Regarding meeting:
Managale distances go a long way for me. Or, if I am at the others location anyway, it's always nice to meet up in a cafe or whatever. If she doesnt show up- well it's still a nice day in a cafe

Trust in the sense of "I would tie her up"....well, that's another can of worms. I need to be sure she will deal reasonably with being tied up- and this includes for me that I am sure she will say something if things go wrong.
Cheers
FF
There are 10 kind of people in the world.
Those who understand binary numeral system, and those who don't.