Vakira wrote:I wish I was Gay. I'm not. I'm biologically attracted to the opposite sex.
But for some reason, I wish I wasn't.
I can't tell this to anyone except strangers on the internet....
EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
NoMeansYes wrote:EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.
My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.
Vakira wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.
My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.
I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.
NoMeansYes wrote:Vakira wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.
My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.
I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.
Personally(and I can't speak for everyone regarding this) it's to do with the fantasy you've been taken over/bound against your will, although you know it's ultimately consensual. For many people being tied my a male represents this the best. There are no rules that say only a man can achieve this, however - women can have power over men too. Which leads me to say that...
The person (doing the tying) needs to have a side to them which makes it obvious they actually enjoy tying others, and they they have some kind of dominant streak in them. Otherwise it just lacks conviction and any sense of realism.
Vakira wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:Vakira wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.
My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.
I would be willing to do it to a guy if the opportunity presented itself. It's not really a gender specific thing is it? Just cos I'm no good with knots doesn't mean all girls are.
Personally(and I can't speak for everyone regarding this) it's to do with the fantasy you've been taken over/bound against your will, although you know it's ultimately consensual. For many people being tied my a male represents this the best. There are no rules that say only a man can achieve this, however - women can have power over men too. Which leads me to say that...
The person (doing the tying) needs to have a side to them which makes it obvious they actually enjoy tying others, and they they have some kind of dominant streak in them. Otherwise it just lacks conviction and any sense of realism.
I think the one being tied (in my opinion) has to also be reluctant to be tied, to a degree not so consensual, in my two whole tug experiences (Yes, two!) in my life, the guy tying me had no idea how into it I really was. (And I guess I didn't at first)
I guess being in a family full of men made me more eager to prove myself and not be so submissive to others.
NoMeansYes wrote:EricU1845 wrote:I'm not gay , but I don't think I could do tugs with a girl, actually sounds weird to me. But I love the idea of tugs with guys.
I am starting to arrive at this conclusion too, especially if it's me being tied.
My only guess is the realism aspect to it. How likely really is a girl to be able to tie you up unless you asked her too? Not very.
Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).
NoMeansYes wrote:Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).
That's the best person to know about them though, surely?I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.
Nexus wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).
That's the best person to know about them though, surely?I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.
Oh most definitely. While she indulges me in them, she's not as...enthusiastic as me. Sometimes wish I had other...enthusiasts to talk to. Guess that's why I post here.
Nexus wrote:NoMeansYes wrote:Nexus wrote:Aside from my wife, I just can't talk to anyone about my fetishes (bondage and feet).
That's the best person to know about them though, surely?I think the only person I'd really want knowing would be the person I were in a relationship with.
Oh most definitely. While she indulges me in them, she's not as...enthusiastic as me. Sometimes wish I had other...enthusiasts to talk to. Guess that's why I post here.
lockedup wrote:im going to meet someone from online in real life for tugs.
lockedup wrote:im going to meet someone from online in real life for tugs.