Maybe tonight......

Postby bindKelly » Fri Nov 25, 2011 6:38 am

Ok, tonight I'm going out with my new bf, and I think he might tie me up! He knows I like TUGS and he said we can do that sometime, and I think tonight is "sometime" heh heh

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby jennybond » Fri Nov 25, 2011 6:46 am

Good luck, and stay safe
It only gets tighter if you struggle...

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby ana-tie91 » Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:33 am

so u're not gonna tell us about how was ur "night"? :D

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby jennybond » Sat Nov 26, 2011 4:07 pm

bindKelly wrote:Ok, tonight I'm going out with my new bf, and I think he might tie me up! He knows I like TUGS and he said we can do that sometime, and I think tonight is "sometime" heh heh


So Kelly how did your date go? Please spill the beans.... :big:
It only gets tighter if you struggle...

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Qarl » Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:36 pm

yes young lady, we're waiting semi-patiently, looking forward to details

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby bindKelly » Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:01 am

Qarl wrote:yes young lady, we're waiting semi-patiently, looking forward to details


Unfortunatly, there are no details. We went to dinner, then over to his place, which was conviently parent-free. But, his idea was for us to get undressed and for him to tie me to the bed, with my arms and legs spread apart.
That was NOT what I was hoping for. I was thinking he could tie my hands behind my back, tie my legs together, and we could kiss and cuddle. So, there was no tying games at all, and just watched TV for a little bit. Lasr night he called me and said we prolly shouldn't go out again. He's prolly right.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby jennybond » Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:47 am

bindKelly wrote:
Qarl wrote:yes young lady, we're waiting semi-patiently, looking forward to details


Unfortunatly, there are no details. We went to dinner, then over to his place, which was conviently parent-free. But, his idea was for us to get undressed and for him to tie me to the bed, with my arms and legs spread apart.
That was NOT what I was hoping for. I was thinking he could tie my hands behind my back, tie my legs together, and we could kiss and cuddle. So, there was no tying games at all, and just watched TV for a little bit. Lasr night he called me and said we prolly shouldn't go out again. He's prolly right.



Shame, but good on you for not letting him do something you weren't happy about :big:
It only gets tighter if you struggle...

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby ana-tie91 » Sun Nov 27, 2011 8:03 am

:( awwww..shame

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby c3e5e5 » Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:56 am

He is an idiot.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby puddy2131 » Mon Nov 28, 2011 7:55 am

Sorry to hear that your night didnt go as planned. Seems like he had only sex on his mind and not tie up fun. Seems like there is a large group of guys who dont understand the difference. Best of luck in your search for a new boyfriend!

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Qarl » Mon Nov 28, 2011 10:46 am

bindKelly wrote:
Qarl wrote:yes young lady, we're waiting semi-patiently, looking forward to details


Unfortunatly, there are no details. We went to dinner, then over to his place, which was conviently parent-free. But, his idea was for us to get undressed and for him to tie me to the bed, with my arms and legs spread apart.
That was NOT what I was hoping for. I was thinking he could tie my hands behind my back, tie my legs together, and we could kiss and cuddle. So, there was no tying games at all, and just watched TV for a little bit. Lasr night he called me and said we prolly shouldn't go out again. He's prolly right.


Good for you for sticking to your plan. I don't know many guys, maybe none, that would resist the urge to have sex if he & she were naked and she were tied up. Even if he was a saint and fully intended NOT to have sex to begin with, it would be too arousing and too tempting, at least for mere mortals, and eventually he would take the plunge, so to speak.

You deserve a fun, smart, respectful guy who shares your interests, and who will honor your boundaries, and I have no doubt you'll find one at the right time.

Thanks for writing back, and though I'm disappointed for you that it didn't work out like you hoped, I'm SO glad you found out quickly, that he had the courage to make the decision and actually tell you, and that nothing happened that you regret.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Old_Villain » Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:56 pm

Add my voice to the chorus of those applauding you for sticking to your guns and not giving in. He is, indeed, a loser.

Keep looking, and your Prince Charming/Evil Villain will show himself....

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Fan_Of_Blindfolds » Thu Dec 01, 2011 4:15 pm

Concur. There are definitely guys out there who aren't jerks; don't settle for one who is.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:08 pm

Just because a man doesn't like exactly your likings doesnt mean he is a loser. But go with your heart.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Fan_Of_Blindfolds » Thu Dec 01, 2011 8:56 pm

Well, if someone thinks it improper to do something, and someone else tries to force the first person to do it, then the second person is being disrespectful, uncharitable, and selfish. And this is a pretty big example of such...

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby lonewolfandfriends » Sun Dec 04, 2011 6:12 pm

Ignoring... The story she wrote says his idea not that he forced her into it.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Fan_Of_Blindfolds » Sun Dec 04, 2011 6:44 pm

You're right; I was assuming stuff.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Jake_100 » Tue Dec 06, 2011 2:04 am

c3e5e5 wrote:He is an idiot.


Lol!

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby Suestruggles » Sat Dec 24, 2011 7:08 am

Late entry but just read this tale. Very good for not letting yourself get pushed where you didn't want. always remember you are a bondage lover not a sub, slave or play doll.
Sue

Fit to be tied, wants to struggle.

Re: Maybe tonight......

Postby RopemanEric » Sat Dec 24, 2011 8:13 am

Suestruggles wrote:Late entry but just read this tale. Very good for not letting yourself get pushed where you didn't want. always remember you are a bondage lover not a sub, slave or play doll.

Well, she's dating me now, so the loser in question is out of the picture :big: