MissTieUup wrote:Glad to hear that not all men go for physical beauty. [...] I am athletic but would consider myself (at least I hope my stories show that as they are my personal fantasies down in writing) a lot of fun, def 'playful', love to dress and act sexy (yes I am confident in me) [...]
I won't deny that physical attractiveness will help catch my initial attention faster, but ultimately (as Dorothy Parker put it), "Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes to the bone."
Believing you are attractive really does help other people to see you as attractive. People with self-confidence have a very different body language than those who lack it, and body language absolutely affects how other people respond.
A very dear friend of mine (as well as occasional tie-up partner) is just a few years younger than my 55, almost certainly north of 400 pounds (though that's on a 6'3" frame), and has a face that, if you saw it in a photograph, most people would consider ugly. But she is witty, playful, and carries herself with the attitude, "I'm a sexy woman. If you can't see it, that's your loss, not mine." She is also the person who made me understand the expression "generous to a fault." (She's married, though her husband doesn't mind her playing with me, lives some distance away, and unfortunately has some health problems, or we'd play more frequently.) Any guy who can't get past her outward appearance is missing out on one of the most beautiful (where it counts) people in the known universe. Their loss indeed!
I have no idea if you're in my area, and even if you were, my dance card is pretty full. But from what little I've seen, if I were in the market I'd definitely be interested in talking. So good luck to you in finding a guy who can give you what you want both in and out of the dungeon.
