Hello all, first of all thankyou for reading this, and if you do have any advice Id be very grateful!
Im on Fetlife, and I recently came across someones profile who i used to go to school with. We were friends briefly after that but then we didnt so much as fall out but we didnt see each other anymore. We werent close but would hang sometimes with other friends, now if we see each other we dont speak and its a bit uncomfortable as we both try to not look at each other, anyone else been in that situation? It probably doesnt help that Im quite shy with stuff like that.
Anyway this girl wants to meet up (she doesnt reconise me as I dont have a pic of my face, and i havnt told her that i know her) we share alot of the same intrests but im worried that if she finds out who i am she might show all of her friends my pic's (mostly rude ones, not suitable for this site) or let the word out of what Im into which Iv tried very hard to keep quiet.
So what do you think I should do? I know the benefits are huge but so are the risks as about 10 years ago i was ousted as a bondage lover in quite a very mean way which hurt alot
If you reply id like to thank you for doing so
James