Bondage/Self-bondage Poll

Postby SolidSnickerdoodle » Mon Mar 28, 2016 8:55 pm

Thought I'd do a bit of a bondage straw poll. Unfortunately, you cannot post more than one question, so I just went with the one I was most curious about.

If you wouldn't mind, simply select the definition that best represents your view of what bondage is. Whether than add more answer choices that combined others, I simply decided to allow multiple votes per user. You get 3 votes.
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Re: Bondage/Self-bondage Poll

Postby Thatworm » Tue Mar 29, 2016 3:37 am

All of those are so good, except the one where selfbondage doesn't count, it does count

Re: Bondage/Self-bondage Poll

Postby Jason Toddman » Tue Mar 29, 2016 6:27 am

Max S wrote:All of those are so good, except the one where selfbondage doesn't count, it does count

Well, at least to you it does. And if it works for you that's perfectly fine.
But for me personally, self-bondage is no fun at all. maybe because for me bondage is just the set-up for some (mild to moderate anyway) torture/torment/teasing/tainting fun. It's a means to an end not the actual goal. Even if i were tied by someone else, if they just up and left me alone to stew that would also be kind of boring for me. Maybe it's a deep-seated, unconscious desire for attention but i like it better when my captor keeps me company, even if only (or maybe even preferably) to mildly torture me (tickle, slap, taunt... that sort of thing. Nothing gruesome or extreme).
That's my feeling anyway; anyone who feels satisfied with just bondage is also perfectly correct of course. It's not a one size fits all kind of thing, nor should it be.
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Re: Bondage/Self-bondage Poll

Postby Jay Feely » Tue Mar 29, 2016 8:01 am

Self Bondage is not as fun as being captured by friends. I had many experience of this. Cops and Robbers, Cowboys and Indians, War, etc... I think the experience of someone grabbing you, subduing you, then restraining you is part of the thrill. Then having your body tickled, drenched in cold water, sticky condiments poured on you, and more is fun yet torture at the same time. Something you can't really experience when you tie yourself.
You will have to subdue me to restrain me. I been a bad boy so make sure you torture me too with anything but pain.

Re: Bondage/Self-bondage Poll

Postby Thatworm » Tue Mar 29, 2016 4:04 pm

I mean it's funner when someone else is tying you up but let's say it's been a while or you don't have anyone to do it with any longer, then what do you lean towards if you want to get tied up. It seems weird now because you're grown up, your friends are grown up, it's not as fun as it used to be anymore or something. The point is, it's not going to work anymore, then where do people tend to go? selfbondage. It's the only way to get tied up when you don't have another person