rude response

Postby Jay Feely » Wed Jun 14, 2017 5:18 am

What would you do if you arrange a tug but they blow you off in a rude way?

I had set up a meeting with someone on wechat (china''s version of facebook) and we agreed on a date this june. But at the last minute, an emergency came up in my family and I had to cancel. He called me a "bitch". Then he started saying he will tell people not to play with me because I had cancelled a meeting months in the making. But my girlfriend's dad was in the hospital for a heart condition and I thought he will be sympathic and move on, but he did not.
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Re: rude response

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Jun 14, 2017 10:03 am

If this person is this incapable of feeling empathy, then perhaps it's just as well you didn't keep the date; especially if you were the one who was going to get tied up.
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Re: rude response

Postby Kidnapable82 » Wed Jun 14, 2017 12:30 pm

I understand where you are coming from. I am so sorry to hear about your girlfriend's Dad and I hope he is doing OK. It's WAY more important to spend time with the family... TUGS can wait later.

I'm in a similar boat... it's not exactly the same, but I am sure you will understand where I am coming from:

I arrange to talk to guys and set up something on KIK or Skype, etc... Some will talk, then vanish right in the middle of a RP. So, I give the benefit of the doubt -- maybe they are busy. Then, I find out from a TUG friend who setup a group RP (and individual RPs) that he's chatting with 4 of the guys that chatted with me and totally ignore my messages. I added another one to the list today. I am now up to 14 TUGS who have been either rude or those who stop talking in a middle of a RP and disappear but post here on a pretty daily basis and talk to others. Yes, I do keep track of the names.

I just find it rude that when you want to have a conversation or agree to set something up, they bail (even if they are no longer interested), at least say "No thanks." But I've had some really nasty comments as well when I don't reply right away, they get all bent out of shape. I've really been debating (again) of getting rid of this site. However, I have "a few" people on here I call buddies that I like to talk to (FratBoyDanny, AnimeGuy, and that cute kidnapper that lives in Canada... LOL.) If it weren't for them, I'd probably never come back on here. It's really got me to a very low point in life, which is pretty sad.

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