I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Thu Mar 20, 2014 11:14 am

"hey how are you can we Yahoo IM or skype" or "I like to know you better" or "do you want to exchange email/photos/numbers" from people here. Definitely biological males. This must stop.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Thu Mar 20, 2014 11:21 am

I shall first name user: drummerboy as one of them.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Sealherlips » Thu Mar 20, 2014 3:29 pm

Biological males? You mean men?

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Fri Mar 21, 2014 2:45 am

Sealherlips wrote:Biological males? You mean men?


I mean assholes like you.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Sealherlips » Fri Mar 21, 2014 5:17 am

I'm an asshole for being a guy? I was born this way.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Mar 22, 2014 7:05 am

If you have a problem with getting IM or skype requests from 'biological males' why don't you just say so in your signature and save yourself some unnecessary aggravation?
Also, do you have trouble with just certain males or do you dislike all males on principle for some reason? Sounds like the latter.
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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Sealherlips » Sat Mar 22, 2014 7:11 am

Jason Toddman wrote:If you have a problem with getting IM or skype requests from 'biological males' why don't you just say so in your signature and save yourself some unnecessary aggravation?
Also, do you have trouble with just certain males or do you dislike all males on principle for some reason? Sounds like the latter.


The fact that she calls us "biological males" makes me feel she is using it in a derogatory way.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Jason Toddman » Sat Mar 22, 2014 8:21 am

Not necessarily but, considering how abrasive she seems to be to males in general, I have to agree that is most likely the case. Hence my putting the term into quotation marks when i used the term and asking her to clarify her position about males.
It also occurs to me to ask how many of these people have made repeated requests to her. Seems to me there's nothing wrong with getting one or maybe two requests from the same person. I get requests for such contacts myself. Just do as i do and tell them "No thanks" in a reasonably polite manner. They say 'okay' if anything at all and that's usually the end of it.
If you're getting uptight because of one-time requests though Vantran, that seems unreasonable to me if you don't tell people you don't want being contacted. This is after all a social site and meant for everyone; not just people with overly-specific tastes. It's fine for instance for a member to be a lesbian who wants to chat only with other lesbians; it's NOT fine to insult non-lesbians simply for asking to chat with you - especially if they don't know beforehand that only lesbians need apply.
If on the other hand the same people are bugging you over and over again for whatever reason, then that's probable harassment - and that's something I want to know about so I can address the issue. But I can't unless i know the details and won't unless you tell me you want the help.
If you have a problem getting such requests at all (or at least from 'biological males'), just simply say so in a post or, better yet, in your signature where no one can possibly miss it. Otherwise, just ignore such requests. Spreading bile indiscriminately is NOT an option here. Nor do I have to apologize to you or anyone for being male.
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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Mon Mar 24, 2014 4:20 am

See no help from moderators at all.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Jason Toddman » Mon Mar 24, 2014 8:08 am

vantran wrote:See no help from moderators at all.

How would you know? You've never tried. All you do is mouth off at us.
You're so full of bile and venom, the wonder is is that anyone wants to talk to you at all.
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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Sealherlips » Mon Mar 24, 2014 8:16 am

This board has no room for sexism.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby zavulon » Mon Mar 24, 2014 12:02 pm

vantran wrote:
Sealherlips wrote:Biological males? You mean men?


I mean assholes like you.


You're kind of the only asshole around here. Just about every post I see with your name on it deals with either complaining or just straight up being a bitch to someone. You might want to get your attitude under control, mouthing off to mods and other members is not a particularly wise move.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Drummerboy » Tue Mar 25, 2014 10:21 pm

or here's another good idea: No thanks, id rather not chat
Its much easier than going all feminazi passive-aggressive and takes about 3 seconds

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Wed Mar 26, 2014 3:42 am

no such word as feminazi. Loser.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby xtc » Wed Mar 26, 2014 4:12 am

Ever heard of neologisms?
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby vantran » Wed Mar 26, 2014 7:20 am

xtc wrote:Ever heard of neologisms?


nop i have not.

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby xtc » Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:28 am

May I suggest you look it up. Shakespeare was famed for them.
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

More by the same author: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=22729

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Jason Toddman » Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:52 am

vantran wrote:no such word as feminazi. Loser.

1. The meaning was still clear, was it not? Therefore, it's a valid word. All words had to be invented sometime after all.
2. Your answer only helps to prove Drummerboy's point. Way to go.
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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Sealherlips » Wed Mar 26, 2014 11:03 am

Feminazis: because when a man says, "hi, how are you?" that's just rude. What a pig! :roll:

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby zanev » Thu Mar 27, 2014 2:30 pm

vantran has been banned from the site for verbally abusing members and staff.
I close my eyes, Inis Mona
And reminisce of those palmy days
I moon o'er you, Inis Mona
As long as I breathe
I'll call you my home

Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby xtc » Thu Mar 27, 2014 3:00 pm

Shame but probably right in the interests of all our comfort.
Boxer shorts are cool,
but little speedos rule!

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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby bondagefreak » Thu Mar 27, 2014 3:21 pm

zanev wrote:vantran has been banned from the site for verbally abusing members and staff.


Thank you Zanev.
My sympathies to everyone who persistenty put up with her character...especially Jason.
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Re: I've been getting lots of

Postby Jason Toddman » Thu Mar 27, 2014 5:01 pm

Well, I tried to be a peacemaker but she just wouldn't have any of it.
Since she's gone i guess I may as well lock this topic down, since it was all about her. I'll leave the ones of more general interest open though.
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