducttapestar i agree im stroight but tying a girl doesn't feel right. now GETTING tied by girls is a different matter....

Re: Sexuality

Postby Male shortstied » Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:07 pm

I'm bi.

Re: Sexuality

Postby tiedup101 » Fri Jan 22, 2010 2:54 pm

no offense, but what does bi really mean?
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Re: Sexuality

Postby Male shortstied » Fri Jan 22, 2010 3:09 pm

Hay tiedup101, for your info. it an abbreviation for the word: Bisexuality.

Re: Sexuality

Postby Chris12 » Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:21 am

I'm straight but i dont have any problems with a guy tying me up.

Re: Sexuality

Postby Viper7 » Sat Jan 23, 2010 2:03 pm

Straight though I wouldn't mind being tied up by a guy, depending on the person.

Re: Sexuality

Postby tiedup101 » Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:14 pm

yeah, but what does bisexual mean to you though?
Hey! I'm John! I love bondage! Send me a PM or send me a message at John_9734@yahoo.com! Open to anybody, but more into m/m bondage!

Re: Sexuality

Postby Male shortstied » Mon Jan 25, 2010 12:34 pm

Ok, Tiedup101: to me it mean's that I like both females & males.

Re: Sexuality

Postby itied » Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:34 pm

I'm Gay. ^_^

Re: Sexuality

Postby BondageChris » Thu Feb 18, 2010 2:00 pm

I'M GAY

I have never had any sort of attraction to females and certainly wouldnt get any pleasure from being tied and gagged by one. It just doesnt feel right for me. However hard I've tried it is not possible for me to find women/ girls sexy and sexually pleasing...
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Re: Sexuality

Postby PREPPYGUY » Sun Mar 21, 2010 3:19 am

Fesselfan wrote:Short answer: no.

You will find the same spectrum of sexualities as with the "normal" crowd. And that is not "I have heard a fact" but 10 years of involvement with the BDSM crowd.
I.e., I am heavy into tying people up, but would neither tie a guy or would want to have any sexual interaction with him. Just not my world.

Cheers

FF

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Re: Sexuality

Postby Eloise » Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:14 pm

I don't like to call myself bi, not that thare's ANYTHING wrong with it, but i probably am...
The mistress of TBC...

Re: Sexuality

Postby 666MIB » Sat May 01, 2010 2:58 am

100% straight here

Re: Sexuality

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat May 01, 2010 6:02 am

For my part, concerning TUGs only i'd be 100% gay. This may be because I grew up with TUGs, and was raised with the idea (right or wrong) that tying girls made you a bully (whether they were willing or not) and being tied by girls made you a sissy. So as far as TUGs are concerned I am 100% gay. If you considered only my other fetish of being sat on, it would be 50-50; I am an equal opportunity sub in that department. If talking about sex in general (as I assume most people would be), I am actually Asexual despite the impression I may give of myself in other posts. I can take it or leave it, being neither attracted or repulsed by either gender (all other things being equal). I am generally willing to go along with doing anything someone I like wants to do regardless of gender if they want it; I'm simply impartial (and non-judgmental) that way and easy to please.
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Re: Sexuality

Postby wadeb444 » Mon May 03, 2010 7:42 pm

id never sit on a girl, same reason as never tying one up, like you said, makes you a bully.
WADE

Re: Sexuality

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon May 03, 2010 10:00 pm

Wadeb444: Just to clarify in case you got me wrong... Even as a kid I also never would sit on a girl, or on a boy either except on the occasions that other boys wanted me to. These occasions were rare because of my size even after I lost the excess weight. I've always strictly been a bottom (or tied up) by my own preference. That is where all the pleasure is for me, and it helps that I cannot hurt anyone accidentally that way because the other is in control. I am almost incapable of deriving pleasure being a top (the one doing the tying) because I am too afraid of hurting someone to enjoy that.
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