use this at 0.8 weight https://civitai.com/models/58633?modelVersionId=174166
use this at 0.5 weight https://mega.nz/folder/TZElCCIL#OEutCsJPD0G5lXPXLGgfcQ/folder/DE1lhbjB
add (penis:1.4) at the end of your prompt